Download or read book Lessons in Submissive Speech written by Luna Carruthers and published by . This book was released on 2019-09-06 with total page 97 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: As a submissive, you may not know that there are a variety of approaches to the way you handle speaking to others. You need help from someone who's done it all before and can show you how to speak demurely and with a humble attitude. In this book, I will give you the tools you need to learn appropriate responses, how to address people and submissive speaking skills for a number of common situations. Learn and Develop Your Submissive Verbal Skills! Do you get in trouble constantly over how assertive and aggressive your speech is? Has your Dominant asked you to demand less and request more in how you ask for things? You can learn more humble, submissive speech with a few simple lessons!Lessons in Submissive Speech takes your interactions with Dominants, and others to the next level and it's perfect for you if you are: frustrated that your current use of language makes you sound bossy focused on understanding how you can improve and enhance your current power exchange relationship determined to learn more about speech protocol in an easy and unassuming way By the time you're finished, this book will have helped you: Be less assertive and aggressive in your everyday speech. Learn what slang and impoliteness can do to your interactions with others. Understand how to apologize... it's more than "I'm sorry!" Build a personal or relationship protocol around addressing other people, interacting with service persons and more. Explore how communication online is a whole different world.

Download or read book Where I Am Led A Service Exploration Workbook written by Christina Parker and published by Lulu.com. This book was released on 2009-08-05 with total page 190 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This book is for the use of slaves who wish to perfect their life by daily, weekly and monthly written exercises. The assignments are thoughtful and provoking and lead the novice into a higher understanding of the slave culture. This is a revised and expanded second edition of Parker's "The Path of Service."

Download or read book The Big Workbook for Submissives written by Rebecca E. Blanton and published by Rebecca Blanton . This book was released on 2017-07-10 with total page 103 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The Big Workbook for Submissives provides a large number of essays, journaling exercises, research assignments, and play assignments to help explore your submissive side. This book is great both for the person new to submission and for the person who has been practicing for some time and wants to deepen their submission. It is written for all genders and sexual orientations and accommodates both monogamous couple and poly relationships. The workbook is based on the class "Deepening Your Submission" taught by the author around the United States. This book takes you on a journey exploring your idealized version of submission to your practice and helps identify what you desire and need in your submission. This workbook may be used alone or with a partner.

Download or read book Submissive Reflection written by Luna Carruthers and published by . This book was released on 2019-06-04 with total page 133 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: DISCOVER WHAT KIND OF SUBMISSIVE YOU ARE AND HOW TO NURTURE YOUR SUBMISSIVE MINDSET Submissive Reflection: A Journey of Rediscovery is a workbook designed to build a clear picture of what your personal submission looks like and how to the best submissive you can possibly be. Have you ever wondered if you're living up to your full potential as a submissive? Do you want to understand how your past shapes your future? Would you like to take the next steps to build or rebuild your life, find a Dominant or explore new things? Are you feeling overwhelmed and need help figuring out how to take care of your submissive self? Discovering your submissive nature isn't always a sudden process. For many people, it takes some soul-searching to see that you may enjoy when someone asks you to do something and you happily do it without a second thought. For others, it takes some social reprogramming to allow your full nature to come out. Submissive Reflection: A Workbook is a perfect guide to helping you do that soul-searching and to really pinpoint where you are in your submissive journey right now. You'll gain understanding about how your personality, past relationships and inner code of ethics work together to define your submissive identity. Whether you have a partner or not, this workbook has the tools and knowledge to help you understand your place in submission. You will adopt simple methods to take care of yourself and to nurture your submission through grooming and self-care tasks such as journaling, affirmations, and goal-setting. Embrace who you are and what your past relationships can teach you about the type of Dominant you are seeking. Your submissive mindset is everything. And if you've lost your way, I want to help you find your way back. Let's discover it together! What's Inside? * Five chapters of articles and activities to keep you moving into deeper thought processes. * 30 activities and worksheets to help you learn and grow in submission. * Growth through self-care like grooming, journaling, and introspection. * Write a Code of Ethics, use affirmations and mind-maps to help you build your knowledge about yourself and your belief systems. Come away knowing more about who you are now, and the submissive you desire to be!

Download or read book Submissive Training written by Joshua Matthew and published by Createspace Independent Publishing Platform. This book was released on 2017-11-17 with total page 100 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: SUBMISSIVE TRAINING Thinking of becoming a slave to Christian Grey? Or perhaps you simply wish to learn more about the world of BDSM, and discover what it takes to really become a full-fledged submissive? Either way, this would be the book that will teach you how to become a better, naughtier submissive through the following topics: Understanding the psychology behind D/s relationships, how you can get into one and tips to ensure your safety and well-being for the long-haul. A brief introduction into the realm of BDSM, i.e., Bondage, Discipline and Sado-masochism Basic knowledge on submissive training in the perspective of a submissive Tips to please your Dominant partner through conditioning, rules and protocols and even pain tolerance techniques 30 sexual scenarios for you and your dominant partner to explore and apply for the best Dominant/submissive - D/s experience If you really want to know what submissives do/say/feel behind closed doors then this is the book for you.

