Download or read book Female Dominatrix Manual for Beginners written by Mistress Dede and published by Mistress Dede. This book was released on with total page pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Are you usually aggressive in the bedroom? Ever considered becoming a dominatrix? Do you want to really feel the thrill of dominating a man in the bedroom? Have you ever considered making a living out of it? Or maybe you have always been submissive and would like to take control? This book is your complete guide to female dominance. The BDSM relationship is not just for fun but can also be used to earn a living, and it can help you discover your inner strength as a woman. If you want to take the dominant role in bondage/discipline/sadism/masochism, then you must know the basics of being a dominatrix. These seven chapters will talk about why men love being dominated, what it means to be a dominatrix, what every nice girl must come to terms with if she wants to be a professional dominatrix, how you can discover your flavor of domination, and a guide to becoming a professional dominatrix - all things you need to know.
Download or read book The Dominatrix Manual written by Mistress Dede and published by Mistress Dede. This book was released on 2015-02-13 with total page 32 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be a dominant woman who can control a man with just a look or a word? When the thoughts of being in control creep into your head, that sexy little smile starts to play over your lips, and you start to get some ideas that you want to try on your man. As women, we have all been there, but being women, many of us are unable to take hold of our control and dominate a man. The idea of being a dominatrix is often seen as a sexual and social taboo, and many women are afraid of what society would say, what our family and friends would think, and in general, we feel that it isn't the position of a woman to take the stance of power and control. Women are seen naturally as the weaker sex, the one to be protected by a man, and the man in the relationship is often seen to be in control, the leader, the strong and dominant one. Social norms often dictate how we feel about ourselves, and sometimes, it can hinder who we really are inside. Take heed, ladies. We are women. We are strong. We are powerful. We are fierce. We are romantic. We are dynamic. We are caring. We are fighters. We are lovers. We are women! This manual will give you an inside look on what being a Mistress is really all about and will give you insight on how to be a Mistress. Being a Mistress isn't all about leather outfits, stiletto heels, and a whip in your hand. It is a journey between you and your partner, where you are the leader, you are in control, and you have the final say. It is a path of adventure where you make the choices, you take charge, and where you can let all of your inhibitions go. It will give you insight into a new you, the one who has been trapped behind the social norms for far too long. Ladies, welcome your inner Mistress!
Download or read book Unbound written by Kasia Urbaniak and published by Penguin. This book was released on 2021-03-09 with total page 306 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The ultimate guide to owning your power--and mastering how to use it. How can so many women feel "good and mad" yet still reluctant to speak up in a meeting or difficult conversation? Why do women often feel like they're too much--and, at the same time, not enough? What causes us, at the most critical moments in our lives, to freeze? Kasia Urbaniak teaches power to women--and her answers to these questions may surprise you. Based on insights from her experiences as a dominatrix, her training to become a Taoist nun, and the countless women she has taught to expand their influence, this book offers precise, practical instruction in how to stand in your power, find your voice, and use it well. Learn how to: • Embrace your desires as the pathway to your destiny. • Ask for--and get--what you need in your life, work, and in the bedroom. • Skillfully navigate hearing "no" and any resistance, even your own. • Flip power dynamics when someone crosses your boundaries and puts you on the spot. • Create new and expanded roles for the people in your life with precise, targeted asks. Whether you're getting crystal clear on exactly what you want, or turning the tables on a man who has shut you up and shut you down, Urbaniak's methods teach women to stand for themselves in every interaction. Part manual, part manifesto, part behind the scenes look, Unbound is a how-to guide to the impossible, the outrageous, the unimaginable--a field guide to living your wildest, best, and most satisfying life.
Download or read book The Dominatrix Manual written by Mistress Dede and published by . This book was released on 2015 with total page pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be a dominant woman who can control a man with just a look or a word? When the thoughts of being in control creep into your head, that sexy little smile starts to play over your lips, and you start to get some ideas that you want to try on your man. As women, we have all been there, but being women, many of us are unable to take hold of our control and dominate a man. The idea of being a dominatrix is often seen as a sexual and social taboo, and many women are afraid of what society would say, what our family and friends would think, and in general, we feel that it isn't the position of a woman to take the stance of power and control. Women are seen naturally as the weaker sex, the one to be protected by a man, and the man in the relationship is often seen to be in control, the leader, the strong and dominant one. Social norms often dictate how we feel about ourselves, and sometimes, it can hinder who we really are inside.Take heed, ladies. We are women. We are strong. We are powerful. We are fierce. We are romantic. We are dynamic. We are caring. We are fighters. We are lovers. We are women!This manual will give you an inside look on what being a Mistress is really all about and will give you insight on how to be a Mistress. Being a Mistress isn't all about leather outfits, stiletto heels, and a whip in your hand. It is a journey between you and your partner, where you are the leader, you are in control, and you have the final say. It is a path of adventure where you make the choices, you take charge, and where you can let all of your inhibitions go. It will give you insight into a new you, the one who has been trapped behind the social norms for far too long.Ladies, welcome your inner Mistress!
