Download or read book Taming Your Inner and Outer Bullies written by Steven B. Rosenstein and published by . This book was released on 2006 with total page 284 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Respected therapist Steven Rosenstein offers new ways to combat unhappiness by learning to identify the inner bullies (repeated negative thinking, self-esteem issues, and personal values) and outer bullies (trauma, illness, religious and political influence) that can adversely impact daily life. Explains how to: - Stop self-destructive and defeating behavior - Overcome the emotional and societal institutions that impede happiness - Overcome personal and career roadblocks, and much more!
Download or read book Taming Your Outer Child written by Susan Anderson and published by Ballantine Books. This book was released on 2011-01-25 with total page 305 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: FINALLY, THE BREAKTHROUGH BOOK THAT PUTS YOU BACK IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE Most of us have met our Outer Child once too often. The self-sabotaging, bungling, and impulsive part of the personality. This misguided, hidden nemesis—the devil on your shoulder—blows your diet, overspends, and ruins your love life. A menacing older sibling to your emotionally needy Inner Child, your Outer Child acts out and fulfills your legitimate childlike needs and wants in the wrong place, at the wrong time, and in counterproductive ways: It goes for immediate gratification and the quick fix in spite of your best-laid plans. Food, attention, emotional release—your Outer Child usually gets what it wants, and your Adult self can feel powerless to stop it. Now, in a revolutionary rethinking of the link between emotion and behavior, veteran psychotherapist and theoretician Susan Anderson offers a three-step, paradigm-shifting program to tame your Outer Child’s destructive behavior. This dynamic, transformational set of strategies—action steps that act like physical therapy for the brain—calms your Inner Child, strengthens your Adult Self and releases you from the self-blame and shame that are the root of Outer Child issues, and paves new neural pathways that can lead to more productive behavior. Discover • the common Outer Child personality types, including the Drama Queen; the Master of Disguise; My Way or No Way; and Love the Getting, not the Having • proven techniques to resolve underlying sources of self-sabotage • insights that will allow you to stop blaming your supposed “lack of willpower” for your problems • key strategies for healing the painful issues of your past • mental exercises that effectively deal with Outer Child challenges around food, procrastination, love, debt, depression, and more As your head, heart, and behavior come together and learn to help, not hurt, one another, your strong Adult Self, contented Inner child, and tamed Outer child will become a reality. The result is happiness and fulfillment, self-mastery, and self-love. From the Hardcover edition.
Download or read book Taming Your Inner Brat written by Pauline Wallin and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2012-06-12 with total page 266 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: I can`t believe I did that! What was I thinking? We’ve all got one: an inner brat that compels us to grab one more cookie or throw a hissy fit over a minor irritation. This inner brat can wreak havoc at work, in relationships, and with our self-esteem. With humor and kindness, Taming Your Inner Brat gives you specific strategies to bring your attitudes and bratty behaviors under control. You can learn to deal with any situation in a productive, adult manner. By teaching you how to recognize your inner brat, psychologist Pauline Wallin, Ph.D. helps you bring problems into manageable perspective and make changes that last. . . . Which leaves just one question, answered in this new edition: “Now that I’ve tamed my own inner brat, what do I do about people who haven’t tamed theirs?”
