Download or read book How to Start a Kinky Relationship written by James Amoureux and published by Tantralogic Group Publishing. This book was released on 2011-03-01 with total page 236 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: "How To Start A Kinky Relationship" is for the kink-curious novice as well as the seasoned bondage master and long time S&M submissive. People who never had the pleasure of a kinky relationship will find all the tools they need to get the ball rolling. People who have been kinky in the past but "just fell into it" will have a systematic approach to starting and growing their next relationship. People who already self-identify as kinky or queer or pervert will find plenty of insights that will improve their overall communication and sexual relationships. This book delves into the mindset, activities, and communication styles that make kinky relationships great. It shows you how to get comfortable with kink, find partners, screen them for compatibility, communicate your desires, and grow your relationship. It does not detail rope bondage techniques, how to become a leather-studded sex machine, or how to use the Force to lure unsuspecting Jedi to the Kinky side. Rather it will help you understand your own personal preferences and how to find a compatible partner to play with. The focus of this book is on relationships, not landing kinky quickies with your online hook up. Still, casual encounters follow the same principles: know what you want, be congruent, define your relationship terms, get enthusiastic consent, and take responsibility for your actions. Then you can keep yourself busy having the most amazing, wild, mind-blowing sex the world has ever known.

Download or read book How to Be Kinky written by Morpheous and published by . This book was released on 2012-11-13 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: How to be Kinky is a primer on the multi-faceted world of kink and getting into BDSM play. It is for beginners and novices, couples and singles. Morpheous' comprehensive guide to kink addresses all aspects of kinky play, such as how to turn bedrooms into a den of iniquity, how to maintain physical and emotional safety during play and proper protocols and etiquette at fetish events. Fully updated, this enhanced second edition is reworked in full-colour, with gorgeous and sexy photos, as well as 15 easy to follow photo essays.

Download or read book Let s Talk About Kinks and Fetishes written by J.R. James and published by Love & Desire Press. This book was released on 2019-03-07 with total page 116 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: WARNING: This book can transform your sex life. Are you tired of vanilla sex? Looking to expand sexual horizons with your lover? Do you want to get freaky in the bedroom, but don’t know where to start? If you’ve got an inner wild child just aching to get out, then this is the book for you! Sometimes, even the most loving couples can fall into predictable, boring, or stale sexual patterns. When they find themselves in a sexual rut, the erotic excitement that once excited them can feel like a distant memory. Breaking free of routine is one of the many reasons a couple might explore the world of kink. Here is the opportunity to discover your kink! Use this book to: Discover what types of kinks will work best for you as a couple Expand and explore sexual possibilities Clarify sexual needs and intimate desires Define your boundaries Strengthen your relationship Create open and comfortable communication patterns about sex Through a variety of discussion questions that you and your partner take turns asking one another, this book will guide you through conversations about kinky possibilities. It gives you a great starting point for exploring various kinks and fetishes that might be of interest to you. After all, even the most seasoned kinksters had to start somewhere, now here’s your chance! Spice up your sex life and rekindle the excitement, scroll up and buy now!

Download or read book Women and Kink written by Jennifer Rehor and published by Routledge. This book was released on 2021-07-19 with total page 197 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Based on original research from nearly 1,600 women from the kink community, this book takes you on a journey into the motivations, meanings, and benefits of kink, in these women’s own words. Women and Kink presents a diverse range of personal and intimate stories about life, love, relationships, kink, sex, self-discovery, growth, resilience, community, and more. The book offers insight into the breadth of the kink community, with chapters discussing different aspects of kink and forms of engagement, both individually and within relationships. Filled throughout with personal vignettes and examples, the authors provide commentary, reflection questions, and thought-provoking considerations to readers who are looking to explore a new area of their life. By exploring personal stories of love, alternative sexualities, and reasons for participating in the "unconventional," the book supports and empowers each reader to build a relationship and life that best suits their needs. It is also an illuminating resource for sex therapists, counselors, and other mental health professionals interested in developing a kink-affirmative practice.

