Download or read book Different Loving written by Gloria G. Brame and published by Vintage. This book was released on 1998 with total page 560 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt:

Download or read book Guide to BDSM written by Donna Prince and published by . This book was released on 2020-04-16 with total page 194 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: You or your partner are fascinated by BDSM, but don't know how and where to start? Everything you need to know, you will find it in this book. Most of what people think about BDSM, is wrong. In reality BDSM is not degrading women or men and you will also understand that it's not as obscure as you think. And also the concept of "pain" we are talking about is not what people think. You will also understand that having the role of the Dom is not just about having pleasure, on the contrary, the Dom has the role of giving pleasure and discipline to the submissive. He must have pleasure in giving pleasure and not simply receiving what he wants. This book is intended for both Dominant and Submissive training. It's also perfect for those who haven't experience in this world. This is a taste of what you will find in this book: What is BDSM and Why? Introducing BDSM to your Partner What is Domination and Submission 8 Tips on how to get Started in BDSM 7 Mistakes New Submissives Make 10 must-have BDSM Toys for Beginners Bondage play Punishments Examples Types of Consents: SSC vs RACK Dominance Techniques Role-Play types SAFE WORDS: how to Choose them and why After reading this book you will have made your sex life richer and your partner will beg you for more. So... Scroll up, click the buy now button and get your copy of "Guide to BDSM" ! Check also the others "Sex Life Tips" books: 1 - Art of Seduction: Boost your Sexual Intelligence Learning How to Flirt with Techniques of Verbal Communication, Signal and Understand a Sex Desire for Woman and Man 2 - DIRTY TALK LANGUAGE: How to Learn with Examples of Phrases of Lust to Have a Great Sex with Your Man or Woman, Make It Wilder and Drive Your Partner Crazy 3 - Sex Games for Couples: Ways to Spice up your Relationship with Hot Quiz, Games and Sexy Conversation 4 - Guide to BDSM: to Have a Healthy and Mindful Dom / Sub Relationship, with Techniques of Dominance and How to be a Good Submissive for your Master

Download or read book Bdsm Mastery written by Cherry Wilson and published by . This book was released on 2021-04-30 with total page 158 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: "The other day my girlfriend pushed me down and looked me in the eye. 'I'm going to make you cry, ' she said. She began to hit me in earnest, and made me count the blows." Why would we ever want someone we love to hurt us? Why would we ever want to hurt someone we love? And why do some of us crave it? "Later, as I sobbed and she held me, I felt the therapy of that release: the effect of dealing with PTSD and trauma with pain that I can end any time by saying my safe word. Pain that comes from someone who I know is doing it for both of our pleasure, and not out of a desire to actually hurt me." Julie brown, a queer trans woman, shared this anecdote with me after responding to my call for personal stories about BDSM. Over the past week, I've conducted interviews with a dozen members of the BDSM and kink community, ranging across identities, age, gender, and location. By now, the general mechanics of BDSM are familiar to anyone who's had even a passing encounter with Fifty Shades of Grey-the whips, crops, and handcuffs all recognizable accoutrement of kinky sex-but I was interested in exploring the personal, psychological side. BDSM is an acronym with several constituent parts: bondage and discipline, dominance/submission, sadism and masochism. Collectively, these behaviors might be referred to as aspects of kink, a term which covers the broad expanse of non-normative sexuality. It includes BDSM; it can also encompass things like watersports and various fetishes, like latex or balloons. I use "we" when referring to this community because I find myself a member of it, though, like any imagined community, membership is as much self-designated as it is given. I'm interested in BDSM. In particular, I like submission. I've explored rope bondage, been to play parties, and incorporated it into many of my romantic and sexual relationships. For julie, the appeal lies in how it allows her to access pain while being in full control of that pain-she can end it at any time with her safe word. BDSM allows her to process complex, traumatic experiences in a way that's safe and consensual. Her story resonated with my own experiences with BDSM, too: trusting a beloved partner to give me what I need, while knowing that I'm in full control of the situation, is exhilarating. Is that feeling universal? If you've ever fantasized about getting kinky in the bedroom, you're not alone. The runaway success of E. L. James's novel Fifty Shades of Grey - more than 100 million copies sold - not to mention the sales of other books in the series and the movies it's generated, prove that interest in BDSM - bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism - is anything but rare. "It's very out in the culture right now, but it's not fully out of the shadows yet," says Gentille. "People are still embarrassed to talk about sex. What they discover when they dive a little deeper into it is that in BDSM you actually get to talk about what you like, what you're curious about, and what is a definite 'No.' It's clear, overt, and collaborative and that can feel delightful. And if you like it, if you have control over what happens, it's all good fun." Wait! Why waste your time with my long talk, when you can dive in rightaway? CLICK THE BUY BUTTON NOW!! TO GET STARTED