Download or read book ROAR written by Marilise de Villiers Basson and published by . This book was released on 2019-12-18 with total page 172 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Dealing with a bully can be a slippery slope. Most people either keep quiet or leave quietly, so the abuser gets away with it - time and time again. This book aims to inspire readers with the confidence and courage to speak up and find their ROAR! Once you've read this book, you will: Be able to spot a bully Be familiar with the toxic trio - bully, victim and culture - and their traits Be aware of the common pitfalls to avoid when dealing with a bully Have a process for dealing with difficult situations when they arise Know what it takes to win the inner and outer game, and how important it is Feel ready to step up, be brave and live your best life
Download or read book Self Hypnosis Tame Your Inner Dragons written by Noel Eastwood and published by Noel Eastwood. This book was released on 2016-09-17 with total page 203 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Psychotherapist, Noel Eastwood, takes you on an inner journey of self-discovery and healing. He draws upon numerous case studies to demonstrate how ordinary people can overcome limiting beliefs and traumatic experiences using self-hypnosis. The author illustrates how to use exercises from NLP, Inner Child, Gestalt therapy, Arnold Mindell's process therapy, Jungian psychotherapy and traditional Taoist meditation techniques. Journey into your deep unconscious using simple self-hypnosis techniques to uncover the dragons feeding on your sadness, loneliness, anxiety, anger, and fear. Learn how to tame your dragons and release yourself from limiting beliefs. Embedded in this book are a multitude of simple tools and techniques of self-hypnosis that can change your life, develop undiscovered talents and allow you to live fearlessly. The author's message is that we are empowered by choice and never limited by fate. The book is loaded with a wealth of true stories from elite athletes, age regression, past lives, children's problems, imagery and remote viewing, working with archetypes, stress reduction and many spiritual and psychic growth exercises. Combining 30 years of experience with self-hypnosis, psychodynamic psychotherapy, guided imagery, and meditation - this book is fast becoming a classic in the field of mind control and spiritual growth. It includes chapters for elite sports, martial arts, guided imagery for your child's nightmares, anxiety and weight loss scripts, how to heal your inner child of trauma, astral travel and how to develop your kundalini - to name just a few. Reviews "An incredible book, utterly riveting, absolutely magical!” SP "I really liked this book and thought it was a good read. If you are someone that meditates I'm sure you will also find it interesting. It's not that long and not very expensive so for me it's like, why not? I'm a big fan of self hypnosis as I used it to achieve a beautiful birth several years ago. Since then I have been kind of doing my own thing meditating but this book really helped me expand my mental exercises. It essentially gives a ton of different ways to explore your own psyche. I find it to be a very helpful guide to self hypnosis. The chapter on scary dreams tremendously helped me navigate this problem with my 5 year old daughter. Now each night before bed she gets so excited to go to her personal Fanstasyland, where we often deal with the things that are troubling her in a safe and self-empowered way. For this reason alone it was worth it to me.Also I'm a lifelong student of astrology and I loved his combination of these two worlds, astrological archetypes and deep meditation. Good stuff." AT "This a fun book to read. Noel's writing style is informative and flows nicely. I have the Kindle version. Buy it you'll like it!!" MK "Digs deep into the issues of life, be it struggles or challenges. noel not only explains the roots of inner dragons, but also describes how to identify them. Living with Dragons is an insightful and practical look at the negative thoughts and emotions that can impede our lives on a daily basis. This book will not only help you shed light on things you may have tried to hide, but it will also guide you towards practical steps to slay your Dragons. No matter what negativity fills your inner World, Living with Dragons will help you move towards it, face it head on, and squash it." C "This work is a vital and necessary tool for anyone wishing to understand and confront their 'inner demons'...or 'dragons' as Noel so aptly names them. His prodigious experience as a clinical psychologist is clearly apparent here, yet it is not couched in confusing medical terminology but instead with mythologies we all know, and instructions on 'how to' that are so very easy to read and to understand. In fact he makes it hard not to want to attempt this journey inward, and to meet those inner dragons that we all have somewhere within. Herein he gives invaluable directions on ways in which to make this inward journey via trance and self-hypnosis methods, both safely and productively. The examples he gives are not only fascinating but intensely engaging in every way. This work is inspiring, exciting and riveting, and I strongly recommend it." S
Download or read book Taming Your Inner Tyrant written by Patty De Llosa and published by Spiritual Evolution Press. This book was released on 2011-05-01 with total page 213 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: "Each of us carries an inner tyrant, a demanding, obsessive, demeaning complex which accumulates all the negatives our history has brought us.... [P]resents a step-by-step means by which the reader can grow larger than the tyrant's agenda, providing rich biographical examples, methodologies for liberation, and provocative exercises"--P. [4] of cover.