Download or read book The 48 Laws of Power written by Robert Greene and published by Penguin. This book was released on 2023-10-31 with total page 481 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Amoral, cunning, ruthless, and instructive, this multi-million-copy New York Times bestseller is the definitive manual for anyone interested in gaining, observing, or defending against ultimate control – from the author of The Laws of Human Nature. In the book that People magazine proclaimed “beguiling” and “fascinating,” Robert Greene and Joost Elffers have distilled three thousand years of the history of power into 48 essential laws by drawing from the philosophies of Machiavelli, Sun Tzu, and Carl Von Clausewitz and also from the lives of figures ranging from Henry Kissinger to P.T. Barnum. Some laws teach the need for prudence (“Law 1: Never Outshine the Master”), others teach the value of confidence (“Law 28: Enter Action with Boldness”), and many recommend absolute self-preservation (“Law 15: Crush Your Enemy Totally”). Every law, though, has one thing in common: an interest in total domination. In a bold and arresting two-color package, The 48 Laws of Power is ideal whether your aim is conquest, self-defense, or simply to understand the rules of the game.

Download or read book Lessons in the Art of Extemporaneous Speaking in Book Form written by Edmund Shaftesbury and published by . This book was released on 1889 with total page 196 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt:

Download or read book Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome written by Joy DeGruy and published by HarperCollins. This book was released on 2017-05-23 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: From acclaimed author and researcher Dr. Joy DeGruy comes this fascinating book that explores the psychological and emotional impact on African Americans after enduring the horrific Middle Passage, over 300 years of slavery, followed by continued discrimination. From the beginning of American chattel slavery in the 1500’s, until the ratification of the Thirteenth Amendment in 1865, Africans were hunted like animals, captured, sold, tortured, and raped. They experienced the worst kind of physical, emotional, psychological, and spiritual abuse. Given such history, Dr. Joy DeGruy asked the question, “Isn’t it likely those enslaved were severely traumatized? Furthermore, did the trauma and the effects of such horrific abuse end with the abolition of slavery?” Emancipation was followed by another hundred years of institutionalized subjugation through the enactment of Black Codes and Jim Crow laws, peonage and convict leasing, and domestic terrorism and lynching. Today the violations continue, and when combined with the crimes of the past, they result in further unmeasured injury. What do repeated traumas visited upon generation after generation of a people produce? What are the impacts of the ordeals associated with chattel slavery, and with the institutions that followed, on African Americans today? Dr. DeGruy answers these questions and more as she encourages African Americans to view their attitudes, assumptions, and emotions through the lens of history. By doing so, she argues they will gain a greater understanding of the impact centuries of slavery and oppression has had on African Americans. Post Traumatic Slave Syndrome is an important read for all Americans, as the institution of slavery has had an impact on every race and culture. “A masterwork. [DeGruy’s] deep understanding, critical analysis, and determination to illuminate core truths are essential to addressing the long-lived devastation of slavery. Her book is the balm we need to heal ourselves and our relationships. It is a gift of wholeness.”—Susan Taylor, former Editorial Director of Essence magazine

Download or read book Pain Play for Everyone written by Luna Carruthers and published by Independently Published. This book was released on 2020-06-25 with total page 112 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Learn Better Ways to Process Pain in Play for More Fulfilling and Rewarding BDSM Scenes Pain Play for Everyone is a complete guide to understanding the body's methods for pain processing. Knowing how your body responds to pain will help you get you to accept the sensations, break down the walls keeping you from moving forward, and help you explore more of what pain play can do for your SM experiences. Has every play session ended before you want it to, or you feel like you wimp out because you can't process any more pain? Have you ever wanted to know what is the best way to process pain during play that will work for you? That's what Pain Play For Everyone is all about. It's the complete step-by-step guide for learning about the hormone cocktail that is responsible for your reactions to painful sensations and the positive and negative ways we process pain. The Key to Better Pain Processing is Understanding Your Body's Responses This book is written for bottoms who engage in all varieties of play that involve experiencing pain, no matter your experience level. I'll show you how to learn a new pain processing method that will work for you and you will have more rewarding BDSM sessions than ever before. What's Inside? * The hormone cocktail that is responsible for how we process pain. * Learn how to negotiate scenes for better pain processing that will provide more fulfilling and rewarding scenes. * Explore the positive and negative ways we process pain and learn how you currently process pain. * Identify what can interfere with your pain processing and keep you from getting what you want out of play. * Learn the combination of techniques that have proven to be the best way to process pain during play. * A step-by-step guide to a new pain processing technique that will work for you to get you over the false edge you've been stuck at for so long. No matter your reasoning for why you submit to pain play, being able to expand your ability to process pain and move through pain in a healthy and productive way is a great benefit. Pick it up today!

