Download or read book Welcome to the Darkside A BDSM Primer A Practical Guide to Help You Begin Your Journey in Discovering BDSM and Kink written by Rajan Dominari and published by . This book was released on 2019-09-17 with total page 130 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Are you new to BDSM? Are you struggling to find your place in the lifestyle?The BDSM lifetyle is a world where people speak in their own formal and informal languages, a world where totally different rules and social norms exist all built upon many different traditions, some of which are hundreds of years old.Whether you desire to experience a sense of personal freedom, to explore another self-expression, explore another level of intimacy with your partner, or simply to gain clarity as to your hidden desires, Welcome to the Darkside will get you started. This book will teach you:+ The vocabulary, roles, and rituals of BDSM+ Common misconceptions of BDSM+ The reasons you may want to participate in this lifestyle+ How to align yourself with your true place in this lifestyle+ Consequences and actions of BDSM relationships+ Ways and places to get started+ How to spot fakes or predatorsAfter reading Welcome to the Darkside, you will be better equipped to both understand, and navigate within this lifestyle.

Download or read book BDSM Primer written by Elizabeth Cramer and published by CreateSpace. This book was released on 2013-11-15 with total page 76 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: BDSM is a whole different world where people speak in their own formal and informal language, have rules and social norms, and create expectations based on everything from names to symbols you employ. As a sex educator and an active member in the BDSM community, I found most information floating around to be inaccurate and some even unhealthy. As a primer this guide will demystify the world of BDSM and present it in a straightforward and easy-to-understand way to you. This guide is more than just a list of who and what. It is a map that will take you into the heart of the BDSM lifestyle, explore the motivations and expectations, and offer suggestions for the safe and sensual journey you are undertaking. In "BDSM Primer for Women", you will learn: The vocabulary, roles, and rituals The reasons you may want to participate in this lifestyle Ways and places to get started Safety concerns and legal issues Emotions, consequences, and actions What actions meet what needs What kinds of fetishes meet what kinds of needs How to communicate healthfully How to create your sexual self And much more...

Download or read book BDSM Primer written by Elizabeth Cramer and published by Living Plus Healthy Publishing. This book was released on 2015-03-03 with total page 54 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: BDSM is a whole different world where people speak in their own formal and informal language, have rules and social norms, and create expectations based on everything from names to symbols you employ. As a sex educator and an active member in the BDSM community, I found most information floating around to be inaccurate and some even unhealthy. As a primer this guide will demystify the world of BDSM and present it in a straightforward and easy-to-understand way to you. This guide is more than just a list of who and what. It is a map that will take you into the heart of the BDSM lifestyle, explore the motivations and expectations, and offer suggestions for the safe and sensual journey you are undertaking. In "BDSM Primer for Women", you will learn: - The vocabulary, roles, and rituals - The reasons you may want to participate in this lifestyle - Ways and places to get started - Safety concerns and legal issues - Emotions, consequences, and actions - What actions meet what needs - What kinds of fetishes meet what kinds of needs - How to communicate healthfully - How to create your sexual self - And much more...

Download or read book Welcome to the Darkside a BDSM Primer written by Rajan Dominari and published by . This book was released on 2019-09-17 with total page 128 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Are you new to BDSM? Are you struggling to find your place in the lifestyle? The BDSM lifetyle is a world where people speak in their own formal and informal languages, a world where totally different rules and social norms exist all built upon many different traditions, some of which are hundreds of years old. Whether you desire to experience a sense of personal freedom, to explore another self-expression, explore another level of intimacy with your partner, or simply to gain clarity as to your hidden desires, Welcome to the Darkside will get you started. This book will teach you: + The vocabulary, roles, and rituals of BDSM + Common misconceptions of BDSM + The reasons you may want to participate in this lifestyle + How to align yourself with your true place in this lifestyle + Consequences and actions of BDSM relationships + Ways and places to get started + How to spot fakes or predators After reading Welcome to the Darkside, you will be better equipped to both understand, and navigate within this lifestyle.

