Download or read book Codependents Guide to the Twelve Steps written by Melody Beattie and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 1992-04-09 with total page 275 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Explains how recovery programs work and how to apply the "Twelve Steps" of Alcoholics Anonymous. Offers specific exercises and activities for use by individuals and in group settings.

Download or read book Codependent No More written by Melody Beattie and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2009-06-10 with total page 155 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In a crisis, it's easy to revert to old patterns. Caring for your well-being during the coronavirus pandemic includes maintaining healthy boundaries and saying no to unhealthy relationships. The healing touchstone of millions, this modern classic by one of America's best-loved and most inspirational authors holds the key to understanding codependency and to unlocking its stultifying hold on your life. Is someone else's problem your problem? If, like so many others, you've lost sight of your own life in the drama of tending to someone else's, you may be codependent--and you may find yourself in this book--Codependent No More. The healing touchstone of millions, this modern classic by one of America's best-loved and most inspirational authors holds the key to understanding codependency and to unlocking its stultifying hold on your life. With instructive life stories, personal reflections, exercises, and self-tests, Codependent No More is a simple, straightforward, readable map of the perplexing world of codependency--charting the path to freedom and a lifetime of healing, hope, and happiness. Melody Beattie is the author of Beyond Codependency, The Language of Letting Go, Stop Being Mean to Yourself, The Codependent No More Workbook and Playing It by Heart.

Download or read book The Ultimate Codependency Guide written by Jessica Minty and published by CreateSpace. This book was released on 2014-08-31 with total page 88 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Discover How To Be Codependent No MoreFREE BONUS VIDEO!Millions of people around the world suffer from the debilitating effects of codependency. It is more common than our society realizes, temporarily rearing its ugly head at some point in peoples' lives and completely encapsulating the lives of others. Codependency transcends cultures; it tears up otherwise perfectly healthy relationships; it can drag you into a vicious cycle; it can trap you in a snare of misery. Codependency is subtly woven through our relationships in some form and varies in its intensity. It's a bitter poison resulting in the slow death of healthy relationships - with ourselves and with other people. It is an ever hungry addiction that may seem foolish to drink from, and we know it, but we still allow codependency to continue to cause us to consume. The damaging and crippling effects of codependency leave us exasperated and disempowered; confused and hopeless; pressed down and unable to break free. But there is hope! "The Codependency Guide" encourages and inspires us to change. It breaks down the misconceptions of codependency and introduces how to identify the behaviors we practice that allow this demon to negatively affect our lives. It empowers you with the knowledge to achieve the freedom you so desperately crave through an in-depth examination of your emotions and how they play a part in your decision making process. This helpful book provides assessment tools for assisting you in identifying your current codependent relationships and how to create proper outward and inward boundaries. Furthermore, the book describes practical strategies and solutions to the common challenges people face in their everyday lives. At the core of codependency is the realization that we can't change other people. We can only overcome and be the change that we want to see in the world. We need to accept that we are the root of the problem and be the first to make the changes necessary. It's only when we take responsibility for our thoughts, feelings and behaviors do we see the victory we deserve.Here Is A Preview Of What You'll Learn... What is codependency How to recognize codependency in your life Why people become codependent Codependents and their personalities Codependency and families Codependency and boundaries Caregiving vs caretaking Practical solutions to your codependent tendencies Reclaiming yourself from codependency How to recover from codependency Bonus Video Take action right away to obtain freedom from a codependent life today by downloading this book, "The Ultimate Codependency Guide". Take a step out of the shadows of codependency onto the pathway of freedom. Download your copy today!

Download or read book The New Codependency written by Melody Beattie and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2008-12-30 with total page 289 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The New Codependency is an owner’s manual to learning to be who you are and gives you the tools necessary to reclaim your life by renouncing unhealthy practices. In Codependent No More, Melody Beattie introduced the world to the term codependency. Now a modern classic, this book established Beattie as a pioneer in self-help literature and endeared her to millions of readers who longed for healthier relationships. Twenty-five years later concepts such as self-care and setting boundaries have become entrenched in mainstream culture. Now Beattie has written a followup volume, The New Codependency, which clears up misconceptions about codependency, identifies how codependent behavior has changed, and provides a new generation with a road map to wellness. The question remains: What is and what is not codependency? Beattie here reminds us that much of codependency is normal behavior. It’s about crossing lines. There are times we do too much, care too much, feel too little, or overly engage. Feeling resentment after giving is not the same as heartfelt generosity. Narcissism and self-love, enabling and nurturing, and controlling and setting boundaries are not interchangeable terms. In The New Codependency, Beattie explores these differences, effectively invoking her own inspiring story and those of others, to empower us to step out of the victim role forever. Codependency, she shows, is not an illness but rather a series of behaviors that once broken down and analyzed can be successfully combated. Each section offers an overview of and a series of activities pertaining to a particular behavior—caretaking, controlling, manipulation, denial, repression, etc.—enabling us to personalize our own step-by-step guide to wellness. These sections, in conjunction with a series of tests allowing us to assess the level of our codependent behavior, demonstrate that while it may not seem possible now, we have the power to take care of ourselves, no matter what we are experiencing.

