Download or read book Talking to Strangers written by Malcolm Gladwell and published by Little, Brown. This book was released on 2019-09-10 with total page 316 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Malcolm Gladwell, host of the podcast Revisionist History and author of the #1 New York Times bestseller Outliers, offers a powerful examination of our interactions with strangers and why they often go wrong—now with a new afterword by the author. A Best Book of the Year: The Financial Times, Bloomberg, Chicago Tribune, and Detroit Free Press How did Fidel Castro fool the CIA for a generation? Why did Neville Chamberlain think he could trust Adolf Hitler? Why are campus sexual assaults on the rise? Do television sitcoms teach us something about the way we relate to one another that isn’t true? Talking to Strangers is a classically Gladwellian intellectual adventure, a challenging and controversial excursion through history, psychology, and scandals taken straight from the news. He revisits the deceptions of Bernie Madoff, the trial of Amanda Knox, the suicide of Sylvia Plath, the Jerry Sandusky pedophilia scandal at Penn State University, and the death of Sandra Bland—throwing our understanding of these and other stories into doubt. Something is very wrong, Gladwell argues, with the tools and strategies we use to make sense of people we don’t know. And because we don’t know how to talk to strangers, we are inviting conflict and misunderstanding in ways that have a profound effect on our lives and our world. In his first book since his #1 bestseller David and Goliath, Malcolm Gladwell has written a gripping guidebook for troubled times.
Download or read book Talking to Stranger Made Easy written by Malcolm Ray and published by . This book was released on 2021-04-14 with total page 56 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: BE BETTER FROM NOW WITH A STRANGER The main aim of this book "TALKING TO STRANGER MADE EASY" is to find ways for us to trust one another, With the best instructions to really be better at conversing with strangers. Sometimes it is very wrong with the way and style we understand people we don't know. Malcolm Ray is a well respected consultant based in the United States and has lectured many on friendship, dating and marriage. Due to popular demand she has written this book " TALKING TO STRANGER MADE EASY " just for you. For the fact that we don't know how to relate with strangers, we conclude on our own beliefs which is not normal and a misunderstanding that will have great effects on our lives and accommodating others. If you are looking forward to meeting new people or that you just met someone recently but cannot have a fruitful discussion then this book "TALKING TO STRANGER MADE EASY "is for you. Also here in this book you will learn: - How to find the best effective method to transform a stranger into a companion - Step by step instructions to really be better at conversing with strangers - The best tips to help you converse with strangers on the web - We will discuss the Regularly Asked Inquiries (FAQs) - And many more... In fact this book is awesome and you are going to learn a lot from this book Scroll up and click on the BUY button
Download or read book The Power of Strangers written by Joe Keohane and published by Random House. This book was released on 2021-07-13 with total page 384 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A “meticulously researched and buoyantly written” (Esquire) look at what happens when we talk to strangers, and why it affects everything from our own health and well-being to the rise and fall of nations in the tradition of Susan Cain’s Quiet and Yuval Noah Harari’s Sapiens “This lively, searching work makes the case that welcoming ‘others’ isn’t just the bedrock of civilization, it’s the surest path to the best of what life has to offer.”—Ayad Akhtar, Pulitzer Prize–winning author of Homeland Elegies In our cities, we stand in silence at the pharmacy and in check-out lines at the grocery store, distracted by our phones, barely acknowledging one another, even as rates of loneliness skyrocket. Online, we retreat into ideological silos reinforced by algorithms designed to serve us only familiar ideas and like-minded users. In our politics, we are increasingly consumed by a fear of people we’ve never met. But what if strangers—so often blamed for our most pressing political, social, and personal problems—are actually the solution? In The Power of Strangers, Joe Keohane sets out on a journey to discover what happens when we bridge the distance between us and people we don’t know. He learns that while we’re wired to sometimes fear, distrust, and even hate strangers, people and societies that have learned to connect with strangers benefit immensely. Digging into a growing body of cutting-edge research on the surprising social and psychological benefits that come from talking to strangers, Keohane finds that even passing interactions can enhance empathy, happiness, and cognitive development, ease loneliness and isolation, and root us in the world, deepening our sense of belonging. And all the while, Keohane gathers practical tips from experts on how to talk to strangers, and tries them out himself in the wild, to awkward, entertaining, and frequently poignant effect. Warm, witty, erudite, and profound, equal parts sweeping history and self-help journey, this deeply researched book will inspire readers to see everything—from major geopolitical shifts to trips to the corner store—in an entirely new light, showing them that talking to strangers isn’t just a way to live; it’s a way to survive.