Download or read book The Mistress Manual written by Mistress Lorelei and published by Greenery Press (CA). This book was released on 2000 with total page 180 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Originally published in 1994 in a simple pink guidebook format by an experienced and wickedly creative dominant woman, The Mistress Manual fell out of print when the author moved on to other projects. Now, Greenery Press has brought this underground classic back to life, updated with new ideas and information on 'Learning to Love Command' to 'The Art of Discipline'. Learn how to enact the Five Archetypal Fantasies, how to create your own scenarios and much, much more.
Download or read book Bow Down written by Lindsay Goldwert and published by Tiller Press. This book was released on 2021-01-19 with total page 304 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: *One of Glamour’s Best Books of 2020* Popular podcast host and personal finance expert Lindsay Goldwert explores what professional dominatrixes can teach us about confidence, power, and happiness. Imagine, for a moment, a world where the usual power dynamic is turned on its head. Where women not only stop apologizing, but seize—and enjoy—control. This is the quickly mainstreaming world of BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism)—and it has a lot to teach women about empowerment, negotiation, open-mindedness, and more. Journalist Lindsay Goldwert, intrigued by this seismic cultural shift, traveled across the United States to meet the stars of the subculture, who spoke frankly with her about their lives and work. In this “lively, funny, thoughtful channeling of wisdom” (Sara Benincasa, author of Real Artists Have Day Jobs), these Alpha women show you how you can reset the power dynamic in any situation to get what you want—whether it’s from a husband, a boss, or partner. They share strategies for revolutionizing not only your sex life, but your career, your relationships, and most importantly, your inner foundations. With bondage gear popping up on the big screen, the runway, the red carpet, and in celebrity lingerie lines, BDSM is officially moving out of the dungeon and into the sun. Let Bow Down help you learn how to use it. “Whether your fantasies lie in the bedroom or the boardroom, Lindsay will give you the courage to go forth and dominate.” (Sarah Cooper, author of How to Be Successful without Hurting Men’s Feelings).
Download or read book The Complete Mistress Manual written by Mistress Dede and published by Mistress Dede. This book was released on 2015-10-07 with total page 63 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be a dominant woman who can control a man with just a look or a word? When the thoughts of being in control creep into your head, that sexy little smile starts to play over your lips, and you start to get some ideas that you want to try on your man. As women, we have all been there, but being women, many of us are unable to take hold of our control and dominate a man. The idea of being a dominatrix is often seen as a sexual and social taboo, and many women are afraid of what society would say, what our family and friends would think, and in general, we feel that it isn't the position of a woman to take the stance of power and control. Women are seen naturally as the weaker sex, the one to be protected by a man, and the man in the relationship is often seen to be in control, the leader, the strong and dominant one. Social norms often dictate how we feel about ourselves, and sometimes, it can hinder who we really are inside. Take heed, ladies. We are women. We are strong. We are powerful. We are fierce. We are romantic. We are dynamic. We are caring. We are fighters. We are lovers. We are women! This manual will give you an inside look on what being a Mistress is really all about and will give you insight on how to be a Mistress. Being a Mistress isn't all about leather outfits, stiletto heels, and a whip in your hand. It is a journey between you and your partner, where you are the leader, you are in control, and you have the final say. It is a path of adventure where you make the choices, you take charge, and where you can let all of your inhibitions go. It will give you insight into a new you, the one who has been trapped behind the social norms for far too long. Ladies, welcome your inner Mistress!
Download or read book Femdom for Nice Girls written by Lucy Fairbourne and published by . This book was released on 2017-10-20 with total page 106 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A female-friendly guide to the erotic domination of the male by the female in a way that will benefit both. Each chapter is followed by a self-guided journal section, where you are encouraged to explore and clarify your feelings and responses to the themes being explored, thus helping both lovers illuminate mutual desires, needs and boundaries.
