Download or read book Guide to Recognizing Haters written by Tracee A. Hanna and published by B. T. Books. This book was released on 2016-08-15 with total page 102 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Guide to Recognizing Haters is a compendium created with the guidance of the word of God. I began this quest because no matter how blessed my life was, I was unhappy. I could not, for the life of me, understand or even see why, as the truth was hard to recognize and even more difficult to accept. My soul cried out to God, as I was trapped and yearned to be free. I had hitherto submitted, heart and mind, to a coterie version of Stockholm Syndrome. I openly expressed feelings of trust and affection toward the subjugators who used my love for them as a weapon against me. Unfortunately, my anger and distrust were aimed at any and every one who were against my beloveds. I prayed to our heavenly Father for clarity and discernment. Before long, I learned how to recognize the haters in my life who masqueraded as cherished friends and loving family. God revealed these things with undeniable clarity: Unbeknownst to me for decades, I struggled for acceptance from people who, frankly, did absolutely nothing to improve their own lives—other than complain. Yet, for that lot, my efforts were never quite good enough. I shared my hopes and goals for the future with folks who never did more than the bare minimum. These people often discouraged my dreams and aspirations. All the more so, I strove to impress my so-called mentors; the people to which I entrusted my counsel and tutelage. As I celebrated my successes with said people, I realized they wanted me to do well, just not better than them. That kind of tainted support is not love. The bible itemizes everything love is, does, is not, and does not do. Accordingly, I began with prayer, seconded by education which was quickly followed up with observation. Fortified with my new perspicacity, clarity, comprehension, and discernment I could not believe who my haters turned out to be. I tested my theories time and time again. Alas, the disappointingly stagnating facts rang true again and again. No matter how much I admired and adored my beloved haters, I gathered my strength, retired my rose-colored glasses, and recognized them for who they really were. In this guidebook I will reveal the undercover traits of closet haters. You will learn how to recognize the truth and clearly identify the haters in your world, one by one, as I did in mine. Armed with the some very prudent truths, I made changes. A hush settled over my world as my life filled with quiet absence of hate. I had created a more peaceful existence at last. I will show you how I did it step by step. My next book, LOVE: From the Safest Distance Possible, I reveal every lesson I learned about the biblical perspicacity of love, discernment and selectivity. True love in its purest form flows from God. Love is then reciprocated and passed forward to self and from self to others where love is freely interchanged. You will be amazed at what you would never be inclined to tolerate in the name of love, once you first love yourself. The love of one’s self is paramount to ensure a peaceful joyous existence. This book will help you embark with great expectation on your expedition of love. I am happy to share in detail exactly how I achieved a happy life filled with love.
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Download or read book Guide to Recognizing Haters written by Tracee A. Hanna and published by Createspace Independent Publishing Platform. This book was released on 2016-08-14 with total page 120 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: I dedicated myself to writing this guide because I would very much like to spare as many people as I can from what I faced in my life as I dared to follow my dreams. I was bombarded by so many haters as God blessed me with everything I boldly asked for as a child. I dreamed of leaving my family and starting my life somewhere new. I dreamed of love, a husband, and children-a family of my own. I dreamed the American dream of a house, car and career. I dreamed of bigger and better things-a better life than the one that my parents were able to provide. Haters should never ever be allowed to hinder you and/or stop you from living your dreams. In this guide I will expose everything I can about the ways of a hater, from the petty to the substantial. Although the original hater was Satan, the very first poster child of a hater was Cain, as he hated his brother so much he killed him. The fact that Abel had never wronged Cain was of no consequence. Abel happily worshipped the Lord, kept the flocks, and sacrificed his best to our heavenly father. Abel was blessed with abundance. Cain on the other hand did just enough to get by and offered what he saw fit to the Lord and therefore was not given the same blessings as his brother. Instead of Cain making a better effort he chose to cut down the brother who dared to out shine him. Haters are murders, if not of the flesh, of current and future happiness. History is filled with haters from the bible to mythology to world history to modern day. Samson was undone by his lover Delilah and the hate of the Philistines. Jesus' fate was sealed with a kiss from Judas. King Arthur was betrayed by his loving wife, Guinevere, and trusted Knight, Sir Lancelot, and that betrayal split the country and cost the king his life. Othello dared to embrace interracial love yet his friend sabotaged that love. Be careful as the assassins of your happiness may in fact be the closest people to you. When I was a child and for most of my life I could not understand how a parent, sibling, lover, and/or friend could harbor such loathing in their hearts towards someone who they claimed to love. Why not improve upon your own life instead of begrudging your loved ones joy? As I grew older I began to wonder how parents, teachers, and other authority figures could sabotage children and young adults. Once I was fully grown I could not fathom why on God's green earth someone who I had helped would turn their back on me in my hour of need. There have been many times in my life when I firmly believed that if I did not have God on my side, I would have had no one at all. And then, with the grace of God my children chose me. Unfortunately for them, the hate that was lavished on their mother is now resting at their doorsteps. The difference in their lives and mine is that they are well aware of the hate as well as the haters. I armed my children to the teeth with the tools that they needed to unmask haters and remove them from their personal lives. There are people who they loved as children that they no longer visit or even talk to past family events. My daughters are polite and charming, never personal. Haters have been described in many different ways from the beginning of time to current times: the devil, Machiavellian, backstabbers, fake people, users, takers, snakes, two-faced, double-dealer, family, lover, friend, etc. Haters damage and destroy. It is time to reveal the haters in your life. Are you ready?
