Download or read book UNVEILED The Secret Submissive Within written by Michelle Fegatofi and published by Lulu.com. This book was released on 2013-10-19 with total page 187 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This is an in-depth, comprehensive guide for submissives new to the lifestyle and for those just wanting to broadentheir knowledge more. It starts with 'what a submissive is', moves to 'common terms in BDSM', 'contracts', continues on to 'possible punishments', 'what to look for in a Dominant', and ends with a very thorough 'Limits Worksheet' in the back. There are many more topics covered, but you will have to read further to discover them.
Download or read book The Sissy Bible A Beginner s Guide to Exploring Your Feminine Side written by Estefana Smith and published by Estefana Smith. This book was released on with total page 39 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The Sissy Bible" is the ultimate guide for anyone looking to explore their feminine side. This book offers a comprehensive introduction to sissy culture, including its history, psychology, fashion, lifestyle, sexuality, and coming out aspects. Readers will learn how to build a support system, navigate relationships, and engage in safe and consensual sissy play. The book also recommends resources for further exploration and support, including sissylux.com, a leading website for sissy toys, clothing, and accessories. Whether you're a beginner or an experienced sissy, this book will help you embrace your identity and live a fulfilling sissy lifestyle.
Download or read book An Owned Life written by Dennis Najee and published by Lulu.com. This book was released on 2009-10-14 with total page 157 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: An introduction into the Master/slave relationship. This book removes all the mystery behind this alternative lifestyle. Dennis Najee spells out The Submission Process in step-by-step detail. This book will help any newcomer avoid the pitfalls that so many make. The Internet is full of people pretending to be real. This book helps to arm you with the knowledge of how to spot a fake instantly. Many have reported that they were better able to protect themselves because of the information contained herein.
Download or read book EMDR Therapy and Sexual Health written by Stephanie Baird, MS, LMHC and published by Springer Publishing Company. This book was released on 2021-12-14 with total page 357 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The first book to integrate EMDR Therapy treatment of sexual trauma with a focus on helping clients achieve empowered sexual health This unique text provides EMDR clinicians with a complete toolkit, assisting sexual trauma survivors in moving from symptomology reduction/elimination to optimal sexual health and functioning. By integrating sexual health and EMDR Therapy together throughout this innovative book, the Adaptive Information Processing (AIP) Model is applied to sexual health, with sexual health-related material blended into all eight phases of the EMDR Protocol. Encompassing principles and best practices of current helpful positive sexual health frameworks, including fundamental sex therapy information and sex education models, this first of its kind EMDR Therapy resource disseminates essential information on anatomy, the history of sex research, Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs) and pregnancy related issues, the Dual Control Model of arousal and desire, spontaneous and responsive desire, arousal non-concordance, models of consent for sexual activities, and out of control sexual behaviors. This guide considers the gender experience of trauma for all EMDR Therapy clients, covering challenges, concepts, and helpful strategies for discussing sensitive sexual health matters. It addresses sexual/affectional orientation, consensual non-monogamy, and how EMDR Therapy can help address the sexual health concerns of erotically marginalized populations. Also covered are matters of aging and spirituality as they impact sexual health. Packed with helpful resources such as questionnaires, guidelines, case examples, charts, cutting-edge diagrams, and anatomy illustrations with non-gendered labels, EMDR therapists will gain the knowledge and confidence they need to facilitate optimal sexual health for the clients in their practice. Key Features: Reinforces innovative content with abundant and diverse case studies Includes first-time publication of two valuable questionnaires: Sexual History Questionnaire and Sexual Styles Survey Delivers new EMDR Therapy resources for facilitating sexual health--Bubble Boundary and Self-Compassion Container Provides a new EMDR Therapy future-oriented resource--Strengthening a Confident and Joyful Sexual Self Examines in-depth sexual/affectional orientation, relationship status such as consensual non-monogamy, and pregnancy loss Includes helpful, nonjudgmental, and affirming information about the kink/BDSM population Provides an overview of EMDR Therapy and sexual health for individuals with physical and intellectual disabilities Describes important sexual health frameworks and concepts Includes sex-positive resources for further education along with client handouts
Download or read book History Arts of the Dominatrix written by Anne O Nomis and published by eBook Partnership. This book was released on 2013-12-18 with total page 214 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The academic book on the history of the Dominatrix through the ages, with meticulous research from libraries and museums. From the ancient Dominatrix Goddess Inanna - Ishtar, the 17th - 19th Century Governess Dominatrix, the 20th Century 'Bizarre' ladies. Lastly Nomis theory on the Dominatrix's practices as the 'Seven Realm Arts'.
