Download or read book Trauma and Forgiveness written by C. Fred Alford and published by Cambridge University Press. This book was released on 2013 with total page 229 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Using case studies and theory, Alford argues that the traumatized are generally capable of representing their experience.
Download or read book The Forgiving Life written by Robert D. Enright and published by American Psychological Association. This book was released on 2012-01-15 with total page 386 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The Forgiving Life offers scientifically supported guidance to help people forgive those in their lives who have acted unfairly and have inflicted emotional hurt. It does not minimize the devastation of that hurt. It does not require reconciliation with the one who inflicted the hurt. Rather, it describes a process, followed with success by people around the world, to confront the pain, rise above it to forgive, and in so doing, to loosen the grip of depression, anger, and resentment that has soured life. In this book, noted forgiveness expert Robert D. Enright invites readers to learn the benefits of forgiveness and to embark on a path of forgiveness, leaving behind a legacy of love. Guided by thought-provoking questions, journaling exercises, and Enright’s kind encouragement, readers can chart their own journey through a new life of forgiveness.
Download or read book Trauma and Forgiveness written by C. Fred Alford and published by Cambridge University Press. This book was released on 2014-01-09 with total page 229 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Contrary to the view of trauma popularized by literary theorists, Trauma and Forgiveness argues that the traumatized are capable of representing their experience and that we should therefore listen more and theorize less. Using stories and case studies, including testimonies from Holocaust survivors, as well as the victims of 'ordinary' trauma, C. Fred Alford shows that, while the traumatized are generally capable of representing their experience, this does little to heal them. He draws on the British Object Relations tradition in psychoanalysis to argue that forgiveness, which might be expected to help heal the traumatized, is generally an attempt to avoid the hard work of mourning losses that can never be made whole. Forgiveness is better seen as a virtue in the classical sense, a recognition of human vulnerability. The book concludes with an extended case study of the essayist Jean Améry and his refusal to forgive.
Download or read book Forgiveness after Trauma written by Susannah Griffith and published by Baker Books. This book was released on 2024-03-26 with total page 189 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Susannah Griffith wishes she had spent less time thinking about forgiveness. But as a Christian minister, a biblical scholar, and a survivor of abuse, she has learned a lot about it. In Forgiveness after Trauma, Griffith explores what the Bible says--and doesn't say--about the biblical call to forgive. She helps readers understand this command in ways that are healing and restorative, framing it within broader concerns around lament, anger, accountability, release and rebirth, and reconciliation. The result is what Griffith calls "trauma-informed forgiveness," which takes seriously God's forgiveness of sinners while centering survivors of abuse and aiding their healing. This view also empowers those who have been harmed in other ways by abuses of power and justice in religious institutions. Readers will resonate with Griffith's astute biblical analysis and personal reflection, which point to God's love--a love that never includes abuse and strives for justice for the vulnerable.
Download or read book FORGIVING WHEN YOU CAN t FORGET Releasing Fear and Trauma from Your Past So You Can Have Freedom in Your Future written by Carolyn Hickman and published by . This book was released on 2021-05-27 with total page 112 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: How to forgive the unforgivable and stop suffering because of what other people have done to you, even when you can't forget. Have you ever felt like you have been stuck in a vicious cycle of unresolved pain, hoping that it would just get better with time? That after days, weeks, months, or even years the pain is still there consuming your every thought, emotion, and reaction which is robbing you from time in your life you won't ever get back again? In her most vulnerable writing yet, Carolyn reveals her unimaginable journey of not only losing her mother but losing almost everyone she had ever known all at the very same time through a series of painful events that left her breathless, betrayed, and broken. However, even in the most challenging and darkest of days, she discovered how to let go of the pain and resentment gracefully and overcome the resistance to forgive the people not willing to make things right or say "sorry." In this book you will discover: What it truly takes to move on gracefully in your life when others refuse to change and you are left without an apology The most life-altering thing you can do to escape the agony of your trauma once and for all The single most powerful thing you can do to heal your trauma that no one is talking about Why you needed to go through the pain + why it is actually a good thing What you can do today to start smiling again tomorrow The secrets behind why you have not been able to speak your truth The biggest culprit that's been hijacking your emotions from day one Two life-changing practices that will heal your pain + start rebuilding your life in just one week According to the National Council For Behavioral Health, "70% of adults in the U.S. have experienced some type of traumatic event at least once in their lives and of those, 20% will go on to developing PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder). Don't let this be you. You have the power in your hands to change the outcome of your life, despite the cards you've been dealt with. This one-of-a-kind therapeutic insight will allow you to heal, forgive and breathe again even if you can't forget what happened to you. Forgiveness isn't for them, it's for you. If you want to finally make peace with the pain, let go + start living your best life then scroll up and click the "Add to Cart" button.
