Download or read book Bdsm Mastery Relationships written by Robert J Rubel Ph D and published by Bdsm. This book was released on 2014-12-30 with total page 188 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This is the second book in the BDSM Mastery series. While the first book oriented readers to play, parties, and scene protocols, this book addresses Dominant/submissive relationships. What, you might ask, are "BDSM Relationships?" These are "adventuresome" relationships. Relationships that are not exactly like vanilla relationships. BDSM relationships differ in two specific ways from your typical vanilla relationship: first, they usually involve a power-imbalanced structure (one person is clearly in charge and the other person is clearly following); second, the kind of sex that adventuresome folks practice is, well, not vanilla. I wrote this book to help you better to understand the power dynamics that get involved with what are called power-imbalanced relationships (usually referred to as Dominant/submissive or D/s relationships).
Download or read book BDSM Mastery Basics Your Guide to Play Parties and Scene Protocols written by Robert J Rubel Ph D and published by BDSM. This book was released on 2014-12-17 with total page 222 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This is not a book that explains what BDSM is, this is a book that explains what BDSM is all about. This is a book for people who are considering stepping into real time BDSM, and it is also a book for people who have been involved in the community for a while. This book treats the world of BDSM as a culture unto itself and goes a long way to explaining the expectations, rules, and words that are common to this culture. This book does not tell you how to use any implements (floggers, canes, etc), but it does explain why in the world you'd want to use such implements. This is a must-have resource book for your kink library.
Download or read book Bdsm Mastery written by Cherry Wilson and published by . This book was released on 2021-04-30 with total page 158 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: "The other day my girlfriend pushed me down and looked me in the eye. 'I'm going to make you cry, ' she said. She began to hit me in earnest, and made me count the blows." Why would we ever want someone we love to hurt us? Why would we ever want to hurt someone we love? And why do some of us crave it? "Later, as I sobbed and she held me, I felt the therapy of that release: the effect of dealing with PTSD and trauma with pain that I can end any time by saying my safe word. Pain that comes from someone who I know is doing it for both of our pleasure, and not out of a desire to actually hurt me." Julie brown, a queer trans woman, shared this anecdote with me after responding to my call for personal stories about BDSM. Over the past week, I've conducted interviews with a dozen members of the BDSM and kink community, ranging across identities, age, gender, and location. By now, the general mechanics of BDSM are familiar to anyone who's had even a passing encounter with Fifty Shades of Grey-the whips, crops, and handcuffs all recognizable accoutrement of kinky sex-but I was interested in exploring the personal, psychological side. BDSM is an acronym with several constituent parts: bondage and discipline, dominance/submission, sadism and masochism. Collectively, these behaviors might be referred to as aspects of kink, a term which covers the broad expanse of non-normative sexuality. It includes BDSM; it can also encompass things like watersports and various fetishes, like latex or balloons. I use "we" when referring to this community because I find myself a member of it, though, like any imagined community, membership is as much self-designated as it is given. I'm interested in BDSM. In particular, I like submission. I've explored rope bondage, been to play parties, and incorporated it into many of my romantic and sexual relationships. For julie, the appeal lies in how it allows her to access pain while being in full control of that pain-she can end it at any time with her safe word. BDSM allows her to process complex, traumatic experiences in a way that's safe and consensual. Her story resonated with my own experiences with BDSM, too: trusting a beloved partner to give me what I need, while knowing that I'm in full control of the situation, is exhilarating. Is that feeling universal? If you've ever fantasized about getting kinky in the bedroom, you're not alone. The runaway success of E. L. James's novel Fifty Shades of Grey - more than 100 million copies sold - not to mention the sales of other books in the series and the movies it's generated, prove that interest in BDSM - bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism - is anything but rare. "It's very out in the culture right now, but it's not fully out of the shadows yet," says Gentille. "People are still embarrassed to talk about sex. What they discover when they dive a little deeper into it is that in BDSM you actually get to talk about what you like, what you're curious about, and what is a definite 'No.' It's clear, overt, and collaborative and that can feel delightful. And if you like it, if you have control over what happens, it's all good fun." Wait! Why waste your time with my long talk, when you can dive in rightaway? CLICK THE BUY BUTTON NOW!! TO GET STARTED
Download or read book Master slave Relations written by Robert J. Rubel and published by Nazca Plains. This book was released on 2007-05-02 with total page 198 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A companion book to 'Protocols' this book covers the more general topic of Master/Slave relations - how they often evolve and how to avoid the problems that can easily crop up in the early stages. The book also reviews ways that Master/ Slave relationships differ from Dominant/ Submissive or Top/Bottom relationships, discusses contracts and collars and considers various ways of finding a slave and starting a relationship.
