Download or read book Divorcing a Narcissist written by Tina Swithin and published by . This book was released on 2012 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Tina Swithin was swept off her feet by a modern day Prince Charming and married him one year later. Tina soon discovered that there was something seriously wrong with her fairytale. The marriage was filled with lies, deception, fraud and many tears. Tina was left in an utter state of confusion. This wasn't the man that she married...or was it? Tina first heard the term, Narcissistic Personality Disorder from her therapist in 2008 but quickly dismissed the notion that something could be wrong with her husband. It took several years for Tina to begin researching the disorder and suddenly, the past ten years of her life made complete sense. Tina soon discovered that there is only one thing more difficult than being married to a narcissist and that is divorcing a narcissist. In her book, Tina will explain how a smart, independent woman can fall prey to a narcissistic man. Tina discusses the red flag reflections that she chose to ignore while dating and during the marriage. Tina acted as her own attorney in an extremely high-conflict divorce and she will share the strategies that helped her to navigate through this battle while maintaining her sanity and sense of humor. Tina will help you to feel less alone in your journey and will assure you that there is light at the end of the tunnel no matter how dark things are right now. While Tina endured a tumultuous 6-year custody battle, she prevailed and today, her daughters have peace.
Download or read book How To Fight a Narcissist in Family Court and Win written by Grace Wroldson and published by . This book was released on 2021-02-12 with total page 100 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Are you trying to co-parent with a narcissistic ex? Have you found yourself in the war zone of Family Court? (These are two common problems that tend to go together like a hammer and nails.) Are you stuck in a legal battle where your ex uses the system as a sword? Do you need a how-to guide for both your heart and mind? Is there anything more stressful than being in Family Court? Is there anyone more difficult than an angry, bitter, toxic narcissist who NOT ONLY refuses to cooperate and follow court orders but who purposely sets out to sabotage you? Many facing this challenge learn how to fight after years of trying to keep the peace. However, they soon discover what we all knew: placating an ex will only work for so long. Eventually, things will come to a head, or a crisis happens, and we are called on to fight for ourselves, our rights, and our children. You can learn valuable lessons from a battle-scarred warrior-woman on the front lines of the U.S. Family Court. Author Grace W. Wroldson has been writing to spare mothers the same pain and trap she got caught up in for a decade. So, if you are on a mission to save yourself and your children from the toxic abuse of a narcissistic ex, the principles that these Super-Smart Strategies are based on will help you get back up on your feet again. They are also designed to keep you standing there! Activate your strategy mind-set with this book today!
Download or read book Working with Alienated Children and Families written by Amy J. L. Baker and published by Routledge. This book was released on 2013 with total page 292 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This guidebook pulls together for the first time the best thinking in the field today about different approaches for working with these families. It is written by and for mental health professionals who work directly with alienated children, targeted parents, and families affected by parental alienation.
Download or read book The Narc Decoder written by Tina Swithin and published by . This book was released on 2016-02-22 with total page 154 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Divorcing a narcissist? You are probably left feeling baffled and shaken by the communication that you receive from the narcissist. In my mid-twenties, I contemplated learning multiple foreign languages. I envisioned dabbling in French to successfully make my way around Paris or Irish Gaelic to explore the rich history of Ireland along with my deep ancestral roots in that country. My day dreams about learning new languages always went hand in hand with the imagery of world travel. The thought of exploring exotic and old world places far away from home intrigued me. My mind summoned several foreign adventures, but never did I think I would need to learn a foreign language to navigate my own life. In 2008, I heard the words, "Narcissistic Personality Disorder" (NPD) to describe my then-husband, Seth. It took a couple years for the reality of those three little words to really sink in. Looking back, the red flags had been waving in the wind since our very first date. Those flags grew taller and more vibrant in color during our marriage. As it turns out, those same red flags that had been lining my path for years were dipped in a highly flammable mixture of kerosene. I realized the danger only when they exploded near the end of my marriage. Like any unexpected explosion, I was unprepared and left nursing deep, emotional, third-degree burns. In my research, I discovered a new language which took quite a bit of studying and insight on NPD to understand. As it turns out, the reason that I was so bewildered by Seth's communication style was that we were speaking completely different languages. I spoke the English version of "human" while he was speaking the non-human "Narc-ish." I am convinced there is a Narc-ish dictionary or manual hidden deep in a dark, musty hole somewhere in a faraway land with step-by-step instructions on how to inflict fear, confusion and despair. From this land, narcissists hail. Their secret language can only be decoded by those who aren't fooled by the narcissist's stealth ability to inflict confusion and chaos with it. My computer has a feature that allows me to translate most languages. However, this particular area of my life requires technology that is a bit savvier. Need is the catalyst of industry: and I was in need of a device to decipher Narc-ish. So, I invented one. I call it the "Narc Decoder" and have made life-altering good use of it. The good news is, everyone has access to the Narc Decoder because it is a machine that I am honored to replicate and share with anyone who is forced to communicate with a narcissist. Once you understand how to use the Narc Decoder, your life will change for the better. You will become empowered and will regain your voice. Over time, you will begin to find humor in the communication style that once left you on your knees begging for mercy.