Download or read book Triumph over Trauma written by Kadyn and published by Xlibris Corporation. This book was released on 2016-10-31 with total page 79 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The sole purpose of writing this book is to inspire, inform, encourage, empower, and help bring healing into the lives of others through forgiveness so that they will have the most electrifying experience through the power of forgiveness in order to help heal others.
Download or read book Struggling to Forgive written by Sue Atkinson and published by Monarch Books. This book was released on 2014-07-20 with total page 272 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Forgiveness is a central tenet of the Christian faith and yet it is so difficult to embrace and put into practise. With sensitivity and grace, Dr Sue Atkinson explores what it means. The example of Christians forgiving others is often heralded as one of the great signs of Christian love and yet the call to forgive can have a darker side, particularly for victims of injustice and trauma as it can add to their despair and guilt if they do not 'feel' love or the ability to forgive. Well-meaning Christians can make their situation worse with insensitivity and bluntness. In this timely and empathetic book, full of anecdote, story and illustration, Dr Sue Atkinson, tackles what the call to forgive really means. What do we really do when we forgive? Exploring Jesus teaching about forgiveness and justice, she explodes myths and outlines practical ways in which we can let go of resentments. Highly accessible and sensitive this important book will be a means of grace and comfort for those embracing the challenges of forgiveness.
Download or read book Energy Psychology written by Fred P. Gallo and published by CRC Press. This book was released on 2004-12-28 with total page 285 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Energy Psychology: Explorations at the Interface of Energy, Cognition, Behavior, and Health, Second Edition introduces the exciting new paradigm of energy psychology and presents the latest research on the subject. This second edition begins by tracing the roots of energy psychology and contrasting them with contemporary approaches, and the
Download or read book Heal and Forgive written by Nancy Richards and published by Blue Dolphin Publishing. This book was released on 2005 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This thought-provoking illustration offers new hope to victims who have givenup at the prospect of forgiving child abusers.
Download or read book Trauma as Medicine written by Sarah Salter Kelly and published by FriesenPress. This book was released on 2021-05-14 with total page 204 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In Trauma as Medicine, Sarah Salter Kelly shares her experience of her mother’s kidnapping and brutal homicide as an inspiring example of how to distill trauma into medicine on a personal level. Chapter by chapter, she invites the reader to take their own journey of healing. Sarah’s story takes us beyond the realm of personal healing and into the collective, as she seeks to understand her mother’s murderer. This leads her to the First Nations reserve of his ancestors and real-life immersion in the history of colonization in Canada, systemic racism, and white privilege. Offering ceremonies, journaling, and exercises, Sarah leads you into the discomfort of your own suffering to be with it, determine for yourself what you need, and discover the tools to proceed towards wholeness. Areas of focus include: Connecting with your own helping spirits, guides, and ancestors Altered states, including Ayahuasca Setting healthy boundaries Tending to the victim self Tuning in to feelings Facing fear and building a strong intuition Metabolising trauma: digesting and composting the waste, assimilating the gifts Ceremonies to face a perpetrator and contemplate forgiveness Collective healing
Download or read book Beyond Individual and Collective Trauma written by Clara Mucci and published by Routledge. This book was released on 2018-04-17 with total page 412 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This book represents a major effort to integrate contemporary theories and findings regarding the psychological effects of severe trauma. It explores the psychodynamic implications of aggression, sexuality and dependency, and the consequences of primitive defensive operations dealing with them.
Download or read book The Power of Forgiveness written by Eva Mozes Kor and published by Central Recovery Press. This book was released on 2021-02-16 with total page 147 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Eva Mozes Kor forges a path of reconciliation and healing as a Holocaust survivor, sharing her life-changing message that forgiveness frees us from the pain of the past. Eva Mozes Kor was just ten years old when she was sent to Auschwitz. While her parents and two older sisters were murdered there, she and her twin sister Miriam were subjected to medical experiments at the hands of Dr. Joseph Mengele. Later on, when Miriam fell ill due to the long-term effects of the experiments, Eva embarked on a search for their torturers. But what she discovered was the remedy for her troubled soul; she was able to forgive them. Told through anecdotes and in response to letters and questions at her public appearances, she imparts a powerful lesson for all survivors. Forgiveness of our tormentors and ourselves is a pathway to a deeper healing. This kind of forgiveness is not an act of self-denial. It actively releases people from trauma, allowing them to escape from the grip of persecution, cast off the role of victim, and begin the struggle against forgetting in earnest.
