Download or read book BDSM Basics for Beginners A Guide for Dominants and Submissives Starting to Explore the Lifestyle written by Michelle Fegatofi and published by Lulu.com. This book was released on 2013-03-14 with total page 103 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: You have been drawn to the world of BDSM, but searching for one book to give you an overview of both Dominance and Submission. This book provides you with descriptions of all roles, different BDSM relationships, commonly used terms, guidelines for roles and responsibilities, and much more. After reading this book, you should have a well rounded foundation to start your journey further into the ever changing world that is known as BDSM.

Download or read book Vanilla to Kinky written by Sdfsdf Sdf and published by . This book was released on 2019-05-18 with total page 106 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Do you want to stay in the same vanilla sex routine forever? Or are you ready to bring more pleasure and excitement to your sex life starting today? What do you think when you hear "BDSM?" I'll tell you what most people think. Most people think whips, chains, pain, and crying. They think only "evil" or "mentally ill" people enjoy these types of things. They think of the most corrupt things they can because of the way that mainstream media misrepresents BDSM. BDSM is has become more popular than ever in recent years. Only a few decades ago only 10-15% of surveyed people reported engaging in BDSM. Since then that number has increased by nearly 90%. Even though BDSM is gaining popularity many people still feel guilty for having BDSM related fantasies. I'm here to tell you there is abosultely no reason to feel guilty. BDSM is much broader than it seems and when done correctly, is completely safe and healthy. If given the chance, BDSM can be the most sincere display of love and affection between you and your partner. Whether you are somewhat familiar with BDSM or not familiar at all, don't miss out on what could be a life-changing experience because of misconceptions and miseducation. Vanilla to Kinky will help you discover: What aspects of BDSM are best for you How to partake in BDSM the right way How to find your role How to create amazingly intense scenes How to find the dynamic you love the most How toys can enhance your BDSM experience The keys to being a good Dominant The keys to being a good submissive Helpful tips to get you started on your journey BDSM is for anybody. It does not discriminate against any ages, genders, or body type. Yes, even an average joe like you can partake in safe and healthy BDSM. BDSM is a journey that can be truly rewarding every time but will take effort, patience, and an self-examination. If you want to begin your journey then this is where you start. Scroll up and click the "Add to Cart" to get started today.

Download or read book BDSM 101 written by Rev. Jen and published by Skyhorse. This book was released on 2013-07-01 with total page 192 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: From the mind that brought you the memoirs Elf Girl and Live Nude Elf comes BDSM 101, a no-nonsense manual for those readers interested in learning about bondage and discipline; dominance and submission; and sadism, masochism, or sadomasochism. For years, Rev. Jen has been coaching her readers on all sex-related matters through her articles in Penthouse and posts on Nerve, an online magazine. A self-proclaimed authority on the subject of sex (and specifically BDSM), Jen spent her early twenties working as a professional submissive at a swanky Manhattan dungeon before becoming a sex surrogate for a renowned therapist. In BDSM 101, Jen shares rare insight into this oftentimes misunderstood world. Practical instructions are given on: Safety and communication Bondage, spanking, flogging Fetishes, humiliation, dirty talk And more! Included are steamy, sometimes ridiculous anecdotes from Jen’s past, interviews with her wacky artist friends, and basic illustrations. According to the author, “This book is what would happen if Marquis de Sade, Andy Warhol, and Dorothy Parker got together and made a nymphomaniac Bride of Frankenstein.” Useful, entertaining, and written with rare candor, BDSM 101 is a book that can offer spark to the fires of love in any relationship.

