Download or read book You Don t Owe Anyone written by Caroline Garnet McGraw and published by Broadleaf Books . This book was released on 2021-04-20 with total page 222 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: You Don't Owe Anyone is for perfectionists, workaholics, people pleasers, and strivers who feel stuck in the try-hard cycle. Sharing her experiences as a life coach and recovering perfectionist, Caroline Garnet McGraw shows us how we can free ourselves from the weight of expectations and encourages us to move our lives forward without apology. Inspired by the author's viral essay "You Don't Owe Anyone an Interaction," this book invites us to make surprising choices that can help us get unstuck. Rather than offering more ways to effect change through sheer effort, these personal stories serve as a compassionate witness, a reflection of our own perfectionistic tendencies. They also are a wakeup call jolting us out of our martyr mentality and inspiring us to move in new, positive directions. Through simple, accessible coaching practices, You Don't Owe Anyone shows us what it looks like to refuse to over-function in the old ways. It invites us to make the same surprising choices that have helped McGraw and her clients move past perfectionism, empowering us to quiet our fears and heal our hearts.
Download or read book Expectation Hangover written by Christine Hassler and published by New World Library. This book was released on 2016-01-15 with total page 250 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: When our expectations are met and things go according to plan, we feel a sense of accomplishment; we feel safe, in control, and on track. But when life does not live up to our expectations, we end up with an Expectation Hangover. This particular brand of disappointment is profoundly uncomfortable and can cost us valuable time and energy if not treated and leveraged effectively. Christine Hassler has broken down the complex and overwhelming experience of recovering from disappointment into a step-by-step treatment plan. This book reveals the formula for how to process Expectation Hangovers on the emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual levels to immediately ease suffering. Instead of wallowing in regret, self-recrimination, or anger, we can see these experiences as catalysts for profound transformation and doorways that open to possibility. Often it is only when life throws us a curveball (or several) that we look in a different direction and make room for the kinds of unexpected things that lead more directly to a life we love. By the time you finish this book, you’ll understand why your Expectation Hangover happened and have your own treatment plan — a clear course of action to pursue your goals while preventing future disappointment.
Download or read book The Future Of Buddhism written by Sogyal Rinpoche and published by Random House. This book was released on 2011-06-27 with total page 57 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In this fascinating collection of articles, Sogyal Rinpoche, author of The Tibetan Book of Living and Dying, draws on his experience of twenty-five years of teaching in the West. In The Future of Buddhism, he reflects on some of the vital issues facing Buddhism in the modern world, issues such as adaptation, training, integration and the support of the sangha. He highlights the role of mind in health in The Spiritual Heart of Tibetan Medicine, delving into the practices of 'lojong' - training the mind - and meditation, and the ultimate healing that comes through recognizing the nature of mind. Finally, Rinpoche gives advice on how to survive the spiritual path in View and Wrong View and Misunderstandings. For when we follow a spiritual path, it is more important than ever to see through the mind and its delusions, and to know just how misunderstandings can come to dominate our lives.
Download or read book Live Free written by DeVon Franklin and published by HarperCollins. This book was released on 2021-05-04 with total page 172 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The bestselling author returns with his biggest book yet in which he teaches us the secret to living a happier life: get rid of as many expectations as possible—of ourselves, our future, our relationships, our career and our family. Expectations are the secret software, running on the hardware of our minds, controlling our emotions, decisions, and actions. How? Think about your life. How much of the sadness you feel derives from what you think should have happened—than with what actually happened? Think about your career. How much of the discontent you feel comes from your belief about where you’d be at this point—than with the progress you’ve actually made? Think about your relationships. How much of your dissatisfaction with friends, family, significant others, or spouses has to do with your unspoken presumptions—than with the people themselves? Having so many expectations is distorting your perspective, decreasing your happiness and disrupting your joy. You can live a life of true freedom, greater peace and less stress: release as many expectations as possible. This, DeVon Franklin argues, is the secret to a better life now. In a culture obsessed with more, Live Free is a bold counterintuitive book that can start a cultural revolution, Franklin contends. Everyone struggles with unnecessary expectations. But once you learn to let go of them, you can set the stage for the life you’ve always wanted.
