Download or read book Dear Child Molester written by Ka Irash and published by Trafford Publishing. This book was released on 2015-07-10 with total page 255 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: I have learned and finally accept that there is no complete restoration from the horrific damage caused by sexual child abuse. This damage on some level is permanent. The victim must learn to live with the harm that has been forced into their lives. Shame and guilt takes great control of a victims life, yet with help one can learn that they are not at fault for this abuse and no longer live a life burdened with shame and guilt. A victim can gain self-worth and in time learn to become emotionally healthy and complete. Part of the healing process is to learn that the abuse will always be a part of the victims history, yet it doesnt have to control the victims future. Shame and guilt controlled many areas of my life most of my life. The destruction of my abuse has been a fight for me to over come. This fight raged on even when I didnt understand the causes for my low self esteem, depressions and shyness, which I dealt with the greatest part of my life. These emotions were rooted deep into my soul. All of these terrible emotions that I dealt with over the years were caused by the abuse that I suffered with at the hands of the Monster. This abuse was my ultimate betrayal this abuse is every victims ultimate betrayal. A Victims silence is the child molesters protection

Download or read book Dear Child written by Romy Hausmann and published by Hachette UK. This book was released on 2020-05-14 with total page 302 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: You escaped. But he will never let you go. Now a major Netflix series A windowless shack in the woods. Lena's life and that of her two children follows the rules set by their captor, the father: meals, bathroom visits, study time are strictly scheduled and meticulously observed. He protects his family from the dangers lurking in the outside world and makes sure that his children will always have a mother to look after them. One day Lena manages to flee - but the nightmare continues. It seems as if her tormentor wants to get back what belongs to him. And then there is the question whether she really is the woman called 'Lena', who disappeared without a trace over thirteen years ago. The police and Lena's family are all desperately trying to piece together a puzzle that doesn't quite seem to fit. 'Chilling, original and mesmerising. Hausmann is a force to be reckoned with' DAVID BALDACCI 'Couldn't put this book down, loved every minute' 5* READER REVIEW 'A peerless exercise in suspense' FINANCIAL TIMES 'So many twists and turns, you can barely catch your breath!' 5* READER REVIEW 'Will haunt you long after the last page' ALICE FEENEY 'A nail-biting page turner' 5* READER REVIEW 'Keeps you guessing' SUNDAY EXPRESS 'Addictive' 5* READER REVIEW 'Intelligent and original' SUNDAY INDEPENDENT 'Loved everything about this book' 5* READER REVIEW 'Claustrophobic, terrifying and fiercely compelling' DAILY MAIL 'If you loved Room you will love this' 5* READER REVIEW 'Disturbingly good' LESLEY KARA 'Gripping, astounding, heart-pounding' 5* READER REVIEW 'Gripping, suspenseful and beautifully written' JO SPAIN

Download or read book Understanding Child Molesters written by Eric Leberg and published by SAGE. This book was released on 1997 with total page 286 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Written primarily for non-professionals who may be families, co-workers or acquaintances of child molesters, the author discusses how these offenders use denial, blaming, secrecy and manipulation, not only to set up their victim, but also to mislead families and friends about what is occurring. Chapters 7 to 10 provide strategies to counter this manipulation, and to make it harder for the molester to reoffend.

Download or read book Not Monsters written by Pamela D. Schultz and published by Rowman & Littlefield. This book was released on 2005 with total page 250 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In the wake of recent violence our nation has experienced, and the paranoia that has ensued, we've directed our attention to potential terrorists in our midst. Yet our children face more risk from people they know than from terrorists they have never met. An estimated one in five girls and one in ten boys in the United States experience some form of sexual abuse by age eighteen. What could possibly motivate a person to molest a child? Not Monsters documents the stories of nine convicted child molesters through one-on-one interviews, listening to what offenders have to say about their crimes and exploring the roots of these behaviors from a social constructionist perspective. Their words paint a compelling and frightening portrait of how sexual abuse works in Western culture to perpetuate a political and social system of dominance and control.

