Download or read book Overcoming Our Relationship Fears written by Lawrence E Hedges and published by . This book was released on 2019-05-29 with total page 144 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: We are all aware that chronic tension saps our energy and contributes to such modern maladies as high blood pressure and tension headaches, but few of us realize that this is caused by muscle constrictions that started as relationship fears in early childhood and live on in our minds and bodies. Overcoming Our Relationship Fears is a user-friendly roadmap for healing our relationships by dealing with our childhood fear reflexes. It is replete with relationship stories to illustrate each fear and how we individually express them. Dr. Hedges shows how to use our own built-in "Aliveness Monitor" to gauge our body's reaction to daily interactions and how they trigger our fears. Exercises in the book will help us release these life-threatening constrictions and reclaim our aliveness with ourselves and others.
Download or read book Overcoming Fears of Intimacy and Commitment written by Herb Goldberg and published by Rowman & Littlefield. This book was released on 2016-10-17 with total page 309 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Romantic relationships can be difficult, but to browse the shelves for advice, readers are mostly introduced to the woman’s viewpoint and concerns. Seldom do books address the innermost thoughts, feelings, fears, and concerns of men in relationships. Through the use of in-depth psychological insights, noted author-psychologist Herb Goldberg, takes the reader through twelve phases of romantic relationships. From the initial excitement to the time when things fall apart, he explores the “gender undertow,” prescribes remedies, and describes the healthy relationship from both perspectives, offering tips and advice for both men and women. Taking his starting point from the perspective of men in relationships, Goldberg lays out the concerns many men have – from fears of intimacy to the recognition that one’s partner may not be perfect. Addressing the most common problems that may stem from these relationship troubles, he guides readers through the fears and troubles that may arise and offers cogent advice in an effort to bring men and women together in healthier and more intimate unions.
Download or read book Love Me Don t Leave Me written by Michelle Skeen and published by New Harbinger Publications. This book was released on 2014-09-01 with total page 140 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Everyone thrives on love, comfort, and the safety of family, friends, and community. But if you are denied these basic comforts early in life, whether through a lack of physical affection or emotional bonding, you may develop intense fears of abandonment that can last well into adulthood—fears so powerful that they can actually cause you to push people away. If you suffer from fears of abandonment, you may have underlying feelings of anger, shame, fear, anxiety, depression, and grief. These emotions are intense and painful, and when they surface they can lead to a number of negative behaviors, such as jealousy, clinging, and emotional blackmail. In Love Me, Don’t Leave Me, therapist Michelle Skeen combines acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), schema therapy, and dialectical behavioral therapy (DBT) to help you identify the root of your fears. In this book you’ll learn how schema coping behaviors—deeply entrenched and automatic behaviors rooted in childhood experiences and fears—can take over and cause you to inadvertently sabotage your relationships. By recognizing these coping behaviors and understanding their cause, you will not only gain powerful insights into your own mind, but also into the minds of those around you. If you are ready to break the self-fulfilling cycle of mistrust, clinginess, and heartbreak and start building lasting, trusting relationships, this book will be your guide.
Download or read book Stop Running from Love written by Dusty Miller and published by New Harbinger Publications. This book was released on 2008-03-01 with total page 224 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Are you afraid of or unable to create intimacy or closeness with your intimate partner? Do you find that sometimes you create emotional, communicative, or even physical distance from that special someone in your life, even when, deep down, you really don't want to? If so, you share the relationship style psychologists refer to as the distancer. Distancers are often afraid of being engulfed or controlled by their partners. They fear rejection, vulnerability, and dependence. Sadly, they also tend to have short and unhappy relationships. If you want to stop running from love in your life, this book offers a simple, step-by-step approach you can use to move beyond your fear of intimacy and start building strong and lasting relationships. The exercises and self-evaluations in the book will help you become aware of how you operate in romantic relationships. You'll review and reassess your relationship patterns, deciding what changes you want to make in future relationships. Then you'll commit to actions that can make it happen.