Download or read book Claiming Your Self Esteem written by Carolyn M. Ball and published by Celestial Arts. This book was released on 2013-08-07 with total page 201 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Through discussions of the dynamics of self-esteem, stories of successful life transformations, and powerful exercises that really work, psychotherapist and teacher Carolyn Ball shows that when we learn to love and respect ourselves, we can live the kind of happy and creative lives we have always wanted.

Download or read book Codependency For Dummies written by Darlene Lancer and published by John Wiley & Sons. This book was released on 2012-04-06 with total page 338 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Codependency is much more widespread than originally thought. You don’t even have to be in a relationship. Codependents have trouble accepting themselves, so they hide who they are to be accepted by someone else. Codependency for Dummies is the most comprehensive book on the topic to date. It describes the history, symptoms, causes, and relationship dynamics of codependency and provides self-assessment questionnaires. The majority of the book is devoted to healing and lays out a clear plan for recovery with exercises, practical advice, and helpful daily reminders to help you know, honor, protect, and express yourself. It clarifies deep psychological dynamics that underlie codependency, yet is written in a conversational style that’s easily understandable by everyone. You will learn: How to raise your self-esteem The difference between care-giving and codependent care-taking The difference between healthy and dysfunctional families How to set boundaries How to separate responsibility for yourself and for others How to overcome guilt and resentment

Download or read book Codependent Cure written by Jean Harrison and published by Bernard Pardieu. This book was released on 2019-02-22 with total page 105 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Imagine a powerful solution for saying "No" to your loved ones WITHOUT risking their affection... Do you need external validation just to function properly? Are you constantly putting out fires and fixing other people's problems while neglecting your own? Are your fears of abandonment so strong that you feel as if one of your limbs is being amputated when someone leaves you? If so, you're not alone. Many people have tried various methods to overcome their codependency with little to NO success, leaving them feeling hopeless. You wake up each day feeling like a shell of your former self, lost in a never-ending cycle of putting others' needs before your own. Saying no to helping others feels incredibly guilty, and the fear of losing their love often prevents you from putting yourself first. While it's healthy to be needed and valued by your loved ones, it can become a problem when it drives most of your decisions and behaviors... Especially if you’re only comfortable in relationships where you feel like the person can't live without you. Imagine a powerful solution to assertively say "no" to your loved ones WITHOUT losing their love - allowing you to stop being an emotional sponge and finally put yourself first! It’s called Codependent Cure – A revolutionary, scientifically-backed guide published by bestselling author Jean Harrison, for breaking the chains of codependency and developing emotional resilience. With the proven techniques and strategies outlined in this book, countless individuals have reclaimed their lives, moving away from the relentless pursuit of validation and the habit of people-pleasing. Here's just a small fraction of what you'll discover: ✓ The hidden link between codependency and addiction to break the enabling cycle ✓ The art of setting boundaries like a pro and handling resistance with finesse ✓ The #1 platform destroying your self-worth & why you must leave immediately ✓ How to shortcut your healing from codependency with 3 powerful routines ✓ A bulletproof system designed for maintaining your recovery after healing ✓ How to spot the subtle warning signs of a codependent relationship that often go unnoticed by many ✓ How to explore dating while shielding yourself from predators eager to trap you in toxic relationships ✓ And Much, Much More Exclusive Bonus: You'll also get access to a powerful 3-step toolkit, complete with practical worksheets and exercises, designed to rapidly dissolve codependent patterns and speed up your recovery journey. Codependent Cure helps you learn to stop abandoning yourself for the sake of others while you learn how to honor your emotions, set boundaries, and finally speak your truth. Your happiness and needs are just as important as those of others, so now is the time to take care of them! If you're ready to liberate yourself from the grips of codependency and explore the happiness and fulfillment waiting for you... Then secure your copy of this book today!