Download or read book Identifying Child Molesters written by Carla Van Dam and published by Routledge. This book was released on 2013-12-19 with total page 242 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Stop abuse before it starts! Identifying Child Molesters: Preventing Child Sexual Abuse by Recognizing the Patterns of the Offenders will teach you to better protect children from potential child sexual molesters long before any abuse can actually occur. Here you'll learn to recognize and understand the seemingly invisible steps that typically precede child sexual abuse. These stories of molesters, their families, and their victims, will enable you to more accurately see through a potential molester's charming demeanor and better protect the children in your life. Understanding the behavior that molesters often exhibit when trying to obtain access to children is essential to protecting children from their advances. By becoming familiar with this terrain you will find the courage and strength to decide what must be done, and the skills to follow through with the necessary actions. Such responses will appropriately curtail an offender's access to children and subsequent opportunities to molest. Identifying Child Molesters will teach you: how to recognize those who might molest how molesters typically 'charm’adults how societal attitudes help to foster child sexual abuse what to do when encountering a potential molester what physical and emotional damage molestation can cause to victims how to graciously avoid potentially dangerous situations Identifying Child Molesters: Preventing Child Sexual Abuse by Recognizing the Patterns of the Offenders clearly spells out the techniques that child sexual molesters so successfully use to charm adults into giving them access to children. When these strategies are seen and understood, adults can take much more direct responsibility for preventing child sexual abuse than was previously possible. Anyone who lives or works with children needs to own this book. The information you'll encounter in Identifying Child Molesters might startle you, but it might also help you save the life of a child!

Download or read book Dear Child written by Barnabas and published by Wilson, N.C. : Star Books. This book was released on 1989 with total page 63 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt:

Download or read book Child Abuse on the Internet written by Carlos A. Arnaldo and published by Berghahn Books. This book was released on 2001 with total page 240 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Examines the increasing problem of sexual abuse of children in the world and considers the legal and social strategies that are being adopted to combat these issues particularly in the area of the Internet where there is a growing number of Web sites devoted to child pornography and sexual perversion.

Download or read book Dear Children a Manual for Adult Children of Divorce written by William Hinckley and published by Balboa Press. This book was released on 2012-07 with total page 216 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This book is valuable if you are wondering what your life is all about. Our parents oftentimes didn't know how to explain the purpose of our existence. The author's experience of being an adult child of divorce and searching through his lifetime has put this explanation down in writing as a passionate gift to his children.

Download or read book To Train Up a Child written by Michael Pearl and published by No Greater Joy Ministries. This book was released on 1994-03 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: "Turning the hearts of the fathers to the children"--Cover.

Download or read book Dear Mother written by Nick Finkler and published by neobooks. This book was released on 2018-08-14 with total page 55 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: DEAR MOTHER is the true story of Felix. Born into a world of abusive expectations, he soon became a victim of hate and violence, but it was the person he trusted the most who destroyed him the worst ... Part of the sale price is donated to children in need. This short story isn't based on fiction, but on sadly true events. Felix was and is real, as all the abused and mistreated children are, whose stories also found their way into this book - a letter Felix began to write to a woman he later only called 'his producer' ... In this short story you find the fates of more than 24 victims and their friends and families. The author worked together with them and tells not only 24 different fates combined as one, but even more since out there live so many victims who are unseen yet.

Download or read book When Your Child Has Been Molested written by Kathryn Brohl and published by John Wiley & Sons. This book was released on 2004-02-11 with total page 245 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This is the thoroughly revised and updated edition of the best-selling guide for families of children who have been molested. First published in 1988, this new edition includes current research and information on the nature and effects of molestation on boys and girls, as well as proven techniques for therapy, healing, and recovery. Using everyday language, the authors provide information, comfort, and advice on how to put the pieces back together again after a child has been sexually molested.