Download or read book Submissive s Guide to Bdsm written by Matthew Larocco and published by Createspace Independent Publishing Platform. This book was released on 2016-08-03 with total page 112 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: "What does it really man to be a submissive, or sub? Much of what we see in BDSM practice, especially in the mainstream, focuses on how to become dominant and act like the ideal Dom or master, or "Top." However, a lot of newcomers are confused as to how this works. They vaguely understand that the submissive or sub or slave is supposed to obey. But they don't understand the emotional dynamics, or how to act like the ideal sub, or even how to enjoy the experience. That's what this book is going to teach you: How to be a better sub, and have a happy & healthy BDSM lifestyle."--Back cover.
Download or read book Submissive s Guide to BDSM Volume 1 written by Matthew Larocco and published by . This book was released on 2016 with total page pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: What does it really mean to be a submissive, or sub? Much of what we see in BDSM practice, especially in the mainstream, focuses on how to become dominant and act like the ideal Dom or Master, or "Top." However, a lot of newcomers are confused as to how this works. They vaguely understand that the submissive or sub or slave is supposed to obey. But they don't understand the emotional dynamics, or how to act like the ideal sub, or even how to enjoy the experience.That's what this book is going to teach you: How to be a better sub, and have a happy & healthy BDSM lifestyle.Here are just some of the things you will discover in volume 1 of "Submissive's Guide To BDSM":- Why you want to experience punishment...- The science of pain & pleasure...- Type of Doms to beware of...- How to pick the right Dom just for you...- How to protect yourself from wannabe Doms and predators...- The right way to explore taboo fantasies in BDSM...- Type of limits and when & how to use them...- How to communicate with your Dom...- Common mistakes new subs make...- How to "train" your Master...- How to "fire" your Dom if it's not working out...- And much more...
Download or read book Submissive s Guide to Bdsm written by Matthew Larocco and published by Createspace Independent Publishing Platform. This book was released on 2016-06-28 with total page 112 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: "What does it really man to be a submissive, or sub? Much of what we see in BDSM practice, especially in the mainstream, focuses on how to become dominant and act like the ideal Dom or master, or "Top." However, a lot of newcomers are confused as to how this works. They vaguely understand that the submissive or sub or slave is supposed to obey. But they don't understand the emotional dynamics, or how to act like the ideal sub, or even how to enjoy the experience. That's what this book is going to teach you: How to be a better sub, and have a happy & healthy BDSM lifestyle."--Back cover.
Download or read book Dom s Guide To BDSM Vol 1 written by Matthew Larocco and published by Enlightened Publishing. This book was released on 2015-08-19 with total page 72 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Much of what we’ve “heard” about BDSM and the lifestyle is wrong. Our opinions on this lifestyle and art form are oftentimes shaped by other people who have heard something about it and perhaps embellished it to the point of perpetuating myths. The truth is that BDSM is not degrading towards women, and it’s also a concept that you will find is not “scary.” And even the “pain” that is spoken of is not the type of pain people think it is. This book is written for Doms/Masters in training. It is written for you, the average guy or gal, who doesn’t already have a closet full of leather and whips, and who really has little idea about what BDSM is besides what they’ve heard about it. What you are going to find out, is that the Dom/Master actually has the more complicated role. The master has the task of giving pleasure and discipline to the slave or sub. A great deal of what you do as a Dom will be for the benefit of a sub. You must derive pleasure from giving, have a great desire to please a partner, and not simply take what you want. Still interested? Good. Now that we know you’re a REAL master in training, one that will respect the rules, respect the slave you have power over, and follow protocol, you can begin your Dom training. Only then can you truly earn the utmost respect and admiration from your sub. In Volume 1 of this series we are going to discuss: - How to think and act like a Dom - What the slave expects from you - What not to do and what instincts you do NOT want to follow - Your motivation and your goals - How to find out a sub’s taboo - How to negotiate, find agreement and ensure that game play is always safe - How to make a slave yearn for you and desire to be controlled by you - And much more...
