Download or read book Blindsided By His Betrayal Surviving the Shock of Your Husband s Infidelity written by Dr. Caroline Madden, Marriage Therapist and published by Train of Thought Press. This book was released on 2016-05-15 with total page 92 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Your husband cheated on you, and now you don't recognize yourself. You feel crazy.You are NOT crazy! You are having a normal reaction to being blindsided by your husband's betrayal! Your reactions are completely rational and expected responses to such a painful experience. You're hurting, this book can help. Dr. Caroline Madden, infidelity expert and licensed marriage therapist describes: *12 Actions that will help you get back to the woman you were *Posttraumatic Affair Syndrome (PTAS) *7 Actions you want to take but should NOT (as They May Backfire Horribly) *Understand the thoughts that plague you *The stupid things your husband says and why he says it This book is geared towards helping you deal with your tumultuous emotions so that you make better, more rational decisions.

Download or read book Fool Me Once Should I Take Back My Cheating Husband written by Dr. Caroline Madden, Marriage Therapist and published by Train of Thought Press. This book was released on 2014-12-05 with total page 52 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: You always said if your man cheated, you'd leave him so fast his head would spin. But now that it's happened it's not so black and white, is it?Caroline Madden, MFT is an affair recovery specialist. She has over a decade of experience in helping couples challenged by infidelity in marriage and teaching women how to survive their husband's affair. In Fool Me Once, she shares the criteria she uses to determine if a man is truly remorseful and determined to save his marriage or if he will continue to cheat and hurt you.Here is some of the information she shares:* 5 Things That Look Suspiciously Like Your Spouse is Still Cheating (But He Probably Isn't)* 5 Signs You Should Consider Giving Him A Chance to Rebuild Trust & Intimacy After infidelity * 7 Signs He is Going to Cheat Again (And You Will Be Hurt Again)Infidelity is traumatic, and you need to take time to assess the situation. Fool Me Once will give you the tools you need to evaluate your relationship. It will help you determine whether you should trust your husband or not and decide if your marriage is worth saving.Don't Make a Decision Now That You'll Regret Later ! As they say "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me."Infidelity, Divorce Advice, Affairs In Marriage, affair recovery

Download or read book After a Good Man Cheats written by Dr. Caroline Madden MFT and published by Train of Thought Press. This book was released on 2015-02-17 with total page pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This book is a practical action plan that will walk you through the first stages after your wife has discovered your infidelity.You'll learn the things your wife is going to feel, say, and do, giving you the following:* Insight into what she is thinking and why this is so hard for her to get over* Practical advice so you know exactly what to do at this important stage* Actual scripts so you know what to say in response to very specific situations* Clear explanations as to why certain words and actions you think will be helpful might be making this worse* Two self-administered quizzes to help you determine why you cheated so that you can get a better understanding of what triggered your affair. Included at the appropriate points are scripts of what to say and why you need to say those words at that time. Do not just memorize these words and parrot them back to your wife. You have already lost her trust; if you start using words you don't normally use, you'll sound like you're faking it. You will want to translate the scripts into your own natural wording, using the meaning of each script as a launching pad for productive, healing dialogue with your wife.Also, other these other questions are answered:* She doesn't know. I feel guilty. Should I tell her the truth?* We aren't married yet? How does that impact recovering from the affair?* I didn't have a physical relationship with my Affair Partner, why is my wife so upset?* What is an Emotional Affair?

