Download or read book The 7 Day Dating and Relationship Plan for Gay Men written by Grant Wheaton and published by Alyson Books. This book was released on 2008 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The ultimate guide for gay men looking for a fresh angle on the dating scene! Informative and instructive, this quick-witted guide illuminates seven dating principles, developed to work through readers' dating challenges. From numerous tips and anecdotes, through to facts about where the boys are, navigating the dating minefields and achieving a relationship.

Download or read book Finding a Lover for Life written by David Price and published by Routledge. This book was released on 2013-11-12 with total page 124 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Develop healthy, lasting relationships! Here is a terrific dating guide for single gay and bisexual men. This insightful book provides a proven strategy for creating a satisfying dating life and finding a partner who is right for you! It integrates theory and practice to help you create and develop healthy relationships, guiding you through the process of dating and relationship formation. Finding a Lover for Life comes complete with thought-provoking worksheets that challenge myths, false beliefs, and incorrect assumptions about gay/bi men, dating, and relationships. Finding a Lover for Life will save you a great deal of time and frustration in developing dating skills. Its rational, skills-based strategic approach to dating will help you plan, organize, and focus your efforts in that part of your life. Finding a Lover for Life is the tool you need to plan and implement strategies that will: attract available dating partners eliminate problems by identifying compatible and noncompatible partners create a healthy relationship It also takes you through an individual preparation routine for dating that will help you to: challenge societal views of romance uncover self-defeating beliefs resolve past conflicts create affirming and self-enabling beliefs This book will help you learn to date in a healthy and efficient way. But more than that, Finding a Lover for Life will help you develop a more positive self-concept, create a healthy community of friends, and help you move your life in a new, more constructive direction.

Download or read book Counseling Gay Men Adolescents and Boys written by Michael M. Kocet and published by Routledge. This book was released on 2014-06-27 with total page 273 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Counseling Gay Men, Adolescents, & Boys: A Strengths-Based Guide for Helping Professionals and Educators provides practitioners and educators with critical information needed to help navigate the therapeutic and educational terrain of working with gay males. While other books address a broad range of issues when working with LGBTQ individuals, this volume devotes its focus to the specific needs of gay boys, adolescents, and men. This book also presents an important perspective about individuals who identify as bisexual and transgender, and examines the intersection between gender and sexual orientation. Readers will find practical resources, tools, and clinical case studies for mental health practitioners, professionals in school settings, educators, administrators, and medical personnel serving gay males.

Download or read book Gay Dating Your Guide to Finding Love written by Jaye Sassieni and published by . This book was released on 2010-04-14 with total page 152 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The essential read for every gay man from Dating Coach and founder of Urban Connections dating site, Jaye Sassieni.A straight-forward, helpful guide for gay men who are looking for love. As well as examining how and where to find your Mr Right, this book asks what is stopping you from finding a suitable partner? Subconscious, self-imposed barriers such as lack of confidence, an impossible search for perfection or destructive patterns are identified and dealt with through self analysis of your beliefs, attitudes and body language. This positive and inspiring book will leave you feeling clearer about your relationship goals and how to achieve them. The book includes chapters on understanding where gay men are coming from, looking for love in all the right places, how and where to find him, and playing and winning the gay dating game: preparation, etiquette, rejection and body language.

Download or read book When It s Time to Leave Your Lover written by Neil Kaminsky and published by Routledge. This book was released on 2014-04-04 with total page 308 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: When It's Time to Leave Your Lover: A Guide for Gay Men is for people who need help ending a gay male relationship that is no longer viable or for friends and family who want to support a gay man experiencing a breakup. This book provides tips on how to successfully cope with the post-breakup period and how to grow emotionally from the experience. You will discover how to tell a lover good-bye while learning about the psychological and social changes to be anticipated in this situation. When It's Time to Leave Your Lover gives you helpful, practical advice on how to cope with ending a relationship in a positive and constructive manner. This unique book contains actual interviews with gay men and vignettes that clearly illustrate the topics. They provide you with a deeper understanding of all aspects of the break-up period. When It's Time to Leave Your Lover is a unique how-to book that gives you helpful and practical advice on such important issues as: making an assessment of your relationship to determine if it is no longer viable constructively leaving your partner and making it a positive experience coping with the uncoupling experience by using specific techniques to avoid common mistakes such as the rebound relationship growing from your uncoupling experience so you can enjoy more fulfilling relationships in the future managing the social and psychological effects of a breakup through use of your support system of family and friends seeking support through specific organizations available in several different cities that help gay men deal with breakups Sincere and full of knowledgeable advice, When It's Time to Leave Your Lover offers proven suggestions that will help you revisit the mistakes you made during your relationship, preparing you for more satisfying relationships in the future that are based on compatibility, respect, and trust. A valuable and reader-friendly book, When It's Time to Leave Your Lover will enhance your understanding of the break-up experience and will help you understand, learn from, and get past the heartache of ending a relationship.