Download or read book A Bdsm Primer written by Samatha Pall and published by Createspace Independent Publishing Platform. This book was released on 2016-10-11 with total page 30 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Let us introduce you in the world of BDSM What You Need To Know Before You Start To Play If you're looking for a BDSM guide, then you quite probably already have at least some idea of what BDSM is all about. That said, few people know exactly what the acronym means, or just how widely it can be applied. For that reason, before we delve into the ins, outs, hows, whats and whys of BDSM play, we're first going to take a moment to understand exactly what it means. BDSM is, in fact, a compound acronym. It stands for: Bondage Discipline AND Domination Sadism AND Submission Masochism In short, it revolves around relationships in which one person has control over the other (or where both partners take turns to be in control) and may involve the use of bondage, pain, humiliation and exotic sexual activities to make sex more exciting. For most people, this means experimenting with bondage, pain, power play and other activities in the bedroom... and perhaps even venturing to a BDSM club or play party if they feel brave enough. Of course, the actual meaning of BDSM is different for different people. Some couples are into heavy, protocol-based play, which they enact even outside of the bedroom. Some couples just like to enjoy a little light spanking and some fun with rope. Some couples like to play in public at dungeons and play parties, while some prefer to keep it a private affair. Some people like to have more than one partner, while others choose to remain monogamous. Although BDSM in its strictest sense is mainly about control, dominance, submission and pain, you'll probably find that as you explore you'll come across a huge range of different sexualities, preferences and types of relationship. It's up to you, in the end, to decide what BDSM means for you. Think of this guide as a starting point for your exploration of this exciting and vibrant world. In the book we'll take a look at some important safety tips which will allow you to play safely and sensibly. We'll show you how you can get your hands on some useful BDSM equipment to experiment with without breaking the bank, as well as what to do once you're ready to take the plunge and acquire some serious kit. We'll also look over some tips on bondage and roleplay to get you started. This guide can be applied to a range of relationships... so if you think you might be interested in something a little different from a standard dominant / submissive situation, do please read on. You'll still find the tips here useful and relevant. Done right, BDSM and kink can be life-enhancing, pleasurable and mind-expanding activities. If you're curious... if you want to explore... if you're ready to take your relationship to another level... or if you've always had a secret yearning that you've never quite fully realized... read on. This guide is for you.

Download or read book Kinky Sex written by Peaches Louise and published by . This book was released on 2013-11 with total page 68 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Interested in exploring kink or BDSM? This introductory guide will give you all the information you need to enter this world. It includes sixteen tutorials and essays written by women based on their kinky sex experiences. Written with humor, honesty and tons of invaluable advice, these articles will inspire and empower you and your partner to try new sexual adventures. Topics include: Why some women find release in kink. Advice on safety, consent and negotiation in kinky sex. How to find a sexual partner who shares these interests. Tutorials on specific techniques such as nipple clamps, using rope in the bedroom, spanking and more.

Download or read book BDSM Primer written by Ralph White and published by . This book was released on 2007-07 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A balanced, non-opinionated guide to BDSM for beginners, with a special focus on the Internet subculture of BDSM and long-distance BDSM relationships.

Download or read book Care and Nurture for the Submissive written by Elizabeth Cramer and published by Living Plus Healthy Publishing. This book was released on 2015-03-05 with total page 51 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Submission can be described by a lot of words but “easy” isn’t one of them. Discovering and honoring your desire to submit takes courage, strength and passion. Learning to follow the lead and rhythm set by another, and stretching your limits to accommodate training and service can challenge and exhaust you. The discipline to hold your tongue, retrieve your paddle, or wait around endlessly while knot after knot is being tied as part of a bondage ritual drains your energy. Submission stretches, taxes, pushes, and exposes your body and soul to the whim and desire of another. Submissive women need support, care and nurture to continue on this journey in a healthy fashion. "Care and Nurture for the Submissive" offers tips, understandings, and pathways to tend the fragile and beautiful souls of submissive women. Self-care is not selfish; it is essential. Only when you are taking care of yourself as a healthy, whole being can you give that self to another with a full heart and free joy.

Download or read book The Truth about Sex a Sex Primer for the 21st Century Volume II written by Gloria G. Brame and published by CCB Publishing. This book was released on 2013-06 with total page 173 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Readers say Dr. Gloria Brame has changed their lives. Find out why in SEX FOR GROWN-UPS. The ultimate sex-positive adult primer, SEX FOR GROWN-UPS, takes a delightfully original and upbeat approach to sex based on three simple rules--that human sexual behavior is complicated, that sex and gender diversity are normal, and that all adults can have pleasurable sex. In a radical departure from institutionalized theories about what sex should be, Brame explains the facts about what sex actually is, and shows you how to use this information to improve your sex life and relationships. Drawing on sex history, scientific data, sex studies, medical studies, and stories from her private practice, SEX FOR GROWN-UPS gives you sex education you never knew you needed and will always be grateful you received. About the Author: GLORIA G. BRAME, Ph.D. in Human Sexuality, is an author, blogger, sex historian, board-certified sexologist, and sex therapist in private practice. Brame is the world's leading authority on fetishes and BDSM, and is a much-quoted expert on mainstream sexual issues, including performance disorders and orgasmic function. In addition to The Truth About Sex, Volume I: Sex and the Self and Volume II: Sex for Grown-Ups, she is the author of perennial bestsellers Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission and Come Hither: A Commonsense Guide to Kinky Sex. A full professor of Human Sexuality at the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality, Brame also sits on the board of the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Alliance. Most recently, Brame was named among the "10 Best Sex and Dating Experts," by DatingAdvice.com. Google Gloria Brame or follow @DrGloriaBrame on Twitter.

