Download or read book Magnetic Partners written by Stephen Betchen and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2010-05-18 with total page 242 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Do you and your partner argue about the same things over and over again? Are you often confused about why your partner is so angry with you? Are things getting worse and worse even though you’ve tried everything you can think of to make them better? In this breakthrough guide to repairing romantic relationships, therapist and marriage researcher Dr. Stephen Betchen presents a powerful new explanation of what leads to this kind of escalating conflict in couples and how you can repair your relationship and find a whole new level of happiness. Based on his extensive experience as a couples’ therapist, Dr. Betchen has discovered that the prevailing idea that opposites attract is wrong. Instead, one of the strongest forces that attracts people to one another is that they share a hidden, inner conflict in their lives—an unconscious struggle within themselves that each of them developed growing up—which he calls a "master conflict." The fact that a couple shares a master conflict acts as an almost magnetic force of attraction, but, over time, master conflicts often begin to push a pair apart—many of the very things you most appreciated about each other start to grate on you, producing increasing hostility. The good news is that by identifying the master conflict that you share, you and your partner can take the steps to break the cycle of fighting and come to a new place of understanding and happiness in your relationship. Often, just the realization that you have this hidden conflict acts as a powerful cure, allowing you to appreciate each other once again and to be empathetic about the things that have been irritating you both. From his years of work with couples, Betchen has identified the nineteen most common master conflicts—such as getting your needs met vs. caretaking; giving vs. withholding; commitment vs. freedom; power vs. passivity—and for each he provides vivid stories of couples who have struggled with them, as well as simple tests that help you to: • Identify the core master conflict that is causing your relationship problems • Understand the origins of your conflict and how it drew you to your partner • Diagnose how the conflict is now pushing you apart • Come to new terms with the conflict to save your relationship As Dr. Betchen writes, knowledge of a master conflict is power, and Magnetic Partners is an empowering guide that will help you not only to identify and control your master conflict, but also to bring your relationship to a new level based on deeper understanding, ultimately leading to greater fulfillment and long-term resilience. Partners

Download or read book Guys Guy s Guide to Love written by Robert Manni and published by Greenleaf Book Group. This book was released on 2011-10-28 with total page 348 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: When Max Hallyday, a rising New York adman, joins a glitzy midtown agency, he knows the game is winner-takes-all. But after Max's best friend, Roger, a serial womanizer, seduces his billionaire client and puts his career in jeopardy, Max strikes back, penning "The Guys' Guy's Guide to Love," a column exposing the many Rogers prowling the city. Championed by magazine publisher and former flame, Cassidy Goodson, Max becomes famous . . . or is it notorious? With the women of New York clamoring for more, sparks begin to fly with Cassidy. Can Max survive his instant celebrity and cutthroat rivals to discover where his heart really belongs? The Guys' Guy's Guide to Love is a fast-paced tale of flawed men and smart women competing for love, sex, power, and money in the city where they play for keeps.

Download or read book Hard To Do written by Kelli María Korducki and published by Coach House Books. This book was released on 2018-05-22 with total page 120 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: From Jane Austen to Taylor Swift, a look at the surprising politics of romantic love and its dissolution. Whatever the underlying motives – be they love, financial security, or mere masochism – the fact is that getting involved in a romantic partnership is emotionally, morally, and even politically fraught. In Hard To Do, Kelli María Korducki turns a Marxist lens on the relatively short history of romantic partnership, tracing how the socio-economic dynamics between men and women have transformed the ways women conceive of domestic partnership. With perceptive, reported insights on the ways marriage and divorce are legislated, the rituals of twentieth-century courtship, and contemporary practices for calling it off, Korducki reveals that, for all women, choosing to end a relationship is a radical action with very limited cultural precedent.

