Download or read book Love More Fight Less Communication Skills Every Couple Needs written by Gina Senarighi PhD, CPC and published by National Geographic Books. This book was released on 2020-07-28 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Learn to communicate effectively, meaningfully, and lovingly with your partner--even in tense situations. Conflict is part of every relationship, even the healthiest ones. The key to a long-lasting relationship isn't avoiding fights, but rather seeing them as opportunities to work together. In her book, Gottman-certified relationship coach Dr. Gina Senarighi gives us the tools and strategies we need to communicate effectively, rebuild trust, and repair past hurts. Love More, Fight Less features: 30 COMMUNICATION SKILLS AND ACTIVITIES for building self-awareness, identifying and interrupting emotional reactivity, eliminating judgment, separating thoughts from feelings, and more 29 COMMON PITFALLS IN RELATIONSHIPS around issues of intimacy, career, finances, family and home matters, and friendships with other people--and how to navigate them STEP-BY-STEP GUIDANCE AND EXPERT INSIGHT to help you transform your relationship's conflict patterns by integrating effective communication skills This relationship workbook is for couples who want to learn new skills and build a solid foundation for working through conflicts and moving forward in ways that strengthen their bonds.

Download or read book Fight Less Love More written by Laurie Puhn and published by Rodale. This book was released on 2012-09-18 with total page 274 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A Harvard-trained lawyer and mediator shows busy couples how to stop fighting and start communicating. In Fight Less, Love More, readers will learn how to identify the bad verbal habits, instinctive responses, and emotional reasoning that can cloud judgment and ultimately lead to the deterioration of otherwise healthy relationships. With exercises, examples, and sample scripts, Puhn’s modern voice presents simple 5-minute strategies create immediate, positive changes and provide long-lasting communication skills that couples can continually employ when faced with conflict.

Download or read book Couples Therapy Workbook written by Kathleen Mates-Youngman, LMFT and published by PESI Publishing & Media. This book was released on 2014-10-01 with total page 158 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Couples Therapy Workbook is a series of guided questions to promote meaningful couple conversations and build ongoing, connected communication. The core of this unique guide is 30 guided conversations of the most critical relationship struggles. For each of the 30 topics, there is an introduction, goal-setting strategies and 10 scripted questions to ask each other - all presented in an easy-to-use mindful style. Set in a weekly format over 30 days but can be tailored to any timeframe. Designed to be used to couples, and also by therapists working with couples (bonus clinician prep included with each conversation). Week 1- Who Are We? Falling in Love, Friendship, Caring, Acceptance, Empathy, Emotional Intimacy, Rituals Week 2 - Who Am I? Childhood, Family Origin, Temperament, Influences, Spirituality, Values, How I Think Week 3- How do we work? Communication, Conflict, Defensiveness, Intimacy, Trust, Fidelity and Boundaries, Parenting, Staying in Sync Week 4 - What do we want? Romance, Joy and Gratitude, respect, Apologies and Forgiveness, Challenges, Relationship Savings Account, Past, Present & Future, Keeping Connected Reviews: “What a unique resource! A treasure-trove of guided conversations to increase intimacy and friendship. Therapists often ask me for good homework assignments. This book does the thinking for you. Keep it on hand and whether its values, sex, conflict or other challenging issues, you'll have a ready-made way to help your clients make immediate progress.” -- Ellyn Bader, Ph.D, Founder/Director The Couples Institute "This is a valuable resource for anyone working with couples. Any couple can profit greatly if they are willing to take Kathleen Youngman's challenge to explore these important topics and discuss these wonderful questions." -- Milan and Kay Yerkovich, Authors of best-selling How We Love series “Instead of offering analysis, advice or theory, The Couples Therapy Workbook offers just that, a set of questions to stimulate conversations that help couples deepen their engagement with each other and reconnect. All couples will find this an exceptional guide, and all therapists will find it an effective instrument to supplement the therapeutic process. I highly recommend it and complement the author on her creativity and attention to the core details of a connected relationship.” --Harville Hendrix, Ph. D. and Helen LaKelly Hunt, Ph. D.; Authors of Making Marriage Simple and Getting the Love You Want.