Download or read book Lasting Love at Last written by Amari Ice and published by Difference Press. This book was released on 2018-02-27 with total page 250 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: At last, gay love is here to stay. In the era of mobile apps, the gay dating census (aka #BaeBuffet) is literally in the palm of your hands. But how do you sift through all the digital smoke and glitter to find a heart of gold? Enter certified matchmaker and love coach, Amari Ice, and his twelve-step RELATIONSHIP Process. In Lasting Love at Last, Amari Ice, the gay relationship guru, will show you: - How to attract lasting love in as little as ten weeks - How to recognize and neutralize what's sabotaged your past relationships - The reason most relationships fail - The difference between not being ready for a relationship and being scared of commitment - What you actually need from a partner in order to be happy - How to guarantee you only invest in someone worth your time, energy, and love - And much, much more If Paul Carrick Brunson's It's Complicated (But It Doesn't Have to Be) and Patti Stanger's Become Your Own Matchmaker had a #Gayby, Lasting Love At Last is what they'd name it.

Download or read book Meet Hotter Guys written by Woody Miller and published by Woodpecker Media. This book was released on 2018-05-31 with total page 120 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: END YOUR LONELY WEEKENDS ONCE AND FOR ALLConquer fear of rejection, get rock star confidence and learn powerful, seductive conversational techniques that make you irresistible. Start dating the kind of guys you've always wanted! Here's my 9-Step Formula: Step 1: CONQUER YOUR FEAR OF REJECTIONLearn my secret for eliminating approach anxiety so you can talk to ANYBODY anywhere without sounding needy or insecure. I will give you a simple exercise you can use to DESTROY your fear of approaching good-looking gay guys immediately. It’s a combination of adding rational empowerment to your inner dialogue, a game-changing visualization and a stop-you-in-your-tracks mind-shift. And it works whether you’re in a bar or anyplace else. It will make gay dating fun again! Meet Hotter Guys is Book #1 of 3 books in The Gay Dating Series. Step 2: GET ROCK STAR CONFIDENCEUse my strategies and you’ll be able to walk into a room and get noticed right away. You’ll learn the “3 second rule” and how to use it to COMPLETELY remove any anxiety you have about approaching gorgeous guys. I show you this piece of stellar gay advice on P. 26-30. Step 3: GET GUYS TO PURSUE YOUYou can do this even if you’re not tall, rich or handsome. By using the concept of “Demonstrating Value,” you can literally get the hottest guy in the room to pursue YOU. All you have to do is understand a few fundamentals about human nature and apply them. It’s fun, easy to learn, and it WORKS. P. 41-54. Step 4: SAY SOMETHING CLEVERWhat can you say to somebody that won’t sound like a cheesy pick up line or an awkward, try-hard attempt to sound cool? Learn the 7 biggest mistakes most gay guys make when trying to start a conversation (and how to avoid them). Try my long list of irresistible, no-rejection openers. They’ll capture the imagination, stir curiosity and set the stage for a real connection. Use them TONIGHT. They’re all on P. 55-75. Step 5: CREATE A POWERFUL FIRST IMPRESSIONLearn how to give a guy that same feeling of “I have to have him” that he gets when he sees a guy who is rich, famous, or good looking… without being any of those things yourself. There are 5 things you can do in the crucial first 10 minutes with a man that instantly lets him know you’re “in his league.” How to do it? It’ll all on P. 31-36. Step 6: MAKE YOURSELF MORE APPEALINGLearn how to start a conversation with a good-looking guy who doesn’t look interested. I’ll show you the best way to disarm guys who think you may be hitting on them so they’ll relax enough to have a conversation (and give you a chance to charm them). It’s all on P. 37-40. Step 7: BUILD ATTRACTIONDiscover the most powerful approaches to getting him interested in you. They’re GUARANTEED to make him look at you and think, “Tonight just got more interesting.” They’re fun to do, they put a smile on his face and best of all, they’ve been field tested in gay bars, parties and social events. These gay tips are all on P. 76-82. Step 8: KEEP IT EXCITINGI’ll show you how to prevent ‘conversation stalling” and awkward silences by using something called “Multiple Threads.” By talking in a way that creates mild suspense, you’ll create energy, rapport and the feeling that you have a lot to talk about. You’ll never run out of things to say again! P. 83-84. Step 9: CREATE SEXUAL TENSION Strategic touching builds comfort and creates desire. Start out with indirect touching and escalate slowly with these time-tested tactics. Find out how to position yourself for no-threat touches, where to touch and how to use the “Prize Theory” to get him to touch YOU. Pretty soon you’ll need to read my gay sex advice series! All on P. 85-90.