Download or read book Overcome Insecurity and Fear in Your Relationship written by Amy Christine and published by Independently Published. This book was released on 2020-05-20 with total page 116 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Overcome Insecurity and Fear in your Relationship Have you lost great relationships because of your insecurity? Are you heading to divorce just because you are unable to control your emotions or find yourself involved in a fear attachment in your relationship? Do you find that you are clinging in all your relationships even when you do not mean to because of the fear of abandonment? Let's face it, we want to enjoy our relationships and not endure it, so when we meet a great person that we want to be with, it is only natural for us to do things in our power to keep them, the problem for some of us is that no matter what we do and do not do, no matter what our best intentions are, we find that we end up doing things that not only drive these great people from our lives but also impact negatively on my self-esteem, mental health and personality. Even though on the outside, we try to put the blame on them and try to appear strong to our friends and family by saying things like, he/she wasn't meant for me anyway, we know deep in our heart that when the number of people in our lives who live for the same reason begins to increase, then something more serious is at play. Jealousy and insecurity in marriage and relationships are some of the problems faced by many people and not just you. It is for this reason that this book was written to guide you by the hand and take you away from such destructive behaviors so that you can replace it with new skill sets that will not only make you the desired person but also make you a great and attractive person. All of these you will able to do without significantly changing who you are. This book will show you: -How insecurity, anxiety, attachment, and fear feature in a relationship -Destructive effects of negative critical thoughts you may have inadvertently allowed to affect you -Positive ways of loving your partner without appearing clingy -Keeping and staying in a relationship without feeling bored or abused So, what are you waiting for? Hit that buy button and grab your copy Still not sure if this book is for you? Imagine you walk into a room and see that ex of yours who used to seem all moody when you were dating, having a cozy feeling with his new partner and looking really happy. Imagine you access this new partner and you notice that she doesn't even have the elegance that you have and yet she is able to hold down the very person you would want to be with? You know you should have been the one there. The problem is, even if you were given a second chance, you are likely to still blow it because you have not yet learned how to overcome your insecurities and face your fears. Relationship anxiety will continue to exist, but you must learn how to master your insecurities in a relationship in a natural way that does not drain you. The truth is that, unless we learn how to eliminate negative thinking we would continue to have difficulties overcoming our conflicts as couples, so by learning how to manage the anxiety in our relationships properly, many of the problems in our relationships can better be avoided or managed properly. So, now hit that button and buy one for yourself or for that friend, child, or family member of yours who is having problems keeping a relationship. This book is also a good gift to share with those who need it. You can even buy a bundle of them and share it to a congregation or group of people who require this form of help. Order your Copy Now
Download or read book Anxiety in Relationship written by Theresa Miller and published by Independently Published. This book was released on 2019-04-26 with total page 228 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Can't find couple stability ? Jealousy, anxiety, do you pervade your head like a worm ?In this book we have tried to give the answers you are looking for ! ★★★ Buy the Paperback version and get the Kindle Book versions for FREE ★★★ Everyone thrives on love, safety of family, friends, and community but, if you are denied these basic comforts, you may develop intense fears of abandonment that can last well into adulthood. Thanks to Anxiety in Relationship, you will be guided through a process, helping you undo negative thinking, based on anxiety and promoting mental changes and actions. You will learn how to: Understanding Anxiety Overcome Relationship Insecurity How Obsessive Attachment Impacts on the Couple Jealousy is Deleterious ...especially in Marriage Fear of Abandonment How to Reduce High Couple Conflicts The Life Cycle od Relationships Advice for Couples and Many, Many More... By recognizing these coping behaviors and understanding their cause, you will not only gain powerful insights into your own mind, but also into the minds of those around you. By understanding the psychological factors at the root of your attachment anxiety, you will learn to cultivate secure, healthy relationships to last a lifetime. You will learn that confronting jealousy in your relationship does not have to be a catastrophe, but can redirect you and your partner to build more trust, acceptance, and connection. If you are ready to stop with these painful relationships and start building lasting relationships and trust, this book can show you how to get the love you deserve So what are you waiting for ? Scroll up & click the bottom " Buy now " ★★★ Buy the Paperback version and get the Kindle Book versions for FREE ★★★
Download or read book Overcoming Fear written by Rick Joyner and published by Morningstar Publications Inc.. This book was released on 2002 with total page 42 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Imagine your life wholly untouched by fear. In a world filled with seemingly endless threats and instability, fear continually strives for mastery in our lives. Yet what if your default response was faith, not fear? In Overcoming Fear, Rick Joyner exposes one of the most powerful strongholds keeping Christians in bondage and gives you the tools to be an overcomer. Learn the difference between good and bad fear, and discover the weapons available to you to defeat fear and live in peace.