Download or read book Guide to BDSM written by Donna Prince and published by . This book was released on 2020-04-16 with total page 194 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: You or your partner are fascinated by BDSM, but don't know how and where to start? Everything you need to know, you will find it in this book. Most of what people think about BDSM, is wrong. In reality BDSM is not degrading women or men and you will also understand that it's not as obscure as you think. And also the concept of "pain" we are talking about is not what people think. You will also understand that having the role of the Dom is not just about having pleasure, on the contrary, the Dom has the role of giving pleasure and discipline to the submissive. He must have pleasure in giving pleasure and not simply receiving what he wants. This book is intended for both Dominant and Submissive training. It's also perfect for those who haven't experience in this world. This is a taste of what you will find in this book: What is BDSM and Why? Introducing BDSM to your Partner What is Domination and Submission 8 Tips on how to get Started in BDSM 7 Mistakes New Submissives Make 10 must-have BDSM Toys for Beginners Bondage play Punishments Examples Types of Consents: SSC vs RACK Dominance Techniques Role-Play types SAFE WORDS: how to Choose them and why After reading this book you will have made your sex life richer and your partner will beg you for more. So... Scroll up, click the buy now button and get your copy of "Guide to BDSM" ! Check also the others "Sex Life Tips" books: 1 - Art of Seduction: Boost your Sexual Intelligence Learning How to Flirt with Techniques of Verbal Communication, Signal and Understand a Sex Desire for Woman and Man 2 - DIRTY TALK LANGUAGE: How to Learn with Examples of Phrases of Lust to Have a Great Sex with Your Man or Woman, Make It Wilder and Drive Your Partner Crazy 3 - Sex Games for Couples: Ways to Spice up your Relationship with Hot Quiz, Games and Sexy Conversation 4 - Guide to BDSM: to Have a Healthy and Mindful Dom / Sub Relationship, with Techniques of Dominance and How to be a Good Submissive for your Master
Download or read book A Perfect Dom s Guide to Bdsm Relationships written by Mistress Dede and published by Createspace Independent Publishing Platform. This book was released on 2016-06-05 with total page 38 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This is a step-by-step guide for dominants who want to train their submissives the right way. Submissive training is only effective when you have the right techniques to do it. So if you are a master or dominant who is currently in a BDSM relationship, you can get helpful tips from this eBook. Learn the best way on how to keep your submissive happy and contented with anything you give them. Understanding and implementing the BDSM lifestyle can be hard when you don't have the right support. If you simply want to know more about dominant-submissive relationship, this is the best solution for you. Know and identify your desires and get the pleasure that you always deserve from this rare connection. Owning and helping a consensual slave is not that easy because you need knowledge in training them to act like one. The rules should be strictly implemented once the submissive agree to the contract. However, there will be punishments when a rule is broken intentionally or not. This is why it's very important that you educate your consensual salve with all the necessary details as they will be held responsible for every act that they do. The terms consensual, sane and safe are actually the keystones of carefully practicing such lifestyle.
Download or read book Bdsm written by Felicia Vine and published by Createspace Independent Publishing Platform. This book was released on 2016-02-19 with total page 30 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Learn the Art of Kinky Sex to Spice Things Up in Your Bedroom! This is a ground-breaking book that is so comprehensive, your sex life will never be the same again. Our books are geared to changing and uplifting those that read them. We strive to get you to adopt attitudes so as to get the most out of the book's teaching in a simple. Step-by-step way and never by-rote, routine learning. Buy this guide now to make your sex life richer and make your partner to beg you for more.