Download or read book Love More Fight Less Guidebook written by John T Collins Psyd and published by John T. Collins PsyD & Rachel Collins MD. This book was released on 2021-04-23 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: When you and your partner have trouble communicating, you may be tempted to reach out to a therapist. Do you really need help? Your Customers Will Never Stop To Use This Amazing Guide! You might be surprised to learn that in some situations, couples therapy can be beneficial. In many cases, couples therapy can help couples become more aware of the connection between themselves and their families. Couples therapy can also help couples work through problems that they experience at home and around intimacy. If you or your partner are experiencing difficulties in your relationship, consider reaching out to a therapist so that you can heal and strengthen your relationship. This book covers: - Couple Communication - Overcoming Trust Issues - Overcoming Relationship Disputes - Tips for Building a Healthy, Lasting, and Stronger Relationship - The Chemistry of Secure and Happy - Relationship and Projections - Common Troubles in Marriage - Overcoming Jealousy in Your Relationship - Advice for Couples - Exploring Intimacy And much more! Couple therapy is one of the most common forms of mental health treatment. Couple therapy can help couples understand and possibly resolve some of the problems they may be dealing with. Couples can benefit from this type of therapy because they can work on their relationship issues in a safe environment. When a couple visits the therapist, they are usually required to meet with the therapist separately. However, there are times when it may be appropriate for both people to be in a room together. This is where couple therapy can help. Buy it NOW and let your customers get addicted to this amazing book!

Download or read book No More Fighting written by Alicia Muñoz and published by Zephyros Press. This book was released on 2018-12-04 with total page 286 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: All couples fight―but a little guidance goes a long way to tackling the issues that trigger fights in the first place. No More Fighting offers couples fast and effective strategies to overcome common relationship problems and build lasting love together. In just 20 minutes per week, couples will learn how to effectively speak and listen to each other as they confront critical relationship issues. From reconciling different values to navigating intimacy issues and everything in between, No More Fighting gives you the skills you need to fight less and love each other more. --

Download or read book The Love Fix written by Tara Fields and published by HarperCollins. This book was released on 2015-09-15 with total page 165 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: All couples argue, but how do some couples get to what seems like the point of no return? Licensed marriage and family therapist Dr. Tara Fields has spent more than twenty-eight years working with couples, and she has discovered that there are five common conflict loops that couples fall into—and three steps to getting past having the same fights over and over again and onward to building a relationship where each partner feels heard, understood, respected, and loved. These steps include: Recognizing the conflict loop at play Exploring past and present fears Creating opportunities to get in touch with the deepest needs of both partners in order to find new gratitude, respect, and trust Change comes with awareness. When you’re present in the moment, conflict with your partner can become an opportunity to work through unresolved issues and to learn more about each other; it can even become a way to grow closer. In The Love Fix, Fields shares her tested and proven tools to help build stronger relationships, including: Insight from real couples who have repaired their relationships Self-assessment quizzes to get to the root of the problem Practical 3-Minute Fixes you can start using immediately HEARTwork exercises to help you dig deeper in order to reconnect It’s never too late to reignite your passion and to restore the love between you and your partner. Stop rehashing the same issues, figure out what you’re really fighting about, and start enjoying a happier, stronger relationship today.

Download or read book A Couple s Love Journal written by Lori Ann Davis and published by Rockridge Press. This book was released on 2019-11-05 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This year, fall in love all over again with this powerful relationship journal A Couple’s Love Journal is designed to open new lines of communication and create a ritual of meaningful and lasting connection between you and your partner. By devoting time every week with your partner as your work through the book, you’ll address relevant and compelling questions designed to touch on every aspect of your relationship, from day-to-day issues to long-term plans. It’s kind of like getting to know one another all over again and reveling in that magical feeling. With this love journal, you and your partner will be inspired to: Open a lively dialogue and increase your connection over the course of a year with 52 heartfelt and thought-provoking weekly prompts. Put your weekly words into action with relevant and thoughtful suggestions for activities you can share. Indulge in time for appreciation and reflection by following the book's helpful structure. Begin your yearlong journey to a deeper and more rewarding relationship.