Download or read book Secrets to Surviving Infidelity written by Scott Haltzman and published by Johns Hopkins University Press. This book was released on 2025-02-11 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Now completely updated! A compassionate guide to help couples survive infidelity and improve their relationship. When a couple's trust is shattered by infidelity, healing may seem beyond reach—but it doesn't have to be. This second edition of Secrets to Surviving Infidelity offers a compassionate and practical roadmap toward recovery and reconnection. Through humane insights and step-by-step strategies, Dr. Scott Haltzman, a psychiatrist and marriage educator, shares how to overcome the pain of betrayal and strengthen relationships in its wake. Whether you are the wronged partner, the one who strayed, or a therapist navigating your clients' infidelity, this book serves as an essential guide to the intricacies of infidelity—from the initial shock and heartache to the complex process of rebuilding trust. This second edition includes new information on: • The evolving definitions of marriage and commitment, with updated language to include those who are in unmarried, committed relationships. • Relationship challenges unique to the LGBTQ+ community • Gender and sex issues • The neuroscience of infidelity and "flame addiction" • Strategies for conflict management Dr. Haltzman combines real-life stories with robust research to illuminate the types of infidelity, the varied motivations behind affairs, and their impacts on relationships. He provides clear guidance on how to end an affair, how to cope with feelings of anger and grief, and how to foster forgiveness and healing. This book can also serve as a preventive tool to explore and strengthen bonds to make relationships affair-resistant. Secrets to Surviving Infidelity is a lifeline for those desperate to recover and safeguard their relationships.

Download or read book Leave a Cheater Gain a Life written by Tracy Schorn and published by Running Press Adult. This book was released on 2016-05-10 with total page 240 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life is a no-nonsense self-help guide for anyone who has ever been cheated on. Here's advice not based on saving your relationship after infidelity—but saving your sanity. When it comes to cheating, a lot of the attention is focused on cheaters—their unmet needs or their challenges with monogamy. But Tracy Schorn (aka Chump Lady) lampoons such blameshifting and puts the focus squarely on the-cheated-upon (chumps) and their needs. Combining solid advice that champions self-respect, along with hilarious cartoons satirizing the pomposity of cheaters, Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life offers a fresh voice for chumps who want (and need) a new message about infidelity. This book will offer advice on Stupid sh*t cheaters say and how to respond, Rookie mistakes of the recently chumped and how to disarm your fears, Why chumps take the blame and how to protect yourself, and more. Full of snark, sass, and real wisdom about how to bounce back after the gut blow of betrayal, Schorn is the friend who guides you through this nightmare and gives you hope for a better life ahead.

Download or read book Persuasive Acts written by Shari Stenberg and published by University of Pittsburgh Press. This book was released on 2020-03-03 with total page 455 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In June 2015, Bree Newsome scaled the flagpole in front of South Carolina’s state capitol and removed the Confederate flag. The following month, the Confederate flag was permanently removed from the state capitol. Newsome is a compelling example of a twenty-first-century woman rhetor, along with bloggers, writers, politicians, activists, artists, and everyday social media users, who give new meaning to Aristotle’s ubiquitous definition of rhetoric as the discovery of the “available means of persuasion.” Women’s persuasive acts from the first two decades of the twenty-first century include new technologies and repurposed old ones, engaged not only to persuade, but also to tell their stories, to sponsor change, and to challenge cultural forces that repress and oppress. Persuasive Acts: Women’s Rhetorics in the Twenty-First Century gathers an expansive array of voices and texts from well-known figures including Hillary Rodham Clinton, Malala Yousafzai, Michelle Obama, Lindy West, Sonia Sotomayor, and Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, so that readers may converse with them, and build rhetorics of their own. Editors Shari J. Stenberg and Charlotte Hogg have complied timely and provocative rhetorics that represent critical issues and rhetorical affordances of the twenty-first century.

Download or read book Surviving Infidelity written by Rona B. Subotnik and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2005-05-01 with total page 250 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: What Now? Nothing your marriage has sustained in the past compares to the pain of discovering that your spouse has been unfaithful. The betrayal, rage, sadness, and jealousy is unlike anything you've experienced before. And yet it is possible to move forward, decide what to do in your marriage, and most important, heal. For more than 10 years, Surviving Infidelity has been offering sage advice and compassionate, nonjudgmental analysis. Based on the private practices of licensed marriage and family therapist Rona B. Subotnik and clinical psychologist Gloria G. Harris, Ph.D., this third edition has been completely updated and gives you strategies to: Understand the different kinds of affairs and why they happen, including Internet and emotional affairs Cope with your emotions, from grief to rage Repair the marriage if you choose to Learn what it takes to be a survivor Surviving Infidelity, 3rd Edition brings you the new hope and the empathy you need in this difficult time.