Download or read book When Someone You Love Is Kinky written by Dossie Easton and published by SCB Distributors. This book was released on 2011-08-02 with total page 200 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Many, many people have sexual interests or practices that are in some way unusual. These people may enjoy bondage or spanking, erotic role-playing, dressing in special clothes that turn them on, or a host of other activities that place them outside the sexual mainstream. Your mechanic might have an alternative sexuality, or your librarian, or your kids' teacher, or your boss.... If someone you love has a sexual kink, or if you suspect that she may, and you want to know more about what that means to her and how you can deal with what it means to you, this book is for you. "When Someone You Love Is Kinky will do more for family values than anything the right wing ever dreamed up, because it lets people communicate and love and respect each other on the basis of who they really are. A wonderful contribution twoards a more sex-positive culture." - Dr. Carol Queen, author, Real Live Nude Girl "Dossie Easton and Catherine A. Liszt, both wise and compassionate women, and both players in the world of kink, welcome the reader gently into that world and answer everything anyone might have wanted to ask but was really afraid to find out." - Isadora Alman, syndicated sex and relationship columnist

Download or read book A Little Bit Kinky written by Dr. Natasha Valdez and published by Harmony. This book was released on 2010-01-12 with total page 211 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Dr. Natasha is on a Mission to Help You Get Sex and Intimacy Back into Your Life for Good! Does “getting kinky” make you blush? Does it sound dirty and maybe a little illegal? Well, it’s not, says Dr. Natasha. Kinky is just another way to have more fun in bed – and what couple who has been together for a few years couldn’t benefit from that? Dr. Natasha comes to the rescue by helping you both get in touch with your kinky side – with instructions that are as simple as they are sizzling. Whether it’s writing messages on your underwear, finding new uses for ice cubes or learning a little racy role play, you’ll push the limits of your inhibitions to sample and savor new sexual delights. The common denominator is that breathing new life into familiar sex will make your connection more loving and intense both inside and outside of the bedroom.

Download or read book Coming Home to Passion written by Ruth Cohn and published by Praeger. This book was released on 2011-02-18 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This book offers a detailed road map for overcoming sexual and relationship impasses originating from painful childhood experiences. Large numbers of adults with histories of childhood trauma and neglect suffer persistent relationship and sexual difficulties. Unfortunately, most have failed to receive adequate help with emerging from these deep and complex problems. Coming Home to Passion: Restoring Loving Sexuality in Couples with Histories of Childhood Trauma and Neglect explores the enduring impacts—physiological, psychological, and behavioral—of childhood trauma and neglect. Author Ruth Cohn, drawing on 25 years of experience working with trauma survivors and their partners and families, lays out a practical and actionable course for recovery in clear, accessible language. This book provides direction and hope to those with trauma backgrounds while also serving as a unique resource for professional readers. Integrating in-depth information on attachment and relationship, trauma and neglect, and sexuality, Cohn details a practical, hands-on treatment approach for revitalizing love, health, and passion.

Download or read book Guide to Marriage Kink written by Silver and published by CreateSpace. This book was released on 2014-11-05 with total page 166 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Interested in adding some playful kink to your marriage? Have a fetish for being tied up or spanked? Enjoy being in control during sex? Then this book is for you! Guide to Marriage Kink is catered to out of the box couples who want to expand their sexual horizons and enjoy some Dominance and submission in their relationship, both safely and lovingly. Written by one of Marriage Heat's kinky authors, Silver, this book explains the D/s dynamic and how you can enjoy it in your marriage, educates on kinky sex toys to play with, and how to create kinky role-playing fantasies to do with your spouse. In addition at the end of the guide there are sample kink profile lists to fill out! As an added bonus Marriage Heat includes some of their hottest kinkiest stories to use as a reference for the exploring kinky couple.