Download or read book Child Molester written by Audrey Doomer and published by CreateSpace. This book was released on 2014-02-13 with total page 68 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Audrey Doomer thought she had married a man who was a loving, kind, and wonderful father, but this was an illusion. She was devastated to learn she was married to a psychopathic child molester, who left a trail of trauma, pain, and wounded hearts. She tells her story in the hope of showing non-offending parents how well child molesters deceive and what to look for to protect the most vulnerable people in society--our children. She includes information on: potential molestation clues, why children don't tell, common characteristics of child molesters, and trauma therapies that work in the unspeakable has happened.

Download or read book I Am a Child Molester written by Keven Poe and published by Xlibris Corporation. This book was released on 2011-10-19 with total page 68 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: I hope this book will enlighten others of the magnitude of sexual abuse of children in our society. The perversions that are heaped upon our children are the most grotesque acts of cowardice imaginable. Our children are innocent of such perversions, and are victims of Cruel, deviant cowards. Who only care about their gratifications? I will go into my life experiences, and what contributed to my foul deviancy. I will go in depth into the grooming that pedophiles use on children to gain their trust, and the manipulations to keep them quiet, through guilt and threats of harm.

Download or read book Forgiving Others and Trusting God a Handbook for Survivors of Child Abuse Experience Healing for Deep Wounds That Hinder Your Relationship with written by J. E. Norris-Bernal and published by Xulon Press. This book was released on 2011-02 with total page 384 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Why yet another book about forgiveness? Abundant literature, written from Christian and other spiritual perspectives, is available specifying why forgiving those who offend us results in such improved physical, mental/emotional, and spiritual health. What makes this book unique, however, is that it deals strictly with survivors of child abuse and the profound ways that they are affected for life without some type of intervention. Learning to forgive, healing from abuse, and trusting/finding intimacy with Father God are three processes that are difficult, if not impossible, for most survivors of child abuse to experience. The power inherent in forgiveness contributes enormously to healing for deep wounds and the realization of true intimacy with the One we are privileged to call Abba, Father. Many survivors' highly personal, deeply sensitive, and incredibly dramatic accounts of abuse suffered, their choices to forgive, their experiences of deep healing, and ultimately the fulfillment of lifelong desires for closeness with God are documented in Forgiving Others and Trusting God . . . Handbook for Survivors of Child Abuse. You will find these accounts both inspirational and unforgettable! Even if you never were victimized as a child, you will gain plenty of hands-on, practical tools to assist in your own journey from overcoming any emotional or spiritual obstacles and hindrances to forgiving others and trusting God. J. E. Norris-Bernal, M.S., was a Marriage and Family Therapist for over 20 years and an active member of the American Association of Christian Counselors. Ms. Norris-Bernal is currently a college professor teaching English and Psychology courses. She is also a Christian life coach for local and long-distance clientele. Prior to her work as a mental health professional, Ms. Norris-Bernal was a professional editor for 10 years. She resides in Arizona with her husband, and they have three adult children living in Southern California.

Download or read book The Socially Skilled Child Molester written by Carla Van Dam and published by Routledge. This book was released on 2014-06-03 with total page 178 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Know what signs indicate a child molester! Revealing the secret but successful strategies used by child molesters allows adults to intervene long before children are abused. The Socially Skilled Child Molester: Differentiating the Guilty from the Falsely Accused identifies how socially proficient molesters successfully ingratiate themselves into families and communities. The book closely examines their techniques and strategies while detailing the tools for prevention. The difficult issue of false accusation is tackled by learning the distinctions that clearly differentiate the actions of the guilty from those who are innocent. Practical recommendations for accurately assessing danger and managing safety are provided. The Socially Skilled Child Molester focuses on the sexual deviants who 'groom' family, friends, and their community to allow their activities, though arousing suspicion, to go on without restriction. This essential source reveals their tactics. Using composite representations of various types of child molesters, the author illustrates through case history and detailed research how these offenders succeed, while providing recommendations on how communities can stop enabling and protecting such individuals. The Socially Skilled Child Molester discusses in depth: ’groomers’ versus ’grabbers’ common misperceptions about child molesters the groomer profile—the different types groomer strategies for manipulation correctly differentiating between pedophiles and the falsely accused predicting risk the key concerns when interviewing child molesters the three levels of child molesters recidivism for the sexual deviant. The Socially Skilled Child Molester comprehensively brings together helpful strategies and vital information essential for parents, lawmakers, police, teachers, and therapists.