Download or read book Freeing Your Child from Negative Thinking written by Tamar Chansky and published by Da Capo Lifelong Books. This book was released on 2008-10-20 with total page 338 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A leading clinical expert in the fields of child cognitive behavior therapy and anxiety disorders, Dr. Tamar Chansky frequently counsels children (and their parents) whose negative thinking creates chronic or occasional emotional hurdles and impedes optimism, flexibility, and happiness. Now, in the first book that specifically focuses on negative thinking in kids, Freeing Your Child from Negative Thinking provides parents, caregivers, and clinicians the same clear, concise, and compassionate guidance that Dr. Chansky employed in her previous guides to relieving children from anxiety and obsessive compulsive symptoms. Here she thoroughly covers the underlying causes of children's negative attitudes, as well as providing multiple strategies for managing negative thoughts, building optimism, and establishing emotional resilience.
Download or read book Talking to Strangers written by Marianne Boucher and published by Doubleday Canada. This book was released on 2020-04-07 with total page 178 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: For fans of Wild Wild Country, Scientology and the Aftermath and Uncover: Escaping NXIVM, a spellbinding graphic memoir about a teenage girl who was lured into a cult and later fought to escape and reclaim her identity. Welcome to a place where you are valued. Where everyone is kind. Where you can be your truest self. It was the summer of 1980, and Marianne Boucher was ready to chase her figure skating dream. Fuelled by the desire to rise above her mundane high-school life, she sought a new adventure as a glamorous performer in L.A. And then a chance encounter on a California beach introduced her to a new group of people. People who shared her distrust of the status quo. People who seemed to value authenticity and compassion above all else. And they liked her. Not Marianne the performer, but Marianne the person. Soon, she'd abandoned school, her skating and, most dramatically, her family to live with her new friends and help them fulfill their mission of "saving the world." She believed that no sacrifice was too great to be there--and to live with real purpose. They were helping people, and they cared about her . . . didn't they? Talking to Strangers is the true story of Marianne Boucher's experiences in a cult, where she was subjected to sophisticated brainwashing techniques that took away her freedom, and took over her mind. Told in mesmerizing graphic memoir form, with vivid text and art alike, Marianne shares how she fell in with devotees of a frightening spiritual abuser, and how she eventually, painfully, pulled herself out.
Download or read book How to Talk to Anyone Anytime Anywhere written by Larry King and published by Crown. This book was released on 2007-12-18 with total page 226 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Some find talking to others uncomfortable, difficult, or intimidating. Here is a way to overcome these communication challenges. HOW TO TALK TO ANYONE, ANYTIME, ANYWHERE is the key to building confidence and improving communication skills. Written by Larry King, this guide provides simple and practical advice to help make communication easier, more successful, and even more enjoyable. Anecdotes from a life spent talking--on television, radio, and in person,--add to the fun and value of the book. Learn what famous talkers say and how the way they say it makes them so successful. Lessons include: • How to overcome shyness and put other people at ease • How to choose an appropriate conversation topic for any situation • How to ace a job interview, run a meeting, and mingle at a cocktail party • What the most successful conversationalists have in common • The one great question you can ask to enhance your conversation with anyone, anytime, anywhere
Download or read book Freeing Yourself from Anxiety written by Tamar Chansky and published by Da Capo Lifelong Books. This book was released on 2012-01-31 with total page 338 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Is worry wearing you out? Whether it's losing sleep over a deadline, fretting about a relationship, or constantly thinking about what you "should have" done or said, anxiety makes life feel like a race from one overwhelming situation to the next. Freeing Yourself from Anxiety reveals the real secret to reducing stress: not positive thinking, but possible thinking. In this breakthrough guide, Dr. Tamar Chansky shows you dozens of simple yet powerful strategies you can use at any time to transform your anxious thoughts, conquer perfectionism and procrastination, and improve the way your brain reacts to stress, even without medication. For anyone suffering with an anxiety disorder or depression, or who simply wants to handle everyday challenges more optimally and successfully, Dr. Chansky's innovative program will help you breathe easier. Get ready to feel calm, confident, more like yourself again—and free to create the life you want.
Download or read book When Strangers Meet written by Kio Stark and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2016-09-13 with total page 128 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Argues for the practice of talking to strangers as a way of widening one's experience of the world, addressing the transformative possibilities as well as the political and practical considerations of engaging with strangers in public.