Download or read book The Script written by Elizabeth Landers and published by Hyperion. This book was released on 2005-04-27 with total page 194 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: You+ve heard it before: Your friend's husband is acting distant, and she blames herself. Rumor starts to spread that he's running around with his secretary, and still your friend doesn't see. Then he drops the Bomb, moves out-and is soon happily remarried to his mistress. How could your friend have been so blind? That could never happen to you.Statistics show that 35% of husbands cheat on their wives. In The Script, Elizabeth Landers and Vicky Mainzer take readers through the standard lines that have been used by hundreds of unfaithful husbands.Like a screenplay for a movie you never wanted to see, The Script indicates which signs to look for, red flags you might not have noticed before, and how to turn the tide of disaster before it's too late.

Download or read book Surviving Your Worst Nightmare written by Patti Snodgrass and published by Createspace Independent Pub. This book was released on 2011-07-01 with total page 324 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: “Your world has collapsed; your life dreams have crashed. It feels as if your heart has been wounded deeply—shattered—broken beyond repair. You wonder when your heart will stop bleeding. I understand. I too have stumbled along the same path of betrayal that you are on right now. Walk with me through the background stories of my personal experience with infidelity. I vulnerably share my private journal entries and short vignettes of how I survived my husband's betrayal. You will identify with my pain and confusion during the difficult stages of recovery. My story of survival is dramatic, hopeful, and instructive; it will help you as you process through the wide variety of emotions and if you choose, you can eventually move beyond the hurt and devastation that this nightmare has caused. It is possible to survive nightmares in the heart, and upon awakening, a new life will be waiting for you.”-Patti SnodgrassAuthor Patti Snodgrass shares the intimate details of her personal journey with infidelity and what it took to overcome her suffering. Patti's story of survival brings clarity and sanity to the emotional injuries caused by an unfaithful spouse and offers immeasurable hope to those whose hearts has been wounded by an act of betrayal. Candid journal entries are interspersed with engaging chapters, where, among other directives, readers are encouraged to be angry but also embrace a wide range of emotions on a journey towards recovery. Patti questions the past and ponders what might have been, but also brings clarity in being able to identify the truth behind the transgression in order for one to begin moving on. Snodgrass' main objective is to bring stability and hope to the wounded heart. In a very meaningful way, this resource is a guide to the aftershocks of infidelity. It's a true compass to help those in the midst of their own wilderness walk to know that they're not alone—that they will survive. With spirited encouragement Snodgrass provides fellow survivors a tremendous lifeline. Surviving Your Worst Nightmare: A Guide for the Betrayed is a dramatic, hopeful, and instructive guide that helps readers work through the wide variety of emotions and move beyond the hurt. Yes you are changed forever, but this is not fatal, and the journey chronicled in this book will help the wounded survive nightmares of the heart.