Download or read book Fierce Marriage written by Ryan Frederick and published by Baker Books. This book was released on 2018-04-17 with total page 221 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Ryan and Selena Frederick were newlyweds when they landed in Switzerland to pursue Selena's dream of training horses. Neither of them knew at the time that Ryan was living out a death sentence brought on by a worsening genetic heart defect. Soon it became clear he needed major surgery that could either save his life--or result in his death on the operating table. The young couple prepared for the worst. When Ryan survived, they both realized that they still had a future together. But the near loss changed the way they saw all that would lie ahead. They would live and love fiercely, fighting for each other and for a Christ-centered marriage, every step of the way. Fierce Marriage is their story, but more than that, it is a call for married couples to put God first in their relationship, to measure everything they do and say to each other against what Christ did for them, and to see marriage not just as a relationship they should try to keep healthy but also as one worth fighting for in every situation. With the gospel as their foundation, Ryan and Selena offer hope and practical help for common struggles in marriage, including communication problems, sexual frustration, financial stress, family tension, screen-time disconnection, and unrealistic expectations.

Download or read book The Relationship Skills Workbook written by Julia Colwell, Ph.D. and published by Sounds True. This book was released on 2014-10-01 with total page 179 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Course objectives: Recognize relationship as an emotional healer; identify triggers, move through them, and come back into ease and alivenessDiscover how intimacy in relationship requires curiosity, wonder, and the ability to find the truth of one's experience deep in one's bodyDiscuss how to speak the "unarguable truth"; utilizing the eight step moving emotions process—moving from stuckness into emotional flowDefine three toxic habits within relationships and their antidotes—transforming our own behavior, as well as those around us through positive attentionSummarize how to move out of power struggles within relationships and into agreements which allow everyone to get everything they wantDiscuss how to live within the relationship you really want moving between contractiona and expansiveness—welcoming appreciations, creativity, play, aliveness, as well as love for self and otherUtilize checklists, tools, and journaling exercises as a way to engage, reflect and explore relationship skills and self-growth What are the ingredients of a successful and enduring relationship? Love, passion, and commitment are all vital—yet without certain basic skills, even the most devoted partners can find themselves descending into arguments, power struggles, and disillusionment. With The Relationship Skills Workbook, Dr. Julia Colwell presents a practical guide for building a conscious partnership based on cooperation and trust—offering relationship-saving techniques and on-the-spot conflict resolution tools for disarming the explosive clashes that most commonly break couples apart. In this friendly and easy-to-use resource, Dr. Colwell teaches you essential tools for: Crisis and conflict first aid—communication strategies and emotional mastery techniques to stop arguing and start connectingGetting unstuck from power struggles—how to shift from deadlock to mutual responsibility and supportEnding the blame game—letting go of accusation and resentment to create win-win agreementsSupporting each other's growth and success—how to retain your personal autonomy while fully committing to your partner's happinessMoving from reactivity to creative solutions—techniques to keep your brain's flight-or-fight instinct from undermining your heart's desiresSustaining love, passion, and romance—how you can choose to create a magnificent relationship together "Relationships, while seemingly complicated, don't have to be so mysterious," Dr. Colwell says. "What I've learned from my decades of personal and professional experiences is that a few elegantly simple concepts and skills can help any couple through the most difficult spots—and help us transform conflict into intimacy, passion, and ever-deepening love."

Download or read book More Love Less Conflict written by Logan J Armstrong and published by Independently Published. This book was released on 2022-11-02 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Even the healthiest relationships have conflict from time to time. Fighting is inevitable in relationships, but the secret is to use it as an opportunity to improve your communication. In this book, Dr. Gina Senarighi, a Gottman-certified relationship coach, provides us with the skills and techniques we need to communicate clearly, reestablish trust, and mend previous wounds. You will learn additional communication techniques and exercises in More Love, Less Conflict, including those for increasing self-awareness, recognizing and stopping emotional response, doing away with judgment, separating ideas from emotions, and more. COMMON FAILURES IN RELATIONSHIPS including intimacy, job, money, family and home concerns, and connections with others-and how to handle them You will get STEP-BY-STEP GUIDANCE AND EXPERT INSIGHT to modify the conflict patterns in your relationship by using effective communication techniques. This relationship workbook is intended for couples who want to develop new skills and a strong foundation for handling disagreements and moving ahead in ways that deepen their ties.