Download or read book How To Talk To Strangers written by Curious Pavel and published by Curious Pavel. This book was released on 2020-07-11 with total page 13 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In this book, I'll show you the step-by-step Formula that I've been using whenever I change my environment (e.g. move to a different city, change a job, start University, etc) If you want to: Make more friends... but just don't know-how Be able to start conversations... but you often don't have the courage Find people with the same interests as you... but not sure where to start then this will means that... I Wrote This Book For You. After having a childhood mainly around computer games, from the age of 18, I started taking jobs in the customer service industry. Slowly starting as working on a parking lot and on an anchored ship in Alaska, I then took a job that demanded from me to talk to STRANGERS: Hotel Entertainment (show host). For 6 years I was entertaining people from all over the world in hotels in Bulgaria, Greece, and Spain. That helped build a system that I can follow whenever I speak to somebody for the very first time. I'll show you communication techniques that you can start implementing straight away. If you are looking for techniques on HOW TO SUCCESSFULLY FLIRT, then this might not be the right book for you. Although there are tips that might help you with communication in those situations, this is not the main subject of this book. Here's are some points that we will cover: How to deal with rejection Who are the right people for you What to talk about with strangers How to break the silence Body language techniques How to keep newly built relationships What to avoid when speaking to strangers How to join a conversation in a group of people And much, much more... I can help you start talking to strangers instantly. So get the book and let's get started. To your success, Curious Pavel
Download or read book I Won t Go With Strangers written by Dagmar Geisler and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2018-04-03 with total page 43 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Lu won’t go with just anyone! Lu is waiting to be picked up after school. She stands on the sidewalk, all alone, and it starts to rain. Ms. Smith walks by, and offers to take her home. Ms. Smith lives in Lu’s neighborhood—but does Lu really know her? Lu asks herself, what’s her first name? Does she dye her hair red? What’s her dog’s name? And she says, “I don’t know you, so I won’t go with you! And besides, Mama said I should wait.” As other adults—all of whom Lu has met in some capacity before—offer to take her home, Lu continues to consider if she really knows them. One by one, she refuses to go with them. Until, finally, the person Mama said she should go home with shows up—though his appearance is a surprise to the reader! This sensitively narrated story illustrates how clear rules and arrangements can help protect and empower children during an especially vulnerable time of day. The ending includes a prompt for readers to create their own similar “safe” list, and a list of resources for parents.
Download or read book Smooth Talking Stranger written by Lisa Kleypas and published by Macmillan. This book was released on 2009-03-31 with total page 351 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Jack Travis leads the uncomplicated life of a millionaire Texas playboy. He makes no commitments, he loves many women, he lives for pleasure. Until one day, a woman appears on his doorstep with fury on her face and a baby in her arms. It seems Jack is the father and this woman is the baby's aunt.
Download or read book Goodbye Stranger written by Rebecca Stead and published by Text Publishing. This book was released on 2015-08-05 with total page 298 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Back in grade five, Bridge, Tabitha and Emily made a pact. Never to fight, ever. Now, two years later, they’re still best friends, but other things are changing. Bridge meets Sherm, and is soon excited and confused by her new, strange feelings. And when Emily starts texting pictures of herself to Patrick, Bridge and Tab find themselves complicit in a naïve plan that quickly spirals out of control. And while the three friends navigate the challenges of their changing friendship, another story—of betrayal and remorse—keeps you guessing until the very end. Goodbye Stranger is a tender and intricate story about friendships, and love, and the pain of sometimes making the wrong choices. Rebecca Stead is the author of four novels: First Light, When You Reach Me (a New York Times bestseller and Newbery Medal winner), Liar & Spy (Guardian Children’s Fiction Prize winner and New York Times bestseller) and, most recently, Goodbye Stranger. She lives in New York City with her family. ‘This memorable story about female friendships, silly bets, different kinds of love, and bad decisions is authentic in detail and emotion—another Stead hallmark.’ STARRED Review, Publishers Weekly ‘[Stead] captures the stomach-churning moments of a misstep or an unplanned betrayal and reworks these events with grace, humour, and polish into possibilities for kindness and redemption. Superb.’ STARRED Review, Kirkus ‘Stead shows how strongly love of all kinds can smooth the juddering path toward adulthood. Winsome, bighearted, and altogether rewarding.’ STARRED Review, Booklist ‘[Stead’s writing is] filled with humor, delightful coincidences, and the sorts of things...that escalate in ways that can seem life-shattering to a 13-year-old. The author keeps all her balls in the air until she catches them safely with ineffable grace.’ STARRED Review, School Library Journal ‘Rebecca Stead’s story is multi-layered and sumptuous, beautifully plotted and a real page-turner.’ Alpha Reader ‘An unforgettable book about young girls coming of age written with wit and compassion.’ ReadPlus ‘Goodbye Stranger was such a pleasure to read...