Download or read book Gay Men s Guide to Love and Relationships written by Richard L. Travis and published by Createspace Independent Publishing Platform. This book was released on 2012 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A dating and relationship guide for gay men.

Download or read book Mr Right is Out There written by Dr. Kenneth D. George and published by . This book was released on 2000 with total page 204 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Who is Mr Right? And, once you find him (and you will according to Kenneth George), how do you keep him? For gay men in relationships, keeping their love strong, sexy, and alive, presents numerous challenges but many of the issues they are likely to face are tackled in this new book which covers everything from meeting men, to forming an emotional and intimate bond, to grappling with those uniquely male issues that are so often encountered by the gay male couple.

Download or read book 10 Smart Things Gay Men Can Do to Improve Their Lives written by Joe Kort and published by ReadHowYouWant.com. This book was released on 2010-11-26 with total page 322 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Openly gay therapist Joe Kort provides 10 powerful and positive steps gay men can take to isolate and overcome self-defeating behavior patterns, and move in healthier and more rewarding directions: Take Charge of Their Own Lives Affirm Themselves by Coming Out Resolve Differences With Parents and Relatives 'Graduate' From Delayed Adolescence Avoid - or Overcome - Sexual Addiction -Learn from Successful Mentors Whove Been There, Done That Take Advantage of 'Therapy Workouts' Achieve - and Maintain - Rewarding Relationships Understand the Stages of Loves Commit to Their Partner.These solid and reliable 'Top 10' life steps that have been most helpful to Joe Korts clients in his 16 years of working with hundreds of gay men, are presented in an engaging and easy-to-understand manner and are supplemented by case histories from his practice. These are time-tested, practical decisions gay men can make in their search for emotional, sexual and personal fulfillment

Download or read book Happy Gay Marriage and Successful Gay Dating written by Susie Ambrose and published by Createspace Independent Publishing Platform. This book was released on 2015-06-25 with total page 186 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: From the founder of Seventy Thirty the first exclusive matchmaking company with relationship psychology at its core, and Lemarc Thomas psychologist and gay relationship expert, comes this intelligent and insightful book; the ultimate guide and relationship advice for the married, coupled up and singletons. From the book "Self-assuredness is something that is very attractive to most gay men. If one is stressed about their sexuality or about being gay, this can be a turn-off. Being comfortable with yourself is a sign of security and wellbeing, which is appealing." And "When there was a bone of contention, gay and lesbian couples tended to throw in a bit of humour and affection to defuse the situation."

Download or read book The Mandates written by Dave Singleton and published by Harmony. This book was released on 2007-12-18 with total page 242 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: How do you win the dating game if you’re a gay man? After many years of serial monogamy, Dave Singleton went to the front lines to find out, exploring the lives of other gay men who found themselves on the dating fast track with guys they’d met from work, at the gym or bars, and, increasingly, on the Internet. Thus, The Mandates was born—a laugh-out-loud but completely true set of rules about the making (or breaking) of men’s romantic relationships. A sampling: Mandate #10: Everything You Need to Know, You Learn in the First Five Minutes Mandate #12: The Difference Between Mr. Right and Mr. Right Now: Learn It! Mandate #13: Things You Should Never, Ever, for Any Reason Say Out Loud in the First Six Months of Dating Mandate #24: Be Your Own “Judge Judy”: Evaluating Heinous vs. Forgivable Sins Plus, “A Gay Dating Primer: Dos and Don’ts,” and excellent advice on “The Who, What, Where, and How of Meeting a Guy” and “Marking the Milestones of Gay Dating.” At long last, here is a hilarious, definitive gay man’s guide to finding Mr. Right.

