Download or read book Supporting Birth Parents Whose Children Have Been Adopted written by Joanne Alper and published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers. This book was released on 2019-07-18 with total page 210 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This book aims to share information about the experiences of birth parents and those currently working therapeutically with them, with the hope of promoting greater understanding and improved service development. With contributions from birth parents and professionals in the field, this book articulates the huge emotional challenges and pain faced by birth parents. Grounded in their experiences and drawing on the latest research, it outlines good practice for professionals, and puts forward a range of models for intervention, from very straightforward practical support through to therapeutic approaches and interventions. Practical and compassionate, this book provides a deep understanding of birth parents and their support needs which will inform not only individual practice, but also encourages the development of more humane and effective support services.

Download or read book The Open Hearted Way to Open Adoption written by Lori Holden and published by Rowman & Littlefield Publishers. This book was released on 2015-05-15 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This book covers common open adoption situations and how real families have navigated typical issues successfully. Like all useful parenting books, it provides parents with the tools to come to answers on their own, and answers questions that might not yet have come up.

Download or read book A Guide to Magical Creatures Around Your Home written by Darren Fink and published by . This book was released on 2020-07 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: RECOVER WHAT TRAUMA HAS STOLEN FROM YOUR CHILD Children from traumatic backgrounds (including foster and adoptive children) have often been asked to give up pretend, play, and childhood in order to survive in an adult world. This is unfortunate as we tend to learn crucial lessons about the world and ourselves within the confines of childhood play. While children might be removed from the cause of chronic trauma, the concept of play will not come naturally for them. This book (along with the complimentary parent activity guide) will help you and your child to discover a world of pretend where your child can also conquer issues in relationship.

Download or read book The Girls Who Went Away written by Ann Fessler and published by Penguin. This book was released on 2007-06-26 with total page 367 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The astonishing untold history of the million and a half women who surrendered children for adoption due to enormous family and social pressure in the decades before Roe v. Wade. “It would take a heart of stone not to be moved by the oral histories of these women and by the courage and candor with which they express themselves.” —The Washington Post “A remarkably well-researched and accomplished book.” —The New York Times Book Review “A wrenching, riveting book.” —Chicago Tribune In this deeply moving and myth-shattering work, Ann Fessler brings out into the open for the first time the hidden social history of adoption before Roe v. Wade - and its lasting legacy. An adoptee who was herself surrendered during those years and recently made contact with her mother, Ann Fessler brilliantly brings to life the voices of more than a hundred women, as well as the spirit of those times, allowing the women to tell their stories in gripping and intimate detail.

Download or read book The Primal Wound written by Nancy Newton Verrier and published by British Association for Adoption and Fostering (Ba. This book was released on 2009 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Originally published in 1993, this classic piece of literature on adoption has revolutionised the way people think about adopted children. Nancy Verrier examines the life-long consequences of the 'primal wound' - the wound that is caused when a child is separated from its mother - for adopted people. Her argument is supported by thorough research in pre- and perinatal psychology, attachment, bonding and the effects of loss.

Download or read book Foster the Family written by Jamie C. Finn and published by Baker Books. This book was released on 2022-02-15 with total page 240 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: There are great rewards that come along with being a foster parent, yet there are also great challenges that can leave you feeling depleted, alone, and discouraged. The many burdens of a foster parent's day--hurting children, struggling biological parents, and a broken system--are only compounded by the many burdens of a foster parent's heart--confusion, anxiety, heartache, anger, and fear. With the compassion and insight of a fellow foster parent, Jamie C. Finn helps you see your struggles through the lens of the gospel, bringing biblical truths to bear on your unique everyday realities. In these short, easy-to-read chapters, you'll find honest, personal stories and practical lessons that provide encouragement and direction from God's Word as you walk the journey of foster parenting.

Download or read book Adoption and Loss written by Evelyn Robinson and published by Createspace Independent Publishing Platform. This book was released on 2018-11-22 with total page 252 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Evelyn Robinson, OAM, has written four books about adoption separation and reunion. This is her first book. What becomes of women who are separated from their children by adoption? Why do so many adopted people feel such a strong desire to seek out their families of origin? In what ways are families with adopted children different from other families? This book by Evelyn Robinson provides the answers to these questions and many others.'Adoption and Loss - The Hidden Grief' was first published in 2000. A revised edition was published in 2003 and the 21st Century edition was published in 2018.