Download or read book How to Fix a Broken Heart written by Guy Winch and published by Simon and Schuster. This book was released on 2018-02-13 with total page 128 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Imagine if we treated broken hearts with the same respect and concern we have for broken arms? Psychologist Guy Winch urges us to rethink the way we deal with emotional pain, offering warm, wise, and witty advice for the broken-hearted. Real heartbreak is unmistakable. We think of nothing else. We feel nothing else. We care about nothing else. Yet while we wouldn’t expect someone to return to daily activities immediately after suffering a broken limb, heartbroken people are expected to function normally in their lives, despite the emotional pain they feel. Now psychologist Guy Winch imagines how different things would be if we paid more attention to this unique emotion—if only we can understand how heartbreak works, we can begin to fix it. Through compelling research and new scientific studies, Winch reveals how and why heartbreak impacts our brain and our behavior in dramatic and unexpected ways, regardless of our age. Emotional pain lowers our ability to reason, to think creatively, to problem solve, and to function at our best. In How to Fix a Broken Heart he focuses on two types of emotional pain—romantic heartbreak and the heartbreak that results from the loss of a cherished pet. These experiences are both accompanied by severe grief responses, yet they are not deemed as important as, for example, a formal divorce or the loss of a close relative. As a result, we are often deprived of the recognition, support, and compassion afforded to those whose heartbreak is considered more significant. Our heart might be broken, but we do not have to break with it. Winch reveals that recovering from heartbreak always starts with a decision, a determination to move on when our mind is fighting to keep us stuck. We can take control of our lives and our minds and put ourselves on the path to healing. Winch offers a toolkit on how to handle and cope with a broken heart and how to, eventually, move on.

Download or read book The New I Do written by Susan Pease Gadoua and published by Seal Press. This book was released on 2014-09-23 with total page 241 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: If half of all cars bought in America each year broke down, there would be a national uproar. But when people suggest that maybe every single marriage doesn't look like the next and isn't meant to last until death, there's nothing but a rash of proposed laws trying to force it to do just that. In The New I Do, therapist Susan Pease Gadoua and journalist Vicki Larson take a groundbreaking look at the modern shape of marriage to help readers open their minds to marrying more consciously and creatively. Offering actual models of less-traditional marriages, including everything from a parenting marriage (intended for the sake of raising and nurturing children) to a comfort or safety marriage (where people marry for financial security or companionship), the book covers unique options for couples interested in forging their own paths. With advice to help listeners decide what works for them, The New I Doacts as a guide to thinking outside the marital box and the framework for a new debate on marriage in the 21st century.

Download or read book The Modern Break Up written by Daniel Chidiac and published by Undercover Publishing House. This book was released on 2019-08-13 with total page 167 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: ★★★★★ "Now I know what all the hype is about! Such a relatable read!" - Addison Rae, Actress ___ A novel full of truths about dating, separations and love: direct, raw and damn revealing! After a sudden end with another guy she finally opened-up to, Amelia is thrown into a vortex of conflicting thoughts and emotions. Once again, she is forced to reflect on her life and what dating means in the modern world. The answers she finds, especially through a new male friend who unveils the way guys "really" think, makes her even more determined to find something more real. It all helps set her free...maybe... "I resonated with the characters so much, especially Amelia. It's not just a story about a breakup, but so much more and deeper than that." - Demi Rose, Model "Honestly, blew my mind how accurate it is. Definitely recommend!" - Lizzie Sobinoff, Married At First Sight (MAFS) The Modern Break-Up was listed among the top romance novels to read by Popsugar.com.

Download or read book Get the Guy written by Matthew Hussey and published by Harper Collins. This book was released on 2013-04-09 with total page 207 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Most dating books tell you what NOT to do. Here's a book dedicated to telling you what you CAN do. In his book, Get the Guy, Matthew Hussey—relationship expert, matchmaker, and star of the reality show Ready for Love—reveals the secrets of the male mind and the fundamentals of dating and mating for a proven, revolutionary approach to help women to find lasting love. Matthew Hussey has coached thousands of high-powered CEOs, showing them how to develop confidence and build relationships that translate into professional success. Many of Matthew’s male clients pressed him for advice on how to apply his winning strategies not to just get the job, but how to get the girl. As his reputation grew, Hussey was approached by more and more women, eager to hear what he had learned about the male perspective on love and romance. From landing a first date to establishing emotional intimacy, playful flirtation to red-hot bedroom tips, Matthew’s insightfulness, irreverence, and warmth makes Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve a one-of-a-kind relationship guide and the handbook for every woman who wants to get the guy she’s been waiting for.

