Download or read book Lessons of Lifelong Intimacy written by Michael Gurian and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2017-03-28 with total page 368 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: From New York Times bestselling author Michael Gurian comes a groundbreaking plan for happiness in love and marriage that shows you how to build healthy boundaries, work through past hurts, and create greater intimacy by maintaining emotional separateness. Become separate from your partner yet also become closer—sounds counterintuitive, doesn’t it? With twenty-five years of family and marital counseling practice, Michael Gurian shows that “intimate separateness” is the key to creating a healthy partnership in life. Recent university studies show that the most frequent reason relationships dissolve is not abuse, alcoholism, money, or even infidelity, but rather a lack of emotional fulfillment. Most books on love and marriage focus on teaching communication and conflict skills, but neglect to help couples with the “other half” of intimacy—separateness. In this practical yet personal guide to love, Gurian details the benefits of creating a lifelong balance of closeness and separateness. He outlines a twelve-stage model created for his own private practice, which provides long-term goals and focal points for dialogue that can help couples work through arguments. Gurian also delves into differences in white and gray matter between the male and female brain (which may explain the varying needs for intimacy and separateness), differences in verbal and emotive development, and the effects these all have on relationships. Rich with examples and case studies, this book presents strategies for communication and conflict that build more emotional balance, while showing how intimate separateness can be the key to lifelong happiness.

Download or read book Growing Into the Largeness of Marriage written by Copland Web and published by Independently Published. This book was released on 2023-08-02 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: lessons of lifelong intimacy embark on a transformative journey that explores the intricacies of building a strong and enduring marital bond. This powerful guidebook offers practical wisdom and actionable advice for couples seeking to cultivate a thriving relationship filled with love, respect, and joy. Discover the keys to effective communication in marriage, growth, romance, as a couple and the art of truly listening to your partner's needs, desires, and concerns. Uncover the significance of trust and respect as foundational pillars that will fortify the very core of your marriage. Learn how to create and maintain emotional intimacy, fostering a deep connection that withstands the test of time. Within these pages, you'll find expert guidance on navigating conflicts with grace and finding common ground through compromise. Explore the power of shared goals and values, weaving a tapestry of unity that strengthens your partnership and propels you toward a future filled with shared accomplishments. Explore the art of nurturing romance and passion, infusing your relationship with the spark that first ignited your love. Dive into the importance of quality time, discovering how meaningful moments of togetherness can invigorate your bond and deepen your understanding of one another. "Building a Lasting Love" empowers you with the tools and insights necessary to build a marriage that endures the trials of life. Whether you're embarking on the journey of matrimony or seeking to strengthen your existing union, this book offers profound guidance for cultivating a fulfilling and long-lasting love. Author [Matthew Blessing]: With years of experience in relationship counseling and a deep understanding of the complexities of marriage, [Matthew Blessing] brings a wealth of knowledge and expertise to guide you on this transformative journey. Their compassionate approach and insightful advice will inspire you to create a marriage that thrives on love, understanding, and shared dreams. If you're ready to embark on a journey of growth and love, "Building a Lasting Love: Nurturing a Fulfilling Marriage" is the definitive roadmap to help you forge a bond that stands the test of time. Take the first step towards building a stronger, more meaningful marriage today BY DOWNLOADING YOUR COPY