Download or read book Master slave Mastery written by Robert J Rubel Ph D and published by Master/slave. This book was released on 2014-12-24 with total page 218 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: About this book: A servant serves Master's needs or is fired; A slave serves Master's wants or is released. However, Master's wants must not trump slave's needs, Even when playing by RACK standards. slave is in service to Master; However, Master is in service to the relationship. Welcome to the complex and elegant World of Master/slave relations. This is a revised and substantially expanded version of my prior book, Master/slave Relations: Handbook of theory and practice. Even if you've read that one, this is substantially different. This is a book both for people starting out in M/s and also for people who have been involved for a few years. The second book in this series, Master/slave Mastery: Refining the Fire - ideas that matter is intended for those who have been involved with the Master/slave world for 5+ years. Together, these books are core readings for anyone interested in living in a structured, authority-imbalanced relationship.
Download or read book Master slave Mastery Advanced written by Robert Rubel and published by Red 8-Ball Press. This book was released on 2015-08-24 with total page 234 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This is an advanced Master/slave book. This is a "content-heavy" book written for readers with very strong core values who have 5+ years of collective relationship experience in either M/s or committed D/s dynamics. It is intended for people who know a lot about a lot and are open to thinking about what they know in a different way. Fundamentally, readers must understand the differences between D/s and M/s in order to comfortably absorb the content. Unlike the fictional world of Masters and slaves, this book discusses the very real challenges and opportunities available to long-term M/s couples. It explains how strong leaders can combine with strong supportive followers to create a magical relationship. The authors draw upon their own extensive personal experience, as well as the experiences and views of literally hundreds of others who identify as M/s as shared during conference presentations and one-on-one discussions. [Robert J. Rubel, PhD (lead author) and M. Jen Fairfield]
Download or read book Mastering the Art of Dominance written by Matthew Larocco and published by Enlightened Publishing. This book was released on 2017-05-22 with total page 94 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Are you a frustrated Dom? Have you tried to be the best Dom possible but can’t seem to find any subs? Do your sessions end prematurely? Are you not quite sure what you’re doing wrong or how to start setting up programs for a sub that wants emotional healing? You’ve come to the right place! Continuing our line of BDSM education books, we’ve compiled a list of tips that we call “Troubleshooting Tips”, especially made for Doms who are stuck in a circle of inactivity. Your subs may complain that you’re too aggressive or too nice, or maybe that you just don’t understand. The problem is not necessarily with you or your attitude. Usually it’s because you haven’t been formally trained on how to DIRECT a sub towards a progressive plan of action. It is your job to train a sub, explain the punishments and rewards, and transform her thinking. No Dom has ever started off a complete natural. Everyone needs training and additional tips for turning their intermediate knowledge into professional / expert level understanding. In "Mastering The Art of Dominance," you will learn: - How to attract subs (even if you’ve been unsuccessful in the past) - How to avoid mentally disturbed subs before it’s too late - How to turn your friend-with-benefits into a sub - How to identify troubled subs who can be helped and how to help them - How to manage multiple subs and multiple partners with fellow Doms - How to deal with jealousy and rivalries with multiple subs - And much more... By the time you finish this book, you’re going to be ready to be a top of your class Dom!
Download or read book Exploring Bdsm written by MS Morgan Thorne and published by Morgan Thorne. This book was released on 2017-11-23 with total page pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Exploring BDSM: A Workbook for Couples (or More) Discovering Kink will walk you through eight popular categories of kink, encouraging you to explore each one as you go. Fill out checklists with your partner and get advice on crafting scenes using your compatible kinks. Learn about effective communication in BDSM as you review each scene you've tried. Explore different areas of BDSM: Bondage Impact & Pain Play Sensation Play Role Play Sexuality & Sexual Taboo Protocols & Power Exchange Humiliation Play Taboo & Edge Play Get advice on how to explore your kinky fantasies and craft amazing scenes from Kink Educator, Lifestyle and Professional Dominant Morgan Thorne. She shares personal stories, safety information as well as tips to make your explorations thrilling and fulfilling.
