Download or read book Deepening Intimacy in Psychotherapy written by Florence W. Rosiello and published by Jason Aronson. This book was released on 2000 with total page 264 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Treating patients who develop erotic transferences and working with one's own erotic countertransference create treatment and professional vulnerabilities for the therapist. Discussing sexual or loving feelings in therapy, while risky, can deepen or create emotional intimacy that no other aspect of human relatedness can accomplish. Clinical illustrations of various erotic dynamics between patient and therapist are presented as the author explores this important dimension of practice.
Download or read book Deepening Intimacy in Psychotherapy written by Florence Rosiello and published by Jason Aronson, Incorporated. This book was released on 2000-09-01 with total page 261 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In this provocative volume, Dr. Florence W. Rosiello addresses erotic dynamics in the treatment relationship within the context of a two-person therapy, emphasizing the necessity of mutuality and emotional reciprocity between patient and therapist. With rich clinical illustrations, she demonstrates how the intimacy created by working within the sexual dimension of the therapeutic relationship may present opportunities for insight and growth that could easily be missed if one seeks to avoid these highly charged issues. Focusing on those patients who are predisposed to relating to others in a sexualized manner, Dr. Rosiello has discovered that mutual exploration of both the therapist's and the patient's subjective experience offers a valuable and effective means of enhancing the treatment.
Download or read book Intimacy written by Martin Fisher and published by Springer Science & Business Media. This book was released on 2012-12-06 with total page 475 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Intimacy is a complex and heterogeneous concept that has generated a variety of definitions, theories, and philosophies over the years. Al though there is much disagreement about the essential meaning of the term, there seems to be a consensus that intimacy, whatever it may be, is of central importance in human relationships, and specifically, in the theory and practice of psychotherapy. One approach to intimacy focuses on an intrapsychic conception. Intimacy occurs when an individual achieves full self-knowledge, and is fully in touch with his or her feelings and wishes. From this viewpoint, an intimate act occurs when a person is willing to share these feelings and wishes with another, so that self-disclosure becomes an important index of intimacy. This definition also implies that intimacy need not be reciprocal, so that a therapeutic relationship can achieve a good deal of intimacy without the therapist engaging in self-disclosure. An alternate approach to intimacy stresses the interpersonal nature of the concept. Intimacy is seen as the product of an interaction, and can only occur between people. Each one is able to touch something meaningful in the other, whether at a conscious, behavioral level or an unconscious and inferential level. Therapists seeking intimacy in these terms would probably be a good deal more active, and consider it more important to reveal something of the substance of their own persons, if not the facts of their lives.
Download or read book ACT Et RFT in Relationships written by and published by . This book was released on 2013 with total page 278 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: "Even if you are not a couples therapist, chances are you have dealt with clients whose problems are based in relationship issues. In order to successfully treat these clients, you must first help them understand what their values are in these relationships, and how their behavior may be undermining their attempts to seek intimacy and connection. Combining elements of acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) and relational frame theory (RFT), ACT and RFT for Relationships presents a unique approach for therapists to help clients develop and experience deeper, more loving relationships. By exploring personal values and expectations, and by addressing central patterns of behaviors, therapists can help their clients establish and maintain intimacy with their partner and gain a greater understanding of their relationship as a whole. ACT is a powerful treatment model that teaches clients to accept their thoughts, identify their core values, and discover how these values are extended to their relationships with others. RFT focuses on behavioral approaches to language and cognition, and can help clients identify their own expectations regarding relationships and how they might communicate these expectations with their loved ones more effectively. This book aims to shed light on the thought processes behind intimate relationships-from the attraction phase to the end of intimacy-from a functional, contextual perspective"--.
Download or read book ACT and RFT in Relationships written by JoAnne Dahl and published by New Harbinger Publications. This book was released on 2014-01-02 with total page 266 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Even if you are not a couples therapist, chances are you have dealt with clients whose problems are based in relationship issues. In order to successfully treat these clients, you must first help them understand what their values are in these relationships, and how their behavior may be undermining their attempts to seek intimacy and connection. Combining elements of acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) and relational frame theory (RFT), ACT and RFT for Relationships presents a unique approach for therapists to help clients develop and experience deeper, more loving relationships. By exploring personal values and expectations, and by addressing central patterns of behaviors, therapists can help their clients establish and maintain intimacy with their partner and gain a greater understanding of their relationship as a whole. ACT is a powerful treatment model that teaches clients to accept their thoughts, identify their core values, and discover how these values are extended to their relationships with others. RFT focuses on behavioral approaches to language and cognition, and can help clients identify their own expectations regarding relationships and how they might communicate these expectations with their loved ones more effectively. This book aims to shed light on the thought processes behind intimate relationships—from the attraction phase to the end of intimacy—from a functional, contextual perspective.