Download or read book Silently Seduced written by Kenneth M. Adams and published by Health Communications, Inc.. This book was released on 2011-09 with total page 194 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In this revised and updated 20th anniversary edition of his groundbreaking book, Dr. Kenneth Adams, a leading expert on covert incest, sex addiction, and childhood trauma, offers tools for identifying and healing from covert incestuous relationships that affect adult relationships and lives. He explains how 'feeling close' with a parent is not always the source of comfort the phrase suggests, especially when that child is cheated out of a childhood by being a parent's surrogate partner. Dr. Adams includes a new Q&A section that directly addresses issues including: • How can this be incestuous when there is no physical sexual contact? • Why is sexual addiction so common with covert incest survivors? • Why is it so hard for covert incest survivors to commit to romantic relationships? • If my partner is a covert incest survivor, how can I help? • Can I pass covert incest on to my children? Through new findings and expanded discussions on 'engulfment,' 'excessive guilt,' 'loyalty,' and 'narcissism,' and others, Silently Seduced offers a framework to understand covert incest and its effect on sexuality, intimacy, and relationships to facilitate the process of recovery.
Download or read book The Gift of Forgiveness written by Katherine Schwarzenegger Pratt and published by Penguin. This book was released on 2020-03-10 with total page 226 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: AN INSTANT NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER! “[The Gift of Forgiveness] will spark conversations across families, across friendships, at workplaces, everywhere.” –Maria Shriver A fresh, inspiring book on learning how to forgive, with firsthand stories from those who have learned to let go of resentment and find peace. "When we learn to embrace forgiveness, it opens us up to healing, hope, and a new world of possibility." --Katherine Schwarzenegger Pratt Written with grace and understanding and based on more than twenty in-depth interviews and stories as well as personal reflections from Schwarzenegger Pratt herself, The Gift of Forgiveness is about one of the most difficult challenges in life--learning to forgive. Here, Katherine Schwarzenegger Pratt shows us what we can learn from those who have struggled with forgiveness, some still struggling, and others who have been able to forgive what might seem truly unforgivable. The book features experiences from those well-known and unknown, including Elizabeth Smart, who learned to forgive her captors; Sue Klebold, whose son, Dylan, was one of the Columbine shooters, learning empathy and how to forgive herself; Chris Williams, who forgave the drunken teenager who killed his wife and child; and of course Schwarzenegger Pratt's own challenges and path to forgiveness in her own life. All provide different journeys to forgiveness and the process--sometimes slow and thorny, sometimes almost instantaneous--by which they learned to forgive and let go. The Gift of Forgiveness is a perfect blend of personal insights, powerful quotations, and hard-won wisdom for those seeking a way to live with greater acceptance, grace, and peace. A PAMELA DORMAN BOOKS/VIKING LIFE TITLE
Download or read book The Green Light of Forgiveness written by Toshia Shaw and published by Purple Wings Publishing. This book was released on 2016-03-24 with total page 158 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Forgiving those who have caused you great pain feels counter-intuitive at first like you're giving your tormentors a free pass to walk all over you or letting them off the hook easily. Practicing forgiveness can leave you feeling like you're giving away all your control while leaving yourself helpless and vulnerable. In reality, that couldn't be more different. Acts of forgiveness might require great bravery but it is only through forgiveness that you can release yourself from the pain and trauma of your past, and peacefully move forward. That is what The Green Light of Forgiveness will help you do. This book will help you understand the true power of forgiveness and shares a powerful meditation for you to use as the basis of your daily forgiveness practice. The tools and techniques within this book will help you get past your trauma towards healing, and the daily meditation practice will help you to take back your life and let go of all the things, large and small, that no longer bring you peace and happiness.
Download or read book Forgiveness Therapy written by Dr Robert D Enright and published by . This book was released on 2024-01-15 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This new edition offers new case studies, new empirical evaluation, modern philosophical roots of forgiveness therapy, and new measurement techniques.
Download or read book Forgiveness in Intimate Relationships written by Shahrzad Siassi and published by Routledge. This book was released on 2018-03-08 with total page 152 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: How can one overcome deeply-held resentment so as to resume or establish a bond with a traumatizing person, mindful that the experience of the self is rooted in the very intimate relationships from which such trauma arose? This book centres on the challenge of forgiveness and recovery from trauma in intimate relationships as viewed psychodynamically in the clinical context. Traumas inflicted by intimates, especially by parents, differ from transgressions and betrayals-however legitimately traumatizing-committed in less psychically-rooted relationships. While some betrayals are in fact not forgivable, what is at issue when parents or other intimates betray is the inevitable yearning for reunion: a wish whose potential fulfillment raises the spectre of re-traumatization and humiliation and is thus fraught with risk.