Download or read book Telling the Truth to Your Adopted or Foster Child written by Betsy Keefer Smalley and published by Bloomsbury Publishing USA. This book was released on 2015-09-15 with total page 303 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Many adopted or foster children have complex, troubling, often painful pasts. This book provides parents and professionals with sound advice on how to communicate effectively about difficult and sensitive topics, providing concrete strategies for helping adopted and foster children make sense of the past so they can enjoy a healthy, well-adjusted future. Approximately one of every four adopted children will have adjustment challenges related to their separation from the birth family, earlier trauma, attachment difficulties, and/or issues stemming from the adoption process. Common complicating issues of adopted children are feelings of rejection, abandonment, or confusion about their origins. While many foster and adoptive parents and even many professionals are reluctant to communicate openly about birth histories, silence only adds to the child's confusion and pain. This revised and significantly expanded edition of the award-winning Telling the Truth to Your Adopted or Foster Child equips parents with the knowledge and tools they need to communicate with their adopted or foster child about their past. Revisions include coverage of significant new research and information regarding the importance of understanding the child's trauma history to his or her well-being and successful adjustment in his foster or adoptive family. The authors answer such questions as: How do I share difficult information about my child's adoption in a sensitive manner? When is the right time to tell my child the whole truth? How do I obtain more information on my child's history? Detailed descriptions of actual cases help the parent or caregiver find ways to discover the truth (particularly in closed and international adoption cases), organize the information, and explain the details of the past gently to a toddler, child, or young adult who may find it frightening or confusing.

Download or read book Adoption A Journey Filled with Love Loss and Miracles written by Aurora Brooks and published by BabyDreamers.net. This book was released on 101-01-01 with total page 41 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Adoption: A Journey Filled with Love, Loss, and Miracles is a heartfelt and informative guide that explores the emotional rollercoaster of the adoption process. This short read book delves into the various aspects of adoption, from making the decision to adopt to navigating the complexities of open adoption and supporting birth parents. With a focus on love, loss, and the miracles that come with adoption, this book offers valuable insights and practical advice for anyone considering or involved in the adoption journey. The book begins with an exploration of the decision to adopt, helping readers understand the motivations and considerations involved in this life-changing choice. It then moves on to preparing for adoption, including choosing the right adoption agency and understanding the adoption process. The chapter on open vs. closed adoption provides a comprehensive overview of the different types of adoption and their implications. One of the most powerful sections of the book is dedicated to the emotional journey of adoption. It explores the challenges and joys of bonding with an adopted child, as well as the difficult emotions of loss and rejection that may arise. The book also emphasizes the importance of supporting birth parents throughout the adoption process. Navigating relationships in open adoption is another key topic covered in this book. It offers guidance on establishing and maintaining healthy relationships with birth parents, as well as providing post-placement support for both adoptive parents and birth parents. Understanding the impact of adoption on children is crucial, and this book delves into the unique challenges and experiences of adopted children. It also provides advice on talking about adoption with your child and supporting adopted teens. The book also addresses important topics such as transracial adoption, celebrating cultural heritage, addressing racism and prejudice, and the impact of adoption on sibling relationships. It offers practical tips for fostering healthy sibling bonds and building a strong family unit. Legal considerations and finalization are discussed, along with resources for continuing support and frequently asked questions. The book concludes with an invitation for readers to reach out with any questions or comments they may have. Adoption: A Journey Filled with Love, Loss, and Miracles is a must-read for anyone involved in the adoption process. Whether you are considering adoption, in the midst of the journey, or already a parent through adoption, this book offers valuable insights, support, and resources to help you navigate the complexities and joys of adoption. Get your copy today and embark on a journey filled with love, loss, and miracles. Plus, as a bonus, receive the e-book How To Be A Super Mom This title is a short read. A Short Read is a type of book that is designed to be read in one quick sitting. These no fluff books are perfect for people who want an overview about a subject in a short period of time. Table of Contents Adoption: A Journey Filled with Love, Loss, and Miracles The Decision to Adopt Preparing for Adoption Choosing an Adoption Agency Understanding the Adoption Process Open vs. Closed Adoption The Emotional Journey Bonding with Your Adopted Child Dealing with Loss and Rejection Supporting Birth Parents Open Adoption: Navigating Relationships Post-Placement Support Understanding the Impact on Adopted Children Talking About Adoption with Your Child Supporting Adopted Teens Transracial Adoption Celebrating Cultural Heritage Addressing Racism and Prejudice Adoption and Sibling Relationships Fostering Healthy Sibling Bonds Life After Adoption Legal Considerations and Finalization Building a Strong Family Unit Continuing Support and Resources Frequently Asked Questions Have Questions / Comments?