Download or read book How to Spot and Deal with Haters written by E. J. Tyler and published by LULU. This book was released on 2013-12 with total page 111 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: It can be frightening to imagine: most people have no idea they are surrounded by haters every day. In How to Spot and Deal with Haters, E. J. Tyler, once a victim of haters himself, shares practical advice for anyone who has ever been the target of unjustified criticism, gossip, or lies. Tyler explains what haters are, how they can be detrimental to our advancement in life, and why we should all remove them from our lives. Seeking to creating awareness, Tyler teaches tangible techniques on identifying haters, dealing with them, and moving away from their toxicity, no matter what their relationship is with you. He also provides tips on how to transform a hater's negative energy into positive energy that can be used to achieve goals and dreams. How to Spot and Deal with Haters shares time-tested wisdom from a successful businessman on how to recognize and stop negative influences, replace them with optimism, and then use that momentum to reach for the stars.
Download or read book The Haters written by Jesse Andrews and published by ABRAMS. This book was released on 2016-04-05 with total page 318 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: From Jesse Andrews, author of the New York Times bestselling Me and Earl and the Dying Girl and screenwriter of the Sundance award–winning motion picture of the same name, comes a groundbreaking young adult novel about music, love, friendship, and freedom as three young musicians follow a quest to escape the law long enough to play the amazing show they hope (but also doubt) they have in them. For Wes and his best friend, Corey, jazz camp turns out to be lame. It’s pretty much all dudes talking in Jazz Voice. But then they jam with Ash, a charismatic girl with an unusual sound, and the three just click. It’s three and a half hours of pure musical magic, and Ash makes a decision: They need to hit the road. Because the road, not summer camp, is where bands get good. Before Wes and Corey know it, they’re in Ash’s SUV heading south, and The Haters Summer of Hate Tour has begun. In his second novel, Andrews again brings his brilliant and distinctive voice to YA, in the perfect book for music lovers, fans of The Commitments (author Roddy Doyle raves "The Haters is terrific. It is shocking and funny, unsettling and charming."), and High Fidelity, or anyone who has ever loved—and hated—a song or a band. This witty, funny coming-of-age novel is contemporary fiction at its best.