[Stead’s] teenage characters are so real, and charming and likeable, even when they’re not making the best decisions...I will continue to sing the praises of this new book well into the rest of the year (and probably much longer).’ Middle Chapter ‘[Stead has] a profound appreciation for the young people she writes for...She creates the kind of situations that would shatter a vulnerable thirteen-year-old girl but somehow manages to do so with a deft, light touch full of empathy and humour.’ Readings ‘Goodbye Stranger is the kind of book you might call a revelation. It is surprising, generous, thoughtful, honest and it paints a picture of the time after childhood and before youth more honestly than I have ever seen depicted.’ Where the Writer Comes to Write ‘The language is often dazzling and the minor characters have great appeal. A very satisfying read.’ Stuff NZ ‘The emotional complexity is deftly done by Stead in a way that is satisfying and accessible for young adults and adults alike, without being patronising, and acknowledging that we all make mistakes along the way.’ New Zealand Book Council ‘Goodbye Stranger falls in the zone of upper middle fiction/young YA, and is a great book to discuss with a tween as it gently preempts teen issues...Stead opens up a discussion of phone use and photos that never veers into shaming or hysteria.’ Leanne Hall, Readings
Download or read book How to Start a Conversation written by Nancine Lively and published by . This book was released on 2014-11-09 with total page 40 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: If you want to learn the art of starting a conversation and making small talk with strangers, then this book is for you!Do you get incredibly nervous when it comes to interacting with new people? Conversational discomfort is a pretty familiar personality trait found throughout people all over the world. Not to mention conversations can be difficult things in terms of actually getting them started. There are many factors that can easily make a conversation go sour or become awkward, and that's hardly a good thing for anyone. In a lot of instances, social anxiety is a major cause for conversational issues; it can cause a number of dilemmas in someone's entire social demeanor. Body language is another major issue when it comes to communication, because not many people realize that their body movements tell more than their words. Other circumstances that can cause conversational issues to crop up are just meeting someone new, having romantic tension, keeping a conversation moving, and trying to find common interests. All of these hurdles can dissuade someone from engaging in conversation altogether; but with the right knowledge and a proper strategy, anyone can become a social connoisseur. In this book, you'll find everything you need to get past the obstacles blocking your social creativity and comfort. Let's get started!
Download or read book Outliers written by Malcolm Gladwell and published by Penguin UK. This book was released on 2008-11-18 with total page 174 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: From the bestselling author of Blink and The Tipping Point, Malcolm Gladwell's Outliers: The Story of Success overturns conventional wisdom about genius to show us what makes an ordinary person an extreme overachiever. Why do some people achieve so much more than others? Can they lie so far out of the ordinary? In this provocative and inspiring book, Malcolm Gladwell looks at everyone from rock stars to professional athletes, software billionaires to scientific geniuses, to show that the story of success is far more surprising, and far more fascinating, than we could ever have imagined. He reveals that it's as much about where we're from and what we do, as who we are - and that no one, not even a genius, ever makes it alone. Outliers will change the way you think about your own life story, and about what makes us all unique. 'Gladwell is not only a brilliant storyteller; he can see what those stories tell us, the lessons they contain' Guardian 'Malcolm Gladwell is a global phenomenon ... he has a genius for making everything he writes seem like an impossible adventure' Observer 'He is the best kind of writer - the kind who makes you feel like you're a genius, rather than he's a genius' The Times
Download or read book Seducing Strangers written by Josh Weltman and published by Workman Publishing. This book was released on 2015-04-07 with total page 193 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The author says it best: “This book is for people like you and me. People who go to work and—using words, pictures, music, and stories—are expected to make s**t happen . . . to make the phone lines light up and the in-box fill up. Attract fans, friends, and followers. Make the cash register ring. Win the business. Close the deal. Sell something.” Joshua Weltman knows just how to do that, and teach others how to do it, too. An advertising creative director for more than 25 years and the Mad Men co-producer responsible for Don Draper’s credibility as an advertising genius, Weltman distills everything he knows about the art of persuasion into a playbook?of rules, principles, insights, insider anecdotes, and more, all tailored to the fast-changing life in the information economy. Weltman identifies the four elements of selling—one of which is behind everything from a national television campaign to an email blast. There’s the ad that makes people curious—want to know more? That creates a sense of urgency—limited time offer! That increases market share—why we’re unique, or just better. And the ad that protects margins—thank you for your loyalty. And then Weltman explains how to employ these strategies, including: the six words that win business; the four kinds of stories; what to do if your product sucks; why lying in an ad will never pay off; why information reduces doubt; how to think like a force-multiplier; why different is better than better; why to remove jargon and acronyms and reveal ideas and relationships. Advertising, Joshua Weltman argues, is a toolbox, not a tool, and used right it makes people happy. Seducing Strangers shows you how. “People often ask me questions, or ask my opinions, on or about the world of advertising. My stock response is ‘You know I play a fictional advertising executive, right?’ That’s usually used to cover the ignorance or stupidity of whatever I am about to say next. In the future I will simply refer them to Josh Weltman.” —from the Foreword by Jon Hamm