Download or read book The Breakup Bible written by Rachel Sussman and published by Harmony. This book was released on 2011-12-27 with total page 354 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Breakups are an unfortunate but inevitable part of every woman’s life, and there’s no denying that the heartache experienced after the ending of a serious relationship can be excruciating. But it doesn’t have to feel insurmountable, and there is always hope to be found. In The Breakup Bible, psychotherapist and breakup expert Rachel Sussman reveals the secrets every woman needs to get her life back on track. Drawing on hundreds of counseling sessions she’s conducted with women at all stages of recovery, Sussman developed a proven 3-phase process for healing from a breakup. The Breakup Bible takes women through Healing, Understanding, and Transformation, with new perspectives and advice from real, healed women at each step. Sussman’s plan for getting over the end of a relationship is revolutionary and sound, complete with steps for creating a personalized Love Map, a vital and groundbreaking tool for moving on after a breakup. The Breakup Bible proves that it is possible to not only survive a breakup, but to emerge from one as an even stronger, empowered woman.

Download or read book How to Break Up with Your Phone written by Catherine Price and published by Ten Speed Press. This book was released on 2018-02-13 with total page 194 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This evidence-based, user-friendly guide presents a 30-day digital detox plan that will help you set boundaries with your phone and live a more joyful and fulfilling life. “I wrote The Anxious Generation to help adults improve the lives of children. Many readers have asked me for a version of the book aimed at helping adults and teens help themselves. Catherine Price has written the best such book.”—Jonathan Haidt Do you feel addicted to your phone? Do you frequently pick it up “just to check,” only to look up forty-five minutes later wondering where the time has gone? Does social media make you anxious? Have you tried to spend less time mindlessly scrolling—and failed? If so, this book is your solution. Award-winning health and science journalist and TED speaker Catherine Price presents a practical, evidence-based 30-day digital detox plan that will help you break up—and then make up—with your phone. The goal: better mental health, improved screen-life balance, and a long-term relationship with technology that feels good. This engaging, user-friendly guide explains how our smartphones and apps are designed to be addictive and how the time we spend on them is increasing our anxiety and damaging our abilities to focus, think deeply, form new memories, generate ideas, and be present in our most important relationships. Next, it walks you through an effective and easy-to-follow 30-day plan that has already helped thousands of people worldwide break their phone addictions and feel more fully alive. Whether you need help for yourself or for your family, friends, students, colleagues, clients, or community, How to Break Up with Your Phone is the ultimate guide to digital detoxing. It’s guaranteed to help you put down your phone—and come back to life.

Download or read book The Bad Break Up Book For Men written by David Steele and published by . This book was released on 2021-05-12 with total page 220 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Healing a Broken Heart: A Proven Guide to Break Up Recovery for Men - How to Move On with Your Life After a Split & Get Back on the Dating Scene to Meet the One FASTER Breakups suck. How are you supposed to let go of that one person who you had planned your future with? But, no matter how painful it is to choose to go separate ways, sometimes it's the best solution. Even if you're well aware of this fact, it's not really consoling, isn't it? The same question remains unanswered: how do I move on with my life? Contrary to popular belief, men take breakups tougher than women do. If you're heartbroken, lost, and powerless because of a breakup, this powerful book will help you heal! While there's no magic formula to help you forget about the split, having healthy and strong coping mechanism in place will skyrocket your attempts at getting over your ex. That's where this book takes the scene! Would you like to: Discover a proven approach to dealing with breakups and build an awesome single life for yourself? Eliminate negative thinking and avoid depression but instead focus on improving and becoming the best version of yourself? Boost your self-confidence after a bad breakup and get back in the dating world stronger, better, and irresistible? Make your peace with the past and accept the breakup as the best think that could've happen to you? This unique break up book for men offers a helping hand with all this, and much more! Treating yourself correctly and with respect in the post-breakup period - whether the break up was your idea or you were on the receiving end - is crucial! Sure, you can leave it to time to heal your wounds, but wouldn't it be better to take charge of the healing process and be back on your feet faster? You're right, it is; and here's exactly how this life-changing book will help you! In The Bad Break Up Book For Men, you'll find support, guidance, and invaluable advice such as: How to handle your emotions with ease and be in charge of how you react to different situations; A specific recovery regime and how to effectively get over a breakup in no time; What to do when you cannot stop thinking about her, texting, calling, checking social media, driving by the house; An insider view into what women expect after a breakup and a better understanding of what causes women to leave men; Fundamental mistakes you might be making without knowing it and how to avoid them in the future; Eliminate feelings of "neediness" and build an awesome single life for yourself and become a man that women constantly describe as their "ideal man"; How to eliminate negative thinking and reprogram your mind; The main reasons why we feel negative emotional states, and how to influence them almost instantly; How to get your confidence back and attracts new, better women; Mistakes that can make a breakup worse and what to do instead; How to let go of false hope you'll get back with her and move on; And more! As hopeless as you may feel right now, this book will prove to you that there's a light at the end of the tunnel! Based on over a decade of research and practice combined with feedback from hundreds of men, The Bad Break Up Book For Men will free you from pain and suffering. This stage of your life will pass. But, not unless you stop moping around and start the healing process today. You will get better. At some point, you'll laugh again. Soon enough, you'll start dating. Break up recovery is possible; this extraordinary book shows you how to move on with your life in almost no time! Scroll up, click on "Buy Now with 1-click", and Get Your Copy Now!