Download or read book Bullying Become the master of your life and stop being a victim written by Oleg Nashchubskiy and published by Oleg Nashchubskiy. This book was released on with total page 181 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: You are reading this book because, most likely, you or your loved ones have been, or even are currently, subject to bullying. But this can be fixed, I assure you. Look inside yourself, where your heart shrinks from words and actions, where every new threat becomes a heavy burden. Where even the smallest words feel like giant clubs falling on your soul, breaking it into tiny fragments. Bullying brings with it pain and suffering, like an endless wave that hits you again and again. It penetrates your being, leaving scratches and scars that are difficult to heal. I know how hard it is to bear this burden. I saw how he destroyed confidence, how he cut him off from the world around him, how he made every day a battle for survival. But I also know that there is a path to liberation from this darkness, to light and hope. This book is not just a collection of tips or a set of rules. This is a guide to changing your destiny. She will teach you how to stop being a victim, how to rise above bullying and become stronger. She will give you the tools to overcome the fear and doubt that has left you in its grip. Yes, the path may be difficult and the road may be winding. But you are not alone. Together we will walk this path, step by step, until you gain the strength and confidence to say “stop” to bullying. Let's show together that bullying cannot defeat our valor and our inner strength. Let's work together to create a world where everyone can feel safe and respected. By using the tips provided in this book, you can stop being a victim. However, don't expect an instant miracle. This requires effort and work on yourself. But believe me, everyone is capable of this. The tips collected in this book are not just theoretical recommendations. They have been tried and tested by other people like you. And the results were amazing. These tips changed people's lives. They gave them the strength and motivation to overcome challenges and become better versions of themselves. So don't stay stagnant. Start your journey to freedom from bullying now. You have a full opportunity to change your life, and stop being a victim, and turn into a winner of your aggressor. Welcome to this journey. Let's start.
Download or read book eXplode The X Fitness Training System written by Gino Arcaro and published by Jordan Publications Inc.. This book was released on with total page 211 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Sought after his entire adult life to help others achieve their workout goals, Arcaro put his weight lifting theories and routines into this manual. His “Case Studies,” true stories from his 40+ years of working out (completely natural) bring a sense of reality to the average gym-goer who just wants to get in shape, stay in shape, and most-importantly, not quit. No gimmicks, just discussion and formulas that can be tailored to any situation regardless of how long or how intensely one has been working out.
Download or read book Life After Bullying written by Lotte W. Vesterli and published by Balboa Press. This book was released on 2018-12-22 with total page 140 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Bullying victims often suffer from social anxiety and low self-worth throughout their lives. Many do not realize that bullying from many years ago lies at the root of the problem. It is possible to overcome all of this and reclaim your life, as Lotte Vesterli has done. In Life After Bullying, for the first time, Lotte shares her personal story and introduces the complete method she has developed from her own experience, as well as through extensive work with trauma victims. Starting from wherever you are today, you will follow a logical progression of specific steps to heal yourself and recover from the trauma of bullying. Lotte guides you through a sequence of practical exercises that allow you to take stock of your situation, appreciate yourself, and set vivid goals for your future. She also provides a comprehensive toolbox of techniques you can use to overcome anxiety, work on your limiting beliefs, and achieve your goals. Lotte has completed the journey from a timid girl hiding in the shadows to a confident woman living a loving and fulfilling life. You can, too. Live the life of your dreams by putting bullying behind you for good. To learn more about the book, please visit the book website at https://www.lifeafterbullying.com
Download or read book The Bully Society written by Jessie Klein and published by NYU Press. This book was released on 2013-08 with total page 320 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Choice's Outstanding Academic Title list for 2013 Through interviews and case studies, Klein develops an explanation for bully behavior in America's schools In today’s schools, kids bullying kids is not an occasional occurrence but rather an everyday reality where children learn early that being sensitive, respectful, and kind earns them no respect. Jessie Klein makes the provocative argument that the rise of school shootings across America, and childhood aggression more broadly, are the consequences of a society that actually promotes aggressive and competitive behavior. The Bully Society is a call to reclaim America’s schools from the vicious cycle of aggression that threatens our children and our society at large. Heartbreaking interviews illuminate how both boys and girls obtain status by acting “masculine”—displaying aggression at one another’s expense as both students and adults police one another to uphold gender stereotypes. Klein shows that the aggressive ritual of gender policing in American culture creates emotional damage that perpetuates violence through revenge, and that this cycle is the main cause of not only the many school shootings that have shocked America, but also related problems in schools, manifesting in high rates of suicide, depression, anxiety, eating disorders, self-cutting, truancy, and substance abuse. After two decades working in schools as a school social worker and professor, Klein proposes ways to transcend these destructive trends—transforming school bully societies into compassionate communities.