Download or read book Expert Secrets Codependency written by Terry Lindberg and published by Terry Lindberg. This book was released on with total page pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Expert Guide On How To Break Free From Codependency! Master The Art Of CBT In No Time And Boost Your Self-Esteem! Afraid that you are stuck in a codependent relationship? Or you just want to help yourself set up more firm boundaries toward other people? Signs of codependency are often hidden in plain sight. Are you making lots of sacrifices to make other people happy, but they don’t seem to return the favor? Does your relationship seem kind of one-sided? If this sounds like you, you likely suffer from codependency. But you don't have to be worried! There are lots of ways to even the battlefield and get your life back. The first step is to understand what codependency means. Experts say it's a pattern of behavior in which you find yourself dependent on approval from someone else for your self-worth and identity. One of the key signs is that your sense of purpose in life wraps around solely one person. You start making extreme sacrifices to satisfy your partner's needs, and that becomes your only source of fulfillment. The second step is starting to make changes in your life! It is important to set boundaries and find happiness as an individual. This may take things to turn for better or worse, but in the end the most important person to you is you. This book will guide you through: - Recognizing symptoms of an unhealthy codependent relationship - Testing yourself to see if you are a codependent person - Self-evaluation on what may have turned you into a codependent person - Expert tips on how to turn your life around and become a strong, independent person - Mechanisms of coping with breaking free from co-dependency - Building your self-esteem and setting up boundaries Start living your life to the fullest! Release yourself from the shackles of codependency, and become the happy person you deserve to be. Let this book guide you through the transformation you ought to make. Be the better version of yourself, because you can do it! Scroll up, click on “Buy Now”, and Start Reading!

Download or read book Narcissist Abuse Recovery written by Jean Harrison and published by Bernard Pardieu. This book was released on 2019-09-30 with total page 119 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Are You Done With Being the Narcissist's Doormat and Eager to Restore Your Dignity? Then Keep reading... Do you constantly feel like you're being targeted by abusive individuals who exploit your kindness? Are you left conflicted and confused after the relationship falls apart? Picture this... You find yourself trapped in a toxic relationship, constantly belittled, manipulated, and stripped of your self-worth. The person you once adored has turned into a puppeteer, dictating your life, and leaving you powerless and drained. Sound familiar? It's a simple fact that the narcissist in your life doesn’t care about you. To them, you are nothing more than a source of attention, admiration, and praise. They need you to supply these things so that they can continue to support their inflated, false sense of self. If you've been a victim of narcissistic abuse, you probably feel isolated and helpless – thinking no one will understand you... But there's hope! Narcissist Abuse Recovery was written by someone who's experienced what you've been through — pain, confusion, and desperation for something better! Drawing on real-life stories and experiences, this book offers a deep understanding of narcissism, its impact on relationships, and the cycle of abuse. Through powerful strategies and practical advice, you will discover how to break free from the grip of narcissistic abuse and reclaim your joy and autonomy. Here's just small a fraction of the wonders you'll discover: ✓ Uncommon traits that make you the perfect target for narcissists ✓ How to decode the language narcissists use to mask their true identify ✓ A crucial element to withhold from a narcissist to weaken their power over you ✓ A simple technique for silencing your abuser and taking control of any situation ✓ The terrifying abuse cycle stages narcissists funnel you through like a chew toy ✓ Subtle tactics abusers will use to linger in your life long after you've dismissed them ✓ Hidden weapons an abuser plans to use against you when trying to leave the relationship ✓ Successful methods for recovering from abuse and healing psychological trauma ✓ How to combat the inescapable narcissism that exists in your family ✓ And much, much more! Exclusive Bonus Additionally, you'll gain access to our powerful step-by-step blueprint for escaping the clutches of your abuser. Complete with actionable strategies designed to provide a clear path to safety and independence whenever you're ready to take that step! The journey towards recovery and freedom from narcissistic control is MORE accessible than ever. Join the ranks of countless individuals who've successfully freed themselves from the shadows of narcissists using the effective techniques in this book. So if you're set on breaking the cycle of narcissistic control and eager to reclaim your independence and well-being... Then secure your copy of this book today!

Download or read book Conquering Shame and Codependency written by Darlene Lancer and published by Hazelden Publishing. This book was released on 2014-05-16 with total page 250 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A nationally recognized author and codependency expert examines the roots of shame and its connection with codependent relationships. Learn how to heal from their destructive hold by implementing eight steps that will empower the real you, and lead to healthier relationships. Shame: the torment you feel when you’re exposed, humiliated, or rejected; the feeling of not being good enough. It’s a deeply painful and universal emotion, yet is not frequently discussed. For some, shame lurks in the unconscious, undermining self-esteem, destroying confidence, and leading to codependency. These codependent relationships—where we overlook our own needs and desires as we try to care for, protect, or please another—often cover up abuse, addiction, or other harmful behaviors. Shame and codependency feed off one another, making us feel stuck, never able to let go, move on, and become the true self we were meant to be. In Conquering Shame and Codependency, Darlene Lancer sheds new light on shame: how codependents’ feelings and beliefs about shame affect their identity, their behavior, and how shame can corrode relationships, destroying trust and love. She then provides eight steps to heal from shame, learn to love yourself, and develop healthy relationships.