Download or read book 365 Days of Submission written by Luna Carruthers and published by . This book was released on 2021-05-27 with total page 398 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: GET TO KNOW WHO YOU ARE AND WHAT YOU WANT AS A SUBMISSIVE WITH THESE SELF-DISCOVERY PROMPTS FOR YOU TO EXPLORE. From Submissive Guide, the leading resource for submissive education, this journal will help you slow down, reflect, and enjoy your submissive life from a new perspective. You will learn about yourself, reflect on what's important to you, and gain awareness on a deeper level. Through writing prompts designed for submissives, you'll explore your identity and emotions; examine your relationships; define your values, passions, and dreams; and embrace your purpose.365 Days of Submission: A Journal of Submissive Self-Discovery is a daily, guided journal designed to aid you in self-exploration and reflection. This book features 365 thought-provoking journaling prompts and inspirational quotes to explore the most important areas of your life, from identity, past experiences, and relationships to challenges, ambitions, and the future. You'll find inspiring quotes, open-ended questions, and prompts with room for writing within. This guided journal will help you: Create the ultimate positive habit to add to your daily routine. Allow for daily reflection, which will help you stay grounded, present, and in touch with your submissive mindset. Guide you in getting to know and understand yourself as a submissive on a deeper level. This journal has been designed to be a safe space for you, where you can grow into the best version of yourself. When done effectively, it will change everything in your life for the better. The countless positive benefits you will receive from this journal will transform your life. This journal is designed to help your submissive mindset thrive and realize your great potential. By the end of the 365 days, you will connect with your submission on a deep and profound level.

Download or read book Submissive Training written by Elizabeth Cramer and published by Living Plus Healthy Publishing. This book was released on 2015-03-05 with total page 61 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Nothing will prepare you for a life of submission in the same way as your formal training. Submissive training isn’t just a “good idea” when it comes to creating a BDSM relationship. It is essential. "Submissive Training: 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be A Submissive" is designed to help you know what to expect when you go through training with a new Dom. Every couple is unique and every Dom may have different ways of teaching you the systems of service he prefers. However, these are the basics all trained subs and slaves learn and employ in daily life. Rushing into a relationship or service contract with a Dom without training puts the future of your time together at risk. All of the arguments, resistance, misunderstandings and hurt feelings that go with a new submissive’s experiences can be eradicated by a period designated for learning, listening, trial and error. Even if you have been with a previous Dom you will need to go through an abbreviated training time to ensure your patterns and understandings match one another. Training is a way to “get in the same rhythm” and find the perfect groove. If you are a Dom, this guide is the perfect gift to give to your new sub. If you are a sub, this guide will teach you how to go through your submissive training. As you go through these things on the journey to become the woman you were made to be, you will be tested but you will also be proud, joyful and, perhaps for the first time in your life, you will be at peace.

Download or read book Nine and a Half Weeks written by Elizabeth McNeill and published by Harper Collins. This book was released on 2014-07-01 with total page 103 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The classic erotic memoir of an intense and haunting relationship that spawned the film. This is a love story so unusual, so passionate, and so extreme in its psychology and sexuality that it takes the reader’s breath away. Unlike The Story of O, Nine and a Half Weeks is not a novel or fantasy; it is a true account of an episode in the life of a real woman. Elizabeth McNeill was an executive for a large corporation when she began an affair with a man she met casually. From the beginning, their sexual excitement escalates through domination and humiliation. As the affair progresses, woman and man play out ever more dangerous and more elaborate sado-masochistic variations. By the end, she has relinquished all control over her body and mind. With a cool detachment that makes the experiences and sensations she describes all the more frightening in their intensity, Elizabeth McNeill beautifully unfolds her story and invites you to experience the mesmerizing, electrifying, and unforgettablly private world of Nine and a Half Weeks.

Download or read book Dogs written by Mark Alizart and published by John Wiley & Sons. This book was released on 2019-11-01 with total page 70 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Man’s best friend, domesticated since prehistoric times, a travelling companion for explorers and artists, thinkers and walkers, equally happy curled up by the fire and bounding through the great outdoors—dogs matter to us because we love them. But is that all there is to the canine’s good-natured voracity and affectionate dependency? Mark Alizart dispenses with the well-worn clichés concerning dogs and their masters, seeing them not as submissive pets but rather as unexpected life coaches, ready to teach us the elusive recipes for contentment and joy. Dogs have faced their fate in life with a certain detachment that is not easy to understand. Unlike other animals in a similar situation, they have not become hardened, nor have they let themselves die a little inside. On the contrary, they seem to have softened. This book is devoted to understanding this miracle, the miracle of the joy of dogs – to understanding it and, if at all possible, to learning how it’s done. Weaving elegantly and eruditely between historical myth and pop-culture anecdote, between the peculiar views of philosophers and the even more bizarre findings of science, Alizart offers us a surprising new portrait of the dog as thinker—a thinker who may perhaps know the true secret of our humanity.