Download or read book Living M S A Book for Masters Slaves and Their Relationships written by Dan And Dawn Williams and published by The Nazca Plains Corporation. This book was released on 2011-04 with total page 193 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This book is a valuable resource for those interested in real-time Total Power Exchange Relationships. Dan and dawn share the reality behind the lifestyle that so many only fantasize about. This is a book based on the experience of a couple, who has been living together as Master and slave for well over a decade and covers such topics as: challenges of living as a M/s couple; building your own M/s dynamic; changing terminology; the communities of M/s and BDSM and how they dance together (and apart); styles of D/s and M/s; Ms and polyamory; leather; orchestrating situations with multiple slaves, as well as many other topics.
Download or read book Domination Submission written by Michael Makai and published by . This book was released on 2014 with total page pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The definitive handbook on Domination and Submission (D/s) relationships and the BDSM lifestyle. A must-read for anyone considering or curious about non-traditional relationships within a fetish culture context. Funny, insightful, educational, and inspiring.Author Michael Makai goes in-depth on Dominants, submissives, switches, primals, and their relationship dynamics. Learn about BDSM activities, bondage, toys, groups, protocols, and safety. This book even dares to go where others fear to tread: Primal relationships, online BDSM relationships, the Gorean subculture, first meetings, religion vs. kink, and the many ways it can all go wrong.You'll love Michael Makai's irreverent and humorous treatment of this subject as he gives you the benefit of his 35+ years of experience in the D/s and BDSM lifestyles.
Download or read book Paradigms of Power written by Raven Kaldera and published by . This book was released on 2014-08-08 with total page 272 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Consenting Master/slave relationships come in all varieties, inspired by many different historical periods and modern subcultures. One of the wonderful things about this lifestyle is that we can create our own unique paradigm with its own rules, protocols, and vision. From Victorian to medieval, from Leather to Gorean, This collection of essays by many practitioners of M/s showcases the beauty and diversity of this demographic, and will hopefully be an inspiration to future couples and families who are only now finding their way onto this road.
Download or read book Master slave Mastery Protocols Focusing the Intent of Your Relationship written by Robert J. Rubel Ph. D. and published by . This book was released on 2016-07-30 with total page 232 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Many get tripped up over the very concept of written protocols. We've met many Masters who believe that writing out the way they want things done removes creativity from the relationship. That's not the way we see it.In our experience, a protocol manual is much more than documenting rules of service. Writing a protocol manual helps you examine and refine your relationship and your relationship management style. The very process of creating a manual such as this reveals the kinds of service Master really wants from the slave and the kinds of service the slave can actually deliver. In that light, writing a protocol manual is an exercise in clarifying the intent of your relationship.Biased as we are, we assert that protocols help to reprogram both the Master's and the slave's brains. They help you create habits. Protocols don't merely define how you look on the outside, protocols help shape how you think on the inside. Since protocols specify the way Master wants this particular slave to do things, and since people are different from one another, protocol manuals are person-specific.
Download or read book Master slave Relations written by Robert Rubel and published by . This book was released on 2008-03-08 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Covering techniques from many disciplines to produce a practical work jammed with tips and techniques, Master/Slave Relations: Communications 401 is the complete tool kit for communicating in a BDSM relationship. Readers discover how to communicate with their slave or master, what to do when a relationship isn't working, how to design a communications network especially for their relationship and how to plan for future success.
Download or read book Techniques of Pleasure written by Margot Weiss and published by Duke University Press. This book was released on 2011-12-20 with total page 336 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In this lively ethnography, Weiss studies the pansexual BDSM community in the San Francisco Bay Area. Weiss finds that BDSM practice is not as transgressive as the participants imagine, nor is it simply reinforcing of older forms of social domination. Instead she shows how fantasy play depends on pre-existing social hierarchies, even as it also participates in a commodification of desires.
