Download or read book Ladies Book of Etiquette and Manual of Polit ness written by Florence Hartley and published by Createspace Independent Publishing Platform. This book was released on 1860 with total page 348 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Do unto others as you would others should do to you. You can never be rude if you bear the rule always in mind, for what lady likes to be treated rudely? True Christian politeness will always be the result of an unselfish regard for the feelings of others, and though you may err in the ceremonious points of etiquette, you will never be im polite. Politeness, founded upon such a rule, becomes the expression, in graceful manner, of social virtues. The spirit of politeness consists in a certain attention to forms and ceremonies, which are meant both to please others and ourselves, and to make others pleased with us ;a still clearer definition may be given by saying that politeness is goodness of heart put into daily practice; the.re can be no true, politeness without kindness, purity, singleness of heart, and sensibility. Many believe that politeness is but a mask worn in the world to conceal bad passions and impulses, and to make a show of possessing virtues not really existing in the heart; thus, that politeness is merely hypocrisy and dissimulation. Do not believe this; be certain that those who profess such a doctrine are practising themselves the deceit they condemn so much.
Download or read book The Ladies Book of Etiquette and Manual of Politeness written by Florence Hartley and published by Createspace Independent Publishing Platform. This book was released on 1872 with total page 356 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In preparing a book of etiquette for ladies, I would lay down as the first rule, "Do unto others as you would others should do to you." You can never be rude if you bear the rule always in mind, for what lady likes to be treated rudely? True Christian politeness will always be the result of an unselfish regard for the feelings of others, and though you may err in the ceremonious points of etiquette, you will never be impolite. Politeness, founded upon such a rule, becomes the expression, in graceful manner, of social virtues. The spirit of politeness consists in a certain attention to forms and ceremonies, which are meant both to please others and ourselves, and to make others pleased with us; a still clearer definition may be given by saying that politeness is goodness of heart put into daily practice; there can be no _true_ politeness without kindness, purity, singleness of heart, and sensibility.
Download or read book The Ladies Book of Etiquette and Manual of Politeness written by Florence Hartley and published by . This book was released on 1876 with total page 352 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt:
Download or read book The Ladies Book of Etiquette and Manual of Politeness written by Florence Hartley and published by LA CASE Books. This book was released on 2015-02 with total page 421 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The Ladies' Book of Etiquette, and Manual of Politeness. A complete hand book for the use of the lady in polite society. Containing full directions for correct manners, dress, deportment, and conversation; rules for the duties od both hostess and guest in mornin receptions, dinner companies, visiting, evening parties and balls; A complete guide for letter writing and cards of compliments; hints of managing servants, on the preservation of health, and on accomplishments. And Also useful receipts for the complexion, hair and with hints and directions for the care of the wardrobe.
Download or read book True Ladies and Proper Gentlemen written by Sarah A. Chrisman and published by Skyhorse. This book was released on 2015-05-19 with total page 224 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Regardless of time period, some things hold true: kindness is timeless. Invasion of privacy; divorce; relationship issues; encounters between people from different places and cultures; new technologies developed at dizzying speeds . . . the hectic pace of life in the late nineteenth century could make the mind reel. Wait a minute—the nineteenth century? Many of the issues people faced in the 1880s and ’90s surprisingly remain problems in today’s modern world, so why not take a peek at some Victorian advice about negotiating life’s dizzying twists and turns? Gathered from period magazines and Hill’s Manual of Social and Business Forms, a book on social conduct originally published in 1891, this volume provides timeless guidance for a myriad of situations, including: The husband’s duty: Give your wife every advantage that it is possible to bestow. Suggestions about shopping: Purchasers should, as far as possible, patronize the merchants of their own town. (Buy local!) Suggestions for travel: Having paid for one ticket, you are entitled to only one seat. It shows selfishness to deposit a large amount of baggage in the surrounding seats and occupy three or four. Unclassified laws of etiquette: Never leave home with unkind words. This advice is accompanied by watercolors and illustrations throughout. Though these are tips originate from nineteenth-century ideas, you’ll find that they certainly do still apply.
Download or read book Modern Etiquette Made Easy written by Myka Meier and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2020-01-21 with total page 166 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The founder of The Plaza Hotel's Finishing Program spills her insider knowledge to help you become instantly more polished. In her debut book, Modern Etiquette Made Easy, the Queen of Good Manners Myka Meier takes formal etiquette that she learned while training under a former member of the Queen of England’s household and breaks it down into five easy steps to help you feel 100 percent confident in the areas of social, dining, business, and networking etiquette. In this refreshingly entertaining etiquette guide, Myka combines her passion for etiquette and love of humor to share tips that are sure to give you a competitive edge in both your social and professional life. Through easy-to-follow chapters and relatable lessons, you’ll learn how to: Create the best first impression Become the most coveted party guest Network like a pro Practice good table manners And much, much more! Perfect for everyone who’s ever gone for the cheek kiss as the new acquaintance offered a handshake, or hobbled home from a networking event in stilettos. Fitting for messy-bun millennials who find themselves suddenly adulting without a clue, or mid-career professionals hoping to revamp their image. Or really, for anyone at all—at the end of the day, we could all use some more respect and kindness, and Modern Etiquette Made Easy offers advice and insight like a friend. Pinkies down!