Download or read book Vanilla to Kinky written by Jonathan Wolf and published by Independently Published. This book was released on 2019-05-20 with total page 108 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Do you want to stay in the same vanilla sex routine forever? Or are you ready to bring more pleasure and excitement to your sex life starting today? What do you think when you hear "BDSM?" I'll tell you what most people think. Most people think whips, chains, pain, and crying. They think only "evil" or "mentally ill" people enjoy these types of things. They think of the most corrupt things they can because of the way that mainstream media misrepresents BDSM. BDSM has become more popular than ever in recent years. Only a few decades ago only 10-15% of surveyed people reported engaging in BDSM. Since then that number has increased by nearly 90%. Even though BDSM is gaining popularity many people still feel guilty for having BDSM related fantasies. I'm here to tell you there is abosultely no reason to feel guilty. BDSM is much broader than it seems and when done correctly, is completely safe and healthy. If given the chance, BDSM can be the most sincere display of love and affection between you and your partner. Whether you are somewhat familiar with BDSM or not familiar at all, don't miss out on what could be a life-changing experience because of misconceptions and miseducation. Vanilla to Kinky will help you discover: What aspects of BDSM are best for you How to partake in BDSM the right way How to find your role How to create amazingly intense scenes How to find the dynamic you love the most How toys can enhance your BDSM experience The keys to being a good Dominant The keys to being a good submissive Helpful tips to get you started on your journey BDSM is for anybody. It does not discriminate against any ages, genders, or body type. Yes, even an average joe like you can partake in safe and healthy BDSM. BDSM is a journey that can be truly rewarding every time but will take effort, patience, and self-examination. If you want to begin your journey then this is where you start. Scroll up and click the "Add to Cart" to get started today.

Download or read book 50 Shades of Kink written by Tristan Taormino and published by Cleis Press. This book was released on 2012-12-26 with total page 140 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Tristan Taormino can tell you everything you want to know about the world of kink, and more! Operating on the pleasure principle 50 Shades of Kink is a truly helpful how-to that is a perfect beginner's guide into the realm of kinky sex and can also serve as a wonderful refresher course. Whether you want to get up close and personal with blindfolds, crops and paddles or just looking for some inspiration to keep your love life fresh, 50 Shades of Kink is just the book for you and your lover(s). • techniques and creative ideas for bondage, spanking, flogging, sensation play, rough sex and more • lessons on how to eroticize power, cultivate deeper connections and incorporate kink into your sex life • role-playing fantasies from the popular to the taboo

Download or read book BDSM Basics for Submissives An In Depth Educational Guide written by Michelle Fegatofi and published by . This book was released on 2014-12-11 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This is a 2014 revised and expanded version of Unveiled - The Secret Submissive Within. The book title has been renamed to better reflect the subject matter. This book is ordered in a way to help you understand the basics of BDSM, as well as to gain a base knowledge of what you might encounter as a submissive in the Lifestyle. It covers a range of topics such as Online and real life scenarios, Dealing with different emotions as a sub, Possible training techniques, Punishments and How to find, get to know, and spot fake Dominants. It's packed with information every submissive should know! There is a very in depth Limits worksheet that can help you figure out and begin to understand your own soft and hard limits. The main point to remember while exploring the Lifestyle and this book is to keep an open mind and learn all you can of the possibilities that a BDSM relationship can bring.

Download or read book Playing Well With Others written by Lee Harrington and published by SCB Distributors. This book was released on 2012-02-29 with total page 200 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Whether you're a trembling novice or a jaded expert, there's always something new to be discovered in the endlessly changing, complex and titillating world of kink. While there are plenty of other books out there that explain how to give a spanking or tie a half-hitch, Playing Well With Others is the first book that explains kink *culture* -- the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community. You'll learn to: • Examine your own motivations, needs, wants and desires • Ease your way into established communities • Understand etiquette in different adventurous sex communities • Familiarize yourself with the many types of events available to you • Care for your relationships as you explore new territory • Negotiate for play and aftercare • Go back to the “world at large” without ruffling feathers • ...and, of course, answer the all-important question: What do you wear?! The team of Harrington and Williams offers 30-plus years of experience in diverse kink communities: top, bottom and switch; gay, bi and straight; female, male and trans; white and POC. Both former titleholders and international educators, they are an unbeatable pair of "sexual sherpas" with an inimitable voice and a great deal of wisdom. Playing Well With Others is an unprecedented and essential guidebook for anyone who wants to explore or understand the "community" aspect of the kink lifestyle.

Download or read book BDSM Basics for Submissives Dealing with the Mental and Emotional Side of Submission written by Michelle Fegatofi and published by Lulu.com. This book was released on 2014-09-24 with total page 54 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Over the years, I have found a lot of helpless and sometimes clueless submissives that were mentally and emotionally abused by dominants. They each felt like they deserved anything they got and never even questioned the dominants about their behavior. One of the hardest things to learn as a new submissive in the world of BDSM is how to navigate and deal with the whirlwind of mental and emotional stress that can come from being in a D/s or M/s relationship. Many people believe they are not allowed to feel any bad feelings, think bad or wrong thoughts, and always have to be a happy submissive. As humans, we all have to deal with negative feelings and thoughts from time to time, even though we may be submissives. This guide is a tool that will help you understand, analyze, and deal with different types of emotions and mental stresses associated with being a submissive.