Download or read book How to Make Small Talk with Strangers written by Razaq Adekunle and published by Independently Published. This book was released on 2020-12-21 with total page 134 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A lot of people are quite comfortable speaking, even with strangers, if they have a purpose for the conversation that they understand, but they can really struggle with knowing how to make small talk. All social and work situations begin with small talk, where you make the effort to engage with people. If you are going to make a connection with people around you then you need to know how to make small talk. If you want to know how to make small talk with strangers, then you've come to the right place. In this book, you will be taught many easy ways to strike up great conversation with just about anybody, whether you're super shy or bursting with confidence. This is among the Key topic you're to learn in this book: -Handling Difficult Conversations- You need to talk about something difficult and you're dreading it. You see things happening in your home, but you're not sure how your partner is going to take it. This book introduces some steps you can do to take to make having difficult conversations go more smoothly. Why Talking to Strangers Is So Important?- While cold calling continues to top the list of the worst jobs ever conceived, talking to strangers is an essential element in any business venture. Simply put unless you're talking to people you don't already know your business growth is limited. Create Conversation Confidence at Parties Even If You Are Shy - Do you often feel nervous when you are at a party and you want to make a good impression on others? Perhaps you are shy and you get tongue tied or your mind goes blank. This book gives many tips to help you improve your conversation confidence at social events. How to Turn Strangers into Lovers- Think about the last time you fell in love. When you met, were you excited? attracted? cautious? curious? How long did those early feelings last - moments? weeks? How did you learn more about each other? As you fell in love, what did you need - trust? shared interests? commitment? Business Small Talk - How to Make Conversation at a Business Event - Many people come into small business thinking networking means attending events in a room full of strangers and madly "working the room" passing out as many business cards as possible. It could be - except that people will view this kind of approach the same way - "mad" - not at all interested in the people you meet only what you can get from them. Do you find it easy to make conversation with new people you've just met? Or does the thought of trying to make conversation with someone new make you break out in a cold sweat? Learn some conversation strategies to make it easier to talk to strangers in this book.
Download or read book Talking To Strangers written by Sam Gladwell and published by . This book was released on 2021-07-17 with total page 42 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Description Product Description What does it take to say a straightforward hi to a stranger you pass in the city? Few persons can start up a discussion with anybody even total outsiders. In the event that you have social nervousness issue (Miserable), the possibility of conversing with an individual you don't know can be scary (especially when they are a position figure) which is as a result of fear or shyness. One of the greatest skills lots of people wish to learn is know how to communicate effectively without hitches. You're in luck because, this skill can be learnt as they are not innate, as such, we can all learn it and this step by step guide Talking To Strangers will teach you exactly how to conquer your fears and shyness and help you win back your confidence in Talking To Strangers to maximise the success rate in your life. This is very beneficial to you in all aspects of your career, love life, family life and even your business life. In this easy to follow guide you will Learn: ★3 secret easy to follow conversation starters with stranger(even if you are the shy type) ★7 proven steps to start and maintain a healthy conversation with a total stranger. ★3 provocative questions to avoid when talking to a stranger (if you want a fruitful conversation). ★The key things to observe in selecting the right strangers to talk to. ★3 possible reasons holding you back from talking to strangers you may not even know about yourself and how it affects your life. ★4 powerful benefits of talking to strangers and much more. ◆Plus recommendations. Weather you're looking to meet new friends and increase your social circle, searching for answers to a project work, promoting new ideas or inviting the public to a programme whatever your reason, this is the book to make it easier for you. Pick a copy of Talking To Strangers today to conquer your fear or shyness of talking to strangers, regain your confidence and make your life a magnet of abundant success and attraction as you apply the methods taught in this book diligently. About The Author Sam Gladwell is a passionate life coach, writer, public speaker who has passion to see people conquer their fears, challeges in their careers, relationship, business life so as to increase their success rates in all aspects of life and be prosperous .