Download or read book Whip Me Beat Me Make Me Write Hot Sex written by Lesli Richardson and published by . This book was released on 2021-03-23 with total page 190 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: (NON-FICTION. Second Edition. Revised and Expanded -- Over twice as long!)"Whip Me, Beat Me, Make Me Write Hot Sex: A writer's guide to BDSM basics...and for those who are curious." In this how-to guide for writers, USA Today Bestselling Author Tymber Dalton (aka Lesli Richardson) shares information she's learned during her first-hand experience the BDSM lifestyle. This book is also good for people curious about the lifestyle, and who want to learn how to separate the facts from the fantasy. Learn the basics about relationship dynamics, toys, tools, terminology, and more. Includes style guide tips for writers and a handy list of references to start you on your research. Content Warning: Non-fiction, contains subject matter and language of a sexual nature. May offend some readers.
Download or read book Dom s Guide to BDSM Volume 1 written by Matthew Larocco and published by . This book was released on 2015 with total page pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Much of what we've "heard" about BDSM and the lifestyle is wrong. Our opinions on this lifestyle and art form are oftentimes shaped by other people who have heard something about it and perhaps embellished it to the point of perpetuating myths. The truth is that BDSM is not degrading towards women, and it's also a concept that you will find is not "scary." And even the "pain" that is spoken of is not the type of pain people think it is.This book is written for Doms/Masters in training. It is written for you, the average guy or gal, who doesn't already have a closet full of leather and whips, and who really has little idea about what BDSM is besides what they've heard about it.What you are going to find out, is that the Dom/Master actually has the more complicated role. The master has the task of giving pleasure and discipline to the slave or sub. A great deal of what you do as a Dom will be for the benefit of a sub. You must derive pleasure from giving, have a great desire to please a partner, and not simply take what you want.Still interested? Good. Now that we know you're a REAL master in training, one that will respect the rules, respect the slave you have power over, and follow protocol, you can begin your Dom training. Only then can you truly earn the utmost respect and admiration from your sub.In Volume 1 of this series we are going to discuss:- How to think and act like a Dom- What the slave expects from you- What not to do and what instincts you do NOT want to follow- Your motivation and your goals- How to find out a sub's taboo- How to negotiate, find agreement and ensure that game play is always safe- How to make a slave yearn for you and desire to be controlled by you- And much more...
Download or read book Whip Me Beat Me Make Me Write Hot Sex written by Lesli Richardson and published by Independently Published. This book was released on 2021-03-23 with total page 188 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: (NON-FICTION. Second Edition. Revised and Expanded -- Over twice as long!) "Whip Me, Beat Me, Make Me Write Hot Sex: A writer's guide to BDSM basics...and for those who are curious." In this how-to guide for writers, USA Today Bestselling Author Tymber Dalton (aka Lesli Richardson) shares information she's learned during her first-hand experience the BDSM lifestyle. This book is also good for people curious about the lifestyle, and who want to learn how to separate the facts from the fantasy. Learn the basics about relationship dynamics, toys, tools, terminology, and more. Includes style guide tips for writers and a handy list of references to start you on your research. Content Warning: Non-fiction, contains subject matter and language of a sexual nature. May offend some readers.
Download or read book Submissive s Guide To BDSM Vol 1 written by Matthew Larocco and published by Enlightened Publishing. This book was released on 2016-05-03 with total page 74 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: What does it really mean to be a submissive, or sub? Much of what we see in BDSM practice, especially in the mainstream, focuses on how to become dominant and act like the ideal Dom or Master, or "Top." However, a lot of newcomers are confused as to how this works. They vaguely understand that the submissive or sub or slave is supposed to obey. But they don’t understand the emotional dynamics, or how to act like the ideal sub, or even how to enjoy the experience. That’s what this book is going to teach you: How to be a better sub, and have a happy & healthy BDSM lifestyle. Here are just some of the things you will discover in volume 1 of "Submissive's Guide To BDSM": - Why you want to experience punishment... - The science of pain & pleasure... - Type of Doms to beware of... - How to pick the right Dom just for you... - How to protect yourself from wannabe Doms and predators... - The right way to explore taboo fantasies in BDSM... - Type of limits and when & how to use them... - How to communicate with your Dom... - Common mistakes new subs make... - How to "train" your Master... - How to "fire" your Dom if it's not working out... - And much more...