Download or read book More Than Words written by John Howard and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2023-02-07 with total page 272 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Increase intimacy, connection, and love with this “critical” (Vanessa Van Edwards, bestselling author of Captivate: The Science of Succeeding with People), science-based guide to creating meaningful and lasting relationships. When it comes to building a better relationship with your partner, touch and connection matter so much more than the words that you say. And author and therapist John Howard is here to tell us why. More Than Words shows you how to deepen love and connection in any relationship based on the latest cutting-edge research in interpersonal neurobiology, trauma-informed healing, attachment theory, and many more scientific fields. This “brilliant guide” (Diane Poole-Heller, PhD, author of The Power of Attachment) explains why verbal communication may not elicit the connection you seek and offers ways to practice and form new habits that can nurture love, care, safety, comfort, and passion in relationships. Science shows that these techniques work, but most people don’t know them yet. You can start using these techniques today to increase intimacy and emotional connection in your closest relationships. Mindful of all the needs of the modern individual, More Than Words is inclusive of LGBTQ+, polyamorous, and other nontraditional committed relationships and ultimately looks to elevate the way we strengthen the most important bonds in our lives.
Download or read book Deepening Your Personal Relationships written by Dr. Max Hammer and published by Strategic Book Publishing. This book was released on 2013-12 with total page 428 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Deepening Your Personal Relationships was written by three experts in the field. Their combined expertise will help you in Developing Emotional Intimacy and Good Communication, which will be beneficial in all types of relationships. The book explains how to achieve healthy and fulfilling interpersonal relationships by using effective communication, empathy, shared transformational development, and constructive conflict resolution. Deepening Your Personal Relationships provides original, meaningful, and transformational insights that are especially helpful in understanding how to overcome our subconscious resistance against emotional intimacy and good communication. Readers wanting to enhance their personal relationships, gain insight into transformational self-help, and achieve social transformation will find this book especially helpful. It will also be of keen interest to professional relationship counselors, such as marriage counselors, family counselors, and conflict mediators. The goal is to understand how good relationships can produce enhanced levels of spiritual development, psychological healing, self-understanding, creative functioning, inner peace and happiness, and ultimately, fulfillment in life.
Download or read book The Intimate Hour written by Susan Baur and published by Houghton Mifflin. This book was released on 1997 with total page 328 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: "Drawing on hundreds of instances of mutual attraction, from historical annals to interviews with therapists, patients, and clergy, Baur show that the stories to be told are rarely simple ones. Certainly there are clear-cut cases of abuse - and Baur is unequivocal in stating that sex has absolutely no place in therapy. But abusive relationships in fact make up only a small fraction of cases. Much more often, people find themselves occupying a gray area of emotion. There are those who are lovestruck, enamored of the attention they find for the first time. There are those who feel an overwhelming sympathy that they believe is reciprocal. And sometimes there are those who are really, truly in love. But whatever their feelings are labeled, these people are left with nowhere to turn for advice or help, fearing scandal or professional censure. Baur brings uncommon empathy to their dilemma, whether they are male or female, patient or therapist." "In fact, as she shows, feelings of love and attraction do not disappear simply because they are forbidden. Describing the famous and infamous liaisons of such figures as Carl Jung, Anton Mesmer, Otto Rank, and others, Baur offers irrefutable evidence that intimacy has played a part in therapy since the beginning and continues to barge in despite regulations to suppress it. With a plea for common sense and open-minded discussion, she makes a powerful argument for confronting this issue in all its complexity, so that everyone who enters therapy - or is already in it - will be prepared to manage the risks of the intimate hour."--BOOK JACKET.Title Summary field provided by Blackwell North America, Inc. All Rights Reserved
Download or read book Attachment in Psychotherapy written by David J. Wallin and published by Guilford Publications. This book was released on 2015-04-27 with total page 383 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This eloquent book translates attachment theory and research into an innovative framework that grounds adult psychotherapy in the facts of childhood development. Advancing a model of treatment as transformation through relationship, the author integrates attachment theory with neuroscience, trauma studies, relational psychotherapy, and the psychology of mindfulness. Vivid case material illustrates how therapists can tailor interventions to fit the attachment needs of their patients, thus helping them to generate the internalized secure base for which their early relationships provided no foundation. Demonstrating the clinical uses of a focus on nonverbal interaction, the book describes powerful techniques for working with the emotional responses and bodily experiences of patient and therapist alike.