Download or read book The Ladies Book of Etiquette written by Florence Hartley and published by Createspace Independent Publishing Platform. This book was released on 2018-06-16 with total page 160 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The Ladies' Book of Etiquette and Manual of Politeness by Florence Hartley. A complete hand book for the use of the lady in polite society. Etiquette is a code of behavior that delineates expectations for social behavior according to contemporary conventional norms within a society, social class, or group. Containing; Full directions for correct manners, dress, deportment, and conversation; rules for the duties of both hostess and guest in morning receptions, dinner companies, visiting, evening parties and balls; a complete guide for letter writing and cards of compliment; hints on managing servants, on the preservation of health, and on accomplishments.
Download or read book The Amy Vanderbilt Complete Book of Etiquette written by Amy Vanderbilt and published by Garden City, N.Y. : Doubleday. This book was released on 1978 with total page 910 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Advice geared to contemporary living on correct behavior in a wide variety of situations.
Download or read book The Ladies Book of Etiquette and Manual of Politeness written by Florence Hartley and published by . This book was released on 2016-09-16 with total page 320 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: "There is no branch of education called so universally into requisition as the art of letter writing; no station, high or low, where the necessity for correspondence is not felt; no person, young or old, who does not, at some time, write, cause to be written, and receive letters. From the President in his official capacity, with the busy pens of secretaries constantly employed in this branch of service, to the Irish laborer who, unable to guide a pen, writes, also by proxy, to his kinsfolks across the wide ocean; all, at some time, feel the desire to transmit some message, word of love, business, or sometimes enmity, by letter." Many believe that politeness is but a mask worn in the world to conceal bad passions and impulses, and to make a show of possessing virtues not really existing in the heart; thus, that politeness is merely hypocrisy and dissimulation. Do not believe this; be certain that those who profess such a doctrine are practising themselves the deceit they condemn so much. Such people scout politeness, because, to be truly a lady, one must carry the principles into every circumstance of life, into the family circle, the most intimate friendship, and never forget to extend the gentle courtesies of life to every one. This they find too much trouble, and so deride the idea of being polite and call it deceitfulness. True politeness is the language of a good heart, and those possessing that heart will never, under any circumstances, be rude. They may not enter a crowded saloon gracefully; they may be entirely ignorant of the forms of good society; they may be awkward at table, ungrammatical in speech; but they will never be heard speaking so as to wound the feelings of another; they will never be seen making others uncomfortable by seeking solely for their own personal convenience; they will always endeavor to set every one around them at ease; they will be self-sacrificing, friendly, unselfish; truly in word and deed, polite. Give to such a woman the knowledge of the forms and customs of society, teach her how best to show the gentle courtesies of life, and you have a lady, created by God, only indebted for the outward polish to the world. CONTENTS. CHAPTER I. Conversation CHAPTER II. Dress CHAPTER III. Traveling CHAPTER IV. How to behave at a Hotel CHAPTER V. Evening Parties--Etiquette for the Hostess CHAPTER VI. Evening Parties--Etiquette for the Guest CHAPTER VII. Visiting--Etiquette for the Hostess CHAPTER VIII. Visiting--Etiquette for the Guest CHAPTER IX. Morning Receptions or Calls--Etiquette for the Hostess CHAPTER X. Morning Receptions or Calls--Etiquette for the Caller CHAPTER XI. Dinner Company--Etiquette for the Hostess CHAPTER XII. Dinner Company--Etiquette for the Guest CHAPTER XIII. Table Etiquette CHAPTER XIV. Conduct in the Street CHAPTER XV. Letter Writing CHAPTER XVI. Polite Deportment and good Habits CHAPTER XVII. Conduct in Church CHAPTER XVIII. Ball room Etiquette--For the Hostess CHAPTER XIX. Ball room Etiquette--For the Guest CHAPTER XX. Places of Amusement CHAPTER XXI. Accomplishments CHAPTER XXII. Servants CHAPTER XXIII. On a Young Lady's Conduct when contemplating Marriage CHAPTER XXIV. Bridal Etiquette CHAPTER XXV. Hints on Health CHAPTER XXVI. Miscellaneous RECEIPTS. For the Complexion, &c.