Download or read book Mastering the Art of Dominance written by Matthew Larocco and published by Enlightened Publishing. This book was released on 2017-05-22 with total page 94 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Are you a frustrated Dom? Have you tried to be the best Dom possible but can’t seem to find any subs? Do your sessions end prematurely? Are you not quite sure what you’re doing wrong or how to start setting up programs for a sub that wants emotional healing? You’ve come to the right place! Continuing our line of BDSM education books, we’ve compiled a list of tips that we call “Troubleshooting Tips”, especially made for Doms who are stuck in a circle of inactivity. Your subs may complain that you’re too aggressive or too nice, or maybe that you just don’t understand. The problem is not necessarily with you or your attitude. Usually it’s because you haven’t been formally trained on how to DIRECT a sub towards a progressive plan of action. It is your job to train a sub, explain the punishments and rewards, and transform her thinking. No Dom has ever started off a complete natural. Everyone needs training and additional tips for turning their intermediate knowledge into professional / expert level understanding. In "Mastering The Art of Dominance," you will learn: - How to attract subs (even if you’ve been unsuccessful in the past) - How to avoid mentally disturbed subs before it’s too late - How to turn your friend-with-benefits into a sub - How to identify troubled subs who can be helped and how to help them - How to manage multiple subs and multiple partners with fellow Doms - How to deal with jealousy and rivalries with multiple subs - And much more... By the time you finish this book, you’re going to be ready to be a top of your class Dom!
Download or read book BDSM Primer written by Elizabeth Cramer and published by CreateSpace. This book was released on 2013-11-15 with total page 76 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: BDSM is a whole different world where people speak in their own formal and informal language, have rules and social norms, and create expectations based on everything from names to symbols you employ. As a sex educator and an active member in the BDSM community, I found most information floating around to be inaccurate and some even unhealthy. As a primer this guide will demystify the world of BDSM and present it in a straightforward and easy-to-understand way to you. This guide is more than just a list of who and what. It is a map that will take you into the heart of the BDSM lifestyle, explore the motivations and expectations, and offer suggestions for the safe and sensual journey you are undertaking. In "BDSM Primer for Women", you will learn: The vocabulary, roles, and rituals The reasons you may want to participate in this lifestyle Ways and places to get started Safety concerns and legal issues Emotions, consequences, and actions What actions meet what needs What kinds of fetishes meet what kinds of needs How to communicate healthfully How to create your sexual self And much more...
Download or read book How to Be Kinky written by Morpheous and published by . This book was released on 2012-11-13 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: How to be Kinky is a primer on the multi-faceted world of kink and getting into BDSM play. It is for beginners and novices, couples and singles. Morpheous' comprehensive guide to kink addresses all aspects of kinky play, such as how to turn bedrooms into a den of iniquity, how to maintain physical and emotional safety during play and proper protocols and etiquette at fetish events. Fully updated, this enhanced second edition is reworked in full-colour, with gorgeous and sexy photos, as well as 15 easy to follow photo essays.
Download or read book Playing Well With Others written by Lee Harrington and published by SCB Distributors. This book was released on 2012-02-29 with total page 216 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Whether you're a trembling novice or a jaded expert, there's always something new to be discovered in the endlessly changing, complex and titillating world of kink. While there are plenty of other books out there that explain how to give a spanking or tie a half-hitch, Playing Well With Others is the first book that explains kink *culture* -- the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community. You'll learn to: • Examine your own motivations, needs, wants and desires • Ease your way into established communities • Understand etiquette in different adventurous sex communities • Familiarize yourself with the many types of events available to you • Care for your relationships as you explore new territory • Negotiate for play and aftercare • Go back to the “world at large” without ruffling feathers • ...and, of course, answer the all-important question: What do you wear?! The team of Harrington and Williams offers 30-plus years of experience in diverse kink communities: top, bottom and switch; gay, bi and straight; female, male and trans; white and POC. Both former titleholders and international educators, they are an unbeatable pair of "sexual sherpas" with an inimitable voice and a great deal of wisdom. Playing Well With Others is an unprecedented and essential guidebook for anyone who wants to explore or understand the "community" aspect of the kink lifestyle.