Download or read book Femdom Academy written by Lady Sas and published by Independently Published. This book was released on 2021-02-17 with total page 258 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The private Mistress Lady Sas lives BDSM. She writes one of the most popular Femdom blogs in Germany and shares her BDSM expertise in this course. This book is aimed at Femdoms and subs, singles and couples, beginners and advanced, who are looking for a contemporary course and guide to BDSM. With many helpful tips and countless practical ideas for great sessions and shining eyes. "Femdom Academy" goes far beyond BDSM basics and is also aimed at advanced players who are open to fresh impulses. Content Foreword - 7 Introduction - 9 About the Author - - 9 How Did the Femdom Academy Come About? - - 11 Contemporary SM Instead Clichés from the 90s - - 12 Everyone Has to Find Their Own SM Style - - 14 Lesson 1. The Mindset of a Femdom and a Sub - - 15 Understanding and Living the Femdom Role - - 17 The Intonation of a Femdom - - 19 Why Does a Man Submit? - 20 The Silence Challenge - - 24 The Femdom Mindset - - 28 The Malesub Mindset - - 30 The SSC Principle - 31 The RACK Principle - 33 Short Theory Section - - 35 Lesson 2. The Relationship Between Mistress and Sub - - 38 Rules Help to Distinguish Between Everyday Life and BDSM - - 41 Create Your Own Role - - 45 Lesson 3. Prepare the Session - - 52 The Location - - 52 What Should I Wear? - 55 Lesson 4. Start the Session - - 57 Greeting the Mistress - 58 Practical Tips - - 60 Practical Examples - - 62 A Mistress Needs No Reason - - 63 Topping from the Bottom - - 66 Lesson 5. The Language of a Mistress - 68 Practical Exercise - - 68 Role Models Are Not Always Easy to Find - - 69 The Art of Verbal Eroticism - 72 Lesson 6. One Session and 1,000 Possibilities - - 78 The Most Important SM Practices - - 81 Lesson 7. How to Come up with Creative Ideas for Your Session - - 143 The Mechanics of Imagination: "Carrot and Stick" - - 144 The Idea of a "Challenge" - - 146 The Idea of a "Surprise" - - 147 Lesson 8. Concrete Ideas for Your Session - - 161 Lesson 9. Your Equipment - - 156 Lesson 10: Safety and Communication During the Session - 163 Saying No - - 167 Slave Questionnaire - - 169 Golden SM Safety Rules - - 176 Covering - - 179 Lesson 11: Sexual Gratification - 181 The Orgasms of the Femdom - - 181 The Ruined Orgasm - 185 Forced Orgasms - 186 Prostate Milking - - 187 Lesson 12: Ending the Session - 191 The Follow-up Conversation - - 193 Hygiene - - 197 Lesson 13: Personal Development - 198 Goals for Femdoms - - 200 The Session Log - - 201 The Slave Contract - - 202 Lesson 14: Finding a Play Partner - 220 Finding the Right Play Partner: 10 Tips for Malesubs - 223 Finding the Right Play Partner: 10 Tips for Femdoms - - 227 Lesson 15. Happiness in BDSM - 232 Glossary/Terms - 237 Bonus - 249 Reader comments "A great book that has given me many new ideas and impulses." - Dominatrix Lisa "Very interesting, worth reading for beginners and advanced. Even we, who have been active in this genre for many years, found new inspiration. Clearly structured and logically built, the book is a pageturner." - Manuela "The book describes very sensitively and in detail how a femdom relationship can work best. It reveals secrets of the experienced, charming Lady Sas and encourages the open-minded readers to experience something new on the further way. Very well done and incredibly rich in advice." - Fluffy "Certainly the best book I have read so far on the subject of BDSM. And I have read many." - Mistress Emma
Download or read book The Professional Dominatrix Handbook written by Blonde Goddess and published by . This book was released on 2017-01-30 with total page 131 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A handbook for BDSM specifically meant for professionals. Ladies who practice BDSM for pay encounter unique situations which are not discussed in other books about BDSM. Learn what to expect during the initial days as a Dominatrix, as well as information regarding important legal issues and safety issues, and business practices that will augment your professional practice. This book contains detailed discussions of submissive male psychology, types of sessions commonly requested of professional Dominants, a detailed discussion of types of equipment that you should be familiar with, as well as equipment care. Although it is meant as an introduction only, this book will provide invaluable information to any professional sex worker, as well as the lay person who would like access to information which can only be found in this book.