Download or read book Adoption Reunions written by Michelle McColm and published by . This book was released on 1993 with total page 282 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In this practical book, Michelle McColm takes the adoptee and birth parent carefully through the process of adoption reunion; drawing on extensive interviews and the experience of her own reunion.

Download or read book We re All Not the Same But We re Still Family written by Theresa Fraser and published by Loving Healing Press. This book was released on 2019-10-08 with total page 43 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This story was written for adoptive families to explore the benefits of adoption openness. The main character, Deshaun, loves his family but always wondered about his biological family. Does he look like them? Did they love him? With the support of his adoptive parents, Deshaun gets to meet his biological family. They develop an ongoing relationship, so Deshaun feels more stable in his adoptive family, but also develops a comfortable relationship with his birth family. Deshaun and his family are reminded (as we all are) that family can include biological, adopted, foster and kin members. After reading this book, a child and their family will be able to: Discuss feelings about adoption Imagine what openness might mean for them Acknowledge similarities and differences among family members Discuss if an expanded sense of family is possible for their circumstances "There are many children's adoption books that address the important themes of identity, attachment, grief and loss; however, very few approach the topic of openness for older children in the in-depth manner that Theresa and Eric do in their book. The emotions that Deshaun describes are typical of many adopted children and could help normalize universal feelings for young adoptees. I would highly recommend this book for all adopted children and will certainly be using it in my practice." --Tecla Jenniskens, M.S.W., R.S.W., adoption social worker "Many foster and adoptive parents fear the consequences of introducing their children to birth parents. This story offers a redemptive look at how parents can remain history keepers for their children by helping them answer important questions about themselves and their origins. This book is a beautiful example of how fearless curiosity and compassion can lead to increased coherence in a child's story and an expanded sense of family for everyone." --Paris Goodyear-Brown, LCSW, RPT-S, clinical director of Nurture House, executive director of the TraumaPlay Institute and author of A Safe Circle for Little U and Trauma and Play Therapy "We're All Not the Same, but We're Still Family is a lovely book that tackles issues adopted children really think about when they question their identity and place within a family. The authors describe the process of a boy's search for his biological family, with the full support of his adoptive parents, and the events that brought him into the child welfare system. The illustrator's rendition of the Skyped meetings between the two families is captivating, while the text gives careful attention to the unification process. I applaud the authors on their inclusion of realistic steps in this complicated process, as we witness a child's journey to find and complete his family." --Laurie Zelinger, PhD, ABPP, RPT-S, board certified psychologist and author of Please Explain "Anxiety" to Me! Learn more at www.TheresaFraser.com From Loving Healing Press www.LHPress.com

Download or read book Adoption vs Biological Parenthood Debunking the Myths written by Aurora Brooks and published by BabyDreamers.net. This book was released on 101-01-01 with total page 32 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Adoption vs. Biological Parenthood: Debunking the Myths is a thought-provoking and informative short read that challenges common misconceptions surrounding adoption and biological parenthood. In this book, you will discover the truth behind these myths and gain a deeper understanding of the adoption process and the benefits of both adoption and biological parenthood. The book begins with Myth 1: Adopted children are less loved, where the author delves into the misconception that adopted children are somehow less cherished than biological children. Through personal anecdotes and research-backed evidence, the author dismantles this myth and highlights the immense love and bond that adoptive parents have for their children. Moving on to Myth 2: Biological children are genetically superior, the book explores the belief that biological children are inherently better or more desirable than adopted children. By examining the complexities of genetics and the importance of nurture in child development, the author challenges this notion and emphasizes the unique qualities that adopted children bring to a family. The Adoption Process section provides a comprehensive overview of the steps involved in adopting a child, including the home study, legal procedures, and post-adoption support. It offers valuable insights and practical advice for prospective adoptive parents, debunking any misconceptions or fears they may have about the process. Similarly, the Biological Parenthood section explores the journey of becoming a biological parent, discussing topics such as conception, pregnancy, and childbirth. It highlights the joys and challenges of biological parenthood, providing a balanced perspective for readers considering this path. Adoption Myths and Realities delves deeper into common misconceptions surrounding adoption, addressing concerns such as the cost, age limitations, and the impact on existing family dynamics. The book presents the realities of adoption, offering reassurance and guidance to those considering this life-changing decision. Benefits of Adoption and Benefits of Biological Parenthood chapters explore the unique advantages and rewards of each path, allowing readers to weigh their options and make an informed choice based on their personal circumstances and desires. Considerations for Prospective Parents provides a comprehensive list of factors to consider when deciding between adoption and biological parenthood. It covers topics such as emotional readiness, financial implications, and the importance of support systems. Supporting Both Paths emphasizes the importance of supporting and respecting individuals and couples who choose either adoption or biological parenthood. It encourages a non-judgmental and inclusive approach, recognizing that both paths can lead to fulfilling and loving family experiences. Frequently Asked Questions addresses common queries and concerns that readers may have, providing clear and This title is a short read. A Short Read is a type of book that is designed to be read in one quick sitting. These no fluff books are perfect for people who want an overview about a subject in a short period of time. Table of Contents Adoption vs. Biological Parenthood: Debunking the Myths Myth 1: Adopted children are less loved Myth 2: Biological children are genetically superior Adoption Process Biological Parenthood Adoption Myths and Realities Benefits of Adoption Benefits of Biological Parenthood Considerations for Prospective Parents Supporting Both Paths Frequently Asked Questions Have Questions / Comments?