Download or read book Stop Bullying Yourself written by Anna Marie Frank and published by Morgan James Publishing. This book was released on 2018-02-06 with total page 202 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: If you wouldn’t bully someone else, why bully yourself? Learn how to stop beating yourself up—and start building a better life. Stop Bullying Yourself is an all-inclusive approach that can help you move toward health, wealth, better relationships, and overall happiness—by defeating that destructive voice inside your head that puts a limit on your goals, dreams, and success. And as a bonus, once you learn to crowd out the inner bully that lives inside your mind, with tools such as eliminating negative thinking and examining the little choices, external bullies will not have the power they once had either. It’s time to treat yourself with kindness, patience, and love, and discover what a difference it can make.
Download or read book Beating the Workplace Bully written by Lynne Curry and published by HarperChristian + ORM. This book was released on 2016-01-13 with total page 272 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Whether you’re the target of manipulation, intimidation, verbal abuse, or deliberate humiliation, Beating the Workplace Bully will show you how to fight back. Bullies aren’t just limited to the playground. Now they roam around from the boardroom to the break room looking to manipulate, intimidate, and humiliate--and eventually ruin your career! This book is your ammunition for fighting back. Whether the bully is a boss or a coworker, this empowering guide will help you recognize what has been causing you to become a victim, then reveals how to: Avoid typical bully traps Remain aware and in charge Move past your fear Calm yourself in any confrontation Keep your dignity intac Handle sneak attacks Combat cyberbullying Complete with exercises, assessments, and real-life examples, Beating the Workplace Bully will help you reclaim your power and defeat the office bully once and for all!
Download or read book Bullying and children Teach your child to fight back against aggressors written by Oleg Nashchubskiy and published by Oleg Nashchubskiy. This book was released on with total page 182 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Imagine a childhood filled with serene smiles, playing with friends and an endless sense of joy. This is exactly what we all want for our children - a world in which they can grow, learn and flourish. However, in this ideal image comes a shadow called bullying. It is a shadow that penetrates the hearts and minds of children, leaving behind traces of pain, fear and unnecessary vulnerability. We, as parents, teachers, and members of society, cannot remain indifferent to this challenge. Our children deserve better, they deserve a safe environment where they can grow in all aspects of their personality without fear of being mentally or physically abused. This book is our attempt to bridge the gap of bullying. We invite you on a journey of understanding, empathy and action. We want to offer you not only an understanding of the nature of bullying, but also practical tools and strategies to help you raise a child free from its influence. In this book, we bring together cutting-edge research, real-life success stories, and time-tested strategies to help you create an environment in which your child can flourish in all his uniqueness. We don't claim to have the complete answer to every situation, but we are confident that with your love, patience and dedication, we can make the world a little kinder and safer for all of our children. This book is not only a guide to fighting bullying, but also a call to action. We invite you to be part of a movement to create a more caring and inclusive society where every child can find their place in the sun. This book is a voice of hope in a world where bullying sometimes seems overwhelming. We believe that with your support and the power of our collective action, we can create a world where every child can flourish in all their uniqueness, free from the dark forces of bullying. Let us together raise the torch of knowledge and empathy to light the way to a better future for all children. Prepare to be immersed in this important and exciting world where your participation can make a real difference. Thank you for choosing this path with us. Let us begin this important journey together, for within every child there is a light that deserves to shine in all its beauty and grandeur.