Download or read book Dominant Female Submissive Male written by Sophia James and published by . This book was released on 2019-04 with total page 163 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Why do Women, even very attractive women, stay in relationships with Men who treat them badly?Is it low self-esteem or a desire to submit to a dominant man? A dominant man who will provide all the romance and excitement she has been brought up to believe is her natural right.In my case it was the latter; I wanted the big, handsome hunky guy who would sweep me off my feet, treat me like a princess in public and his sex slave in the bedroom. But, as most women find out, life is not a fairy tale.A real life Rhett Butler probably does exist but you will have more chance of finding a needle in a haystack. Elizabeth Bennett found happiness but for every Mr Darcy there are hundreds of selfish men who think a woman's job is just to supply sex and child care.WOMEN SHOULD UNDERSTAND THE POWER THEY HAVE.I didn't realise it until I was thirty-five and until that point I put up with my men coming home drunk, wasting my money, getting fatter and more abusive and providing me with increasingly disappointing sex.I put up with it no longer.I now have a man who sees it as his principle aim in life to keep me happy, contented, wealthy and sexually satisfied.I have known my man for most of my life but he only became my boyfriend seven years ago. During that time I have been a professional Dominatrix and a writer of books dedicated to the dominant female. And my boyfriend is also my slave.In this book I explain how all this came about.The book is more about personal-transformation and female-empowerment than it is about kinky, usually fictional, sexual fantasies. The success of the book, Fifty shades of grey, shows the interest there is out there in an alternative, discipline based life-style and emphasises that many women share that interest.Unlike, fifty shades of grey, Dominant Female Submissive Male is primarily a manual for submissive men to find the Mistress of their dreams but it is also an eye-opener for frustrated women as it shows them the glorious, very exotic and exciting life they could have.While some submissive men are slightly pathetic, and even creepy, many are romantic, kind-hearted, reliable and good fun. They adore and respect women and see it as their role in life to support them. What's not to like about that?They will have a desire for discipline and this desire will be inextricably linked to their sexual nature. For some this will be extreme and involve heavy BDSM but for most it will involve safe, erotic role-play and spankings.The point is that Women control when, how and even if it happens. Women have the power in all aspects of the relationship and how they exercise that power is up to them. Believe me, once you have a man on his knees begging for an orgasm you will never look back.But Women do not want to live with a wimp and this is what a lot of very nice submissive men fail to understand and why many of them remain frustrated and single when, with a little change of emphasis, their dreams are so easily achievable.This book is a guide on how to affect this change of emphasis and to get across what women are looking for and will accept in a loving, fulfilling and very kinky relationship.It also explains how submissive men can learn to accept and enjoy their kink and how to widen their circle of fetish friends. It relates the authors own experiences and offers guidance on how to get the best out of a session with a Dominatrix and how to become more than just a client to her. It also explains how to tell your wife about your desire for female-domination and, more importantly, how not to.It also offers cautionary tales and about how not to get ripped off by unscrupulous con-artists.The central aim of the book however, is to bring together good men who have a desire for female-domination with good women looking for a lover who will provide happiness, support, fun, excitement and success.Please click on the look inside feature for a preview.
Download or read book The Sexually Dominant Woman written by Janet W. Hardy and published by Greenery Press (CA). This book was released on 2018-12 with total page 128 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The 25-year-old classic, now updated and in a fun new graphic format! Janet W. Hardy, formerly known as Lady Green, has distilled the best of her 35 years' experience as a dominant into this beginner-friendly guidebook: everything from bondage to control to sensation to fetish, all with entertaining drawings, intro-level information, and plenty of reassurance for the nervous or apprehensive novice. The perfect purchase or gift for any woman who would like to spice up her bedroom play with a bit of kink.
Download or read book Pro Domme written by Aleta Cai and published by Independently Published. This book was released on 2019-04-15 with total page 122 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In this guide, you'll learn practical steps towards becoming a professional dominatrix. You'll learn how to brand yourself, how to advertise, how to vet clients as well as how to sustain your business. Additionally, there are 24 lessons that I, Aleta Cai, a well-known independent dominatrix in NYC learned through my experience in the industry over many years.
Download or read book History Arts of the Dominatrix written by Anne O Nomis and published by eBook Partnership. This book was released on 2013-12-18 with total page 214 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The academic book on the history of the Dominatrix through the ages, with meticulous research from libraries and museums. From the ancient Dominatrix Goddess Inanna - Ishtar, the 17th - 19th Century Governess Dominatrix, the 20th Century 'Bizarre' ladies. Lastly Nomis theory on the Dominatrix's practices as the 'Seven Realm Arts'.
Download or read book The Moon Is a Harsh Mistress written by Robert A. Heinlein and published by Macmillan. This book was released on 1997-06-15 with total page 388 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Science fiction-roman.
