Download or read book Adult Children of Divorce written by Elizabeth Thayer and published by New Harbinger Publications. This book was released on 2003-11-01 with total page 176 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: If your parents divorced when you were young, you were probably affected by the breakdown fo their marriage. Divided loyalties, secrets kept from the other parent, one life lived in two separate houses—these may have been par for the course. With this guide, you will learn that the effects of the divorce are not permanently harmful. Find out how to forgive your parents, discover new ways to enrich your own relationships and learn that there are alternative realities available. Divorce experts and psychologists Jeffrey Zimmerman, Ph.D., and Elizabeth S. Thayer Ph.D., show you how to recognize how your parents’ divorce influenced your life, resulting in disruptions such as relationship failures due to financial reasons, difficulties with commitment, and repeated situations that “just don’t seem to work out.” They provide techniques to help you understand and overcome these and other issues common to adult children of divorced parents. Zimmerman and Thayer focus on helping you learn how to build self-esteem, become resilient, establish healthy boundaries, communicate clearly, open up to trust, show love, believe in commitment and deal with vulnerable feelings.
Download or read book Healing Adult Children of Divorce written by Archibald D. Hart and published by Vine Books. This book was released on 1991 with total page 320 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: When parents divorce, the children usually grow up with emotional wounds which remain with them even as adults. Healing Adult Children of Divorce examines the long-term effects of this traumatic event and puts readers on the road to healing.
Download or read book The Adult Children of Divorce Workbook written by Mary Hirschfeld and published by Tarcher. This book was released on 1991 with total page 244 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This unique and highly practical workbook will guide the estimated 20 million Adult Children of Divorce (ACDs) through the pain and confusion specific to their own past. Topics included are how divorce affects children at various ages, difficulty of stepping into adult roles as children, problems with siblings, long-term effects of divorce, and more.
Download or read book Home Will Never Be the Same Again written by Carol R. Hughes and published by Rowman & Littlefield. This book was released on 2020-06-22 with total page 286 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Adult children are often overlooked and forgotten when their parents divorce later in life, but in these pages they will find comfort and understanding for the many feelings, frustrations, and challenges they face. For more than two decades, a silent revolution has been occurring and creating a seismic shift in the American family and families in other countries. It has been unfolding without much comment, and its effects are being felt across three to four generations: more couples are divorcing later in life. Called the “gray divorce revolution,” the cultural phenomenon describes couples who divorce after the age of 50. Overlooked in the issues that affect couples divorcing later in in life are the adult children of divorcing parents. Their voices open this book, and they are the voices of men and women, 18 to 50 years old. Some of them are single; some are married. Some have children of their own. All of them are in different stages of shock, fear, and sudden, dramatic change. In Home Will Never Be the Same: A Guide for Adult Children of Gray Divorce, Carol Hughes and Bruce Fredenburg share their deep understanding gained during the innumerable hours they have spent with these women and men in their clinical practices. The result is a valuable resource for these too often forgotten adult children, many of whom find that, whenever they express their feelings and experiences, the most important people in their lives frequently ignore and dismiss them. As the divorce rate for older adults soars, so too does the number of adult children who are experiencing parental divorce. Yet, these adult children frequently say that they are the only ones who are aware of what they are going through, no one understands what they are experiencing, and they feel painfully alone.
Download or read book Child of Divorce Child of God written by Kristine Steakley and published by ReadHowYouWant.com. This book was released on 2009-10-29 with total page 262 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: CHILDREN OF DIVORCE CARRY WOUNDS INTO ADULTHOOD; Divorce affects our relationships to other people, our fears and longings, our faith and spirituality. We may have difficulties with anger, guilt, commitment or forgiveness. But our identity need not be marked only by our parents' divorce. God can enter into our woundedness and bring transformation and hope. Kristine Steakley chronicles the emotional and spiritual challenges facing adult children of divorce. She tells her own story of abandonment and estrangement, and wrestles through questions of trust, self-worth and identity. But she has found that God can repair and reparent us in ways that heal and restore our relationships with ourselves, our parents and God.
Download or read book Primal Loss written by Leila Miller and published by Lcb Publishing. This book was released on 2017-05-20 with total page 326 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Seventy now-adult children of divorce give their candid and often heart-wrenching answers to eight questions (arranged in eight chapters, by question), including: What were the main effects of your parents' divorce on your life? What do you say to those who claim that "children are resilient" and "children are happy when their parents are happy"? What would you like to tell your parents then and now? What do you want adults in our culture to know about divorce? What role has your faith played in your healing? Their simple and poignant responses are difficult to read and yet not without hope. Most of the contributors--women and men, young and old, single and married--have never spoken of the pain and consequences of their parents' divorce until now. They have often never been asked, and they believe that no one really wants to know. Despite vastly different circumstances and details, the similarities in their testimonies are striking; as the reader will discover, the death of a child's family impacts the human heart in universal ways.