Download or read book Different Loving written by William Brame and published by Villard. This book was released on 1996-01-13 with total page 561 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: “A detailed, eye-opening account of the real sexual underground in America . . . a thorough and serious study.”—Playboy From Different Loving: In order to understand unusual sexualities such as dominance and submission, one first has to consider the question ‘What is normal?‘ If the unique function of sex is reproductive—and the only reason men and women should engage in sex is for the purpose of creating a new life—then only heterosexual intercourse is normal. By this standard, many common acts, even contraception, must be considered aberrant. Reproductive relevance was the Victorian standard of normalcy, and even today many of the laws in the United States still abide by that model. But people have always pursued sex for both reproduction and for pleasure and well-being. We start from the premise that sex for pleasure is a normal human drive and is acceptable when it brings pleasure to both partners. From this perspective, D&S is simply a ‘different‘ kind of loving. We hope to add to the greater body of knowledge about what people really do behind closed doors with the people they most love and trust. Perhaps Different Loving will help open the door for further research into the mystery, beauty, and complexity of human life and its diverse expressions. Praise for Different Loving “The definitive guide to the sexual styles of those who walk on the wild side.”—Kirkus Reviews “As a window on largely unexplored territory, Different Loving is a breakthrough in the dialogue on human sexuality, and a significant work of popular sociology.”—South Bend Tribune “A comprehensive primer on loving with leather and romance by riding crop.”—Michael Musto, New York Daily News

Download or read book The Submissive Female s Workbook written by Brian Krall, Sir and published by . This book was released on 2017-09-02 with total page 124 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Are you a female with a submissive sexual side who is new to BDSM and doesn't know exactly where to go & what to do with this aspect of who you are? Would you like a more formalized way of exploring this submissive sexual side of yourself and the BDSM lifestyle and relationship dynamics and getting properly oriented in it all? Well now finally there is a unique Submissive Female's Workbook that will help you to engineer and build your Submissive Female Sexual Identity, Dom/sub Relationship Structure, Submissive Training and BDSM Lifestyle all together in one book! This is perfect for getting yourself properly oriented and self actualized as the submissive woman that you are, but will also serve as the definitive blueprint for you to give to your Dominant, or prospective Dominant, to ensure that they will have the best understanding of who you are and what you want and how to treat and train you, and structure your D/s relationship and life together. Combining a highly specialized and technical blend of Logotherapy (Identity work), Personality Typeology, Social Science, Sexual Education and Kink/BDSM, this book is the ultimate submissive resource for you to have that will make sure that you are able to become the person that you want to be and get exactly what you want out of the BDSM Lifestyle (and not get what you don't want.) Finally all the different confusing aspects of your BDSM Identity, Roles, Dynamics and Lifestyle can be sorted out and the navigation and negotiation of everything with your Dom(s) will be completely simplified and made totally easy! No more disorientation or miscommunication! With this simple, easy to use, fun, sexy workbook you will be able to self actualize as your ideal submissive self and the submissive Goddess that you want to be, and develop the sex life of your wildest dreams and fantasies! A must have for any woman who has recently discovered the BDSM Lifestyle on her sexual journey and really wants to find herself as a submissive and reveal her submissive side to the fullest extent, and fulfill all of her deepest desires with BDSM. Become the sexual being and get the sexual reality you want right now with this very special work book! Discovering yourself has never been so orgasmic! Don't miss out on all the pleasures the submissive role and lifestyle has in store for you!

Download or read book Uniquely Dominant Being the Dominant in a D s Relationship written by Ms.Rika and published by Lulu.com. This book was released on 2018-08-21 with total page 194 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In this, the third in the ""Uniquely"" Series, Ms. Rika turns her attention to the role of the dominant in long-term, committed, service-oriented dynamics. Rika guides you in the creation and continued adaptation of a unique definition of submission that will work for you in your relationships. Dominants of all experience levels will find Rika's approach adaptable and enlightening. Submissives will gain a new understanding of the dominant perspective - and will be prepared to serve better because of it! If you're looking to establish a stronger, more fulfilling power dynamic that's based in reality, common sense, and practicality, learn how to put Ms. Rika's Dominant-Centric approach to work in your relationship. Read, ""Uniquely Dominant""!

Download or read book Extreme Space written by F. R. R. Mallory and published by . This book was released on 2013-03 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The essential handbook for singles and couples who want to explore domination and submission as a relationship style or fetish in ways that are emotionally sustainable. For anyone who has ever fantasized about consensual kink, S/m, love, kinky sex, and powerful intimate connections beyond the limits of traditional relationships, this groundbreaking handbook explores the unusual potentials that are unique to kink. Experienced kink participant F.R.R. Mallory dispels myths and covers all the complex contradictions integral to maintaining a successful and responsible kink-centric relationship--from honest communication to self-awareness and more. Individuals and their partners will learn how to establish limits, explore psychological edges, and how to define their relationships on their own terms.