Download or read book We Belong Together written by Todd Parr and published by Little, Brown Books for Young Readers. This book was released on 2011-02-21 with total page 36 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In a kid-friendly, accessible way, this book explores the ways that people can choose to come together to make a family by showing one perspective on the adoption experience. We Belong Together is about sharing your home and sharing your heart to make a family that belongs together. With an understanding of how personal and unique each adoption is, and that not everyone comes to it in the same way, Todd Parr's colorful art explores the meaning of family.

Download or read book Magnetic Partners written by Stephen Betchen and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2010-05-18 with total page 242 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Do you and your partner argue about the same things over and over again? Are you often confused about why your partner is so angry with you? Are things getting worse and worse even though you’ve tried everything you can think of to make them better? In this breakthrough guide to repairing romantic relationships, therapist and marriage researcher Dr. Stephen Betchen presents a powerful new explanation of what leads to this kind of escalating conflict in couples and how you can repair your relationship and find a whole new level of happiness. Based on his extensive experience as a couples’ therapist, Dr. Betchen has discovered that the prevailing idea that opposites attract is wrong. Instead, one of the strongest forces that attracts people to one another is that they share a hidden, inner conflict in their lives—an unconscious struggle within themselves that each of them developed growing up—which he calls a "master conflict." The fact that a couple shares a master conflict acts as an almost magnetic force of attraction, but, over time, master conflicts often begin to push a pair apart—many of the very things you most appreciated about each other start to grate on you, producing increasing hostility. The good news is that by identifying the master conflict that you share, you and your partner can take the steps to break the cycle of fighting and come to a new place of understanding and happiness in your relationship. Often, just the realization that you have this hidden conflict acts as a powerful cure, allowing you to appreciate each other once again and to be empathetic about the things that have been irritating you both. From his years of work with couples, Betchen has identified the nineteen most common master conflicts—such as getting your needs met vs. caretaking; giving vs. withholding; commitment vs. freedom; power vs. passivity—and for each he provides vivid stories of couples who have struggled with them, as well as simple tests that help you to: • Identify the core master conflict that is causing your relationship problems • Understand the origins of your conflict and how it drew you to your partner • Diagnose how the conflict is now pushing you apart • Come to new terms with the conflict to save your relationship As Dr. Betchen writes, knowledge of a master conflict is power, and Magnetic Partners is an empowering guide that will help you not only to identify and control your master conflict, but also to bring your relationship to a new level based on deeper understanding, ultimately leading to greater fulfillment and long-term resilience. Partners