Download or read book Lessons of Lifelong Intimacy in Marriage written by Terabel Marini and published by . This book was released on 2021-06-21 with total page 409 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Terabel Marini shared her journey of love begining with how she met her husband on her first day of being in Europe on board the flight to Italy.They couldn't stop talking to each other. Seven hours later, Dario asked her to marry him. They got engaged in two months. She takes you along the journey of handling that phase of transition & how the proposal blossomed within six months from love at first sight to a blissfull marriage. Did you know that there are simple rules of life that can be followed when it comes to a successful marriage? Among these simple rules, there is a recipe & secrets that can make your marriage heaven on earth, regardless of your age. Are you tired of having bad relationships that make you sour despite your good attitude? Maybe you're not sure your partner wants to commit to you. & you're running out of ideas. YOU'VE PICKED THE PERFECT BOOK. Terabel has studied over 100 dates & analysis over 100 marriages all to bring to you the secret of a marriage that last, she has counseled, empowered & managed over 5,000 young women & men worldwide through her Terabel Marini Foundation & has pepped this book with vital information that people pay marriage counselor for. She has also made this book interesting by sharing her real life story to prove that marriage can be a mystery with simple solutions. What confirms the authenticity of this book is that Terabel is a married woman who has experienced different races & cultures & has been a mentor in many successful young marriage. WHAT YOU WILL LEARN How to have a successful relationship, from the moment you decide to say 'Yes', through the courting stage, to your wedding. The secret to making yourself complete before you enter into marriage. Tips on how to improve the chemistry between you & your spouse. How to redefine the sexual marriage flame & keep it burning untill the end of time. Keys to living happily ever after. YOU WILL DISCOVER The power of sexual intercourse to make your marriage an adventure. Your husband/wife power to keep your spouse commited to you forever. Powerful secrets on how to secure the queen of your dream and unlock your inner dreams. & THAT JUST THE BEGINING Lessons of lifelong intimacy in marriage was written to stimulate meaningfull & enjoyable moments with your partner. it will show you how simple & fulfiling each & every romantic marital experiience can be. REVIEW - This book is a recommented manual for everyone who desires to have a happy & fulfilling marriage. While we were reading together, we thought Tearbel has been married for 10 years yet she is writing principles about what we experienced & realized in the later phases of our marriage life. Nadia & Giuliano Marini - This book will forever occupy space in my 'Top 5' & it is a book that will open up the marital destinies to some matured single me & ladies. Terabel crosses the t's & dots the i's in order to build a perfect approach to the current dating & relatonship scenario. Sylvian & Phlip Konga - Have you read a book that surpassed your expectation? To sit & read this book is to get a healthy dose of success in marriage. Terabel ideas took me back to the good old days when i got married. I am so impressed with her way of blending complex principles into simple, easy-to-adpt ideas Dr. foncha F. - Terabel have become a source of motivation for ten years & reading her books makes everyday the best day. I can attest from my own experience that her book serves as the best guide out there in the market, converting experience from our marriage into a set of simple principles & it gives me another insight into my awesome gift of a wife. It is really a must read. Dario Marini - Terabel wrote a book that not only gives couples wise & inspired advice but leads them to everlasting love

Download or read book Secrets To Lasting Love written by Gary Smalley and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2001-02-08 with total page 260 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Gary Smalley is one of the world's foremost speakers and experts on love and relationships. His gift for helping couples create more meaningful communication and deeper understanding so that they can establish an unwavering bond is the inspiration behind Secrets to Lasting Love, the culmination of Smalley's decades of work. In it he outlines the three essential skills that move couples to the highest levels of intimacy: Respect your spouse for all of his or her individual qualities and differences from you. Communicate with each other in a way that moves conversations into deeper realms of understanding. Renew and recharge your spouse emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually -- constantly. It is not easy to recognize and then apply these skills. But Secrets to Lasting Love shows everyone how to do just that, so they can reach what Smalley calls the fifth, or ultimate, level of intimacy -- where there's a marital bond strong enough to withstand the inevitable highs and lows of life. With Gary Smalley, you will have the tools to create a heightened sense of commitment that will allow you to reach your spouse's heart and spirit.

Download or read book The Intimacy Solution written by Dr. Erika Schwartz MD and published by Post Hill Press. This book was released on 2018-06-05 with total page 224 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: What exactly is sexuality and how does it impact our lives? In her enthralling book The Intimacy Solution, Dr. Erika Schwartz presents an in-depth look at how our individual sexual identities are shaped, and how the “norm” differs vastly from what social stereotypes and the media would have us believe. In fact, Dr. Erika confirms without a doubt—there is no norm. The Intimacy Solution walks us through the “seasons” of our continuous sexual development, helping readers view sexuality through the lenses of biology, learned behaviors, personal truth, and culture. Moving beyond Masters and Johnson’s unilateral approach to sexuality, Dr. Erika takes a broad leap forward to explain and shine a light on the impact of the myriad factors such as our delicate hormone balance, life experiences and trauma, and societal expectations as they come together to affect our personal belief systems in what sex and intimacy are at various points in our lives. In The Intimacy Solution, Dr. Erika uncovers the mystery behind the driving forces of sexuality and their impact at every stage in our lives. · how pairing sexuality with intimacy enhances emotional health and overall happiness · the direct and indelible interaction between hormones, sex and intimacy · how to overcome the loneliness, isolation, and shame associated with sexual issues, emphasizing that such problems are never unusual · the many myths about sexuality and how they affect our beliefs and behaviors…and much more. Sexuality is one of the most complicated and least understood aspects of our lives. Drawing on the personal experience of thousands of patients as well as medical expertise, research, and insightful observation, Dr. Erika helps us break down the barriers keeping us from our personal growth, truth, and identity, as well as the intimacy and passionate abandon associated with the profoundly defining force of human sexuality and the connection to intimacy and love.