Download or read book Sex written by Alexandra Morris and published by . This book was released on 2020-05-17 with total page 264 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Add a healthy dose of BDSM to your sex life. Experience the difference. Most fantasies involve BDSM in one way or another, and that's where this book fits right in. This book is based on years of experience and tons of research about sexual relationships and will most certainly answer all of your questions about the sub/dom dynamic and sub/dom relationship. This book includes how to set boundaries, how to build a strong relationship, how to put your knowledge into action, your mindset, role plays, conversations script examples, and much more. If that's not enough, enjoy the two bonus chapters of my popular book Dominant Women: The Dominant Women's and Submissive Men's Handbook For Amazing Relationships at the end. Press the Buy-button, enjoy the book, and let me know if we can help you in any way! All the best, Alexandra

Download or read book The Sexually Dominant Woman written by Lady Green and published by Greenery Press (CA). This book was released on 1998-12 with total page 98 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Since its first publication over six years ago, tens of thousands of women, men and couples have learnt the fundamentals of safe, fun, erotic female-dominant play. This friendly non-threatening book is the perfect starting point for the woman who has fantasized about erotic power play, explaining the fundamentals of bondage, sensation and control games. Also included a script to inspire and support the reader through her first scene.

Download or read book The Ritual of Dominance and Submission written by David English and published by Createspace Independent Pub. This book was released on 2012-07-06 with total page 302 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Within these pages lay the elusive secrets to defining structure and ritual to alternative dominant/submissive and master/slave lifestyle dynamics within your personal life or your community. You will find a definitive resource for building, practicing and maintaining rituals and protocols within your relationship or group, without having to go join a secret society, or convincing someone to mentor you on their private secrets for success.

Download or read book Submissive Training written by Joshua Matthew and published by Createspace Independent Publishing Platform. This book was released on 2017-11-17 with total page 100 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: SUBMISSIVE TRAINING Thinking of becoming a slave to Christian Grey? Or perhaps you simply wish to learn more about the world of BDSM, and discover what it takes to really become a full-fledged submissive? Either way, this would be the book that will teach you how to become a better, naughtier submissive through the following topics: Understanding the psychology behind D/s relationships, how you can get into one and tips to ensure your safety and well-being for the long-haul. A brief introduction into the realm of BDSM, i.e., Bondage, Discipline and Sado-masochism Basic knowledge on submissive training in the perspective of a submissive Tips to please your Dominant partner through conditioning, rules and protocols and even pain tolerance techniques 30 sexual scenarios for you and your dominant partner to explore and apply for the best Dominant/submissive - D/s experience If you really want to know what submissives do/say/feel behind closed doors then this is the book for you.

Download or read book Erotic Power written by Gini Graham Scott and published by Citadel Press. This book was released on 1983 with total page 280 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Have the nineties seduced mainstream culture into the "dark side" of sexuality? How have rubber and leather clothing made it out of the back rooms of sex shops and into your local mall? In the early eighties, Gini Graham Scott explored the underworld of human sexuality. She has recently returned to this world to examine the growing popularity of dominance and submission (D & S).Not surprisingly, she discovers that a greater openness to sexuality has led to the emergence of over twenty million devotees of the D & S scene today. Scott explores the areas of sadomasochism and bondage and discipline as both a witness and a practitioner. In Erotic Power, she interviews mistresses, their subjects, and various group participants in D & S. Her research covers - Her personal experiences as a "mistress in training" - A survey of the top clubs - References and resources for those who desire to know more.Erotic Power sheds new light on a once taboo but increasingly fascinating subject.

Download or read book Different Loving written by Gloria G. Brame and published by . This book was released on 1993 with total page 539 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Discusses dominance, submission, and their related activities, including transgenderism, corporeal punishment, fetishism, body modification, and other carnal acts