Download or read book Joy Comes in the Morning written by Yvonne Retief and published by Struik Christian Media. This book was released on 2011-06-28 with total page 201 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Molestation almost invariably takes place in secret, and most victims never speak to anyone about it. The pain is with them for life, and their functioning as human beings is usually negatively affected to some extent. There are those who would like to consult a therapist but for whom this is impossible due to the unavailability of a suitable person. Then there are those whose pain is so intense that they don’t have the courage to face it. The purpose of this book is to give such people the courage to do something about this matter, so that they may once again experience the ‘joy that comes in the morning’. This book is written in the form of a number of letters to an imaginary woman who, as a young girl, was molested by her grandfather. She lives in a small town and has no access to a suitable therapist. She and her therapist (the author) agree to undertake therapy by correspondence. In the last ten letters the sexual healing is discussed. Joy Comes in the Morning introduces the reader to a specific technique developed with great success by the author over a number of years. The book is thus also aimed at therapists who wish to develop their skills in this field.

Download or read book Breaking The Bonds Of Adult Child Abuse written by Sister Renee Pittelli and published by Outskirts Press. This book was released on 2015-03-06 with total page 646 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: BREAKING THE BONDS OF ADULT CHILD ABUSE: A BIBLICAL TEXTBOOK ON ABUSIVE NARCISSISTIC FAMILIES, HOW THEY OPERATE, AND HOW TO DEAL WITH THEM ADULT CHILD ABUSE *The Only Form of Abuse still tolerated, accepted and condoned in our society. *The Only Form of Abuse in which it is considered okay for a competent adult to be controlled, exploited, or damaged by someone else. *The Only Form of Abuse in which the victim is expected to continue suffering indefinitely, criticized for trying to protect herself, judged for escaping from her abuser, and openly discouraged from standing up for herself, talking about it, or revealing the abuse to others. Where do folks get the idea that Christians have to be meek and mild, silently enduring mistreatment, tolerating anything anybody else does, and timidly standing by while abusers trample all over them and other innocent victims? Since when is it a sin to take a stand and speak out against evil? This is what our abusers want us to believe, and it is nothing but misconceptions and lies. Do you know that God wants us to confront people who do evil? That he tells us to have nothing further to do with those who will not listen to rebuke? That there is no biblical requirement to forgive the unrepentant? In this book, you will learn about family abusers and their Silent Partners, why they abuse us and why we let them, setting and enforcing limits, godly confrontation, The Law of Sowing and Reaping and letting abusers suffer the Natural Consequences of their own behavior, how to tell if a comment is really a criticism, family jealousy and how to detect if a relative is jealous of you, recognizing and cutting ties with reprobates, improving your family holidays, how to forgive and what forgiveness really means, and what Jesus would REALLY do. Filled with helpful dialogue, this book offers many valuable lessons, including: *107 Examples of abusive behavior and betrayal *6 Major No-Nos for mature, independent adults *26 Reasons why they abuse us, and 55 questions to help us understand why we allow it *27 Ways to respond to a critic *35 Empowering Statements for declaring your boundaries and enforcing consequences *10 Simple Steps for learning to say no and 8 responses for those who aren%u2019t happy about it *40 Off-Limits Subjects *38 Signs of a meaningless apology and 17 signs of a meaningful one *The 21 Rules of No Contact *102 Questions to ask yourself when you%u2019re trying to decide if you should end a toxic relationship *5 Strategies for more pleasant holidays with your relatives *The 7 Biblical Duties of a proper parent *11 Steps for getting over a lost relationship Written with empathy, wisdom and understanding, and loaded with scriptural references, this book is an eye-opener that will help you claim your freedom and change your life.