Download or read book Divorcing a Narcissist written by Tina Swithin and published by . This book was released on 2014-02 with total page 278 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Prior to stepping onto the battlefield with a Narcissist, it is imperative to know their playbook both forwards and backwards. The behavior of individuals with Narcissistic Personality Disorder generally defies logic but sadly, their tactics in the Family Court System often fool Judges, Commissioners, Attorneys, Minor's Counsel, Social Workers, Therapists and even trained Evaluators. Narcissists are the masters of manipulation and projection and are known to launch stealth assaults that will leave their victims in an utter state of confusion and desperation. Victims are often left shattered and without a voice because they feel that no one could possibly believe or understand what they are silently enduring. Author, Tina Swithin, understands what it's like to divorce a narcissist. Tina spent over four years on the battlefield of the Family Court System while acting as her own attorney in a desperate attempt to protect her two young daughters. While Tina's first book, Divorcing a Narcissist: One Mom's Battle details Tina's personal journey and court battle, her new book offers solid advice and sanity-saving wisdom for transforming from victim to survivor. Education is power and Divorcing a Narcissist: Advice from the Battlefield is your personal guide and resource for navigating through high-conflict divorce. Receive advice for every stage of the battle: Leaving the Narcissist: Strategies and advice Divorcing: Advice on attorneys, tactical moves, courtroom preparation, anxiety/PTSD, evaluations and more. Narc Decoder: Learn to decode emails and communication. Children: Sharing custody, sheltering children and breaking the cycle. Life Beyond the Narcissist: Loving again, personal growth and healing. Stories of Hope Resources
Download or read book How To Annihilate A Narcissist written by Rachel Watson and published by . This book was released on 2019-09-14 with total page 133 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Are you considering raising, or defending yourself against, legal action in the family court with a narcissistic opponent? Is your opponent controlling, abusive, unreasonable, manipulative, vindictive and obstructive? Can they convincingly hide these behavioural traits from the judge and other professionals involved? Does the narcissist project this behaviour onto you, and make shocking, false allegations? Do they attempt to embarrass you and defame your character? How To Annihilate A Narcissist In The Family Court will give you the knowledge required, to set you on the path for a successful outcome. It will prepare you to enter the court proceedings with your armour fully intact and with the full arsenal of ammunition required to reveal the narcissist's true character to the judge. A narcissist is an extremely powerful opponent, and the lengths they will go to 'win' will shock you to the core. With the insight in this book, you will outsmart them. You will remain one step ahead. You will be in control. Knowledge is power!
Download or read book Malignant Self Love written by Sam Vaknin and published by Narcissus Publishing. This book was released on 2007 with total page 706 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The FULL TEXT of Sam Vaknin's classic, groundbreaking BIBLE of NARCISSISM and NARCISSISTIC ABUSE, now in its 9th revision. Tips and advice as well as the most complete clinical background. Narcissistic Personality Disorder and its effects on the narcissist, the psychopath and their nearest and dearest - in 100 frequently asked questions and two essays - a total of 680 pages! Updated to reflect the NEW criteria in the recent fifth edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM).