Download or read book Bully Proof written by Chris Leigh-Smith and published by FriesenPress. This book was released on 2016-09-26 with total page 273 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: We have all been affected by violence, intimidation, and bullying to some degree. Children are especially vulnerable to the lasting pain and trauma of these experiences. When we give them the tools and understanding to become assertive and self-aware, however, bullying can become a blessing in disguise: a powerful opportunity for personal growth. Choosing to respond to bullying mindfully, in spite of their fears, is the beginning of a journey into true freedom. We can coach our children awareness of bullying dynamics, and teach them the social and emotional skills to thrive in a world where bullies have always existed. With our help, our children can develop the confidence, courage, and knowledge to alter their experiences and excel in life. Bully Proof, The Gift of Self-Esteem provides parents, educators, and coaches with concepts and practical strategies to help guide children on the path to letting go of fear and embracing personal growth, inviting the reader on a journey of self-leadership that goes way beyond being competent with bullies; it shows us how to build a foundation for peace and happiness....
Download or read book The Five Invitations written by Frank Ostaseski and published by Flatiron Books. This book was released on 2017-03-14 with total page 305 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The cofounder of the Zen Hospice Project and pioneer behind the compassionate care movement shares an inspiring exploration of the lessons dying has to offer about living a fulfilling life. Death is not waiting for us at the end of a long road. Death is always with us, in the marrow of every passing moment. She is the secret teacher hiding in plain sight, helping us to discover what matters most. Life and death are a package deal. They cannot be pulled apart and we cannot truly live unless we are aware of death. The Five Invitations is an exhilarating meditation on the meaning of life and how maintaining an ever-present consciousness of death can bring us closer to our truest selves. As a renowned teacher of compassionate caregiving and the cofounder of the Zen Hospice Project, Frank Ostaseski has sat on the precipice of death with more than a thousand people. In The Five Invitations, he distills the lessons gleaned over the course of his career, offering an evocative and stirring guide that points to a radical path to transformation. The Five Invitations: -Don’t Wait -Welcome Everything, Push Away Nothing -Bring Your Whole Self to the Experience -Find a Place of Rest in the Middle of Things -Cultivate Don’t Know Mind These Five Invitations show us how to wake up fully to our lives. They can be understood as best practices for anyone coping with loss or navigating any sort of transition or crisis; they guide us toward appreciating life’s preciousness. Awareness of death can be a valuable companion on the road to living well, forging a rich and meaningful life, and letting go of regret. The Five Invitations is a powerful and inspiring exploration of the essential wisdom dying has to impart to all of us.
Download or read book Reeni s Turn written by Carol Coven Grannick and published by Fitzroy Books. This book was released on 2020-09-13 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: "Eleven-year-old Reeni's world is changing. Her star-of-the-senior-class, college-bound sister has no time for her, sixth grade is full of girls into makeup and diets and crushes, and something deep inside tells Reeni it's time to become more than a shy girl in the shadows. But when she commits to dancing a solo for her retiring ballet teacher's final recital, her lifelong fear of performing expands along with her newly-changing body. Lunch friends convince Reeni that a diet will give her courage and self-confidence, but the diet wreaks havoc with Reeni's life. She lies to her parents, breaks up with her best friend, and loses focus on school work and dance. Reeni faces a painful choice: should she break her commitment to solo and quit dance? Or might she have hidden strengths that could help her come out of the shadows and become the girl she wants to be?"--Provided by publisher.
Download or read book Black Belt written by and published by . This book was released on 1988-07 with total page 104 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The oldest and most respected martial arts title in the industry, this popular monthly magazine addresses the needs of martial artists of all levels by providing them with information about every style of self-defense in the world - including techniques and strategies. In addition, Black Belt produces and markets over 75 martial arts-oriented books and videos including many about the works of Bruce Lee, the best-known marital arts figure in the world.