Download or read book More Love Less Conflict written by Jonathan Robinson and published by Mango Media Inc.. This book was released on 2018-05-01 with total page 156 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A practical guide “brimming with wonderful ideas and methods that can help any couple experience a deeper, more profound connection” (John Gray, author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus). More Love Less Conflict teaches readers how to communicate effectively and get more out of love. Whether debating with your parents, trying to convince your boss, or romancing your significant other, the importance of communication skills in your day-to-day life is undeniable. Through the strategies outlined in this essential guide, you can become a better listener, practice open communication, and be capable of handling almost any situation with confidence and compassion. As psychotherapist and bestselling author Jonathan Robinson explains, communication is, like love, something to work on and get better at through conscious practice. Robinson introduces ways for couples to build a foundation of love and connection, engage in crucial conversations, understand unique needs, spot a partner’s triggers, overcome communication barriers—and clear the path for love, fun, and affection.

Download or read book Relationship Essentials written by Lauren Reitsema and published by New World Library. This book was released on 2021-11-16 with total page 170 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Build life-enhancing relationships, restore damaged ones, and prevent communication breakdowns before they happen Using real-world examples, illustrations from their own lives, and a research-based approach, dynamic daughter-mother duo Lauren Reitsema and Joneen Mackenzie guide you through familiar relationship situations. Their suggestions can be used with your partner, coworkers, children, extended family members, and friends. Drawing from their experience teaching thousands through The Center for Relationship Education, they introduce practical, easy-to-use strategies that will help you communicate more effectively and work through relationship challenges with confidence. When applied in any area of your life, these tools can have seemingly miraculous love- and life-enhancing results.

Download or read book An Emotionally Focused Workbook for Couples written by Veronica Kallos-Lilly and published by Routledge. This book was released on 2021-12-20 with total page 245 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The second edition of this essential and newly updated workbook is intended for use with couples who want to enhance their emotional connection or overcome their relationship distress. It closely follows the course of EFT treatment and allows clinicians to easily integrate guided reading, reflection, and discussion into the therapeutic process. Incorporating new developments in EFT and decades of research in the field of attachment, Veronica Kallos-Lilly and Jennifer Fitzgerald include chapters that explore concepts such as attachment bonds, the three cycles of relationship distress, how to make sense of emotions, relationship hurts and more. The workbook follows the familiar and accessible format of the first edition, Read, Reflect, and Discuss, and weaves fresh, illustrative examples throughout, with updated content considering the impact of gender, culture, and sexual orientation on relationship dynamics. Added reflections on these topics and an expanded section on sexuality dispels constraining popular myths and frees partners up to express themselves more openly. This book is essential reading for partners looking for helpful steps to improve the quality of their romantic relationships as well as marriage and family therapists, couple therapists and clinicians training in EFT to use with their clients.

Download or read book Couple Therapy The Communication written by Amelia McDaniell and published by . This book was released on 2021-05-20 with total page 116 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: ★55% OFF for Bookstores! NOW at $37.95 instead of $47.95!★ "It's always worth giving your relationship a chance. It's still worth giving yourself a chance!" Amelia McDaniell