Download or read book A Lifelong Love written by Gary Thomas and published by David C Cook. This book was released on 2021-04-01 with total page 184 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A good marriage isn’t something found; it’s something made. In this revised and updated edition of the bestselling book A Lifelong Love, author Gary Thomas shares that when couples pursue spiritual purpose and worship it builds lasting intimacy and friendship between them. In A Lifelong Love, Thomas takes couples on three essential journeys leading to a strong marriage: The journey toward each other The journey toward God The journey toward love Whether readers are feeling discouraged about their marriage or simply want to infuse their relationship with greater spiritual and relational passion, A Lifelong Love offers the guidance they need to embrace the eternal intentions that God has for them.

Download or read book 5 Essentials for Lifelong Intimacy written by James C. Dobson and published by Tyndale House Publishers, Inc.. This book was released on 2007-04 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: What can we do to keep our romance alive? With so many marriages ending in divorce, how can ours be different? How can we have a fulfilling relationship that goes the distance? Dr. James Dobson, America's most trusted authority on marriage and family, equips you and your spouse to build a firm foundation for a love that endures the test of time. Biblically sound teaching in five key areas, from persistent prayer to passionate romance, will help you build a strong and steadfast union—today, tomorrow, and always!

Download or read book Eight Dates written by John Gottman and published by Workman Publishing. This book was released on 2019-02-05 with total page 241 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Whether you’re newly together and eager to make it work or a longtime couple looking to strengthen and deepen your bond, Eight Dates offers a program of how, why, and when to have eight basic conversations with your partner that can result in a lifetime of love. “Happily ever after” is not by chance, it’s by choice– the choice each person in a relationship makes to remain open, remain curious, and, most of all, to keep talking to one another. From award-winning marriage researcher and bestselling author Dr. John Gottman and fellow researcher Julie Gottman, Eight Dates offers an ingenious and simple-to-implement approach to effective relationship communication. Here are the subjects that every serious couple should discuss: Trust. Family. Sex and intimacy. Dealing with conflict. Work and money. Dreams, and more. And here is how to talk about them—how to broach subjects that are difficult or embarrassing, how to be brave enough to say what you really feel. There are also suggestions for where and when to go on each date—book your favorite romantic restaurant for the Sex & Intimacy conversation (and maybe go to a yoga or dance class beforehand). There are questionnaires, innovative exercises, real-life case studies, and skills to master, including the Four Skills of Intimate Conversation and the Art of Listening. Because making love last is not about having a certain feeling—it’s about both of you being active and involved.

Download or read book 30 Lessons for Loving written by Karl Pillemer, Ph.D. and published by Penguin. This book was released on 2015-01-08 with total page 279 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: From the author of the beloved 30 Lessons for Living Karl Pillemer’s 30 Lessons for Living first became a hit and then became a classic. Readers loved the sage advice and great stories from extraordinary older Americans who shared what they wish they had known when they were starting out. Now, Pillemer returns with lessons on one of the mosttalked- about parts of that book—love, relationships, and marriage. Based on the most detailed survey of longmarried people ever conducted, 30 Lessons for Loving shows the way to lifelong, fulfilling relationships. The author, an internationally renowned gerontologist at Cornell University, offers sage advice from the oldest and wisest Americans on everything from finding a partner, to deciding to commit, to growing old together. Along the way, the book answers questions like these: How do you know if the person you love is the right one? What are the secrets for improving communication and reducing conflict? What gets you through the major stresses of marriage, such as child-rearing, work, money issues, and inlaws? From interviews with 700 elders, 30 Lessons for Loving offers unique wisdom that will enrich anyone’s relationship life, from people searching for the right partner to those working to keep the spark alive after decades together. Filled with great stories, wise observations, and useful advice, 30 Lessons for Loving is destined to become another classic.