Download or read book The Complete Guide to Overcoming depression low mood and other related problems ebook bundle written by Colin Espie and published by Robinson. This book was released on 2013-01-17 with total page 894 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This exclusive ebook bundle comprises five practical self-help programmes based on cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) from the bestselling Overcoming series. Perfect for anyone experiencing problems with low mood or depression and associated problems such as low self-esteem, anger or sleep problems. This is also the perfect resource for therapists. Each book includes: -Case studies -Practical exercises -Monitoring sheets Overcoming Depression - 3rd edition If you suffer from depression you are far from alone. Depression is very common, affecting over 300 million people around the world. Written by Professor Paul Gilbert OBE, internationally recognised for his work on depression, this highly acclaimed self-help book has been of benefit to thousands of people including sufferers, their friends and families, and those working in the medical profession. This fully revised third edition has been extensively updated and rewritten to reflect over ten years of new research on understanding and treating depression, particularly the importance of developing compassionate ways of thinking, behaving and feeling. Overcoming Mood Swings Most people know what it is like to experience high or low spirits. For some individuals, however, emotional extremes can seriously disrupt their lives, either because they happen too frequently or because the mood swings are intense and are accompanied by other symptoms of depression or mania (often referred to as bipolar disorder). This practical self-help guide provides background information on depression and mania and offers tried and tested techniques that will help the reader identify and manage their mood more effectively, and achieve a more stable emotional state. Overcoming Low Self-Esteem A self-help classic, winning acclaim for its practical and user-friendly approach and now recommended on the National Health Service's self-help scheme known as Books on Prescription. This book will aid readers to understand what has caused their low self-esteem and, with this knowledge, break out of the vicious circle of negative self-image, learn the art of self-acceptance and alter their lives for the better. Overcoming Anger and Irritability An invaluable self-help guide to managing a widespread behavioural problem. This is a practical self-help programme for those who find that they are spoiling the lives of both themselves and those around them with their almost constant irritability and flashes of bad temper. It will help the reader understand why such behaviour occurs and what can be done to prevent it. Overcoming Insomnia Extensive research conducted over 25 years has established Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) as the treatment of choice for insomnia. For the first time, proven CBT principles have been brought together by a world-renowned expert on insomnia in a comprehensive self-help manual. In a clear step-by-step approach, new patterns of relaxation, sleeping and waking are quickly learnt. Based on clinically proven techniques.
Download or read book Networking for People Who Hate Networking written by Devora Zack and published by ReadHowYouWant.com. This book was released on 2010-12-30 with total page 242 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Shows how the networking-averse can succeed by working with the very traits that make them hate traditional networking Written by a proud introvert who is also an enthusiastic networker Includes field-tested tips and techniques for virtually any situation Are you the kind of person who would rather get a root canal than face a group of strangers? Does the phrase working a room make you want to retreat to yours? Does traditional networking advice seem like its in a foreign language? Devora Zack, an avowed introvert and a successful consultant who speaks to thousands of people every year, feels your pain. She found that most networking advice books assume that to succeed you have to become an outgoing, extraverted person. Or at least learn how to fake it. Not at all. There is another way. This book shatters stereotypes about people who dislike networking. Theyre not shy or misanthropic. Rather, they tend to be reflective - they think before they talk. They focus intensely on a few things rather than broadly on a lot of things. And they need time alone to recharge. Because theyve been told networking is all about small talk, big numbers and constant contact, they assume its not for them. But it is! Zack politely examines and then smashes to tiny fragments the dusty old rules of standard networking advice. She shows how the very traits that ordinarily make people networking-averse can be harnessed to forge an approach that is just as effective as more traditional approaches, if not better. And she applies it to all kinds of situations, not just formal networking events. After all, as she says, life is just one big networking opportunity - a notion readers can now embrace. Networking enables you to accomplish the things that are important to you. But you cant adopt a style that goes against who you are - and you dont have to. I have never met a person who did not benefit tremendously from learning how to network - on his or her own terms, Zack writes. You do not succeed by denying your natural temperament; you succeed by working with your strengths.
Download or read book I Hate People written by Jonathan Littman and published by Little, Brown. This book was released on 2009-06-10 with total page 156 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Face it, whether your company has 10 employees or 10,000, you must grapple with people you can't stand in the office. Luckily Jonathan Littman and Marc Hershon have written I Hate People!, a smart, counter-intuitive, and irreverent turn on the classic workplace self-help book that will show you how to identify the Ten Least Wanted -- the people you hate -- while revealing the strategies to neutralize them. Learn to fly right by the "Stop Sign" (nay-sayer) and rise above the pronouncements of the "Know-it-None." I Hate People! will teach you how to carve out more time for yourself by becoming a "Soloist" -- one of those bold individuals daring to work alone or collaborate with a handful of other talented people....while artfully deflecting the rest.