Download or read book Why Couples Fight written by Mira Kirshenbaum and published by Citadel Press. This book was released on 2021-01-26 with total page 304 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: How do two well-meaning people who genuinely care about each other end up in a damaged, unsatisfying relationship? Every couple faces conflict. Most of the time, the root of the problem is that we’re not getting our needs met. And most of the time, we first try to remedy this with reasonable requests—or hints—and a kind tone. But when that fails, we feel disempowered, which leads to sighs, eye rolls, silences, subtle put-downs, insults, and even threats. These are power moves. And while we often use them without realizing it and without intention, the result is the same—our partner feels disempowered and will try to re-empower themselves. And so the endless, and endlessly destructive, dynamic takes hold. Relationship expert Mira Kirshenbaum, bestselling author of Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay, reveals a better way: a three-step method for conflict-free problem solving. By recognizing each partner’s power moves, we can instead find mutually satisfying ways to heal our hurts and meet each other’s needs. Non-judgmental, compassionate, and wise, this is an indispensable guide to help couples end the negative cycle and get back to the loving understanding that brought them together in the first place. “Mira Kirshenbaum’s words of wisdom are an inspiration to everyone who reads them.” —Deepak Chopra

Download or read book The Relationship Communication Cure written by Joshua Larson and published by Independently Published. This book was released on 2018-12-20 with total page 141 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Did you grow up in a dysfunctional family or had problems to learn proper communication without aggression or guilt? Are conflicts in your relationship escalating way more often than you would like to and even seemingly small things lead to big discomfort for both of you? Do you simply want to find a better, more loving way to communicate with your partner genuinely? If you answered yes to at least one of the questions above, then this guide is specifically written to cater to your needs. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, in 2012 about 29% of first marriages among women aged 15-44 were disrupted (ended in separation, divorce or annulment) within 10 years. Other numbers, e.g. the National Survey of Family Growth representatives, estimated in 2012 that the lifelong probability of a marriage ending in divorce is 40%-50%. The major causes of divorce or why relationships between couples in general break up are arguing too much, failing to listen to the partner or blaming instead of showing love and affection. All of this factors have a root cause in a lack of effective, calm and loving communication But not only if you're looking to improve your relationship with your spouse, this guide can be of tremendous value for you. It will also lay a solid framework so that you can naturally navigate difficult conversations at work, or connect on a deeper level with friends and family. By delivering simple, practical, proven techniques for improving any relationship in your life, you can quickly resolve or even prevent argument and provide proper support to your loved ones. In "The Relationship Communication Cure" you'll discover: The 5 little-known real shortcuts to INSTANTLY improve your communication with your partner (Even if you only read this small section, you could see a dramatic change!) The 11 exact expectations people knowingly or unknowingly look for in a relationship, so you can better understand yourself and your partner What role these 3 specific nonverbal signals play in your overall relationship Why listening to your partner alone is not enough - even though everybody seems to tell you exactly that The biggest myths busted: the 5 proven ways to manage conflicts effectively or even prevent them in the first place Why tone inflections and the right words matter so much when you speak with your loved one The absolute worst 5 mistakes you might be doing currently that could sabotage your whole life with your partner (avoid these mistakes at all costs if you want to finally reach a healthy communication habit!) ...and much, much more! Even if you feel that you currently completely lack the interpersonal skills to understand your significant other or be understood yourself, the extensive research that went into this guide and the practical applications and exercises will develop and cultivate your empathy, listening ability, and understanding of your partner. By relying on the latest scientific research from international experts, "The Relationship Communication Cure" is able to identify the exact mistakes you or your partner are currently doing and how to fix them immediately. So if you want to finally access the tricks and tips most experts don't even know and finally unlock your full potential as a spouse, click "Add to Cart" now! ★★ Buy the Paperback version and get the Kindle eBook version included for FREE! ★★

Download or read book Couple Skills written by Matthew McKay and published by New Harbinger Publications. This book was released on 2006-12-01 with total page 325 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Love takes work, but, when it comes to relationships, it pays to work smarter. Couple Skills, Second Edition, revised and updated from the therapist-recommended classic, will show you how to work smarter in your relationship. You'll learn to improve communication, cope better with problems, and resolve conflicts with the one you love in healthy and creative ways. Each chapter teaches you an essential skill that supports greater relationship satisfaction and deeper intimacy. New to this edition is a chapter on using acceptance skills, developed from the revolutionary new acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT). These new approaches will help you to accept your partner's feelings (and your own emotions) without judgment. Using these techniques will help you decide what you really value in your relationship and then commit to acting in ways that further those values every day.