Download or read book The Power of Zero Expectations written by Frances Ku and published by . This book was released on 2021-01-29 with total page 59 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Do you get disappointed? You could be setting yourself up by having expectations. Unlike books that tell you to lower or manage your expectations, this book shows you how to thrive without them. It dispels the myth that expectations are necessary to achieve well-being and success. You will learn how to let go of expectations and experience freedom from disappointment, including turning any disappointment into personal power. Imagine no longer having expectations of people and circumstances and being disappointed by them. Imagine doing what contributes to your happiness instead of relying on expectations that don't. This book can help you with the following: * You have expectations, maybe even high expectations. * You get disappointed. * You get stressed out. * You are overwhelmed. * You want to improve your relationships and circumstances. * You are pessimistic. * You are controlling. * You feel like a victim. * Your life is chaotic. This book helps you achieve the following: * Minimize and prevent disappointment. * Transform disappointment into personal power. * Maintain well-being as you navigate this world of ups and downs. * Handle people and circumstances without succumbing to the disappointment that follows. * Stay driven, productive, optimistic, and hopeful without expectations. * Know when to let go and when to hang on. * Implement the factors that work to contribute to your well-being and success. * Navigate the twists and turns of life. * Be at ease and enjoy life. This book uses the following methods: * Thought-provoking exercises in each step so you can reflect on the content and understand how it relates to your situation. * An effective strategy for each step to replace the habit of expectations. * Powerful affirmations to support your efforts in carrying out each strategy. Experience the transformative power of Zero Expectations today!
Download or read book Mind Over Mind written by Chris Berdik and published by Penguin. This book was released on 2013-09-24 with total page 289 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: How our fast-forward minds make something out of nothing We all know expectations matter—in school, in sports, in the stock market. From a healing placebo to a run on the bank, hints of their self-fulfilling potential have been observed for years. But we’ve never fully understood why. Journalist Chris Berdik offers a captivating look at the frontiers of expectations research, revealing how our assumptions bend reality. We learn how placebo calories can fill us up, how fake surgery can sometimes work better than real surgery, and how imaginary power can be corrupting. Mind Over Mind is a journey into the most exciting area of brain research today.
Download or read book Silent Agreements written by Linda D. Anderson, PhD and published by Rodale Books. This book was released on 2019-05-07 with total page 272 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Silent Agreements will help readers define the unspoken beliefs and expectations that might be causing dissatisfaction, unhappiness, and resentment in their relationships, giving them the tools to explore these agreements and work toward healthier communication with a partner, friend, boss, or family member. If you have relationships, you've likely been part of silent agreements. Silent agreements are the implicit "rules" of your relationships that arise from unspoken beliefs and expectations that both parties hold, stemming from your earliest experiences and reinforced as you mature. They can sound something like "The person who makes more money should pay for the dates," or "My boss doesn't offer me a raise, and he knows I won't ask for one." These agreements can hinder your relationships, remaining undiscussed due to fear, aversion to conflict, feelings of obligation, or guilt. Because expectations so rarely line up and neither person will address the issue, a silent agreement can cause unhappiness and resentment on both sides. Clinical psychologists Drs. Anderson, Banks, and Owens will help you explore your agreements and work towards healthier communication with a partner, friend, boss, or family member. In the process, you'll learn more about your own motivations and how to dismantle the the beliefs that don't serve you. With guidelines and advice on how to have productive conversations about sex, money, commitment, family, the workplace, and health, this book will help you lift the silence and resolve those land-mine issues before they do irreparable damage.