Download or read book How to Catch a Cheating Spouse Survive Infidelity written by Kristine C. James and published by Enlightened Publishing. This book was released on 2015-03-25 with total page 63 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Do you feel that your spouse or partner is cheating on you? Does he/she begin to act differently at home? Are you noticing your partner starts spending more time at work for no obvious reason? Is he/she suddenly having regular overnight business trips? Strange items on credit card or phone bills that your partner can't explain? No longer having intimacy or even sex drive like he used to? I myself know the sting of a cheating spouse. I had been with my first husband for over 6 years and I thought I knew him better than anyone. But it turned out I was more deceived than most of the people around him. But discovering infidelity is more than just a gut instinct - it is also a willingness to face the truth; a truth that can shatter everything you hold to be true. That alone can be a dark and fearful thing and requires a bravery you may not even know you have. And what do you do if your partner is cheating on you? Do you stay or leave? How do you handle the emotional stress? Fortunately for me, I have gone from the shock of discovering my ex-husband's cheating to full recovery from this nightmare to finding love and being happily married again. I am here to share my experience and everything I have learned throughout my journey. I have helped my friends with this knowledge and I know I can help you too. In "How to Catch a Cheating Spouse & Survive Infidelity", you will discover all the answers you need to uncover the truth and get through the heartbreak. Here's what you'll learn in this book: - Understand the tell tale signs of infidelity... - 3 little known, yet simple ways to know for sure if he/she is cheating... - Secrets from experts that few people ever know about... - 3 proven steps to understanding how to interpret the evidence... - 2 simple keys (that are right in front of your eyes) to housing finches in an aviary... - WARNING: 3 things you should never do when it comes to confronting a cheating partner... - You'll discover in just a few short minutes how to handle negative emotions... - 6 time tested and proven strategies for dealing with betrayal... - When to seek professional help when it comes to letting out your emotions... - 7 everyday but often overlooked tips and tricks for letting out your anger... - A pennies on the dollar approach to seeking help... - How often to investigate a cheater on your own... - How to create a support group... - The once famous but forgotten secret that instantly allows you to move on with your life after it is shattered by a cheating spouse... - And much more...

Download or read book NOT Just Friends written by Shirley Glass and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2007-11-01 with total page 450 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: One of the world’s leading experts on infidelity provides a step-by-step guide through the process of infidelity—from suspicion and revelation to healing, and provides profound, practical guidance to prevent infidelity and, if it happens, recover and heal from it. You’re right to be cautious when you hear these words: “I’m telling you, we’re just friends.” Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace and the Internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs. Yet you can protect your relationship from emotional or sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage.

Download or read book The Essential Guide to Surviving Infidelity written by Liz Currin, Ph.D. and published by Penguin. This book was released on 2012-01-03 with total page 316 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A thoughtfully written and sensitive guide for anyone dealing with the devastating effects of an affair. For anyone who has been impacted by an affair, the effects can be nothing short of devastating. Licensed clinical psychologist Dr. Liz Currin has years of experience helping couples resolve and repair the damage wrought by the effects of an affair. Through Dr Currin's thoughtful style, readers of The Essential Guide to Surviving Infidelity will learn how affairs start, what to do if a partner is suspected of cheating, how to deal with the emotional impact of an affair, and many other essential steps in the healing process. In addition, Dr. Currin provides clears guideposts to healing a marriage (as well as oneself), moving on, engaging the power of forgiveness, and restoring trust.

Download or read book Cheating in a Nutshell written by Wayne Mitchell and published by Third Ghost Press. This book was released on 2019-09-08 with total page 265 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Cheated on…Battered by emotion…You don't know where to turn. You feel betrayed, devastated, embarrassed, angry, and completely heartbroken. You ask yourself, "How can I stop infidelity from ruining my life?" "How do I cope with this nightmare? You don't realize there is a roadmap that explains what you are going through. That roadmap is Cheating in a Nutshell. Knowledge is Power and Understanding is Liberating. Whatever shade of infidelity you're dealing with, it is powerfully painful – and the feelings that come with it are hardly ever simple. Understanding your pain will change your way of thinking almost immediately. This book is for you if: --You just learned your partner cheated on you --You have been staying with a cheating partner --You were betrayed in a past relationship and seek a deeper understanding of your feelings In Cheating in a Nutshell, Wayne and Tamara Mitchell explain the source of your pain. There is a way out of this darkness, and the first step is to understand the structure of this awful experience. "The focus is on the betrayed, not the cheater, and if you've been cheated on, I agree with other reviewers: This is the best book, the only one you need." – Reader Review It's never too late to understand why you feel as you do. Read Cheating in a Nutshell.