Download or read book 30 Days to Taming Your Fears written by Deborah Smith Pegues and published by Harvest House Publishers. This book was released on 2011-08-01 with total page 211 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Deborah Smith Pegues, behavioral specialist and bestselling author of 30 days to Taming Your Tongue (more than 500,000 copies sold), sheds light on rational and irrational fears and offers readers a path of hope and assurance. With her trademark clarity and practical wisdom, Deborah addresses spiritual, relational, physical safety, financial, and emotional fears with godly principles and straightforward helps. Each step of the way, she gives readers power over fear by helping them understand: the foundation of their fears God’s perspective on their specific anxiety, fear, or phobia how to respond to fear triggers with information, awareness, and confidence ways to embrace healthy fears and to resist unhealthy ones how neutralizing their fears maximizes their life This will be an invaluable resource for anyone walking the minefield of constant apprehensions who is ready to exchange fear for the peace which passes all understanding.
Download or read book Overcoming Anxiety Worry and Fear written by Gregory L. Jantz and published by Revell. This book was released on 2011-07 with total page 224 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A bestselling author and counselor with over 25 years of experience offers practical steps for dealing with worry and anxiety.
Download or read book The Bright Side of a Broken Heart written by Michelle D'Avella and published by . This book was released on 2017-08-20 with total page 142 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Blindsided by a breakup that left her devastated and depressed, the author candidly takes the reader on a redemptive journey through heartbreak. It took this breakup to wake Michelle up to face the truth she had been hiding from. Through the agonizing pain of grief, she reclaimed the parts of herself she had lost in her desperate desire to be loved. The Bright Side of a Broken Heart is a journey through heartbreak and the wisdom gathered along the way.A book for anyone who has loved and lost, fallen into the dark hole of depression, grieved deeply, or is ready to heal.
Download or read book Relationship OCD written by Sheva Rajaee and published by New Harbinger Publications. This book was released on 2022-01-02 with total page 198 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A powerful CBT approach to help you find freedom from obsessive relationship anxiety, doubt, and fear of commitment Do you obsess over your partner’s flaws? Does thinking about the future of your relationship leave you imagining the worst-case scenario? When it comes to navigating the world of romantic relationships, some feelings of anxiety, doubt, and fear are to be expected. But if your fears so extreme that they threaten to destroy an otherwise healthy relationship, you may have relationship OCD—a form of obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) that causes chronic obsessive doubt and anxiety in relationships. So, how can you free yourself to discover deeper intimacy and security? Relationship OCD offers an evidence-based, cognitive behavioral approach to finding relief from relationship anxiety, obsessive doubt, and fear of commitment. You’ll learn to challenge the often-distorted thought patterns that trigger harmful emotions, increase your ability to think rationally, and ultimately accept the presence of intrusive thinking while maintaining the values of a healthy relationship. Relationships are the ultimate unknown. If you’re ready to let go of needing to know for sure, this book will help you find satisfaction and thrive in your romantic relationships—in all their wonderful uncertainty.