Download or read book Submissive Training written by Elizabeth Cramer and published by Living Plus Healthy Publishing. This book was released on 2015-03-05 with total page 61 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Nothing will prepare you for a life of submission in the same way as your formal training. Submissive training isn’t just a “good idea” when it comes to creating a BDSM relationship. It is essential. "Submissive Training: 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be A Submissive" is designed to help you know what to expect when you go through training with a new Dom. Every couple is unique and every Dom may have different ways of teaching you the systems of service he prefers. However, these are the basics all trained subs and slaves learn and employ in daily life. Rushing into a relationship or service contract with a Dom without training puts the future of your time together at risk. All of the arguments, resistance, misunderstandings and hurt feelings that go with a new submissive’s experiences can be eradicated by a period designated for learning, listening, trial and error. Even if you have been with a previous Dom you will need to go through an abbreviated training time to ensure your patterns and understandings match one another. Training is a way to “get in the same rhythm” and find the perfect groove. If you are a Dom, this guide is the perfect gift to give to your new sub. If you are a sub, this guide will teach you how to go through your submissive training. As you go through these things on the journey to become the woman you were made to be, you will be tested but you will also be proud, joyful and, perhaps for the first time in your life, you will be at peace.

Download or read book How to Be Kinky written by Morpheous and published by . This book was released on 2012-11-13 with total page 0 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: How to be Kinky is a primer on the multi-faceted world of kink and getting into BDSM play. It is for beginners and novices, couples and singles. Morpheous' comprehensive guide to kink addresses all aspects of kinky play, such as how to turn bedrooms into a den of iniquity, how to maintain physical and emotional safety during play and proper protocols and etiquette at fetish events. Fully updated, this enhanced second edition is reworked in full-colour, with gorgeous and sexy photos, as well as 15 easy to follow photo essays.

Download or read book Bdsm Bdsm Guide a Bdsm Book an Introduction to the Lifestyle written by Katya Roberts and published by . This book was released on 2017-09-23 with total page 120 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Incredible things happen when going down the imagination lane, but what happens when imagination becomes a picture perfect situation due to creativity? Where does your mind wander when thinking about the intimacy of you and your partner? This book is all about enhancing one's range of skills in a bedroom and getting a close look on BDSM side of things. The true BDSM side of things. This book clarifies all the already answered questions and gives answers to those that aren't answered yet. The cohesion of guidelines and ideas ready for taking make it outstanding compared to others out there. It's about getting to know yourself, your partner and a wonderful new world is waiting for you to explore. Are you ready to dive right in? If yes, then what's stopping you from starting right now? Covered In This Book: - Basics of safe playing - Bondage - Consent - Don't be labelled - Etiquette - Having fun - How to's - Live up to the role - Never assume - Never ending role play - Possisble Dom-Sub rules - Spanking - Surprise beginnings - Techniques - The help of toys - Ways to tip up your partner ..... and much more

Download or read book The Breast Punishment Primer written by Matt Nicholson and published by . This book was released on 2016-12-30 with total page 142 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Matt Nicholson's Breast Punishment Primer is the most comprehensive, entertaining and educational resource written about breast punishment. The Breast Punishment Primer examines the history of breast punishment from ancient times until now. It discusses breast physiology, including all the fun parts like the nipple, areola and the rest of the candy coating, as well as the not as often enjoyed inside stuff. The Primer also looks at the psychology and mindset behind erotic "tit torture" and breast-oriented sadomasochism and BDSM. Of course, there is a lot of time spent on the many stimulating ways to to tease and torment breasts and nipples.The Primer discusses breast spanking and flagellation, ballistic punishment (yes, that is shooting things at titties), breast and nipple clamps and presses, breast bondage and binding, and the many ways to use electricity on a perky pair. It covers piercing, blade play, wax and temperature play, culinary play and biting, suction, balms, abrasion and much, much more.From facts, figures and opinions to prose and anecdotes from his decade plus as the publisher of an adult website that specialized in erotic "tit torture," if you can think about doing it to boobs, Matt probably discusses it. He may not always recommend it, but he'll discuss it. On top of all that, he's included a comprehensive bibliography and over 100 Internet references to make certain that, once you're done, you'll be almost as much as an expert on erotic breast torment as he is.