Download or read book Self Disclosure in the Therapeutic Relationship written by M. Fisher and published by Springer Science & Business Media. This book was released on 2013-11-11 with total page 292 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The editors of the present volume were also privileged to collaborate on an earlier book, Intimacy, also published by Plenum Press. In our pref ace to that volume, we described the importance and essence of inti macy and its centrality in the domain of human relationships. After reading the contributions to that volume, a number of issues emerged and pressed for elaboration. These questions concerned the nature and parameters of intimacy. The natural extension of these con cerns can be found in the current work, Self-Disclosure in the Therapeutic Relationship. The editors, after careful consideration of the theoretical, philo sophical, and technical literature, are impressed by the relationship between intimacy and appropriate self-disclosure. Self-disclosure, in this context, refers to those behaviors that allow oneself to be suffi ciently revealing so as to become available for an intimate relationship. Levenson has referred to psychotherapy as the demystification of expe rience wherein intimacy emerges during the time that interpersonal vigilance diminishes through growing feelings of safety. Interpersonal experience can be demystified and detoxified by disclosure, openness, and authentic relatedness. This is not an easy process. Before one can be open, make contact, or reach out with authenticity, one must be available to oneself. This means making contact with-and accepting-the dark, fearful, and of ten untouched areas within the person that are often hidden even from oneself. The process of therapy enables those areas to gain conscious ness, be tolerated, and be shared with trusted others.
Download or read book Building Intimate Relationships written by Rita DeMaria and published by Routledge. This book was released on 2013-08-21 with total page 311 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: First Published in 2003. Routledge is an imprint of Taylor & Francis, an informa company.
Download or read book Vulnerable Moments written by Martin S. Livingston and published by Jason Aronson. This book was released on 2001 with total page 310 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The word vulnerable means "susceptible to being wounded." People who relinquish their usual characterological defenses open themselves to wounds of many sorts, from peripheral encounters with shame and rejection to direct personal attacks and potentially devastating losses. Still, it is precisely in moments of vulnerability that openness to new experience is possible."--BOOK JACKET.
Download or read book Intimacy from the Inside Out written by Toni Herbine-Blank and published by Routledge. This book was released on 2015-08-11 with total page 192 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Couples in distress enter therapy holding two goals that they now experience as mutually exclusive: to feel loved and to feel understood. Toni Herbine-Blank’s powerful new brand of couple therapy, Intimacy from the Inside Out (IFIO), offers a comprehensive conceptual map for achieving both goals. In a tour de force of elegant case illustrations wrapped around clear instruction, this book shows the IFIO therapist working with the natural subdivisions – or parts – of the human mind in a dyad, guiding and supporting couples to understand how they project childhood injury into current relationships and then, feeling threatened, frustrated and angry, lose track of their underlying needs to feel safe, connected and loved. With a focus on generating internal attachment stability to sustain each partner through the moments when the other is unavailable, couples in IFIO therapy reconnect with their essential needs, change their conversations and learn to make requests that invite rather than threaten in order to get those needs met.
Download or read book Recovering Intimacy in Love Relationships written by Jon Carlson and published by Routledge. This book was released on 2011-01-11 with total page 420 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The loss of intimacy is one of the most difficult—but also one of the most common—factors in the destruction of any relationship. Recovering Intimacy in Love Relationships lays out practical, evidence-based guidelines on which clinicians can depend as they wade through the intense emotions and fragile bonds of couples in crisis. With care and sensitivity, the book's authors analyze the increasingly complex context in which the cycle of intimacy develops, wanes, and recovers. The chapters delve into diverse populations' attitudes toward intimacy and provide an entire section on cultural, gender and religious issues. Clinicians looking for a research-based, practical take on the many facets of intimacy in the twenty-first century need look no further than this book.