Download or read book How to Be Kinky written by Morpheous and published by . This book was released on 2012-11-13 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: How to be Kinky is a primer on the multi-faceted world of kink and getting into BDSM play. It is for beginners and novices, couples and singles. Morpheous' comprehensive guide to kink addresses all aspects of kinky play, such as how to turn bedrooms into a den of iniquity, how to maintain physical and emotional safety during play and proper protocols and etiquette at fetish events. Fully updated, this enhanced second edition is reworked in full-colour, with gorgeous and sexy photos, as well as 15 easy to follow photo essays.

Download or read book Introduction to BDSM written by Rita Purdy and published by Independently Published. This book was released on 2024-06-21 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Are you intrigued by the world of BDSM but unsure where to start? "Introduction to BDSM: The Complete Beginner's Guide to BDSM and Discover Why it's So F*cking Enjoyable!" is your ultimate resource for diving into this exciting and empowering realm of sexual exploration. Inside this guide, you'll uncover: The fundamentals of BDSM: Understand the basics, including the roles of Dominants and Submissives, and the importance of consent and communication. Essential safety tips: Learn how to practice BDSM safely, ensuring a positive and consensual experience for all parties involved. Exploration of BDSM practices: Get acquainted with common BDSM activities, tools, and terminology, from bondage and discipline to sadism and masochism. Step-by-step guides: Detailed instructions on how to introduce and incorporate BDSM elements into your sex life. Psychological aspects: Discover the mental and emotional benefits of BDSM and how it can deepen your connection with your partner. Tips for beginners: Practical advice for starting your BDSM journey, including how to communicate boundaries, set limits, and establish safe words. Resources for further exploration: Find recommendations for books, websites, and communities to continue your BDSM education and connect with like-minded individuals. Whether you're a complete novice or just looking to expand your sexual horizons, "Introduction to BDSM" provides a comprehensive, accessible, and enjoyable entry point into the world of BDSM. Discover the thrill and satisfaction of BDSM-grab your copy now and start exploring why it's so f*cking enjoyable!

Download or read book Domination Submission written by Michael Makai and published by . This book was released on 2014 with total page pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: The definitive handbook on Domination and Submission (D/s) relationships and the BDSM lifestyle. A must-read for anyone considering or curious about non-traditional relationships within a fetish culture context. Funny, insightful, educational, and inspiring.Author Michael Makai goes in-depth on Dominants, submissives, switches, primals, and their relationship dynamics. Learn about BDSM activities, bondage, toys, groups, protocols, and safety. This book even dares to go where others fear to tread: Primal relationships, online BDSM relationships, the Gorean subculture, first meetings, religion vs. kink, and the many ways it can all go wrong.You'll love Michael Makai's irreverent and humorous treatment of this subject as he gives you the benefit of his 35+ years of experience in the D/s and BDSM lifestyles.

Download or read book 50 Ways to Play written by Debra Macleod and published by Penguin. This book was released on 2012 with total page 113 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: "For the millions of readers who have been inspired by the steamy bestseller Fifty Shades of Grey to throw a bit more spice into their sex lives, this simple and highly accessible guide to BDSM (Bondage, Dominance, Sadism, and Masochism) features 50 edgy and erotic adventures to sample. Warning: you should try this at home! From turning your ho hum bedroom into a Red Room of Desire, to exploring the fine art of Japanese rope bondage--and a few other ideas perhaps better not mentioned in polite company-- 50 Ways to Play invites couples who might otherwise think of themselves as average or nice to walk on the wild side. According to husband-and-wife writers Debra and Don Macleod, sex should pack a punch--it's meant to catch you off guard. The fifty sexy and surprising ways to play offered up in this book are guaranteed to turn up the heat in your sex life"--Page 4 of cover.