Download or read book The Unsung Heroes Social Workers in the Adoption Process written by Aurora Brooks and published by BabyDreamers.net. This book was released on 101-01-01 with total page 39 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The Unsung Heroes: Social Workers in the Adoption Process is a compelling and informative short read that sheds light on the crucial role of social workers in the adoption process. From evaluating prospective adoptive parents to ensuring child safety, this book covers every aspect of the adoption journey. In Providing Support and Guidance, readers will learn about the invaluable support that social workers provide to both adoptive parents and birth parents. With their expertise and compassion, social workers help navigate the emotional and logistical challenges that arise throughout the adoption process. Evaluating Prospective Adoptive Parents delves into the meticulous process of assessing potential adoptive parents. Social workers play a vital role in ensuring that children are placed in safe and loving homes, and this chapter explores the various factors that are considered during the evaluation process. Ensuring Child Safety is of utmost importance in the adoption process, and this book highlights the measures that social workers take to guarantee the well-being of children. From conducting home visits to performing background checks, social workers leave no stone unturned in their commitment to child safety. Matching Children with Families explores the intricate process of finding the perfect match between children and adoptive families. Social workers use their expertise to consider factors such as the child's needs, the family's preferences, and cultural compatibility to ensure a successful and harmonious adoption. Preparing Children for Adoption focuses on the crucial role that social workers play in preparing children for their new lives with their adoptive families. This chapter delves into the strategies and techniques used by social workers to address trauma and loss, helping children navigate the emotional challenges that come with adoption. Supporting Birth Parents sheds light on the often overlooked aspect of adoption – the birth parents. Social workers provide emotional support, counseling, and resources to birth parents throughout the adoption process, ensuring that their needs are met and their voices are heard. Navigating Legal Procedures and Completing Necessary Paperwork provide readers with a comprehensive understanding of the legal aspects of adoption. Social workers collaborate with legal professionals to ensure that all necessary paperwork is completed accurately and efficiently, making the adoption process as smooth as possible. Facilitating Post-Adoption Services emphasizes the ongoing support that social workers provide to adoptive families even after the adoption is finalized. From offering counseling and therapy to advocating for children's rights, social workers continue to play a crucial role in ensuring safe and loving environments for adopted children. The Unsung Heroes: Social Workers in the Adoption Process is a must-read for anyone interested in understanding the vital role that social workers play in This title is a short read. A Short Read is a type of book that is designed to be read in one quick sitting. These no fluff books are perfect for people who want an overview about a subject in a short period of time. Table of Contents The Unsung Heroes: Social Workers in the Adoption Process Providing Support and Guidance Evaluating Prospective Adoptive Parents Ensuring Child Safety Matching Children with Families Preparing Children for Adoption Addressing Trauma and Loss Supporting Birth Parents Navigating Legal Procedures Completing Necessary Paperwork Collaborating with Legal Professionals Facilitating Post-Adoption Services Supporting Family Bonding Offering Counseling and Therapy Advocating for Children's Rights Ensuring Safe and Loving Environments Promoting Permanency Continuing Education and Training Staying Informed about Adoption Laws Enhancing Cultural Competence Supporting the Adoption Community Organizing Support Groups Providing Information and Referrals Advocating for Policy Changes Frequently Asked Questions Have Questions / Comments?

Download or read book Helping Birth Families written by Elsbeth Catherine Neil and published by . This book was released on 2010 with total page 239 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Supporting the birth relatives of adopted children is a new area of social work practice and the research published in Helping Birth Families is the first to systematically explore it. A truly innovative study, it allows the voices of birth relatives in compulsory adoption proceedings to be heard and offers implications for practice. Drawn from data collected from eight agencies providing independent support, as well as interviews with 73 birth relatives, it explores and evaluates the support given - or denied - to birth parents of children adopted through the care system.

Download or read book The Children s Bureau Legacy written by Administration on Children, Youth and Families and published by Government Printing Office. This book was released on 2013-04-01 with total page 273 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Comprehensive history of the Children’s Bureau from 1912-2012 in eBook form that shares the legacy of this landmark agency that established the first Federal Government programs, research and social reform initiatives aimed to improve the safety, permanency and well-being of children, youth and families. In addition to bios of agency heads and review of legislation and publications, this important book provides a critical look at the evolution of the Nation and its treatment of children as it covers often inspiring and sometimes heart-wrenching topics such as: child labor; the Orphan Trains, adoption and foster care; infant and maternal mortality and childhood diseases; parenting, infant and child care education; the role of women's clubs and reformers; child welfare standards; Aid to Dependent Children; Depression relief; children of migrants and minorities (African Americans, Hispanics, Native Americans), including Indian Boarding Schools and Indian Adoption Program; disabled children care; children in wartime including support of military families and World War II refugee children; Juvenile delinquency; early childhood education Head Start; family planning; child abuse and neglect; natural disaster recovery; and much more. Child welfare and related professionals, legislators, educators, researchers and advocates, university school of social work faculty and staff, libraries, and others interested in social work related to children, youth and families, particularly topics such as preventing child abuse and neglect, foster care, and adoption will be interested in this comprehensive history of the Children's Bureau that has been funded by the U.S. Federal Government since 1912.