Download or read book Quest for Eternal Sunshine written by Mendek Rubin and published by She Writes Press. This book was released on 2020-04-14 with total page 269 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Quest for Eternal Sunshine chronicles the triumphant, true story of Mendek Rubin, a brilliant inventor who overcame both the trauma of the Holocaust and decades of unrelenting depression to live a life of deep peace and boundless joy. Born into a Hassidic Jewish family in Poland in 1924, Mendek grew up surrounded by extreme anti-Semitism. Armed with an ingenious mind, he survived three horrific years in Nazi slave-labor concentration camps while virtually his entire family was murdered in Auschwitz. After arriving in America in 1946—despite having no money or professional skills—his inventions helped revolutionize both the jewelry and packaged-salad industries. Remarkably, Mendek also applied his ingenuity to his own psyche, developing innovative ways to heal his heart and end his emotional suffering. After Mendek died in 2012, his daughter, Myra Goodman, found an unfinished manuscript in which he’d revealed the intimate details of his healing journey. Quest for Eternal Sunshine—the extraordinary result of a posthumous father-daughter collaboration—tells Mendek’s whole story and is filled with eye-opening revelations, effective self-healing techniques, and profound wisdom that have the power to transform the way we live our lives. An inspirational biography of a Holocaust survivor overcoming depression and PTSD. An essential new addition to Jewish Holocaust history.
Download or read book Free Yourself to Love written by Jackie Kendall and published by FaithWords. This book was released on 2009-02-24 with total page 154 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Jackie Kendall's childhood was a horror story of abuse. A counselor deemed her family "one of the top-ten most dysfunctional in America." Family members have dealt with this trauma in different ways: Two siblings committed suicide. Some siblings ran wild. When Jackie decided that she wanted to break the mold and be a healthy, loving woman, to forgive or not to forgive was not a question. Simply put: one can't love freely without the developed skill of forgiving freely. In Free Yourself to Love, Jackie shares her own story and struggle to learn this vital life skill. She also reveals the reasons for -- and results of -- refusing to forgive. In passionate, empathetic prose, Jackie urges her readers to exchange free-floating bitterness for the freedom to love and be loved.
Download or read book Tired of Trying to Measure Up written by Jeff VanVonderen and published by Bethany House. This book was released on 1989 with total page 205 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Written to point the way to freedom for Christians who live under an unwritten religious code of expectations and rules that drain them of spiritual strength.
Download or read book Liberate Yourself from Expectations written by Will Trotti and published by Independently Published. This book was released on 2023-06-15 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Have you ever read a random fact that you wish you would known before? Have you ever wished there was cheat codes in life that you wish you had heard when you were a teenager graduating high school? Well this book hopes to provide the majority of those so that you can go through life feeling like you knew a little bit more than the average person walking the streets. I wrote this book and hopes that it'll save you money, time, energy, and frustration through this ever-changing world of ours. I tackle everything from religion, finances, sex, home and auto repairs, nutrition, physical fitness and more. I hope that my extensive view on the world and traveling as much as I did helps more people understand and appreciate the beautiful world we live in
Download or read book Your Messy Brilliance written by Kelly McNelis and published by New Leaf Distribution. This book was released on with total page 234 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt:
Download or read book Free Yourself From an Abusive Relationship written by Andrea Lissette and published by Turner Publishing Company. This book was released on 2000-01-21 with total page 252 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This book is a comprehensive guide to recognizing and dealing with domestic abuse and violence. It outlines the different types and stages of abuse, and provides information on how to change such relationships or escape from them.