Download or read book Bdsm Mastery Relationships written by Robert J Rubel Ph D and published by Bdsm. This book was released on 2014-12-30 with total page 188 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This is the second book in the BDSM Mastery series. While the first book oriented readers to play, parties, and scene protocols, this book addresses Dominant/submissive relationships. What, you might ask, are "BDSM Relationships?" These are "adventuresome" relationships. Relationships that are not exactly like vanilla relationships. BDSM relationships differ in two specific ways from your typical vanilla relationship: first, they usually involve a power-imbalanced structure (one person is clearly in charge and the other person is clearly following); second, the kind of sex that adventuresome folks practice is, well, not vanilla. I wrote this book to help you better to understand the power dynamics that get involved with what are called power-imbalanced relationships (usually referred to as Dominant/submissive or D/s relationships).

Download or read book The Training written by Tara Sue Me and published by Penguin. This book was released on 2013-10-01 with total page 338 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: In this enticing read from New York Times bestselling author Tara Sue Me’s Submissive Series, the submissive and her dominant explore just how long they can make the pleasure last… It started with a hidden desire. Millionaire CEO Nathaniel West has always played by his own strict set of rules, ones he expects everyone to follow—especially the women he’s dominated in his bedroom. But his newest lover is breaking down all his boundaries and rewriting his rule book. Abby King never imagined that she would capture the heart of Nathaniel West, one of New York City’s most eligible bachelors—and its most desirable dominant. What began as a weekend arrangement of pleasure has become a passionate romance with a man who knows every inch of her body and her soul—yet remains an enigmatic lover. Though he is tender and caring, his painful past remains a wall between them. Abby knows the only way to truly earn his trust is to submit to him fully and let go of all of her lingering inhibitions. Because to lead Nathaniel on a path to greater intimacy, she must first let him deeper into her world than anyone has ever gone before...

Download or read book Fantasies of a Young Submissive written by Rosaleen Young and published by Chimera. This book was released on 2014-08-12 with total page 146 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Rosaleen Young's book of erotic stories and poetry is an intriguing insight into the secret world of a truly submissive teenage girl. The tales are a colourful journey of self-exploration and sexual-awakening. Although still a virgin in real life, the model/authoress (pictured on the book's cover) lets her fantasies run wild in her writing. Her obsession with her own body, particularly the perfection of her bottom, and craving for submission, punishment and the wilder side of sexual pleasure are addressed with vulnerable honesty and dizzying imagination. The stunning collection of photographs of the authoress compliments the writing to make this book a verbal and visual feast for both men and women. Dark, beautiful and intensely erotic! And Fantasies of a Young Submissive includes images capturing Rosaleen's radiant innocence

Download or read book Thinking Kink written by Catherine Scott and published by McFarland. This book was released on 2015-05-01 with total page 229 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: When the mildly kink-themed trilogy 50 Shades of Grey became popular reading in 2012, the media speculated that feminism was in reverse, as the public went mad over bondage and discipline, domination and submission and sadomasochism (BDSM). The novels provoked academic debate about BDSM and the issues it raises for feminists. Is the female dominant truly powerful or is she just another objectified body? Does lesbian BDSM avoid the problematic nature of heterosexual kink, or is it actually more subject to the "male gaze" of feminist theory? And what is it about kink that has creators of pop culture--from Anne Rice to the producers of Scrubs--using it to attract audiences? Examining the tropes of kink in books, TV shows, film and the music industry, this work addresses these and other questions that depictions of BDSM raise for the feminist audience. The author interweaves her own research and experiences in the BDSM scene with the subculture's portrayal in the media. Instructors considering this book for use in a course may request an examination copy here.

Download or read book BDSM the Naked Truth written by Charley Ferrer and published by . This book was released on 2011-08 with total page 224 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: America's BDSM Expert, Dr. Charley Ferrer pulls back the leather curtain and exposes the world of Dominance and submission. Whether you're a novice, curious seeker, or have been dabbling in power exchange relationships for some time, BDSM The Naked Truth provides valuable information and dispels many of the misconceptions in this often misrepresented and highly erotic lifestyle. Doctor Charley reveals why men and women seek bondage, discipline and sadomasochistic activities; why a submissive yearns to surrender; and why a Dominant nourishes that craving. Discover the affection, respect and love expressed during these interactions. BDSM--it's not who you love but HOW you love them!