Download or read book The Mistress in Control written by Veronica Milan and published by . This book was released on 2020-11-16 with total page 48 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: From childhood onwards, females are encouraged into subservient roles, so that taking the lead can feel strange and unnatural, even "unfeminine" and "not nice". We are discouraged from aggressively grabbing what we want, and instead encouraged to sacrifice and nurture. We are taught to be prizes, not competitors. Surely, there has to be more to life than that. Many men -- the ones who value assertiveness (and even a little cruelty) in their female lovers would agree. Men are ready to be dominated, owned and used by the strictest, most sensual, and cruelest women? The subservient slaves get put in their places and then punished in a variety of naughty ways until they understand their place...This book is a rich resource of ideas for the woman who wants to embark upon FemDom journey with her man and is hungry for new kinky territory to conquer and in this guide, you'll learn practical steps towards becoming a professional dominatrix. Much of what is depicted about BDSM and the lifestyle is wrong. Our opinions on this lifestyle and art form are often times shaped by other people who have heard something about it and perhaps embellished it to the point of perpetuating myths. The truth is that BDSM is not degrading towards women, "One of the most common misconceptions surrounding a woman taking a dominant role is the assumption that she needs to be a display cruel behavior towards others, for the sake of her own gain or pleasure, and without consideration for their safety or well-being," it's not surprising that any woman would feel reluctant to adopt this role in her relationship. Taking the lead in bed doesn't mean being a sadist or demeaning your partner. It doesn't mean you have to change who you are. You're simply connecting with a powerful side of yourself that was always there, and sharing it with a person who wants to make you happy. It's about closeness and connection, not cruelty.FemDoms are to lead and not follow, be confident and be yourself, say what you mean and be attractive. A Warning for the Man/Men in Her Life, this book will teach your partner how to be more dominant, controlling, learn how to train you, learn how to punish you and hold you accountable for your actions. if you buy this book for her, you might get more than you asked for. You may want to quietly set it aside and buy her a set of fuzzy handcuffs instead. You have been warned.
Download or read book Female Led Relationship Guide written by Conner Hayden and published by Psion Publishing. This book was released on 2020-01-06 with total page 119 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The #1 thing men secretly desire of women, yet typically won't admit it. Are you the one who likes to be in control, especially when it comes to making decisions for you and your partner? Do you and your significant other naturally fall into the dominant female and submissive male roles in your relationship, yet do not feel as if you utilize this couple dynamic to its fullest potential? Have you heard of or seen your friends in a female led relationship, the idea peaking your interest, but do not know how to implement this lifestyle into your own daily routine? Through years on end, men have always been the dominant one in relationships, telling the woman what to do, taking care of finances, and typically taking the lead in the bedroom. Because women are quickly becoming more and more aware of the influence they can have on the world and thus breaking out of their shells, female led relationships are becoming increasingly popular in today's modern times, and for a good reason. According to Her Way, having the woman be the dominant partner in a relationship has many benefits, some of which include: A better sex life Improved communication Less pressure on the man to make sure his wife or girlfriend is happy Increased satisfaction in the relationship A relationship based on female dominance isn't solely about the control, but also about how it sets a stronger foundation for both sides of the party. In Female Led Relationship Guide, you will discover: Why a female led relationship doesn't necessarily mean BDSM, and how you can make it work for both you and your partner The key to finding the right balance between the dominant and submissive, and if it's even possible How this couple dynamic can be the solution to intimacy issues, as well as build the foundation for a healthy relationship The #1 thing you must do before beginning a female led relationship, or else it will do you and your partner more harm than good The major topics of concern to address with your significant other, and how to go about discussing them The shocking reason why men seek out dominant women to take charge in a relationship -- it may not be what you think! The varying degrees of dominance that can cater to anyone's comfort zone and lifestyle And much more. Don't worry, if you and your partner are interested in adopting a relationship built on female dominance but don't want this aspect of your life to be public, you don't have to. How you approach this lifestyle is completely up to you, whether it be something you do only behind closed doors or something you carry out regardless of where you are. Ladies, even if you're unsure about being the dominant one in the relationship and don't know if it suits your personality, the degree in which you dominate your partner depends on your wants and needs. Female led relationships aren't black or white, you can easily form your own perfect combination that will satisfy any and all of your desires. Do your relationship a favor and join the modern version of relationships where women are the ones who take charge. Keep up -- the times are changing! If you want to explore the powers of female dominance and experience another level of connection with your partner, then scroll up and click the "Add to Cart" button right now.