Download or read book BDSM Basics for Submissives Dealing with the Mental and Emotional Side of Submission written by Michelle Fegatofi and published by Lulu.com. This book was released on 2014-09-24 with total page 54 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Over the years, I have found a lot of helpless and sometimes clueless submissives that were mentally and emotionally abused by dominants. They each felt like they deserved anything they got and never even questioned the dominants about their behavior. One of the hardest things to learn as a new submissive in the world of BDSM is how to navigate and deal with the whirlwind of mental and emotional stress that can come from being in a D/s or M/s relationship. Many people believe they are not allowed to feel any bad feelings, think bad or wrong thoughts, and always have to be a happy submissive. As humans, we all have to deal with negative feelings and thoughts from time to time, even though we may be submissives. This guide is a tool that will help you understand, analyze, and deal with different types of emotions and mental stresses associated with being a submissive.

Download or read book The Submissive Female s Workbook written by Brian Krall, Sir and published by . This book was released on 2017-09-02 with total page 124 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Are you a female with a submissive sexual side who is new to BDSM and doesn't know exactly where to go & what to do with this aspect of who you are? Would you like a more formalized way of exploring this submissive sexual side of yourself and the BDSM lifestyle and relationship dynamics and getting properly oriented in it all? Well now finally there is a unique Submissive Female's Workbook that will help you to engineer and build your Submissive Female Sexual Identity, Dom/sub Relationship Structure, Submissive Training and BDSM Lifestyle all together in one book! This is perfect for getting yourself properly oriented and self actualized as the submissive woman that you are, but will also serve as the definitive blueprint for you to give to your Dominant, or prospective Dominant, to ensure that they will have the best understanding of who you are and what you want and how to treat and train you, and structure your D/s relationship and life together. Combining a highly specialized and technical blend of Logotherapy (Identity work), Personality Typeology, Social Science, Sexual Education and Kink/BDSM, this book is the ultimate submissive resource for you to have that will make sure that you are able to become the person that you want to be and get exactly what you want out of the BDSM Lifestyle (and not get what you don't want.) Finally all the different confusing aspects of your BDSM Identity, Roles, Dynamics and Lifestyle can be sorted out and the navigation and negotiation of everything with your Dom(s) will be completely simplified and made totally easy! No more disorientation or miscommunication! With this simple, easy to use, fun, sexy workbook you will be able to self actualize as your ideal submissive self and the submissive Goddess that you want to be, and develop the sex life of your wildest dreams and fantasies! A must have for any woman who has recently discovered the BDSM Lifestyle on her sexual journey and really wants to find herself as a submissive and reveal her submissive side to the fullest extent, and fulfill all of her deepest desires with BDSM. Become the sexual being and get the sexual reality you want right now with this very special work book! Discovering yourself has never been so orgasmic! Don't miss out on all the pleasures the submissive role and lifestyle has in store for you!

Download or read book Bdsm Mastery Relationships written by Robert J Rubel Ph D and published by Bdsm. This book was released on 2014-12-30 with total page 188 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This is the second book in the BDSM Mastery series. While the first book oriented readers to play, parties, and scene protocols, this book addresses Dominant/submissive relationships. What, you might ask, are "BDSM Relationships?" These are "adventuresome" relationships. Relationships that are not exactly like vanilla relationships. BDSM relationships differ in two specific ways from your typical vanilla relationship: first, they usually involve a power-imbalanced structure (one person is clearly in charge and the other person is clearly following); second, the kind of sex that adventuresome folks practice is, well, not vanilla. I wrote this book to help you better to understand the power dynamics that get involved with what are called power-imbalanced relationships (usually referred to as Dominant/submissive or D/s relationships).

Download or read book The Feminine Mystique written by Betty Friedan and published by W. W. Norton & Company. This book was released on 2001-09-17 with total page 587 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The book that changed the consciousness of a country—and the world. Landmark, groundbreaking, classic—these adjectives barely describe the earthshaking and long-lasting effects of Betty Friedan's The Feminine Mystique. This is the book that defined "the problem that has no name," that launched the Second Wave of the feminist movement, and has been awakening women and men with its insights into social relations, which still remain fresh, ever since. A national bestseller, with over 1 million copies sold.