Download or read book Every Body Looking written by Candice Iloh and published by Penguin. This book was released on 2021-09-21 with total page 417 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A Finalist for the National Book Award When Ada leaves home for her freshman year at a Historically Black College, it’s the first time she’s ever been so far from her family—and the first time that she’s been able to make her own choices and to seek her place in this new world. As she stumbles deeper into the world of dance and explores her sexuality, she also begins to wrestle with her past—her mother’s struggle with addiction, her Nigerian father’s attempts to make a home for her. Ultimately, Ada discovers she needs to brush off the destiny others have chosen for her and claim full ownership of her body and her future. “Candice Iloh’s beautifully crafted narrative about family, belonging, sexuality, and telling our deepest truths in order to be whole is at once immensely readable and ultimately healing.”—Jacqueline Woodson, New York Times Bestselling Author of Brown Girl Dreaming “An essential—and emotionally gripping and masterfully written and compulsively readable—addition to the coming-of-age canon.”—Nic Stone, New York Times Bestselling Author of Dear Martin “This is a story about the sometimes toxic and heavy expectations set onthe backs of first-generation children, the pressures woven into the familydynamic, culturally and socially. About childhood secrets with sharp teeth. And ultimately, about a liberation that taunts every young person.” —Jason Reynolds, New York Times Bestselling Author of Long Way Down
Download or read book Unburdened written by Sergio Rijo and published by SERGIO RIJO. This book was released on 2023-07-28 with total page 124 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: "Unburdened: Liberating Your True Self from Emotionally Immature Parents" is a powerful and insightful book that delves into the challenging experience of growing up with emotionally immature parents. Throughout its pages, this transformative guide explores the lasting effects of such upbringing, including feelings of anger, loneliness, betrayal, and a sense of emotional neglect. Drawing from a wealth of knowledge and research in psychology, "Unburdened" presents readers with valuable insights and practical strategies to embark on a healing journey. With compassion and understanding, it empowers individuals to break free from the emotional burdens imposed by their parents and rediscover their true selves. Through relatable case studies and compelling anecdotes, readers will gain a deeper understanding of the impact of emotionally immature parents on their lives. They will learn to recognize the signs of emotional immaturity, enabling them to confront unresolved emotions and navigate difficult situations with newfound strength and resilience. "Unburdened" offers science-backed tools to cope with feelings of worthlessness and inadequacy, helping readers embrace their authentic selves. It guides them through the process of setting healthy boundaries with parents and extended family, empowering them to assert their needs and foster self-compassion. Beyond healing, this transformative book focuses on building positive, fulfilling relationships. Readers will discover effective communication and conflict resolution skills, as well as the importance of embracing vulnerability and trust in forming authentic connections with others. The journey of "Unburdened" is not confined to healing alone; it extends to embracing a new beginning. Readers are encouraged to celebrate progress and personal growth, accept the natural ups and downs of healing, and recognize that healing is an ongoing and transformative process. With the practical guidance and support provided in "Unburdened," readers will rebuild their lives with newfound strength and wisdom, embracing the endless possibilities of a brighter future. This empowering book offers a path to liberation from the emotional burdens of the past, guiding readers towards a life of authenticity, empowerment, and personal growth.
Download or read book The Happiness Trap Pocketbook written by Dr Russ Harris and published by Exisle Publishing. This book was released on 2013 with total page 170 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A unique collaboration between cartoonist/author Bev Aisbett and Dr Russ Harris, this is an illustrated, simplified pocketbook version of Russ’s original, international bestseller 'The Happiness Trap'. It’s an easy-to-read introduction to all those powerful life-changing ideas or a great refresher course for those already familiar with the approach.Commonplace ideas about happiness are often misleading, inaccurate and likely to make you miserable in the long term. For example, positive thinking often does not work — and research shows it actually makes some people feel worse! So open 'The Happiness Trap Pocketbook' and learn how a new scientifically proven, mindfulness-based approach called Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (better known as ACT) can help you find genuine wellbeing and fulfilment.Whether you’re lacking confidence, facing illness, stressed at work, struggling with low self-esteem, trying to lose weight or quit smoking, or just wanting to be happier, healthier, and more fulfilled — in this book you will learn effectivetechniques to:• reduce stress and worry• rise above fear, doubt and insecurity• handle painful thoughts and feelings more effectively• break self-defeating habits• develop self-acceptance and self-compassion• let go of inaccurate and misleading (but very popular)ideas about happiness, and• create a rich, full and meaningful life.
Download or read book Free Yourself From Anxiety written by Emma Fletcher and published by How To Books. This book was released on 2009-01-09 with total page 227 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Anxiety disorders can rob you of independence, happiness and self-esteem. This book will enable you to free yourself from the crippling effects of anxiety and to go on to a happier and more fulfilled life. The authors describe simple self-help techniques and practical tips derived from years of helping people with anxiety problems. This book enables the reader to: assess what changes you need to make; create a personal recovery programme; set realistic goals and work towards them; change unhelpful ways of thinking; and, take back control of your life. The techniques can be used for all forms of anxiety: phobias (including Agoraphobia and Social Phobia), Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, Panic Attacks and General Anxiety Disorder. However bad your anxiety, and however long you've had it, you can recover. Using true life examples from anxiety sufferers, this book shows you just how you can do it.