Download or read book Sex Guide for Couples written by Donna Dare and published by Charlie Creative Lab. This book was released on 2020-11 with total page 168 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Do you want to keep things spicy and fun in your relationship? Good! Now let's do it! Keep reading. Many relationships fail because what they want is very different from what they actually follow. Sexy lingerie, dirty talk and dirty text messages are all great ways to revive any relationship. If you find that these areas don't offer enough satisfaction, try something new. When you have a relationship and you feel comfortable with someone, you must be willing to try new things. This does not necessarily mean that you have to try things that you don't feel comfortable with, but it does mean that you should try things at least once. Start the discussion with your partner and find out what your fantasies are. Your woman might tell you that she has always dreamed of having a sexy cop who handcuffs her and plunges deep into her or your man can express to you that he wants to be whipped by a cat woman. Whatever your fantasies, do everything you can to make your fantasies come true. Take a trip to the local sex shop. Take a look around together. The addition of elements in the bedroom makes the experience more erotic and will give both of them great pleasure. This guide will focus on the following: - Communication - When the spouse is not interested in sex: communicate your needs - The male and female psyche - Marriage without sex - All are different - How to fall in love with your partner - Tell me junk - How to spice things up in the bedroom - Prepare your temple of love; your body - How to achieve maximum pleasure - Sexual and couple bonding - Stages of sexual excitement in humans - Ways to make you last longer in bed - Premature ejaculation - How to rekindle the spark: 15 ways to fall in love - Sexual role games - Setting the mood - Overcoming sexual inhibitions - Crazy positions and places/situations in which to have sex (eg washing machine, on stairs, etc.) Spicy tips - Secret to last longer - Adventurous positions - Additional suggestions for better sex ... AND MORE !!! With Sex Guide for Couples, you can discover that there are a million different objects that you can incorporate into the bedroom and thousands of situations that can add pepper to your relationship. You just have to find what makes you feel better and works for you and your relationship. Be open to new things and explore different areas. You never know where you'll find pleasure! Do you want more intimacy for your relationship?

Download or read book Kinky Contract written by Belle and published by . This book was released on 2014-06-20 with total page pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Are you curious about kink, BDSM, power exchange, role play, bondage, S/M or all of the above? Have you ever wanted to dominate or serve your lover? Not sure where to start? Having a structured document to go over is a great way to get the conversation started.This practical guide is ideal for establishing a power exchange relationship. Use this document to define your wants, needs, limits, boundaries and expectations. There?s a reason why people who bring kink into the bedroom are often happier. It?s because they are usually more aware of and talkative about their sexual desires. Is it time to explore yours?Adds a new dynamic to your relationship. This deed covers all the essentials of a power exchange. Suitable for all levels of BDSM (from training to a total power exchange) including Master/slave, Mistress/slave or Dominant/submissive dynamics.Helps you bring up the topic. Some never get the chance to express their desires. This could be from fear of being judged (even by your own partner) or perhaps not knowing how to approach the topic. Filling out a Kinky Contract is a light-hearted way to introduce a saucy conversation.Entices you to explore. Going over this document together can be fun and exciting (a real eye opener). The Activity Questionnaire guides you to create, talk about and plan your kinky scenes.Keeps communication open. A main reason any relationship fizzles is lack of communication. A written agreement encourages you to negotiate and communicate with each other. Revise it regularly to stay on track and to keep things fresh.Helps you stick to the arrangement. Having your rules set out in writing makes your roles seem more official.Suitable for: Married couples, partners & lovers looking to explore a kinky lifestyle; and BDSM couples (D/s, M/s) wishing to define the relationship.It?s fun and easy to start.Please note: the Kinky Contract is for entertainment purposes only. It is NOT legally binding.

Download or read book Spice It Up written by Amber Cole and published by Pkcs Media, Incorporated. This book was released on 2019-12-11 with total page 224 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Want to eliminate vanilla sex and discover what really turns you and your partner on? New sex games, bigger thrills, and exploring fantasies? Harder Please is a book about taking your sex life to the next level, regardless of where you currently are. From spicy sex novices to seasoned veterans looking for their next thrill, there's something for everyone in this book. You WILL improve your sex life through sexual discovery and exploration. How to make it hot even if you've been married for years. Sex is the ultimate connector and is one of the most important parts of any relationship. It can literally make or break a marriage. What happens when the fire dies and sex becomes a chore? Let Harder Please do the work for you and instruct you how to spice up your sex life and make it sizzle. A certified sex coach will show you kinks, fantasies, taboos you never knew you had. You'll discover new kinks, fantasies, games, taboos that you've never have heard of. Consider this your textbook on spicy and kinky sex that can take your sex life to orgasmic heights! Learn how to experiment safely and the universal themes and guidelines of spice and kink. Everything you need to get started for nights of sweaty sessions. You'll be lying in a pile of post-orgasm sweat, unable to move from the ecstasy you've discovered. Push your boundaries and break inhibitions by learning... - The surprising cause of vanilla sex and what you can do about it. - How to approach your partner and bring up your fantasies and open the topic. - How to manipulate each of the 5 senses for intense pleasure - The hedonism of POWER - giving it up or taking it. Can't wait? - Bondage, domination, and submission. - How to role play expertly. - 9 spicy, realistic, hot sex games. - THE primer on dirty talk. - A special bonus chapter on erotica. Better sex improves intimacy and trust. It's simple. Your sex life will go through the roof, and you will become irresistible to your partner. You'll experiment more and find exactly what floats your boats and gives you the strongest orgasms of your life. Leave her whimpering, and leave him rock hard all day. Be the best they've ever had and blow their mind with your sense of adventure and lust. Let me be your guide on this sexual odyssey, won't you?