Download or read book The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work written by John Gottman, PhD and published by Harmony. This book was released on 2015-05-05 with total page 321 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • Over a million copies sold! “An eminently practical guide to an emotionally intelligent—and long-lasting—marriage.”—Daniel Goleman, author of Emotional Intelligence The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work has revolutionized the way we understand, repair, and strengthen marriages. John Gottman’s unprecedented study of couples over a period of years has allowed him to observe the habits that can make—and break—a marriage. Here is the culmination of that work: the seven principles that guide couples on a path toward a harmonious and long-lasting relationship. Straightforward yet profound, these principles teach partners new approaches for resolving conflicts, creating new common ground, and achieving greater levels of intimacy. Gottman offers strategies and resources to help couples collaborate more effectively to resolve any problem, whether dealing with issues related to sex, money, religion, work, family, or anything else. Packed with new exercises and the latest research out of the esteemed Gottman Institute, this revised edition of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work is the definitive guide for anyone who wants their relationship to attain its highest potential.

Download or read book Relentless Love written by Rachel Clements and published by . This book was released on 2019-05-20 with total page 217 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: What's the difference between an ordinary relationship and a soul-fulfilling partnership? A relentless commitment to putting in WORK. Relentless Love is a self-paced workbook for committed couples in pursuit of a more playful, pleasurable, and meaningful connection in their romantic partnership. Every chapter includes a relationship-building activity designed to help partners dig deep, get creative, and have fun putting in the "work" required for lifelong intimacy. Over the course of 24 interactive activities, you and your partner will: - Ask questions to pinpoint discrepancies in desire - Initiate productive conversation regarding sexual needs and expectations- Use vulnerability as a tool to explore (and expand) intimate boundaries - Celebrate individuality and encourage personal growth - Accept, forgive, and gain valuable insight from past mistakes - Create partner-specific "training plans" to practice giving the right kind of love - Solidify commitment (and excitement) for your future together...and so much more. Falling in love is easy. Staying in love requires relentless dedication to the lifelong pursuit of intimate connection....so let's get to WORK.

Download or read book Enduring Affection written by People With Books and published by . This book was released on 2024-05-28 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Title: Enduring Affection: A Pathway to Lifelong Intimacy Description: In "Enduring Affection: A Pathway to Lifelong Intimacy," embark on a transformative journey towards establishing and nurturing lasting intimacy in your relationships. Drawing from timeless wisdom and modern insights, this ebook offers a comprehensive guide to cultivating deep, enduring connections that withstand the tests of time. From the intricacies of communication to the importance of trust and vulnerability, each chapter delves into essential aspects of intimacy, providing practical strategies and actionable steps to foster a bond that grows stronger with each passing day. Explore the significance of emotional intimacy, physical closeness, and spiritual connection, and learn how to integrate these elements into your relationships for a truly fulfilling partnership. Through relatable anecdotes, expert advice, and thought-provoking exercises, "Enduring Affection" empowers you to navigate the complexities of love and intimacy with grace and confidence. Whether you're in a long-term relationship, embarking on a new romance, or seeking to deepen your connections with loved ones, this ebook offers valuable insights and guidance to help you build a foundation of enduring affection. Discover the keys to overcoming common obstacles, such as conflict and distance, and uncover the secrets to maintaining passion and excitement throughout the journey of love. Explore strategies for prioritizing self-care and fostering mutual growth, ensuring that your relationship continues to flourish and evolve over time. As you immerse yourself in the pages of "Enduring Affection," you'll gain a deeper understanding of what it means to truly connect with another soul and experience the profound joy that comes from building a relationship grounded in love, trust, and intimacy. Whether you're seeking to reignite the spark in your current relationship or embark on a new romantic adventure, this ebook serves as your roadmap to creating a bond that stands the test of time. Embark on a journey of self-discovery, growth, and profound connection with "Enduring Affection: A Pathway to Lifelong Intimacy."