Download or read book How To Fight a Narcissist in Family Court and Win written by Grace Wroldson and published by . This book was released on 2021-02-12 with total page 100 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Are you trying to co-parent with a narcissistic ex? Have you found yourself in the war zone of Family Court? (These are two common problems that tend to go together like a hammer and nails.) Are you stuck in a legal battle where your ex uses the system as a sword? Do you need a how-to guide for both your heart and mind? Is there anything more stressful than being in Family Court? Is there anyone more difficult than an angry, bitter, toxic narcissist who NOT ONLY refuses to cooperate and follow court orders but who purposely sets out to sabotage you? Many facing this challenge learn how to fight after years of trying to keep the peace. However, they soon discover what we all knew: placating an ex will only work for so long. Eventually, things will come to a head, or a crisis happens, and we are called on to fight for ourselves, our rights, and our children. You can learn valuable lessons from a battle-scarred warrior-woman on the front lines of the U.S. Family Court. Author Grace W. Wroldson has been writing to spare mothers the same pain and trap she got caught up in for a decade. So, if you are on a mission to save yourself and your children from the toxic abuse of a narcissistic ex, the principles that these Super-Smart Strategies are based on will help you get back up on your feet again. They are also designed to keep you standing there! Activate your strategy mind-set with this book today!
Download or read book How to Divorce a Narcissist and Succeed in the Family Court written by Diana Jordan and published by . This book was released on 2021-11-18 with total page 288 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Leaving a narcissist and going through the family court is likely to be the scariest thing you'll ever have to do. This book will be your trusted companion and guide to the practical, legal and emotional challenges you'll face along the way. It contains information you won't find elsewhere and it costs a fraction of the price of an hour with a solicitor. Narcissists form a disproportionate percentage of those who separate and divorce because they're not good at relationships. They tend to fall out with family members and work colleagues too and they can't be in an intimate relationship without lying, manipulating, shaming, confusing and controlling. This book is for you if you are: A woman or a man who is or was married or cohabiting Leaving, or thinking of leaving, a difficult or narcissistic partner A parent facing children proceedings in the family court Being alienated from you child Trying to co-parent with a narcissist In divorce and/or financial proceedings with a narcissist A litigant in person (self-representing) Represented by a solicitor and/or barrister The different types of narcissist are explained, including covert narcissists, sociopaths, and those with borderline personality disorder. You're likely to find yourself in court when you leave because you can't negotiate with a narcissist and there's no other way to resolve the disputes around your children and/or come to a financial settlement. The book helps you to set boundaries with the narcissist, communicate with them and manage their behaviour to mitigate its effects on you and your children. Unfortunately, most lawyers and judges don't understand the narcissist's disordered personality and try to settle these disputes in the same way as they do other cases. That doesn't work, and it will cost you a lot of time and money and play into the narcissist's aim to ensure you can't afford legal representation. The narcissist has to win and doesn't care how they do it or who they hurt on the way - and that includes their own children. Author Diana Jordan is a former solicitor and now works with people needing help through court proceedings against a narcissist. Many of her clients can't afford a lawyer and she has written this guide to the family court in England and Wales with the litigant in person very much in mind. The book explains how to navigate the family court and build your case with compelling evidence. You'll learn about: Solicitors and barristers - when you need one and what you can do yourself - and how to deal with your ex's lawyers McKenzie Friends if you can't afford a barrister How to address the court The different types of court hearings and how they work Writing statements Collecting evidence to build your case Giving evidence and being cross-examined in court hearings Cafcass, and how to prepare for interviews What's likely to go wrong, and how to deal with it How to appeal and make a complaint One of the impossible things asked of you will be to co-parent with the narcissist. You'll learn how to use parallel parenting instead and to protect your children as best you can from the narcissists dreadful parenting. You'll learn about parental alienation which is the worst form of abuse inflicted by a narcissist, and how to take action against it. With real life case studies from people who have been through the family court this book is your companion you'll want by your side to achieve the best outcomes you can for yourself and your children.