Download or read book Cuffed Tied and Satisfied written by JAIYA and published by Harmony. This book was released on 2014-06-17 with total page 273 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: BANISH BORING SEX AND UNLEASH ORGASMIC ECSTASY WITH POWER, RESTRAINT, AND SENSATION PLAY! Are you ready to expand your sexual boundaries? If you’ve ever fantasized about being taken by your man, dreamed of playing with handcuffs, ropes, and paddles, or been turned on by the thought of wickedly wielding power over your lover, you’ve found the right book! Award-winning Sexologist and author Jaiya will be your Mistress in this fun-to-read handbook that will transform your sex life. CUFFED, TIED, AND SATISFIED leads the kink novice and pro alike on a shame-free personal journey to sexual empowerment, including your full plan for safely playing on the edge, setting boundaries, and communicating with your partner about your deepest, darkest, untapped desires. Jaiya will teach you how to make your sexual fantasies a safe reality through: • SENSORY PLAY - Blindfolded and tied to the bed; you’re helpless as every inch of your skin is awakened with your lover’s hot breath and a delicious feather… • POWER ROLES - You’ve drawn up your own sexy contract detailing every moment of how you want your lover to take you to full surrender; he looks into your eyes and pulls you to your knees… • IMPACT AND TOYS - Just the sound of your wicked crop sends your lover into ecstasy; the anticipation has you both on the brink of extraordinary pleasure… • ROLE PLAYING - Standing naked in front of your lover, they admire your black thigh-high heels. You’ve empowered your inner Dominatrix, and you’re ready to take control… CUFFED, TIED, AND SATISFIED is all you need to bring kink out of the dungeon and into your bedroom.

Download or read book The New Topping Book written by Dossie Easton and published by SCB Distributors. This book was released on 2011-11-07 with total page 200 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Two decades ago, this book (and its companion volume, The New Bottoming Book) began teaching tens of thousands of people the joyous arts of BDSM topping and bottoming - not just "how-to," but "why-to"... the insider details of emotional support and ethical interaction during kinky play. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely updated revised New Topping Book gives even more insights and ideas, updated for a new millennium, about how to be a successful, popular player! "Easton and Hardy tackle the Top... and bring that elusive critter down neatly and with a certain flair. This is good stuff, important stuff... an excellent guide to topping, both for the rank novice and for the player who just wants words to put to all the thoughts and feelings that have resisted categorization." - Laura Antoniou, Sandmutopian Guardian

Download or read book Come Hither written by Gloria G. Brame and published by Touchstone. This book was released on 2000-02-18 with total page 340 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: How do you tell your partner that you'd like to be spanked? Where can you find a good dominatrix? If your husband like to wear your panties, does that mean he's gay? What really goes on at SM clubs? After you tie someone up, what exactly are you supposed to do? Is there such a thing as normal sex? If you've ever wondered about the ins and outs of bondage, spanking, or cross-dressing, look no further. Come Hither is a frank, friendly guide on how to turn your secret fantasies into satisfying expressions of love and desire. The official resource guide for SM/fetish sex at the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, Come Hither proves that a little kink can be a lot of fun.