Download or read book Strange Deaths of the Last Romantic written by Moses Yuriyvich Mikheyev and published by . This book was released on 2020-11-17 with total page pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: 'The first time I committed suicide was when I was ten years old. There have been many more suicides since.'??Adam is cursed. He cannot die.But one man's burden is another man's blessing, and there are people who are out to harness Adam's special talents. However, Adam soon discovers that immortality comes at a cost; every time he dies, he loses a little bit of himself. So when Adam meets Lilyanne - his reason for living - he's forced to choose between life and love.

Download or read book Beyond the Breakup written by Andrew Aitken and published by Andrew Aitken. This book was released on 2015-04-21 with total page 200 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Written by a man with extensive experience on the topic, Beyond the Breakup explains how men think about breakups, their ex-girlfriend, and how they perceive her behavior in the wake of a relationship's end. It also explains the implications this has for girls who are going through a breakup: what will and won't have an emotional effect on him, how to maximize your chances of getting him back, how and when you should contact him, what you should (and shouldn't) say, how to deal with seeing him again, and much more. The list of the chapter titles below give a good overview of the content. This book is not written for women with a weak spirit. It isn’t going to tell you how to mitigate the pain you feel in the wake of a breakup, and it isn’t going to tell you that everything is going to be fine. And while it will tell you how to maximize your chances of getting your ex back, it isn’t going to pretend that there are any ‘tricks’ to make that outcome likely. However, it will do something much more important: it will give you a strong insight into your ex’s state of mind and male psychology in general. This will give you the foundation you need to navigate the breakup and – more importantly – propel yourself into honest and successful relationships with the men in your future. Chapter List: Introduction PART I – UNDERSTANDING WHAT HAPPENED Men Don’t Fall in Love the Same Way Women Do The Analogy Between Sex and Commitment Why This Always Happens to You Changing Your Perspective Why You Didn’t See It Coming Men Don’t Have “Commitment Problems” The Difference Between Liking You and Liking You Enough Why Men “Fade Out” You Weren’t Dating Him in the First Place The Small Things Didn’t Matter Anyway Why Your Ex (Who Dumped You) Is Still Contacting You Your Ex and Guilt Your Ex and Pride Your Ex and Decisiveness Interpreting His Emotions What’s Going Through His Mind PART II – HOW TO HANDLE THE BREAKUP The Importance of Silence after a Breakup No, You Can’t Be “Just Friends” How to Know If You Should Cut Him Off Why It’s Never Too Late Why You Should Tell Him That You Are Cutting Him Off What to Say Managing Your Expectations When You Should Fight to Save Your Relationship Exceptions to the Rule How to Know If You Should Dump Him First When He Cheats The Anatomy of Missing Him PART III – FOLLOWING THROUGH WITH THE BREAKUP Making Him Jealous Doesn’t Work Seeing Him at Work Being Connected with Your Ex on Social Media Returning His Things and Getting Yours Back What to Do When He Contacts You When He Says He Wants Another Chance Reason and Distraction Stop Sleeping with Your Ex to Prove He Likes You PART IV – MOVING ON AND REBUILDING You Are Responsible for Your Own Romantic Happiness Stop Letting Him Waste Your Time Know Why You Want Him Back Why Getting Him Back Won’t Help Why Getting Dumped Is a Good Thing The Importance of Emotional Honesty Dating Again Putting the Breakup in Perspective When You Can Contact Him Again Reframing the Future A Final Word