Download or read book Codependency written by Sarah Ariston and published by . This book was released on 2021-02-05 with total page 198 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt:

Download or read book Guide To Codependent Relationship written by Hassan Wethje and published by . This book was released on 2021-07-19 with total page 68 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A codependent relationship is a kind of dysfunctional relationship where one person is a caretaker, and the other person takes advantage. Codependent relationships are extremely common among people with substance use issues. In this guidebook, you will learn: -What codependency is. -The symptoms of codependency and some of the effects it can have on your life. -The different types of codependents you may encounter. -How to recognize the difference between codependency and love. -Signs of a healthy relationship that you won't see in a codependent relationship. -How mindful communication is able to help strengthen any relationship. -How depression and inferiority are going to show up in a codependent relationship and using self-esteem to build yourself back up. -How to set your own boundaries in any relationship. -Steps for seeking help and dealing with codependency in a healthy manner. -How to recover from trauma and abuse in a codependent relationship. -How to find happiness, peace, and contentment after your relationship is over. -The future and how your new relationships can factor into this.

Download or read book The Codependency Recovery Plan written by Krystal Mazzola and published by Althea Press. This book was released on 2019-03-05 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Break away and recover from patterns of codependency It could start as lending an occasional hand, but over time, escalates into putting someone else above everything else—even our own well-being. Balance is needed for healthy relationships with others and ourselves. The Codependency Recovery Plan presents an enlightening look at codependency, where it comes from, and a detailed pathway out. The Codependency Recovery Plan fully explains codependency, its symptoms, and the factors that contribute to its development. It offers guidance on ways to recognize codependent behavior, become a better communicator, set boundaries, mend romantic relationships, and raise your self-esteem. Chapter exercises provide a workspace for self-reflection so that you can see your situation with fresh eyes, and gain a new perspective on your own life. Independence starts with a step-by-step plan: Step 1: Get in Touch with Your “Self”—Learn to look inward and become self-reliant. Step 2: Prioritize Self-Care—Honor and value your own self-worth and be kind to yourself. Step 3: Build Boundaries—Set limits for giving your life and love to others. Step 4: Maintain Open Communication—Speak comfortably and confidently with your support network. Step 5: Nurture Intimacy—Create healthy and constructive connections. Start building a better relationship with yourself and the people around you using The Codependency Recovery Plan.

Download or read book Codependent No More Workbook written by Melody Beattie and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2011-03-09 with total page 156 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This highly anticipated workbook will help readers put the principles from Melody Beattie's international best seller Codependent No More into action in their own lives. The Codependent No More Workbook was designed for Melody Beattie fans spanning the generations, as well as for those who may not yet even understand the meaning and impact of their codependency. In this accessible and engaging workbook, Beattie uses her trademark down-to-earth style to offer readers a Twelve Step, interactive program to stop obsessing about others by developing the insight, strength, and resilience to start taking care of themselves. Through hands-on guided journaling, exercises, and self-tests, readers will learn to integrate the time-tested concepts outlined in Codependent No More into their daily lives by setting and enforcing healthy limits; developing a support system through healthy relationships with others and a higher power; experiencing genuine love and forgiveness; and letting go and detaching from others' harmful behaviors. Whether fixated on a loved one with depression, an addiction, an eating disorder, or other self-destructive behaviors, or someone who makes unhealthy decisions, this book offers the practical means to plot a comprehensive, personalized path to hope, healing, and the freedom to be your own best self.