Download or read book The Fear Cure written by Lissa Rankin, M.D. and published by Hay House, Inc. This book was released on 2016-03-08 with total page 337 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Not many people in the medical world are talking about how being afraid can make us sick—but the truth is that fear, left untreated, becomes a serious risk factor for conditions from heart disease to diabetes to cancer. Now Lissa Rankin, M.D., explains why we need to heal ourselves from the fear that puts our health at risk and robs our lives of joy—and shows us how fear can ultimately cure us by opening our eyes to all that needs healing in our lives. Drawing on peer-reviewed studies and powerful true stories, The Fear Cure presents a breakthrough understanding of fear’s effects and charts a path back to wellness and wholeness on every level. We learn:• How a fearful thought translates into physiological changes that predispose us to illness • How to tell true fear (the kind that arises from a genuine threat) from false fear (which triggers stress responses that undermine health) • How to tune in to the voice of courage inside—our "Inner Pilot Light" • How to reshape our relationship to uncertainty so that it’s no longer something to dread, but a doorway to new possibilities • What our fears can teach us about who we really are At the intersection of science and spirituality, The Fear Cure identifies the Four Fearful Assumptions that lie at the root of all fears—from the sense that we’re alone in the universe to the belief that we can’t handle losing what we love—and shifts them into Four Courage-Cultivating Truths that pave our way to not only physical well-being, but profound awakening. Using exercises from a wide range of mind-body practices and spiritual traditions, Dr. Rankin teaches us how to map our own courage-cultivating journey, write a personalized Prescription for Courage, and step into a more authentic life.
Download or read book Inner Bonding written by Margaret Paul and published by Harper Collins. This book was released on 2012-10-16 with total page 244 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Inner bonding is the process of connecting our adult thoughts with our instinctual, gut feelings—the feelings of the "inner child"—so that we can minimize painful conflict within ourselves. Free of inner conflict, we feel peaceful, open to joy, and open to giving and receiving love. Margaret Paul, coauthor of Healing Your Aloneness, explores how abandonment of the inner child leads to increasingly negative and destructive feelings of low self-worth, codepenclence, addiction, shame, powerlessness, and withdrawal from relationships. Her breakthrough inner bonding process teaches us to heal past wounds through reparenting and clearly demonstrates how we can learn to parent in the present. Real-life examples illustrate the dynamics of the healing process and show the benefits we can expect in every facet of our lives and in all our relationships. Inner Bonding provides the tools we need to forge and maintain the inner unity that makes our family, sexual, work, and social relationships productive, honest, and joyful.
Download or read book Youth and Truth Unplug with Sadhguru written by Sadhguru Jaggi Vasudev and published by . This book was released on 2018-11-13 with total page 62 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Youth is a time of enormous energy. A lot of youth are in a confused state of mind. The youth of today's generation need clarity and balance. They have become the victims of social media information overload. Everywhere, there is compulsion. They are addicted to smoking, alcohol, drugs and gruesome video materials. There's been substance abuse like never before. This is a small effort to bring an awareness among the youth, just to remind them of their enormous energies, how to balance them and lead their life well. Every individual needs to live his life consciously. If you are not living your life consciously, then you are living compulsively. This is the source of all misery. The youth of today's age need to understand this life. This life is the greatest gift and you need to learn to live it immensely. You should learn to live your life with great involvement and intensity. This book brings questionnaire of youth across India from various universities as well as colleges. It also includes some intriguing questions of celebrities from various fields.About Sadhguru:Sadhguru is a yogi, mystic and visionary and a spiritual master with a difference. An arresting blend of profundity and pragmatism, his life and work serve as a reminder that yoga is not an esoteric discipline from an outdated past, but a contemporary science, vitally relevant to our times. Probing, passionate and provocative, insightful, logical and unfailingly witty, Sadhguru's talks have earned him the reputation of a speaker and opinion-maker of international renown. With a celebratory engagement with life on all levels, Sadhguru's areas of active involvement encompass fields as diverse as architecture and visual design, poetry and painting, ecology and horticulture, music and sports.Sadhguru is also the founder of Isha Foundation, a non-profit organization which has been dedicated to the wellbeing of the individual and the world for the past three decades. Isha Foundation does not promote any particular ideology, religion, or race, but transmits inner sciences of universal appeal.