Download or read book The Opposite of Hate written by Sally Kohn and published by Algonquin Books. This book was released on 2018-04-10 with total page 273 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: “A stunning debut by a truly gifted writer—an eye-opening read for both liberals and conservatives—and it could not come at a better time.”—Adam Grant, New York Times bestselling author of Option B, with Sheryl Sandberg What is the opposite of hate? As a progressive commentator on Fox News and now CNN, Sally Kohn has made a career out of bridging intractable political differences and learning how to talk respectfully with people whose views she disagrees with passionately. Her viral TED Talk on the need to practice emotional—rather than political—correctness sparked a new way of considering how often we amplify our differences and diminish our connections. But these days even famously “nice” Kohn finds herself wanting to breathe fire at her enemies. It was time, she decided, to look into the epidemic of hate all around us and learn how we can stop it. In The Opposite of Hate, Kohn talks to leading scientists and researchers and investigates the evolutionary and cultural roots of hate and how incivility can be a gateway to much worse. She travels to Rwanda, the Middle East, and across the United States, introducing us to former terrorists and white supremacists, and even some of her own Twitter trolls, drawing surprising lessons from dramatic and inspiring stories of those who left hate behind. As Kohn confronts her own shameful moments, whether it was back when she bullied a classmate or today when she harbors deep partisan resentment, she discovers, “The opposite of hate is the beautiful and powerful reality of how we are all fundamentally linked and equal as human beings. The opposite of hate is connection.” Sally Kohn’s engaging, fascinating, and often funny book will open your eyes and your heart.
Download or read book Catholic Guilt and the Joy of Hating Men written by Regan Wolfrom and published by Wolfrom Writes. This book was released on 2012-11-27 with total page 315 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Nine Women. Nine Stories. And nothing ordinary about them. From the slightly askew mind of Regan Wolfrom comes this collection of hilariously dark tales of love, death, and horrible timing. Heather Smythe Pretty. Shy. About as lapsed as a Catholic can get. Heather's trapped in the a cult of killer succubi with a taste for East Hollywood douches. ("High Times at the Sixth Annual Succubus Sisters Garage and Bake Sale") Amanda Hackensack Somewhat tall. Can't dunk. Never knew her father. Amanda wakes up in a world of voodoo and zombies that she knows shouldn't exist. ("The Zombification of Amanda Hackensack") Marguerite Frunkel Lonely. Awkward. Painfully ginger. Marguerite finds two strange little gnomes who show her just what she's been missing. ("Gnome on Girl on Gnome: A Love Story") Laura Daniels Political outsider. Maverick. Avowed crazy cat lady. Laura learns the sinister truth behind her unexpected electoral success. ("The Siamese Candidate") Stephanie Munro Hard working. Hard drinking. Hard to please. Stephanie comes to regret taking a trip on the edge of the world with people she knows she shouldn't trust. ("The Raven's Head Dagger and the Custom of the Seas") Marie-Claire Grimson Pink hair. Pretty smile. Likes to eat people. Marie-Claire may soon discover that meat is murder no matter how you slice it. ("Vegans Are F**king Delicious") Maddy McKay A little lonely. A little self-conscious. Starving to death. Maddy's trying to slim down to starving model size, but her little housemates don't seem all that supportive. ("Maddy McKay and the Elves in Her House") Vanessa Dervoe Softball legend. Proud Yooper. Breathes underwater. Vanessa's strange gift has gotten her nowhere in life, stuck in a sad amusement park and surrounded by death. ("The Ocean Goddess and The Home Run Queen") Kara Hermin Mysterious. Troubled. Loads of fun at parties. Kara's lived a long and dangerous life, and may be forced to live it all over again. ("Born Again at Granny's Cave")
Download or read book Hug Your Haters written by Jay Baer and published by Penguin. This book was released on 2016-03-01 with total page 240 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Haters are not your problem. . . . Ignoring them is. Eighty percent of companies say they deliver outstanding customer service, but only 8 percent of their customers agree. This book will help you close that gap by reconfiguring your customer service to deliver knockout experiences. The near-universal adoption of smartphones and social media has fundamentally altered the science of complaints. Critics (“haters”) can now express their displeasure faster and more publicly than ever. These trends have resulted in an overall increase in complaints and a belief by many businesses that they have to “pick their spots” when choosing to answer criticisms. Bestselling author Jay Baer shows why that approach is a major mistake. Based on an extensive proprietary study of how, where, and why we complain, Hug Your Haters proves that there are two types of complainers, each with very different motivations: ·Offstage haters. These people simply want solutions to their problems. They complain via legacy channels where the likelihood of a response is highest—phone, e-mail, and company websites. Offstage haters don’t care if anyone else finds out, as long as they get answers. ·Onstage haters. These people are often disappointed by a substandard interaction via traditional channels, so they turn to indirect venues, such as social media, online review sites, and discussion boards. Onstage haters want more than solutions—they want an audience to share their righteous indignation. Hug Your Haters shows exactly how to deal with both groups, drawing on meticulously researched case studies from businesses of all types and sizes from around the world. It includes specific playbooks and formulas as well as a fold-out poster of “the Hatrix,” which summarizes the best strategies for different situations. The book is also filled with poignant and hilarious examples of haters gone wild, and companies gone crazy, as well as inspirational stories of companies responding with speed, compassion, and humanity. Whether you work for a mom-and-pop store or a global brand, you will have haters—and you can’t afford to ignore them. Baer’s insights and tactics will teach you how to embrace complaints, put haters to work for you, and turn bad news into good outcomes.