Download or read book So You Love an Alcoholic written by Grace W. Wroldson and published by Balboa Press. This book was released on 2018-05-31 with total page 194 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: When Grace Wroldson first discovered that she was in love with an alcoholic, she sought treatment and help for him. As the years passed and the alcoholic continued to choose alcohol over her, she instead sought treatment for herself to overcome her own battles of love addiction and codependency. When her child was born, she was inspired to completely break free from the disease of alcoholism. She shifted her focus away from the alcoholic and found a path of recovery for herself. Now, Grace shares a firsthand account of her journey to living a healthier life full of self-love, acceptance, and truth. So You Love an . . . Alcoholic? compiles the hard-learned lessons and realizations she faced during recovery. From lessons on boundaries, forgiveness, and self-love comes a triumphant tale of a woman who learned. Grace brings the message of hope for women in a similar situation by sharing her secret lessons. This is one womans recovery story of loving and leaving an alcoholic man successfully. The lessons found in So You Love an . . . Alcoholic? inspire women to take action and seek help for themselvesnot just their alcoholics. These lessons tell a story of bravery, dedication, hard work, and love that validate those who find themselves in a similar situation. Graces lessons serve as a reminder to all of us that you cant take care of anyone else until youve taken care of yourself. This book will bring healing, affirmation, relief, and wisdom to women who love an alcoholic. By sharing her true story, she strives to reach out to women who are surviving this predicament so that they can free themselves from the disease and extend that freedom to their children.
Download or read book Co parenting with a Toxic Ex written by Amy J. L. Baker and published by New Harbinger Publications. This book was released on 2014-05-01 with total page 224 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Protect your child from alienation and loyalty conflicts. During and after a difficult divorce, it’s easy for your relationship with your kids to become strained—especially if you are dealing with a toxic ex who bad-mouths you in front of your children, accuses you of being a bad parent, and even attempts to “replace” you with a new partner in your children’s lives. Your children may become confused, conflicted, angry, anxious, or depressed—and you may feel powerless. But there is help. In this guide, you’ll discover a positive parenting approach to dealing with a hostile ex-spouse. You'll learn the best ways to protect your children from painful loyalty conflicts, how to avoid parental alienation syndrome, and techniques for talking to your children in a way that fosters honesty and trust. Co-parenting with a toxic ex can be challenging, but with the right tools you can protect your kids and make your relationship with them stronger than ever.
Download or read book Splitting written by Bill Eddy and published by New Harbinger Publications. This book was released on 2021-07-01 with total page 321 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This highly anticipated second edition of Splitting includes new chapters on abuse, alienation, and false allegations; as well as information about the four types of domestic violence, protective orders, and child custody disputes. Are you divorcing someone who’s making the process as difficult as possible? Are they sending you nasty emails, falsifying the truth, putting your children in the middle, abusing you, or abusing the system? Are they “persuasive blamers,” manipulating and fooling court personnel to get them on their side? If so, you need this book. For more than ten years, Splitting has served as the ultimate guide for people divorcing a high conflict person, one who often has borderline or narcissistic (or even antisocial) personality disorder. Among other things, it has saved readers thousands of dollars, helped them keep custody of their children, and effectively guided them through a difficult legal and emotional process. Written by a family law attorney and therapist, and the author of Stop Walking on Eggshells, Splitting is an essential legal and psychological guide for anyone divorcing a persuasive blamer: someone who suffers from borderline personality disorder (BPD), narcissistic personality disorder (NPD), and/or antisocial personality disorder (ASPD). This second edition includes new information about antisocial personalities; expanded information about domestic violence, child abuse, alienation, and false allegations; how to approach protective orders and deal with child custody disputes; and a new chapter on how to successfully present your case to decision makers. Turn to this guide to help you: Predict what your spouse may do or say in court Take control of your case with assertiveness and strategic thinking Choose a lawyer who understands your case Learn how e-mails and social networking can be used against you If you need help navigating a high-conflict divorce from a manipulative spouse, this book includes all of the critical information you need to work through the process of divorce in an emotionally balanced, productive way.