Download or read book Leading and Supportive Love written by Chris M. Lyon and published by Createspace Independent Publishing Platform. This book was released on 2012-10-26 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Have you felt 'left out' of the traditional relationship self-help books because you derive great pleasure from following your partner's requests and direction on many things in your life? Or do you respond to the natural inclination to guide, direct and protect your partner? Are your friends and family having difficulty understanding that your relationship works more like a captain and first mate on a boat? If so, this innovative book, Leading and Supportive Love, the Truth about Dominant and Submissive Relationships, can help with new and clearer understanding of yourself, your relationship and acceptance with those that you love and care for. The Dominant and Submissive Relationship is an ancient and contemporary harmonious dance that has become mysterious, magnetic, powerful, and controversial in modern day society. It may not be what you think, and some of the truth may surprise you! It's a law of nature for socialized animals and humans to have hierarchical relationships. There are those who answer that call in a more literal, thorough way. The couple has a 'pack leader'; or a dominant leader; and a submissive member. Through history to modern day, both roles have been held by both men and/or women...Oh and yes, this is a relationship where both partners are equals. Read about case illustrations, research insights, relationship help, and surprising details that may make you look at this type of long-term, committed relationship in a whole different way, no matter what gender you are! Do you identify with one of these lists of traits? Most people either do identify or know someone who does. If so, this unprecedented book is for you! S-Type Service to your partner is of great priority to you and you take it very seriously. Decisiveness, direction, and guidance from your partner makes you feel secure and loved. You avoid conflict and are generally non-confrontative in nature in close relationships. You greatly appreciate your partner being clear and direct with communication, so there are no doubts about what the expectations are. You appreciate the freedom that comes from structure, surrender, and personal discipline. L-Type You have natural dominant traits and seem comfortable and confident when using them. You place an importance on follow-through and follow-up from your partner. You step into your natural abilities to lead, guide, protect and direct. It's important to you that you earn trust from your partner. You will not ask for it or demand it up front. You feel safe, secure and valued when your partner trusts you to lead and make decisions in the areas agreed upon.

Download or read book Permission written by Saskia Vogel and published by Coach House Books. This book was released on 2019-04-10 with total page 185 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A grieving young woman learns something new about love from a dominatrix in this haunting and erotic debut. Echo is a failing actress who prefers to lose herself in the lives of others rather than examine her own. When her father disappears in a seaside misstep, she and her mother are left grief-stricken, unsure of how to piece back together their family that, it turns out, had never been whole. But then Orly -- a dominatrix -- moves in across the street. And through her, Echo begins to find the pieces that will allow her to carry on. Set among the bright colours and harshly glittering lights of Los Angeles, this is a love story about people addled with dreams and expectations who turn to the erotic for answers.

Download or read book Dominance and Submission written by Katherine Moxx and published by CreateSpace. This book was released on 2015-02-26 with total page 36 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Dominance & Submission: The Art, The Act & The Pleasure Of Erotic PlayDiscover the secret world of this sexual art. Satisfy your curiosity. Unravel the art, the act and the pleasure of erotic play. Are you a Dom, a sub or a switch? Read on and find out.Whether it is a fantasy, curiosity or both, this book will satisfy any secret needs for this kind of information. Do you want to know the origins of this practice? Do you want to be familiar with the vocabulary, terminology and lingo used by practitioners? Do you want to know the many dominance and submission relationships styles? Are you interested in how practitioners come into agreement on their plays? Do you want a list and detailed descriptions of the equipment and safety involved? Do you have other questions that you may be afraid or even embarrassed to ask?This book will give you a brief history dominance and submission as part of the BDSM culture. A list of private words used by practitioners is also added along with their meanings. Included also are detailed discussion on various relationship styles and the equipment used during the plays. Added are concepts of consent, safety and a list of FAQs. By reading Dominance & Submission, you will learn: Brief History Terminology Relationship Styles Consent & Contracts Restraints, Furniture, Stimulation & Dungeon Safety FAQs Much, much more! Whether it is a secret fetish or a hardcore fantasy, the community is more than welcoming. Consider sharing your preferences to your partner, educating yourself beyond the information given in this book and start exploring the fulfillment of your desires. After reading this book, experience will take over as your teacher. This book is only meant to provide you with information. You may use this information towards making your own decision that is right and appropriate for you.

Download or read book Guide to BDSM written by Donna Prince and published by Donna Prince. This book was released on 2020-11-16 with total page 202 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: You or your partner are fascinated by BDSM, but don't know how and where to start? Everything you need to know, you will find it in this book. Most of what people think about BDSM, is wrong. In reality BDSM is not degrading women or men and you will also understand that it's not as obscure as you think. And also the concept of "pain" we are talking about is not what people think. You will also understand that having the role of the Dom is not just about having pleasure, on the contrary, the Dom has the role of giving pleasure and discipline to the submissive. He must have pleasure in giving pleasure and not simply receiving what he wants. This book is intended for both Dominant and Submissive training. It's also perfect for those who haven't experience in this world. This is a taste of what you will find in this book: What is BDSM and Why? Introducing BDSM to your Partner What is Domination and Submission 8 Tips on how to get Started in BDSM 7 Mistakes New Submissives Make 10 must-have BDSM Toys for Beginners Bondage play Punishments Examples Types of Consents: SSC vs RACK Dominance Techniques Role-Play types SAFE WORDS: how to Choose them and why After reading this book you will have made your sex life richer and your partner will beg you for more. So buy now and get your copy of "Guide to BDSM"!