Download or read book Kinky Sex written by Jessica Howe and published by . This book was released on 2013-10-10 with total page 258 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: As featured in ELLE MAGAZINE**Warning** Before you buy this book, please understand it is extremely controversial. Too controversial to be sold in book shops. Please do NOT purchase this book if you were at all disturbed by the sex scenes in '50 Shades of Grey'.However if you hunger for passionate, exciting sex, read on...Do you yearn to spice things up, but feel unsure where to start? Do you wonder where the passion's gone? Do you sense you're missing out, but feel powerless to change things?Boring, routine sex is a common cause of cheating and divorce.But the truth is there's a simple, step-by-step system you can use to flip the secret desire switch in almost any relationship.'Kinky Sex - the Secret to Long-term Desire' reveals easy, powerful techniques that have been proven to work again and again (no matter how long you've been together). In this sizzling how-to guide, author Jessica Howe shows you how to satisfy your desire for novelty within your relationship - so neither of you go searching for it elsewhere.Get your relationship questions answeredHere are just a FEW of the valuable secrets you'll discover in this astonishing guide...Why is being a 'good' girl or guy the kiss of death for your sex life?What are the top six Passion Assassins - and how do you conquer them?How can you tease and please your lover to a super-intense orgasm?What can you do to spice up sex - without risking rejection?How can you attract a sexually compatible lover?How can you turn your lover on with dirty talk - without looking silly?The Art of Dominating: what should you do... and not do?How do you safely indulge in tie-and-tease, spanking and 'sensation play'?What is the one technique that makes sex hotter every time?This book has nothing but the powerful, no-nonsense techniques you need to increase your sexual chemistry - and unleash an intense magnetism that keeps the passion burning.Every page is packed with tips, sex and relationship advice for men and women, real-life examples, sex toy ideas and steamy stories. In fact the sex stories are so hot, and so explicit, they can't be mentioned here Click the cover above to see the table of contents.Whether you're carefree and single or married with children, 'Kinky Sex - the Secret to Long-term Desire' shows you how to reach unlimited heights of pleasure and connection.The best sex of your life is just a click away...Will whet your appetite and leave you wanting more.-- COSMOPOLITAN MAGAZINEA daring, sizzling and astonishingly practical antidote to 'not tonight, Dear'...-- SYDNEY MORNING HERALDHere's what readers are saying: Wow - I never knew I was kinky till I read this book It shows you step by step how to do pretty much any fun, kinky thing you could imagine. I love the dirty talk examples - and the sex stories are HOT When my girlfriend and I broke up, I began to believe it's impossible to remain faithful to someone because the sex just gets boring. This book changed my mind. It's the best argument for monogamy I've ever found.My relationship ran into problems and I had questions, so I ended up buying all these sex and relationship books. What can I say? This blew the others out of the water. The 'Discover Your Secret Sexual Personality' tool was worth the price of the book alone.I'm now ready to inject passion, playfulness and pleasure into my sex life - starting tonight

Download or read book New Sexual Possibilities written by Lajuana Federowicz and published by . This book was released on 2021-05-07 with total page 334 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: For some reason, telling our partner what we want to change or try or stop in our sex lives is terrifying. But fear not, there are ways to talk to your partner about sex and make it as seamless as possible. Here are some foolproof conversation starters to help you have the best sex of your life. This book tells you more about sexual secrets by discovering: - Explore and discuss desires and sexual fantasies - Discover your partner's sexual secrets and comfortably reveal your own - Create healthy and open communication patterns about sexual needs - Expand and explore new sexual possibilities for the both of you - Determine your boundaries as a couple - Strengthen your relationship - Discover what types of kinks will work best for you as a couple

Download or read book The New Bottoming Book written by Dossie Easton and published by SCB Distributors. This book was released on 2011-06-09 with total page 200 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Three decades ago, this book and its companion volume "The New Topping Book" began teaching tens of thousands of people the joyous arts of BDSM topping and bottoming - not just "how-to," but "why-to"... the insider details of emotional support and ethical interaction during kinky play. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely updated revised New Bottoming Book and New Topping Book give even more insights and ideas, updated for a new millennium, about how to be a successful, popular player! What the experts are saying "The only way I can think of to learn more about bottming than Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy teach you in [The New Bottoming Book] is to go out and bottom for yourself." - William A. Henkin, Ph.D., co-author, Consensual Sadomasochism