Download or read book Ignore the Guy Get the Guy The Art of No Contact written by Leslie Braswell and published by Leslie Braswell. This book was released on 2023-11-10 with total page 63 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Leslie Braswell delivers straightforward advice for women overwhelmed by a breakup, divorce, separation or stuck in relationship limbo. A woman’s survival guide, breakup bible, and how-to guide that will navigate you through the following weeks or months after a breakup. Read this book before you make irreversible mistakes. Learn how women can reverse a breakup and shift the power back to their favor after a breakup. Should you try to get your ex back? It doesn’t matter what the circumstances are if you play your cards right from the beginning. Women can learn how to obtain the relationships they want by earning love and respect from any man they choose, all while having the time of their lives. In this book, you will learn... - How to use silence to pull a man back to you. - What a man secretly expects after a breakup. - Why a strong woman steals the show. - How to prevent a man from losing interest. - Why women lose the battle of the breakup. - How to make him miss you. - How to handle your emotions. - How he broke up and what it says about him. - How to handle a breakup through social media. - How to SKYROCKET your self-confidence. - Attraction killers. - How to be on Mr. Ex’s Mind. - What you should do to get him back; and - Fatal mistakes you might be making without knowing it... Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy, a must-read for every woman, will teach you how to use the art of no contact to your advantage. If you have ever let yourself fall to pieces, cried, begged, pleaded, or sought closure, you have never learned the art or the power of no contact. Learn how to keep your pride and dignity intact to get your love life where it needs to be. Read or listen to Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy - A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back her Power now.

Download or read book Exaholics written by Lisa Marie Bobby and published by Union Square & Co.. This book was released on 2016-02-10 with total page 253 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Severing a cherished relationship is one of the most painful experiences in life—and cutting those emotional ties to a loved one can feel almost like ending an addiction. Up till now, people recovering from other problems were able to get real help—like AA and rehab—while those struggling in the aftermath of traumatic breaks dealt with platitudes and friends insisting they should "get over it already." But now Exaholics Anonymous treats getting over an ex like kicking a chemical habit. Written by counselor and therapist Dr. Lisa Bobby, Exaholics offers meaningful support and advice to anyone trapped in the obsessive pain of a broken, or dying, attachment. She helps the brokenhearted heal, showing them, on a deep level, how to develop a conceptual framework for their experience, understand the emotional processes at work inside themselves, find the path to recovery, and free themselves of shame, injured ego, and remorse. In-depth case studies of others' journeys will illuminate the way to future happiness.

Download or read book It s Called a Breakup Because It s Broken written by Greg Behrendt and published by HarperCollins UK. This book was released on 2006 with total page 37 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This text will help you get over anyone and move on. Behrendt combines tell-it-like-it-is advice with humour and the 'guy's eye view'. It is filled with solid advice to help you let go of your ex, and each chapter is complemented with a Q and A with Greg on what he's thinking, case studies and games.

Download or read book Breaking Up with The Man written by Havilland Maxwell and published by Gatekeeper Press. This book was released on 2023-04-21 with total page 140 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: So who’s “the Man?” The Man is any job, idea, or power that’s keeping you from working for yourself. It’s the force that’s holding you back from using your gifts and talents to earn money on your terms. Use this guide to help you prepare your mind for the new adventure you want to begin. You’ll learn how to build a strong foundation for attracting clients, stay productive while working from home, start clearing up any mental money blocks (so you can get paid!), and build confidence in yourself while gettin’ your hustle on! It doesn’t matter if you’ve worked a corporate job for ten years or if you’ve just graduated college. If you have a feeling that’s pulling you in a new direction, it’s OK to take that fork in the road. Breaking Up with the Man is about taking the first step and putting a plan of action in place so that you can start doing what you want to do. You can build a side hustle or start your business today. This book will help you do it professionally and with confidence.

Download or read book 10 Natural Laws of Successful Time and Life Management written by Hyrum W. Smith and published by Business Plus. This book was released on 2008-11-15 with total page 240 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Written for anyone who suffers from "time famine", this essential handbook provides simple, effective methods for successfully taking control of one's hours--and one's life. Smith shows how, by managing time better, anyone can lead a happier, more confident and fulfilled life.