Download or read book Surviving Betrayal written by Alice May and published by Harper Collins. This book was released on 1999-11-17 with total page 388 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: When Your Life Has Been Turned Upside Down Filled with profound wisdom and clear, healing guidance, Surviving Betrayal is the essential companion for any woman whose life has been shattered by infidelity. Author Alice May, who knows firsthand the devastating blow of spousal betrayal, gently leads women through the painful feelings of denial, desperation, and spiritual depletion that accompany infidelity. She shares her experience and strength and that of other women on how to find healthy outlets for rage, survive the inevitable rough spots, regain trust in others, and allow truth to heal the pain. She helps women empower themselves to live their lives with grace, dignity, and calm.

Download or read book Surviving Infidelity written by Rona Subotnik and published by Bob Adams Incorporated Publishers. This book was released on 1994 with total page 196 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Drawing on their clinical experience, Subotnik and Harris offer a nonjudgmental and compassionate look at infidelity from the spouse's point of view, emphasizing practical approaches to recovery. Their work is certain to bring new hope to couples who confront these painful issues.

Download or read book Surviving Infidelity written by Michelle Martin and published by . This book was released on 2020-12-13 with total page 42 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Nothing compares to the destruction individuals feel after finding their spouse has been untrustworthy. Stunned, crushed and overpowered, couples frequently hit impasses as they battle to move beyond extreme passionate agony, question, hatred and ceaseless contentions about the betrayal. Separation isn't your solitary choice when your marriage is in a tough situation; figure out how to speak with your spouse. Direct yet significant, these standards instruct partners new methods for settling clashes, discovering a common ground and accomplishing more noteworthy degrees of intimacy. SURVIVING INFIDELITY offers strategies and resources to assist couples with teaming up successfully to determine any issue, regardless of whether managing issues identified with sex, work, family, or whatever else. Michelle Martin is a well-respected marriage therapist in the United States. She has been able to help so many couples rebuild their relationships.. This book enables you to reestablish bliss in your relationship by instructing you to: ◆Transform your marriage ◆Deal with horrendous feelings after the revelation. ◆ End the affair ◆ Overcome flashbacks and excruciating memories. ◆Rebuild trust and responsibility. ◆Make their marriage stronger ◆Find forgiveness. ◆ Reconnect sexually. Understand how to effectively communicate both internally and externally so that you too can create a more empowering relationship. With the relationship advice outlined in this book, you will get insights and lessons on survive the turbulence of infidelity. Scroll up and click on the BUY button! See how to successfully convey both inside and remotely with the goal that you also can make an additionally engaging relationship. With the relationship counsel delineated in this book, you will get bits of knowledge and exercises on endure the disturbance of disloyalty. Look up and click on the BUY button!

Download or read book My Husband s Affair BECAME the Best Thing That Ever Happened to Me written by Anne Bercht and published by FriesenPress. This book was released on 2021-01-05 with total page 380 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: "When Brian told me of his affair, my whole world was shattered. Since the affair, and since the difficult recovery period, I have excelled in amazing ways in every area of my life. I look and feel better than I did when I was in my twenties. I have more energy, more zeal and more enthusiasm for life. Since I have gotten over my insecurities, I experience far better relationships with my husband, children and others. I also have more fun. No matter what tragedies happen in our lives, we always have a choice, not a choice over what will happen to us, but a choice over how we will react to it. Will we become bitter or better? I chose to become better, and now my greatest tragedy has also become my greatest personal victory." – Anne Bercht "Would I want to go back to our marriage before the affair? Not a chance! Would I have liked to have gotten to this point some other way? Absolutely! Would I recommend an affair to others so they can reach a greater love and better marriage? Absolutely not! If you have experienced an affair, is rebuilding your marriage worth it? You bet it is! As long as you love each other and are willing to do the work." – Brian Bercht