Download or read book How to Be Useful written by Megan Hustad and published by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt. This book was released on 2015-09-03 with total page 257 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: There's a lot of career advice out there. Much of it dumb. But what if someone read all the advice books -- over a hundred years' worth -- and put all the good ideas in one place? Could you finally escape the cube? Stop mailing things? Be happier? In How to Be Useful, Megan Hustad dismantles the myths of getting ahead and helps you navigate the murky waters of office life. Humorous yet wise, irreverent yet marvelously practical, this book will help you learn Why "just being yourself" is a terrible idea. How to be smart, but not too smart. Why you shouldn't be "nice." When not to be good at your job. How to screw up with grace and dignity. Why shoes matter. The right and wrong ways to talk trash about yourself. That ambition, practiced wisely, is a noble thing.
Download or read book Networking for People Who Hate Networking written by Devora Zack and published by Berrett-Koehler Publishers. This book was released on 2010-07-27 with total page 182 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Networking is the art of building and maintaining connections for shared positive outcomes. This field guide begins by politely examining, and then shattering to pieces, traditional networking truisms.
Download or read book Hate work written by David W. Augsburger and published by Westminster John Knox Press. This book was released on 2004-01-01 with total page 284 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Using stories, case histories, and correlating perspectives from psychology, sociology, and theology, Augsburger explains how hate functions. He also makes an argument for the moral imperative of moving from hate to justice and mercy in our dealings with one another.
Download or read book A Basic Guide to Interpreting the Bible written by Robert H. Stein and published by Baker Academic. This book was released on 2011-06 with total page 219 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This completely revised edition helps readers identify various biblical genres, understand the meaning of biblical texts, and apply that meaning to contemporary life.
Download or read book The UNIX haters Handbook written by Simson Garfinkel and published by John Wiley & Sons Incorporated. This book was released on 1994 with total page 329 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This book is for all people who are forced to use UNIX. It is a humorous book--pure entertainment--that maintains that UNIX is a computer virus with a user interface. It features letters from the thousands posted on the Internet's "UNIX-Haters" mailing list. It is not a computer handbook, tutorial, or reference. It is a self-help book that will let readers know they are not alone.
Download or read book Single and Hating It Destined and Not Denied written by Denise Chand and published by Archway Publishing. This book was released on 2016-07-08 with total page 339 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Hurry, God, do not delay...Im In My 40s! has become Liya and Zenias mantra. Liya, a woman after Gods own heart, has had her heart mutilated by the man she has been in a relationship with for 3 years. She claims she was blindsided...or did she turn a blind eye to the warning signs? Believing he was her Godmate, Gods choice for her, ignites an inner conflict she battles to overcome which leaves her questioning whether she has been called to a life of singleness. Zenia, a woman of faith, patterned her life decisions by the yearly prophecies delivered each New Years Eve during church service but this year all that changed. Healing from one heartache after another, and with each passing year bringing her no closer to a Godmate, has forced her to change her thinking, which has yielded resultsshe finally met her Godmate. Unfortunately, it has put her friendship with Liya through its darkest hour. Rise or Fall the unspoken vow between them about their friendship. They stand together in the face of challenges and in celebration of each other, but will Zenias betrayal be the serrated blade that severs their bond of sisterhood? Will Liyas fear of being in her 40s, single with no children and hating it, distance her from God and Zenia? Will their friendship be able to rise from betrayal, or will it fall? Will they rise by trusting Gods timing for a Godmate, or fall due to what feels like His denial? Single and Hating It...Destined and Not Denied breathes hope, sheds light in the darkness, quiets raging heart-storms and strengthens ones faith regardless of its Christian content. Its collection of short stories will expose the wounded heart and through the Pearls of Wisdom bring healing, restoration and wholeness.