Download or read book Sexual Intimacy Between Therapists and Patients written by Kenneth Pope and published by Praeger. This book was released on 1986-09-05 with total page 208 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Sexual attraction to a patient is an all but universal experience in therapy . . . and one that is an all but universally avoided topic of discussion among therapists. _Sexual Intimacy Between Therapists and Patients_ faces this complex and painful issue squarely. The authors--themselves experienced clinicians and researchers--draw together clinical studies, first-hand accounts, national surveys, legislation and case law, ethical standards, popular literature, and their own carefully gathered evidence, in order to provide all of the information currently available on patient-therapist intimacy. In this book, Pope and Bouhoutsos outline the varieties of sexual abuse and describe the "at-risk" patient as well as the "at-risk" therapist. They offer guidance on how to treat a patient who has been sexually abused by a former therapist. And they cover the broader social dimensions of the issue, including recommending changes in the education of health professionals and the role played by the legal system.
Download or read book Couples Therapy written by Celeste Howell and published by . This book was released on 2020-11-09 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: ★ 55% OFF for Bookstores! ★Your Customer Will Never stop to use this Awesome Guide SAVE COUPLES! This book provides an explanation as to how and why couples therapy, different activities to enhance emotional and physical intimacy, and interpersonal and effective communication is so important and essential for your relationship. You will be guided through the process of learning how to listen to your partner's viewpoint and what activities and therapeutic practices you can do together to strengthen your bond. You will be introduced to different techniques and methods to enhance intimacy and better appreciate and understand one another. You will also learn about some of the most common stereotypes pertaining to couples therapy and if there is any truth to them. "Couples counseling" and "couples therapy" are usually considered to be the same thing. Although counseling for partners may be a wonderful way to bond with your spouse or fix any issues between the two of you, there are also ways to keep the flame going and ensure that the relationship is safe without needing to involve a therapist. There are several tools out there that rely on couples counseling ideas or tests. Just remember that it is never too late or too early to start working harder to improve your relationship. In order to further strengthen your relationship and prevent any divorce or breakup from occurring, there is no "best" behavior that partners can adopt because each couple likely has their own unique way of bonding. For certain couples, this might involve playing a sport together, enjoying board games or practicing the guitar. For some, when gazing up at the night sky or lying in bed at night, it could be a long talk that deepens their understanding of one another. Inside this book, you will learn about: What works in couples therapy A look into integrative behavioral and emotionally focused couples therapy Exercises to build and enhance intimacy, appreciation, and understanding Sex therapy with a sensate focus Imago therapy Partner yoga practices that can strengthen the romantic bond Myths about couples therapy Mindfulness as a tool to strengthen the relationship How to effectively communicate The formula for staying together And more... If you've been struggling with your partner or simply would like to improve your emotional and physical bond but don't know where to start, then this book is right for you. Get yourself a copy now - you won't regret it!
Download or read book Couples Therapy written by Maia Daves and published by . This book was released on 2020-11-06 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: ★ 55% OFF for Bookstores! ★Your Customer Will Never stop to use this Awesome Guide SAVE COUPLES! This book provides an explanation as to how and why couples therapy, different activities to enhance emotional and physical intimacy, and interpersonal and effective communication is so important and essential for your relationship. You will be guided through the process of learning how to listen to your partner's viewpoint and what activities and therapeutic practices you can do together to strengthen your bond. You will be introduced to different techniques and methods to enhance intimacy and better appreciate and understand one another. You will also learn about some of the most common stereotypes pertaining to couples therapy and if there is any truth to them. "Couples counseling" and "couples therapy" are usually considered to be the same thing. Although counseling for partners may be a wonderful way to bond with your spouse or fix any issues between the two of you, there are also ways to keep the flame going and ensure that the relationship is safe without needing to involve a therapist. There are several tools out there that rely on couples counseling ideas or tests. Just remember that it is never too late or too early to start working harder to improve your relationship. In order to further strengthen your relationship and prevent any divorce or breakup from occurring, there is no "best" behavior that partners can adopt because each couple likely has their own unique way of bonding. For certain couples, this might involve playing a sport together, enjoying board games or practicing the guitar. For some, when gazing up at the night sky or lying in bed at night, it could be a long talk that deepens their understanding of one another. Inside this book, you will learn about: What works in couples therapy A look into integrative behavioral and emotionally focused couples therapy Exercises to build and enhance intimacy, appreciation, and understanding Sex therapy with a sensate focus Imago therapy Partner yoga practices that can strengthen the romantic bond Myths about couples therapy Mindfulness as a tool to strengthen the relationship How to effectively communicate The formula for staying together And more... If you've been struggling with your partner or simply would like to improve your emotional and physical bond but don't know where to start, then this book is right for you. Get yourself a copy now - you won't regret it!