Download or read book Chained No More written by Robyn Besemann and published by WestBow Press. This book was released on 2012-06-30 with total page 116 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Chained No More is a curriculum which includes a Leader Guide AND a Participant Book (sold separately) “Chained No More is a program that will minister healing and hope to anyone who has been touched by the pain of divorce. Robyn Besemann has developed biblically based materials that provide a framework for personal growth, a tool for helping others, and a step-by-step grid that produces transformational results. Every church needs this program and I highly recommend this ministry.” – Carol Kent, Speaker and Author “For years we have touted that children are resilient. Now we are finding that adult children of divorce were not so resilient after all. Many struggle with heavy issues that have been carried over into their adult lives.From exploring the chain of grief that has held adult children of divorce bound to their childhoods to healing through Jesus Christ, Robyn has done a phenomenal job of helping adult children of divorce release the links in their chain that have held them captive for years.” – Linda Ranson Jacobs, Creator and Developer of DivorceCare for Kids “Chained No More will help you break free and find healing for the hurt you’ve experienced. If you are the adult child of divorced parents, dive into this material, and with God’s help, find hope for the future while building a foundation for successful relationships in your life.” – Steve Grissom, Founder of DivorceCare/Church Initiative
Download or read book Generation Ex written by Jen Abbas and published by WaterBrook Press. This book was released on 2004 with total page 244 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In this book for adult children of divorce, Abbas helps them to understand the gives them the tools to create a dramatically different legacy.
Download or read book A Grief Out of Season written by Noelle Oxenhandler and published by Little Brown. This book was released on 1991 with total page 315 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Instructs adults how to deal with parents who are getting divorced late in life and how to cope with their own distress
Download or read book Rules of Estrangement written by Joshua Coleman, PhD and published by Harmony. This book was released on 2021-03-02 with total page 256 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A guide for parents whose adult children have cut off contact that reveals the hidden logic of estrangement, explores its cultural causes, and offers practical advice for parents trying to reestablish contact with their adult children. “Finally, here’s a hopeful, comprehensive, and compassionate guide to navigating one of the most painful experiences for parents and their adult children alike.”—Lori Gottlieb, psychotherapist and New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone Labeled a silent epidemic by a growing number of therapists and researchers, estrangement is one of the most disorienting and painful experiences of a parent's life. Popular opinion typically tells a one-sided story of parents who got what they deserved or overly entitled adult children who wrongly blame their parents. However, the reasons for estrangement are far more complex and varied. As a result of rising rates of individualism, an increasing cultural emphasis on happiness, growing economic insecurity, and a historically recent perception that parents are obstacles to personal growth, many parents find themselves forever shut out of the lives of their adult children and grandchildren. As a trusted psychologist whose own daughter cut off contact for several years and eventually reconciled, Dr. Joshua Coleman is uniquely qualified to guide parents in navigating these fraught interactions. He helps to alleviate the ongoing feelings of shame, hurt, guilt, and sorrow that commonly attend these dynamics. By placing estrangement into a cultural context, Dr. Coleman helps parents better understand the mindset of their adult children and teaches them how to implement the strategies for reconciliation and healing that he has seen work in his forty years of practice. Rules of Estrangement gives parents the language and the emotional tools to engage in meaningful conversation with their child, the framework to cultivate a healthy relationship moving forward, and the ability to move on if reconciliation is no longer possible. While estrangement is a complex and tender topic, Dr. Coleman's insightful approach is based on empathy and understanding for both the parent and the adult child.
Download or read book Adult Children of Divorce written by Carl Simon and published by . This book was released on 2020-04-28 with total page 38 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This guide seeks to lay out a map with broad paths to healing. The primary audience of this guide is adult children who have had their parents' divorce while they are in their teens, 20s, 30s, or 40s. Family and friends of those going through this struggle will also find this content beneficial in learning how to provide support. The guide is written from the perspective of "us", "we", and "our" because I am going through these steps myself and have been for the last five years. I believe that five years of lived experience is the perfect amount of time to reflect and share, because everything is still raw and real. The lessons of divorce are personal, not distant or professional. While the flow of this guide is open and cyclical, it is also structured clearly. Like posts along a mountain trail, the structure below is to ensure that we: do not get lost or wander too far off the path of healing. Phase 1: Fall Apart - Escape, Grieve, Defensive Phase 2: Flow - Move, Process, Normalize Phase 3: Grow - Attack, Forgive, Thrive The phases offer a sequence in time. Within each phase, there are three steps, and each step is within a particular healing area: Boundaries, Physical, and Emotional. The Boundaries area describes how we relate to others. The Physical area focuses on the living, breathing person we are. The Emotional area is our complex inner world searching for meaning.Moving through the three phases in the guide allows for a continual cycle of healing. It is difficult, but it is rewarding. I promise we will be okay as long as we keep moving, set our sights to a better future, grieve, and forgive.