Download or read book The Enlightened Marriage written by Jed Diamond and published by Red Wheel/Weiser. This book was released on 2016-08-22 with total page 224 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Love and marriage are two of the greatest gifts life has to offer, yet too many marriages fail because couples don’t fully understand the five stages of relationships. Because most of us have had hurtful experiences in past relationships, often going back to childhood, we develop an inaccurate love map that causes us to get off track when the stresses of life increase. For more than 40 years, Jed Diamond has been helping couples repair even the most damaged relationships and reweave the broken strands of marriage. In The Enlightened Marriage, Dr. Diamond will help you: Get through Stage Three—Disillusionment without losing your love. Understand that when your partner says, “I love you, but I’m not in love with you anymore,” it is not the end, but the beginning of Stage Four—Real Lasting Love. Learn why healing childhood wounds is the greatest gift of love you can give and receive from your partner. Recognize and address the mid-life stresses of “manopause,” irritable male syndrome, and male-type depression. Follow your calling in Stage Five to make a real difference in the world.

Download or read book Role Mate to Soul Mate written by Warren Farrell, PhD and published by BenBella Books. This book was released on 2024-07-30 with total page 241 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: New York Times bestselling author Dr. Warren Farrell reveals solutions to the seven most important barriers to sustaining love—practices that have helped thousands of real couples rediscover their "soul mate" spark. When Dr. Farrell began teaching couples’ communication 30 years ago, he taught the wisdom of not being defensive in response to criticism. However, when a couple returned home and a criticism inevitably appeared, that wisdom disappeared. Couples needed to not just be taught this, but to practice both in the workshop and at home. With the help of decades of post-workshop feedback from real couples, Farrell perfected six mindsets that the couples found most effective to embrace criticism as an opportunity to feel more deeply loved—even while they are being criticized. Role Mate to Soul Mate guides couples on how to do this for two hours per week as a “Caring and Sharing Practice.” For the other 166 hours, couples create a “Conflict-Free Zone," which requires preventing criticisms from becoming conflicts. To do this, you’ll learn how to: Appreciate your loved one with five levels of specificity, both creatively and consistently Transform the “Four Depleters of Love” (Criticisms, Complaining, Complacency, and Controlling) into ways to deepen love Master the eleven “Soulmate Wisdoms” Play together, because “couples that play together stay together” Create win-win solutions to your stickiest problems Apply your new skills to family, friends, colleagues—and even political opponents Since falling in love is natural but sustaining love is unnatural, making these skills come naturally requires an evolutionary shift that is both an art and a discipline. The Role Mate to Soul Mate reward? A deeper, dynamic, and lifelong love.

Download or read book Live in the Present and Learn Valuable Life Lessons to Improve Any Relationship written by Josh R. Himmelman and published by BalboaPress. This book was released on 2012-10-08 with total page 266 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The development of this couples relationship, with all of its problems, is reflected quite candidly in their experiences of living in an abusive relationship. This book speaks of the co-existence of a man and a woman who are trying to love each other and be committed for life but fail miserably. The book is divided into sections, each recounting a different stage of their eleven-year relationship. Each section is followed by life lessons, so the reader can learn from what this couple experienced. Each lesson looks at the root cause of an issue. A few examples are: being victimized, broken trust, drug abuse, true friendship, etc. These issues can exist in all intimate relationships today, so that all readers can benefit in learning from the relationship experiences.

Download or read book Yes You Can Dr Barb s Recipe for Lifelong Intimacy written by Barb DePree and published by Lulu.com. This book was released on 2014-07-07 with total page 181 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: An essential guide to sexual health at midlife and beyond for women and the men who love them, Yes You Can offers sound medical advice that will empower women to remain as sexually active as they wish for as long as they choose.

Download or read book Sex Love and the Dangers of Intimacy written by Helena Lovendale and published by Lone Arrow Press. This book was released on 2002 with total page 264 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Case studies offer insight into how to make relationships work. Each chapter contains such exercises as breathing exercises, making a timeline of the relationship, and thoughts to ponder.