Download or read book Victorian Etiquette Manners and Customs written by C. Klein and published by . This book was released on 2017-01-14 with total page 118 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Victorian Etiquette, Manners, and Customs contains material written in 1899 by a Victorian lady, so the information contained is absolutely authentic. This book includes formal introductions, invitations, visiting customs, weddings, funerals and mourning, street etiquette, dealing with servants and children, parties, traveling, samples of business correspondence, and virtually every aspect of Victorian life. This book is perfect for those who are interested in writing historically accurate fiction or are simply curious about the Victorian era and life in the late 1800's.
Download or read book The Ladies Book of Etiquette and Manual of Politeness by Florence Hartley written by Gina Louise Fowler and published by . This book was released on 2021 with total page pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: "The Ladies Book of Etiquette was designed and produced during the Spring of 2021 at The University of Alabama. The text contained in this book comes from an 1860 etiquette manual of the same name, written by Florence Hartley and originally published by G.W. Cottrell. This text is accessible in full through Project Gutenburg. The book is composed of 12 half-linen napkins, each of which was individually cut and stitched in my living room during the COVID-19 pandemic with the generous help of Cam Fowler. The typeface used throughout the book is Baskerville." -- Colophon
Download or read book Elegant Etiquette in the Nineteenth Century written by Mallory James and published by Grub Street Publishers. This book was released on 2017-11-30 with total page 184 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: “A scholarly guide to etiquette as entertaining and amusing as a work of fiction” (Jane Austen’s Regency World Magazine). Have you ever wondered what it would have been like to live in the nineteenth century? How would you have gotten a partner in a ballroom? What would you have done with a letter of introduction? And where would you have sat in a carriage? Covering all these nineteenth-century dilemmas and more, this book is your must-have guide to the etiquette of our well-heeled forebears. As it takes you through the intricacies of rank, the niceties of the street, the good conduct that was desired in the ballroom, and the awkward blunders that a lady or gentleman would have wanted to avoid, you will discover an abundance of etiquette advice from across the century, and a lively, occasionally tongue-in-cheek, and thoroughly detailed history of nineteenth-century manners and conduct. This well-researched book is enjoyable, compelling reading for anyone with an interest in this period. In exploring the expectations of behavior and etiquette, it brings the world of the nineteenth century to life.
Download or read book The Essential Handbook of Victorian Etiquette written by Thomas E. Hill and published by Sourcebooks. This book was released on 1994 with total page 132 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Essential for understanding Victorian way of life, this is a very interesting book on the code of manners of Victorian behavior. This book is about life in the Victorian World when the British Empire never slept or the sun never set on it. America in the Victorian World was still a colony and indeed wanting to become it's own in identity. The book plays an important role in explaining that the rules and manner system of America was very similar to the British at least in the old families of Boston and Philadelphia. This highly entertaining little book is great for those just starting to learn about the Victorian culture.
Download or read book 50 Essential Etiquette Lessons written by Katherine Furman and published by Sourcebooks, Inc.. This book was released on 2019-09-10 with total page 250 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Stay cool in any situation with this modern manners guide. Meeting strangers at a party, alone in the elevator with the CEO, declining a second date because the first was a disaster—social situations apply a lot of pressure to do and say the right thing. 50 Essential Etiquette Lessons shows you the best way to approach these common challenges with confidence and ease. Never mind putting your pinkies up when you drink tea—this guide is packed with modern examples of how to handle any sticky situation. Short, easy lessons cover workplace etiquette, to help you come across as an on-point, put-together asset to any company. Learn specific strategies for performing your best in social settings, both in person and online. Master skills like keeping conversation going, showing your best side on social media, giving gifts appropriately, and more. 50 Essential Etiquette Lessons includes: 50 indispensable tips—Get etiquette advice for dining out with friends, navigating a networking event, celebrating special occasions, and more. Updated manners—No need to be fussy or formal—this is practical, straightforward etiquette for today. Real-life examples—Tackle tricky scenarios with the help of a Q&A chapter that shows you how to use etiquette confidently every day. With 50 Essential Etiquette Lessons, embarrassing missteps and awkward silences will be a thing of the past.
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Download or read book Tiffany s Table Manners for Teenagers written by Walter Hoving and published by Random House Books for Young Readers. This book was released on 1989-03-18 with total page 98 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Here is the perfect little book for anyone—teenage or otherwise—who has ever wanted to master the art of good table manners. Written by Walter Hoving, former chairman of Tiffany's of New York, it is a step-by-step introduction to all the basics, from the moment the meal begins to the time it ends ("Remember that a dinner party is not a funeral, nor has your hostess invited you because she thinks you are in dire need of food. You're there to be entertaining"). In addition to the essentials about silverware, service, and sociability, it includes many of the fine points, too—the correct way to hold a fish fork, how to eat an artichoke properly, and, best of all, how to be a gracious dining companion. Concise, witty, and illustrated with humor and style by Joe Eula, this classic guide to good table manners has delighted readers of all ages since 1961.