Download or read book Dear Children a Manual for Adult Children of Divorce written by William Hinckley and published by BalboaPress. This book was released on 2012-07-10 with total page 218 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This book is for Adult Children of Divorce or anyone who may be in a relationship with someone who has experienced divorce. "Dear Children", will help you understand the roots of the dysfunctions developed as a child of divorce and offer a proven means for overcoming them. This journey will enable you to break through the developmental issues that can often bind you in your daily life influencing everything from minor choices to major, life-changing decisions. This investment of time will help you discover who you really are, where you really came from and the power that this source offers you on a daily basis. You will come to understand the strength of your essence and discover the knowledge and skills to honestly and continuously reflect on your personal situations (or those of a loved one) in order to embrace a truly uplifting and empowered life. Through honest introspection, greater knowledge and embracing daily habits you will be able to live a fulfilling, uplifting and joy-filled life. We will explore the dysfunctions associated with divorce including separation, people-pleasing, abandonment, guilt and fear of conflict. We will examine some of the personifications and manifestations that adult children of divorce may use to mask their pain in order that you may better understand if this is occurring in your own life or the life of someone you love. More importantly, we will discuss how you can overcome such dysfunctions and manifestations and what you can do to prevent these destructive habits from continuing. We will further explore how daily habits can empower you towards success and fulfillment. You will come to understand how to embrace joy, how to make good decisions and how to ensure that the cycle of divorce, and its ill effects may be halted. You will learn how to be happy and empowered every day!
Download or read book Healing Hearts written by Elizabeth Hickey and published by Gold Leaf Press (WA). This book was released on 1994 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Divided into three parts, this book was written to foster healing for divorcing parents and to help divorcing couples support their children. Part one deals with interpersonal issues and individual growth. The reader is lead through the personal processes of divorce; actions parents can take to help themselves and their children adjust to the situation are highlighted. Some of the topics covered here include shared parenting, a child's perspective, repairing the damage, security and reassurance, domestic violence, difficult divorces, and redefining the family. Part two examines the legal system. It is hoped that by demystifying the legal process, divorce will become less frustrating and will afford the individual more choices. Some of the issues addressed here are legal issues in parenting, the mechanics of co-parenting, and finances and the reality of divorce. In part three, entitled "Medicine for the Heart," children share their experiences with divorce. Over 50 children were interviewed about their parents' divorce and how it affected them. They offer advice to parents about how to make divorce easier on other children. (RJM)
Download or read book Adult Children of Divorce written by Edward W. Beal and published by Delta. This book was released on 1992 with total page 378 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Based on research that includes more than 300 case studies, the authors teachreaders how to break the cycle that divorce creates and get on with leading ahappy and fulfilling lufe.
Download or read book Adult Children of Divorced Parents written by Beverly Rodgers and published by Selah Publishing Group. This book was released on 2008-12-01 with total page 172 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Just because your parents marriage failed doesnt mean yours will. But it helps to know what youre up against and to get some encouragement from people who have been there. In Adult Children of Divorced Parents, family therapists Beverly and Tom Rodgers share their own experience growing up in divorced families and how they found success in their own marriage. They also provide some proven exercised that can help you heal from four major wounds relating to trust, fear, insecurity and the lack of a mentor and move on toward a successful marriage of your own. I highly endorse both the speaking and writing of Beverly and Tom Rodgers. -Dr. Les Parrott, author or Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts
Download or read book Torn Asunder written by Margaret McCarthy and published by Wm. B. Eerdmans Publishing. This book was released on 2017-01-22 with total page 316 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A timely unsettling of old "settled" questions surrounding divorce Amid the current nationwide debate over what "marriage" is, this book examines anew the nature and meaning of marriage from the standpoint of what adult children of divorce have actually experienced. Upholding the inextricable link between our personal identity and our origin in a union of two — and, more deeply, in the Fatherhood of God — the contributors to this volume reflect on the damage that divorce does to children, opening up important questions for all of us: What does it mean to be human? What does it mean to love and to marry? After decades of talk about the rights of adults to get a divorce and the benefits for children of an amicable split between parents (a so-called "good divorce"), these authors — theologians, philosophers, political scientists, lawyers, psychologists, sociologists, and cultural critics — effectively unsettle conventional opinion.
Download or read book Adult Children of Legal Or Emotional Divorce written by Jim Conway and published by . This book was released on 1992-05 with total page 276 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Jim Conway draws on his expertise as a researcher and counselor, and on his own childhood experiences, to help adult children of divorce heal the wounds of the past. Selected by *Today's Christian Woman* as one of the 10 best books of 1990. A Salt-shaker(R) Book. 272 pages, paper