Download or read book Divorce Poison written by Dr. Richard A. Warshak and published by Harper Collins. This book was released on 2009-10-06 with total page 322 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Your ex-spouse is bad-mouthing you to your children, perhaps even trying to turn them against you. If you handle the situation ineffectively, you could lose your children's respect, their affection—even, in extreme cases, contact with them. Backed by twenty-five years of experience in helping families, Dr. Richard Warshak presents powerful strategies for dealing with everything from tainted parent-child relationships in which children are disrespectful or reluctant to show their affection to disturbances in which children virtually disown an entire side of the family. Divorce Poison offers advice on how to: Recognize early warning signs of trouble React if your children refuse to see you Respond to rude and hateful behavior Avoid the seven most common errors made by rejected parents This groundbreaking work gives parents powerful strategies to preserve and rebuild loving relationships with their children and provides legal and mental-health professionals with practical advice to help their clients and ensure the welfare of children.
Download or read book How to Divorce a Narcissist and Win written by Marie Sarantakis and published by . This book was released on 2021-07-18 with total page 200 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: There is only one thing more difficult than being married to a Narc: Divorcing one.You thought you married your soulmate, but it was 'til Narc do you part. The first step in dismantling your opponent in the courtroom is knowing what you are up against. Knowledge is power. By getting into the Narc's mind, you can predict their next move and outsmart them at every turn. Leading divorce attorney Marie Sarantakis will teach you not only how to survive your divorce but thrive in rebuilding your world thereafter. The first step starts with the first page. Out of the Narc's darkness, you will discover your light. How to Divorce a Narcissist and Win is a comprehensive guide that will teach you how to: * Understand the Narc's twisted mind* Unpack your toxic relationship* Save time and money in divorce court* Obtain a more favorable settlement* Heal from the aftershocks of narcissistic abuse* Transform into a more powerful version of yourself
Download or read book Leave a Cheater Gain a Life written by Tracy Schorn and published by Running Press Adult. This book was released on 2016-05-10 with total page 240 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life is a no-nonsense self-help guide for anyone who has ever been cheated on. Here's advice not based on saving your relationship after infidelity—but saving your sanity. When it comes to cheating, a lot of the attention is focused on cheaters—their unmet needs or their challenges with monogamy. But Tracy Schorn (aka Chump Lady) lampoons such blameshifting and puts the focus squarely on the-cheated-upon (chumps) and their needs. Combining solid advice that champions self-respect, along with hilarious cartoons satirizing the pomposity of cheaters, Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life offers a fresh voice for chumps who want (and need) a new message about infidelity. This book will offer advice on Stupid sh*t cheaters say and how to respond, Rookie mistakes of the recently chumped and how to disarm your fears, Why chumps take the blame and how to protect yourself, and more. Full of snark, sass, and real wisdom about how to bounce back after the gut blow of betrayal, Schorn is the friend who guides you through this nightmare and gives you hope for a better life ahead.
Download or read book Will I Ever Be Free of You written by Karyl McBride and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2016-03-15 with total page 256 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: "A practical guide to separating and divorcing from a narcissist, healing yourself, and protecting your children"--
Download or read book How to Survive and Thrive When Divorcing a Narcissist written by Brad Micklin and published by . This book was released on 2020-03 with total page 112 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: FINALLY - AN HONEST APPROACH TO DIVORCING A NARCISSIST Living with a narcissist can be awful. Divorcing one is a nightmare. They're always right, they want everything their way and they leave little room for compromise. How to Survive and Thrive When Divorcing a Narcissist offers solid advice on creating and sticking to a strategy so that you can get what you need and want from the divorce. Inside you'll discover: How to prepare yourself for the battle. How to be ready for the inevitable court fight. Insider child custody tips and tricks. What to expect during and after the divorce. And much more! This book lays out the divorce process in New Jersey and explains the five things to know when divorcing a narcissist. It's a must-read for anyone who is leaving a narcissistic spouse who shows even some of the symptoms of being a narcissist.