Download or read book A Maledom Punishment Primer Book I of Three Trilogies Sexual Manners at the Manor Consent Desire Submission The Good Master written by Joy Zelig and published by Independently Published. This book was released on 2017-04-03 with total page 138 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: A Maledom Bundle! The first instalment of three different story trilogies--each with a short excerpt of the story to follow. Plus--a bonus!--Chemical Accidents: An Age Play Tale. In "Sexual Manners at the Manor, Book I: Lola and Angelique's Punishment," Lola's husband Godfrey punishes her, bent over the dining room table, with cheeky Angelique, the house manager, very much in attendance. Turnabout is fair play: it won't be long before Lola subjects Angelique to some loving but intense discipline!In "Consent & Desire & Submission, Book I: A Psycho-Sexual Cascade," Mary, an American doing a post-doc in Berlin, finds herself inexplicably wanting to submit to Klaus, an august, senior professor, at the university. She studies the psychology of consent: she ought to be able to at least understand her own behavior! Sometimes the body wants what the body wants . . .In "The Good Master, Book I: Losing Darla," a nameless millionaire struggles with what to do about Darla, his live-in Submissive. She has fully surrendered to him. He loves her. But is she really where she belongs? And, if she's not, would it be worse to keep her, to continue to enjoy her, or to lose her, by giving her the freedom she has not asked for?

Download or read book The Deep Psychology of BDSM and Kink written by Douglas Thomas and published by Taylor & Francis. This book was released on 2023-09-20 with total page 247 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: This fascinating volume investigates how the concept of soul is connected to BDSM and kink, exploring the world of alternative sexualities through the psychology of C. G. Jung and James Hillman as readers are guided on a provocative and lively journey through darker aspects of the sexual imagination. Contextualized both in sexual history and contemporary events, the book unveils surprising points of correspondence between the tortured fantasy-images of Jung’s The Red Book and the modern world of BDSM and describes from Hillman’s psychology a soul-centered perspective that affirms the psychological value of fantasy-images animating our human lives. The book also considers the collective archetypal sources of historical trauma which have provided inspiration to some of the more disquieting aspects of BDSM and details how the deep psychology of BDSM creates a space in the modern world to ethically engage these practices. Kinksters and BDSM practitioners will discover a psychological language that clarifies and affirms why these activities and relationships can be so intensely intimate, pleasurable, and transformative. Psychotherapists and enthusiasts of Jungian and archetypal psychology will find fresh insights here that support the practice of BDSM as a form of individuation and a path for bringing soul into the world.

Download or read book BDSM Basics for Beginners A Guide for Dominants and Submissives Starting to Explore the Lifestyle written by Michelle Fegatofi and published by Lulu.com. This book was released on 2013-03-14 with total page 103 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: You have been drawn to the world of BDSM, but searching for one book to give you an overview of both Dominance and Submission. This book provides you with descriptions of all roles, different BDSM relationships, commonly used terms, guidelines for roles and responsibilities, and much more. After reading this book, you should have a well rounded foundation to start your journey further into the ever changing world that is known as BDSM.

Download or read book Sexual Outsiders Understanding BDSM Sexualities and Communities written by David M. Ortmann and published by Rowman & Littlefield Publishers. This book was released on 2012-11-15 with total page 192 pages. Available in PDF, EPUB and Kindle. Book excerpt: Sexual Outsiders: Understanding BDSM Sexualities and Communities delves into the unique experiences of individuals in BDSM communities. While misunderstandings surrounding these communities prevail, BDSM sexuality cuts across race, gender, nationality, and sexual orientation. BDSM describes forms of sexuality that incorporate restraint, pressure, sensation, training, and elements of both erotic and non-erotic power exchange between the engaged parties. Some BDSM “scenes” include role-playing, spanking, blindfolds, ropes, and erotic costuming. Sexual Outsiders is designed as a guide for BDSM community members who must wade through the quagmire of unique problems they face: coming out to family, friends and partners; distinguishing abusive relationships from healthy consensual ones; finding and developing community; overcoming shame and denial; exploring whether BDSM sexuality can be a healing tool; gaining access to quality, culturally competent psychotherapy; and finding strategies to develop a healthy sexual self-esteem in the face of current medical and social standards that view them as sick or pathological. The book also serves as an educational primer for those whose partners, friends, and family members are involved in BDSM. In terms of challenges faced by BDSM communities, the most significant is living with a stigmatized sexuality shame, prejudice, discrimination, isolation, depression, and a lack of adequate, competent mental health care. Issues such as coming out as a sexual minority, finding community and partners, and dealing with scenes and relationships that go wrong are some the common experiences shared by members of BDSM communities. Sexual Outsiders employs common sense, good humor, and vivid anecdotes while incorporating basic ideas about human behavior, psychology, philosophy, interviews, history, and clinical case studies to illustrate the real lives and experiences of men and women in BDSM communities. Anyone wanting to learn more about this unique, and more-common-than-you-think expression of sexuality, will find in these pages insight into the various challenges BDSM practitioners face, and the many strengths that people in the BDSM communities have developed in the face of social stigma and prejudice.