Download or read book Bringing Perfect Back written by Patrick H. Perrine and published by Booksurge Publishing. This book was released on 2008-10-18 with total page 226 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: At a time when what a gay male relationship is and can be is radically changing, Bringing Perfect Back offers a refreshing and personable look at everything facing the modern gay man, whether he's searching for a partner or committed to one. From the early stages of how to present himself and how to know what will work for him, to taking sensible advantage of the Internet as well as the world at large as he ventures out into the serious romance market, Bringing Perfect Back walk him through the beginnings with solid counsel and down-to-earth humor. Then, all the major and minor snags of the gay relationship in action get a thorough going-over. From wrangling over bills, old boyfriends, sexual passions lessening, down to the bare bones of surviving infidelity and opting for marriage. Bringing Perfect Back looks hard at each hurdle the gay man is sure to face with understanding, with candor, and always with an eye out for the real success of his relationships.

Download or read book Keeping Mr Right written by Dr. Kenneth D. George and published by . This book was released on 2004 with total page 212 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In this comprehensive follow-up to his bestselling Mr. Right is Out There, Kenneth George offers, in the same warm and wise manner, guidelines for gay men on forming successful male couples. Known for his commonsense and honest approach to relationships, Dr. George explores the issues facing gay couples and offers advice on working through them rather than letting them become insurmountable. Included in the book are tips on: negotioating changes rather tham living with annoying differences; defining your relationship with a 'job description'; and having great sex!

Download or read book Boyfriend 101 written by Jim Sullivan and published by Villard. This book was released on 2003-05-13 with total page 279 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: You’ve done the bar thing. You’ve let your best friend set you up. You’ve even logged on to a gay dating website. But the man of your dreams is still out there, just waiting for you to find him. What’s a gay guy to do? Look no further than this book. Whether you’re new to the dating scene or just wanting a refresher course, in Boyfriend 101 you’ll find an abundance of practical tips for meeting the right man (and avoiding the wrong ones) and keeping him (and you) interested for the long term. Topics include: •Deciding what you need versus what you want in a boyfriend •Icebreakers that actually work •Expanding your social network •The best places to meet men •Writing a hot personal ad or online profile •First-date protocols (or, Waiting until after the third date to have sex) •Discussing HIV and negotiating safe sex •Maintaining a healthy body image •Overcoming fear of abandonment •Creating healthy lines of communication with your boyfriend

Download or read book Dynamic Duos written by Keith W. Swain and published by . This book was released on 2008 with total page 260 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Many men find that a partner starts out as Superman - and something happens along the way to transform him into Lex Luthor. Now this revolutionary guide reveals the way to create gay relationships of amazing power and durability. Psychologist Swain uncovers the effective ways readers can find to connect with their lifelong partner, reveals solutions to problems that occur in most gay relationships and details hundreds of ways to put the 'pow' in their relationships.

Download or read book The Gay Man s Guide to Open and Monogamous Marriage written by Michael Dale Kimmel and published by Rowman & Littlefield. This book was released on 2017-06-09 with total page 300 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Legal gay marriage is still a relatively new phenomenon. As gay men who are now able to get married, we find ourselves in a bit of a quandary: for many male couples, sex is a lot more important for us than it is for heterosexuals. Two married men often have a stronger desire for sex - wanting more of it and with a wider variety of partners - than married opposite-sex couples. How does this work within the structure of a monogamous marriage? Is an open relationship a better structure for gay marriage? Assuming that gay marriages will emulate heterosexual marriages is neither a valid nor a helpful assumption. But, as gay men, where does that leave us? There are currently no “rule books” for how a marriage between two men could or should work. While there are lots of books about how to plan your gay wedding, there are virtually none that address what to do after the honeymoon is over (literally and figuratively). This book fills that void. It offers married gay couples (and gay men considering marriage) an easy-to-follow, practical framework that they can use to help create, adjust and structure their marriages. Using helpful examples and first-hand quotes throughout, Openly-gay psychotherapist Michael Dale Kimmel offers a roadmap for gay men who want to be married but have questions and concerns about monogamy and monotony.