Download or read book Breaking Intimidation written by John Bevere and published by Charisma Media. This book was released on 2013-07-15 with total page 223 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: DIV John Bevere advises, "Walk in your own God-given authority, or someone else will take it from you and use it against you."Bevere advises, "Walk in your own God-given authority, or someone else will take it from you and use it against you." /div
Download or read book Insecure in Love written by Leslie Becker-Phelps and published by New Harbinger Publications. This book was released on 2014-06-01 with total page 224 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Has your romantic partner called you clingy, insecure, desperate, or jealous? No one wants to admit that they possess these qualities; but if you find yourself constantly on the alert, anxious, or worried when it comes to your significant other, you may suffer from anxious attachment, a fear of abandonment that is often rooted in early childhood experiences. In Insecure in Love, you'll learn how to overcome attachment anxiety using compassionate self-awareness, a technique that can help you recognize your negative thoughts or unhealthy behavior patterns and respond to them in a nurturing way—rather than beating yourself up. You’ll also learn how insecurity can negatively affect healthy dialog between you and your partner (or potential partners) and develop the skills needed to stop you from reverting back to old patterns of neediness and possessiveness. If you suffer from anxious attachment, you probably know that you need to change, and yet you have remained stuck. With compassionate self-awareness, you can successfully explore old anxiety-perpetuating perceptions and habits without being overwhelmed or paralyzed by them. By understanding the psychological factors at the root of your attachment anxiety, you will learn to cultivate secure, healthy relationships to last a lifetime. If you’re ready to stop getting stuck in the same hurtful relationship patterns and finally break the cycle of heartache, this book can show you how to get the love you deserve—and keep it!
Download or read book Anxiety in Relationships Overcome Anxiety written by Lilly Andrew and published by Lilly Andrew. This book was released on with total page pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Stop Anxiety Dead in Its Tracks & Become the Confident, Emotionally Secure, & Positive Person You’re Always Meant to Be! Do you fear change, or worry that your partner might leave you one day? Do your palms sweat whenever your partner asks you to take things to the next level? Do you find your mind constantly spinning its wheels and not really going anywhere? Anxiety arises from a feeling of discomfort as you step into unfamiliar territory. One of the biggest mistakes you make when it comes to achieving what you want in life, or succeeding in your relationships, is setting the bar too low. You may think, “Low expectations are good. They are comfortable. And they keep me from taking dangerous risks.” Everyone fears what they do not know and avoid feeling uncomfortable any chance they get. As soon as you’re called to level up, your self-doubt starts creeping in and turns into fear, making you back away from an opportunity that could possibly change your life for the best, whether it’s in the area of work, relationships, or daily life. While stability and comfort protect you from rejection and failure in the short-term, they also prevent you from truly growing in the long-term. In order for you to reach your life goals, you must be prepared for discomfort. Otherwise, you will just stay where you've always been and stagnate. And you don’t want that, do you? Of course you don’t! No one wants to stay fearful, unconfident, depressed, or jealous! That’s why Lily Andrew’s book, “Anxiety in Relationships & Overcome Anxiety”, is here to help you eliminate your negative thinking patterns, so you can overcome anxiety, depression, fear, panic attacks, worry, shyness, jealousy, anxious attachment, and couple conflicts… so that you can finally live the life you want and have the relationship of your dreams! Over the course of this life-changing guide, you will: Make Permanent Mindset Changes to remove anxiety while replacing it with radiating confidence and positive energy without drugs or medication Skyrocket Your Social Confidence and bring the right friends, business connections, and romantic relationships in your life Thrive in a Nurturing Relationship by growing together as individuals while removing negative patterns, anxiety, and jealousy Develop Clear Communication about any topic without feeling insecure or judged by the other person for your feelings and emotions And so much more! Anxiety in relationships and your personal life is normal. A big part of growth is taking chances and embracing new opportunities, despite the fear, shyness, panic attacks, worry, jealousy, and all other negative emotions that consume you. In this guide, you will only get information gleaned from hundreds of research done on overcoming anxiety, so that you can become a better partner as well as a better, more confident, and more secure person! Take back control and overcome your anxiety today!