Download or read book Boundary Boss written by Terri Cole, MSW, LCSW and published by Sounds True. This book was released on 2021-04-20 with total page 204 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Break Free From Over-Functioning, Over-Delivering, People-Pleasing, and Ignoring Your Own Needs So You Can Finally Live the Life You Deserve! Most of us were never taught how to effectively express our preferences, desires or deal-breakers. Instead, we hide our feelings behind passive-aggressive behavior, deny our own truths, or push our emotions down until we get depressed or so frustrated that we explode, potentially destroying hard-won trust and relationships. The most successful and satisfied people on the planet have one thing in common: the ability to create and communicate clear, healthy boundaries. This ability is, hands down, the biggest game changer when it comes to creating a healthy, happy, self-determined life. In Boundary Boss, psychotherapist Terri Cole reveals a specific set of skills that can help you stop abandoning yourself for the sake of others (without guilt or drama) and get empowered to consciously take control of every aspect of your emotional, spiritual, physical, personal, and professional life. Since becoming a Boundary Boss is a process, Cole also offers actionable strategies, scripts, and techniques that can be used in the moment, whenever you need them. You will learn: • How to recognize when your boundaries have been violated and what to do next • How your unique “Boundary Blueprint” is unconsciously driving your boundary behaviors, and strategies to redesign it • Powerful boundary scripts so in the moment you will know what to say • How to manage “Boundary Destroyers”—including emotional manipulators, narcissists, and other toxic personalities • Where you fall on the spectrum of codependency and how to create healthy, balanced relationships This book is for women who are exhausted from over-giving, overdoing, and even over-feeling. If you’re getting it all done but at the expense of yourself, give yourself the gift of Boundary Boss.

Download or read book Codependency Recovery Workbook written by Mind Change Academy and published by Aicem Ltd. This book was released on 2023-12-15 with total page 149 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Do you tend to lose sight of who you truly are as a result of investing so much time and energy into another person? Do you continue to cling to toxic relationships that cause you anxiety and sadness? Do you tend to base your identity on someone else? If yes, this is an addiction, This is codependency. And this is the right book for you! Whether you are afraid to be alone or afraid of being hurt, you might be struggling with codependency issues. Codependency is a destructive relationship that causes you to put the needs of someone else before your needs. The addict, almost always female, relies heavily on her partner or spouse for acceptance, belonging, and stability. If you experience codependency, you are not alone. Millions of women and men worldwide have codependency issues, and millions struggle with addictions. The present Codependency Recovery Workbook can help you break free from this pattern. Thanks to this manual and its practical, proven tools, you will live a happier, healthier life. Balance, in fact, is necessary to have healthy relationships with others and ourselves. This guide presents an enlightening look at codependency, offering guidance on how to recognize its signs and behaviors and then point you toward the best way out. By following the suggested path, you can become a better communicator, set boundaries, mend romantic relationships, and boost your self-esteem. Chapter exercises provide a working space for self-reflection so you can see your situation with fresh eyes and gain a new perspective on your life. More precisely, this book includes: - Identify the problem: Learn what codependency is and how to look inside yourself - Understand the problem: what are the causes of codependency and how it develops - Accept the problem: Learn the power of self-awareness and change the way you think - Evaluate the solution: Self-Therapy, Group Therapy for Codependency Recovery and many more - Breaking free from the cycle of codependency and rebuild self-confidence - Practical Exercises That Will Transform the Way You Think This is the ONLY comprehensive guide that will take you step-by-step on this journey to a life without codependency – from identification all the way to recovery. By reading this Codependency Recovery Workbook, you will learn how to establish happy, healthy relationships with yourself, others, and the world around you to enjoy a happier, healthier way of living. You will also get 2 BONUS that will help you on your way: 1. BONUS 1 "Emotion Diary" 2. BONUS 2 "Time Management, Problem Solving and Critical Thinking." Start building a better relationship with yourself and the people around you using this guide. So, what are you waiting for? Click “BUY NOW” and start reading immediately!

Download or read book Love Is a Choice written by Robert Hemfelt and published by Thomas Nelson. This book was released on 2003-02-02 with total page 289 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Do you want to reclaim your independence? Are you looking for guidance as you learn to set boundaries that actually serve you? If you're ready to let go of unhealthy relationships and begin your journey to healing, join Drs. Frank Minirth, Paul Meier, and Robert Hemfelt in Love Is a Choice as they walk you through their ten proven steps to recovering from codependency. In Love Is a Choice, Drs. Minirth, Meier, and Hemfelt combine decades of research with timeless biblical wisdom to show you that the most effective means of overcoming codependent relationships is to establish or deepen your relationship with Christ Himself. Love Is a Choice will teach you why God wants us to be independent and why you deserve to have healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Throughout Love Is a Choice, Drs. Minirth, Meier, and Hemfelt will lead you through their method to overcoming codependency once and for all. Along the way, Love Is a Choice will give you the tools and encouragement you need to: Discover the root causes of codependency Surround yourself with a loving, supportive community See yourself in a new light Uncover your unmet emotional needs It's time to break the cycle of codependency. Let Love Is a Choice be your guide every step of the way.